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Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.

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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.

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1. No shaming men for any reason.
2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1d ago

Speaking only for myself, I don't want to date a child who can't serve herself food and can't make her own transportation arrangements.

I'd sooner take one of the "strong and independent" wahmyns over a biological adult who functions less well than I did as a teenager.

Everpax Jr. Hamster Analyst 12h ago

I bet she does describe herself as strong and independent when it's convenient to do so.

SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 12h ago

Oh you know she does. I call this “buffet feminism”. She can take what she wants and leave the rest (responsibilities).

Ooohhhh I want to vote, yes! But signing up for the draft, I’ll pass on that.

Oohhh equal pay for unequal work, yes! But I don’t want to work the long hours and dangerous jobs that men do.

Believe all women, yes! But I’ll still lie and abdicate responsibility whenever it suits my short term needs.

As usual, they want fried ice. All the authority of a man, the privledges of a woman, and the accountability of a child. And they want it NOW!!!

I can’t remember who posted it the other day, probably @TypoMAGAShiv or @PolishKnight, but there was a link to an article that explains why women stop developing at 18. It was an insightful read. It’s best to treat them like you would your bratty little sister.

polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 12h ago

Here: https://fedrz.wordpress.com/2013/04/18/woman-the-most-responsible-teenager-in-the-house/

I also thought about how women "mature faster than men" during an adolescent growth spurt: For women, responsibilities include mostly conformist socialization and compliance: They can do homework as instructed by teachers and follow social trends at the lunch table. This requires memorization but lacks creativity and leadership. The young women also enjoy advanced privileges of adulthood early such as getting attention and validation from young men, rock/movie star treatment that men only earn in their late 20's and early 30's if we're lucky.

I read that Hollywood celebrities are flakes because their maturity is frozen when they become famous. They don't need to endure forced growth and change after they've made it and someone fetches their coffee for them.

So the joke goes that "men never mature" and that's true in that maturity is a lifelong process. If a 50 year old man isn't more mature than a 20 year old, then he's fundamentally just a 20 year old in the (decayed) body of a 50 year old. We hear the phrase "young at heart" but is it a good idea for someone to not learn from their experiences past a certain age?

Transformation is painful whether driven externally (basically getting knocked around until you wise up) or internal (requiring massive discipline.). It's fascinating that the "strong and independent" women who say they're going to die alone because they can't "settle" tell on themselves that they are incapable of personal growth and losers due to it.

First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 23h ago

"I will probably die alone" The way she says it so confidently is a sign that she believes that if she does die alone it will be from taking too much cock or eating too much free food. She is at the height of her powers. She can't imagine not being hot and having 200 men to scroll left on before turning a shortlist of 4 OK ones down for not feeding her on a first date.

Would be good to revisit in 15 years -"should I settle?" 20 years "Men are such let downs. I have given up on relationships. I am going cougar" 25 years "I am afraid I will die alone"

Will serve her right too. She does not know how to be a woman. She is not supportive or nurturing. She is a spoilt baby.

Lets make a list of things women must do to win a second date;

Get there yourself. You can get to work yourself. You can get to your friends' yourself. You can get to me yourself. I am a potential father of your children. I must be worth that.

Be grateful if I open a door for you or pull back your chair. Don't be butt hurt if I don't. Its not like I will be doing it too often in 10 years' time is it.

Do not wear too much makeup or slutty clothes. I am attracted to women not slap on slappers.

Don't order very expensive stuff. To display moderation is very important. When I know what you like, we can try expensive stuff for a treat another time.

Don't talk about people you hate more than in passing. If you do I know I will be on that list soon.

Be interested in who I am and tell me about yourself. I want to know and I want you to want to know.

As an absolute minimum offer to go halves. I might well not make you pay if you have been moderate in the cost of what you have chosen to eat because I want to impress but arriving with entitlement is a no no lady. If I do pay make sure I know you are grateful.

Get home yourself. You won't be much of a helpmate or good mother if you can't organise transport.

Do not even think of having sex. This isn't some cheap movie. I hardly know you. If I invested in this date ritual, it was because I thought you might be worth something.

polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 14h ago

(Small) quibble with you on them offering to pay. It's almost always either an insincere shit test or they're dumping the guy and she's paying him off so he won't bother her. They were always shocked when I enthusiastically took them up on the "offer" either because they expected a 2nd date or that I had "beaten them to the punch" (they can’t handle rejection.)

My future wife failed nearly all the first date rituals but I had known her somewhat as pen pals previous to seeing her so I cut her a lot of slack. She’s blonde and I knew what I was getting into.

That all said, this ties into this woman’s mentality as a useful gauge of the chronic serial dating women’s attitude versus that of men: They view dating as a fun time to spend a man’s money and get validation. She doesn’t CARE about the future at that moment because that’s YOUR job.

She is reaching an epiphany stage where she realizes there’s the prospect of dying alone so she’d rather embrace it versus undergoing the massive mental heavy lift of personal change. It’s like asking a whore to become a nun overnight. So like Tony Soprano, she throws herself Into the hellfire as a kind of flex. Keep in mind that these women value what other women think of them more than any individual man (since she has little respect for men including her own father at this point) so joining the post-wall sisterhood carries no shame for her.

I’m reminded of a film I want to rewatch, “The Missionary” starring John Cleese and a rather pretty young Maggie Smith (the headmistress of the Harry Potter movies). These women are becoming increasingly asexual. In the olden times, being forced into a nunnery was viewed as a punishment just as it was to be forced into a harem, yet now they view both as liberation.

No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 5h ago

Serve me. Pay for my shit.

Bitch, please. You're the woman. You serve the man.
You have to earn the relationship before I pay for your shit.
Not happening. You failed right out the gate.

You complain that men don't know how to be men, when you don't even know how to be a woman.

Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2h ago

Just one minor quibble about her expectations: in Japanese culture, it is the woman's job to pour a man's drinks and portion out food to him from a shared plate. And in all-male drinking groups after work, the underlings pour the bosses' drinks. From that perspective, a man pouring a woman's drink looks subordinate, not 'manly.'

But then again, what is the modern western woman's demand of 'chivalry', if not ritualized subordination dressed up as courtship?

I won't lean too hard into the whole 'gender expectations are cultural' thing, but if these chicks started claiming that its very manly for a dude to wear an apron and vacuum crumbs off the floor, I don't think too many people would dare to question it.

Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 4h ago

Not putting the food on her plate. That's interesting. I have literally never heard that one before. That's a rule for how to be a man?

Part of me wonders if putting food on her plate would open me to accusations that I was "controlling" her portion size.

Maybe, Miss, it isn't that "men don't know how to be men", it's that you have a bunch of made-up rules in your head that you keep secret and expect people to read your mind? Could that be part of it?

What're your rules on peeing while standing up? Froth or no froth? Have I been doing that wrong this whole time?

In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.