Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Created by kevin32
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 7h ago
It's a shame the video is unavailable.
Everpax Jr. Hamster Analyst 3d ago
Oh really? Didn't realize the modern trend of divorce rape was for men's benefit, silly me.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
That poor, pussy-whipped man. He gets nothing but chicken hands all day.
peck peck peck blah blah blah
If it turns a woman into a demanding, argumentative wife like you, I'd have to agree.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
Poor man. He got unlucky. Got snared by what looks to have been an attractive woman at peak value. He didn't know what to do in marriage as he had no experience, so he did what he was told.
Behind every smug satisfied woman who doesn't know what the secret to a good marriage is there is almost certainly a man who has sacrificed too much to giver her what she feels is a good marriage.
Marriage today offers a net loss to men. Do not marry men. Listen to me. I am not married. I own a house with no mortgage and some land. I have paid for every penny of the house and land myself. I have a small but satisfactory pension that is now not too far off my time horizon. I am contemplating the idea that maybe I would be better out of my relationship in which I have paid for everything so that someone else could be an unsatisfied home maker. The only thing that is holding me back from a sweet life of freedom is a feeling of not wanting to abandon someone who I have travelled a long way with and who has born me children. If I were married, maybe I would be suicidal in this position. Do not marry.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2d ago
Arlie Hothschild, the sociologist who coined that term to describe low-paid customer service positions where you're forced to smile and be pleasant to everyone, she objects to how it gets used by feminists to mean just about "any thought I don't feel like thinking."
Heaviuh_Things 22h ago
It essentially means feeling any negative emotion for more than 15 minutes and not being able to cope with it. Lack of grown-up skills. Not every woman feels the "emotional labor", but too many do, I reckon.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1d ago
Here's another thing about "emotional labor"... if you work on a lot of group projects or in a lot of volunteer organizations for a long-term basis, people are always more intimately aware of the work that THEY THEMSELEVES are doing. They are very aware of their time, the unexpected problems that pop up for them, and so on. As a result, people subjectively over-estimate how much work that they do.
So you ask people "What is the percentage of the overall work that you FEEL that you are doing?" ... the answer will always be way higher than what is objectively true. So you get 10 people on a project who all claim to be doing 70% of the work.
So no shit that women self-report doing everything in their relationships for which concrete measurement is impossible. Conveniently, they don't bother asking men the same question.
Heaviuh_Things 22h ago
Women being obsessed and blinded by the emotional cesspits they create in their own heads?? No way!...
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3d ago
What a find! So many goodies to unpack! Great fodder for WATGMA
A woman dragging other women back down into the crab bucket:
”But there’s no formula to getting (a good man).”
As Peggy Hill would put it: “If there’s one thing I learned in swim school is you cannot save a drowning man!” She was lazy and assumes therefore there’s nothing one can do to find a good man because she never bothered trying or thought it was something she wasn’t “supposed” to do (because she didn’t like doing it.)
Women a century ago understood the importance of making an effort, dating with urgent intent for marriage, not sleeping around for free meals, and so on. She doesn’t LIKE those things hence they don’t exist for her!
“There’s no surefire way to know you’re getting a good man. You’re playing with fire every single time.”
As Frank Sinatra put it: “That's life (that's life) That's what all the people say You're riding high in April, shot down in May.” Yes, there’s no surefire way for pretty much anything. Adults understand this and take calculated risks. They don’t use uncertainty as an excuse to wait for someone else to do ALL the work. THAT leads to…
“There aren’t enough men willing to treat women as equals”.
Yeah, waiting around for someone hot/successful to ask you out and clown entertain you white treating you as an equal is tough. There are so few men like that! THAT leads to…
“I got lucky. There aren’t enough men. I’m the exception to the rule (finding a good man)”
So you kiss your husband’s feet and state how wonderful he is to everyone yes? Oh, wait, he doesn’t get credit for being exceptional. In this video she doesn’t praise him whatsoever. She uses him as an excuse to shame other men, nothing more.
Hmm, speaking of “formulas” (formulae?):
“I met my husband at 22. I shouldn’t have gotten married at 24”
Hmmm, finding someone when you’re at peak SMV/RMV value and locking him in is the single most valuable way a woman can lock a HVM. It’s like selling all your homes in 2006 at the top of the market.
Jill Zarin in Real Housewives commented she sold her house in the Hamptons at the peak value and got a provision she could visit during the peak season. She not only made money from the venture, but she had a permanent vacation home which was the purpose of it anyway.
Instead of giving women actual, useful, advice about the REAL reason for her success, she’s shooing them off because she doesn’t want to show her husband any gratitude.
“Motherhood doesn’t benefit women”
By definition, she, as a woman, wouldn’t exist if her mother had become a feminist and never had her.
Heaviuh_Things 21h ago
Virtually all her posts and reels scream "great fodder", I had a hard time picking just one.
"as a woman, wouldn’t exist if her mother had become a feminist and never had her" Oh, but these types never see the good in bearing and raising a child, do they?
Good point -- no praise for the hubby. Only derision: https://www.belfastlive.co.uk/news/real-life/my-husband-much-housework-special-26966533
Even other feminists have picked up on it! https://www.reddit.com/r/Feminism/comments/1oisq0u/im_so_exhausted_by_married_mommy_influencer_fake/
It all goes back to the old question...what is a "good man"? She seems to think of one as the most harmless, egalitarian, butler-like male she can find. Nothing like a virtuous classical man, hell no.
She says it's like playing with fire. I'd say it's easy enough to figure out if he's a "good man"...half an hour into meeting him for the first time, kick in the nuts and see if he thanks you with a sad grin on his face. Because good men know they only deserve much less than women....
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Are those two even fucking on the regular? Or is her husband doomed to one whole hour of cunnilingus every month?
Damn...the more I look at her face, the more she reminds me of a Jewish chick I used to date years ago. I wonder, did I dodge a bullet?...OK, I digress.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 19h ago
FYI, the streamable video link isn't working anymore.
This "men should do things without being asked" is another part of their bitch entitlement mentality. Men should "lead" by planning (and paying for, of course) activities on dates like some magical cruise ship concierge out of Love Boat. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kBYcyDoh-XI
They even have a term for "asking" men to help: "emotional load". I wish I had this old penthouse/hustler cartoon from 40 years I laughed at. It shows a woman screaming at her husband: "Do you think it's easy being a bitch?!?!"
She's easily offended and looking for any possible way HER life is unpleasant and a LEADER of a man shouldn't need to be ASKED to tiptoe on eggs to get EVERYTHING she possibly wants BEFORE she wants it!