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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
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She's griping about the "challenges" of older women finding men so marking her as Weekend Content, Leftovers. Was also leaning towards "Strong, Independent Woman" since she appears and acts so masculine (but not in a good way.). Happy Saturn's Day everyone!
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1d ago
Christ, is this woman in rural Belarus or something??
For God's sake, 15 years ago these women were telling me I looked too young.
Now?? Now I have too much grey hair on my temples.
I wish these women would reject me for having too much cash on hand.
Really, with these crazy dividend checks coming in after all of these wise investments... who knew that IBM would still be generating income after all of those lean years in the early 2000s??
I guess the penitent man will pass...
Bozza 1d ago
Is that a wedding ring she's wearing? LMAO
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
Slavic people wear wedding rings on their right hand. I get outed as a westerner this way.
infidel 22h ago
Not always, I'm from former Czechoslovakia and custom there is a left hand.
Everpax Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
Yeah, the good looking 40+ men with a good life don't have to make do with aging hags, they can snag a younger woman no problem. But I totally understand why she framed it the way she did, the reality is a tough pill to swallow.
BobbingForBunions Sr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
Women: "Men don't look good."
Also women...
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2h ago
This right here.
fucker beat me to it!
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 20h ago
Am I looking at a Transwoman? Her voice is deep. She needs to lay off the hormones.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 18h ago
@BobbingForBunions It may be the accent but also, she sounds and looks like a Russian woman friend whose a HEAVY smoker. I'm chuckling about her criticism of Tovarische's drinking problem: They often smoke like chimneys and it ages them far worse. Women can hide this, though, with makeup. At least for a while.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 14h ago
You got me there. Certainly not any outdated notions of "love". You were over that after your 28th boyfriend dumped you. Companionship and marriage are definitely not reasons to date. It's all about the resource extraction! Who cares about their personality or character when they didn't use sunscreen!
This type will compare men to "my girlfriends who are all 10s, so hot and successful and can't find any men on their level". Ok, go ahead and date your "friends" then. They all have money AND wore sunscreen AND definitely don't drink a lot, so they check all your boxes!
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2h ago
That's what I find amusing about the "strong and independent woman" trope: they admit they're prostitutes and they pursue success so they don't "have to" date "icky" men anymore for free dinners.
Then, notice, how they say nearly all men are unattractive. That's because their avarice has utterly made them asexual. It's a rather interesting psychological phenomenon, isn't it? Here we all are, in the post-feminist world, and women are "shamed" more than men ever could be. It's not "slut shaming" they fear but rather of being a "pick me".
"My mother taught me a secret which is to always love a man slightly less than he loves you" -- Jill Zaren
They fret if they enjoy sex with men, or a man, then they'll lose their "edge". Other women will shame her and being popular with other women is something they've valued since kindergarten. It's why many of them never move away from their hometowns: they fear being "the new girl" and having to fit in.
However, the exception to this is hot guys. A hot guy provides status so if she is a "slut" for a hot guy, she needn't be ashamed of her orgasms hence the only "decent looking" men are hot. Any other man she has to justify being seen with him.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 8h ago
She's quite right. For her and many like her, there is a diminishing value in men if you have your own money and men are not as hot as they used to be, especially when you are just beginning your cougar years. You won't get much money any more but bored 20-30 year men will still rail you when they have nothing special to do.
Thing is I am afraid that I have some bad news for you lady. This little obstacle of men not being quite as good as they used to be is just the little warning ditch before the wall. You didn't look in the mirror. You aren't quite what you used to be yourself but you still have the power of fertility, so you haven't realised it. The tables have not quite yet turned, you are stood very close to the neutral tipping point. You are not what you were at 21 physically and you are much more entitled. You have less to offer too. The ground has always leaned in your favour, so why should you be aware of anything else.
Your short term value is about identical to a man your age now, just a tiny bit higher because you are still somewhat fertile. You don't realise it but your long term value is actually already a lot less than a man your age's. You could cling to hope in this your last moment in the light. You could try to secure someone to keep you warm in your dark years and if you were really, really lucky, you just might make it. Or you can have a last ride on the carousel. I know what you will choose but I still wish for your sake it was otherwise.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2h ago
Heh, no she doesn't. She's over 40.
She appears fertile because she looks young thanks to being thin and wearing all that fake-up and whatever surgeries she probably had. Older women like her use those tools to simulate (tag @Bozza lol) youth and fertility, but good luck trying to knock her up!
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 2h ago
I think its a cliff edge. A lot depends on how many years over 40 and how well the woman has lived. I have knocked women over 40 up. The difference in fertility between 40 and 49 is vast and some party princesses are already broken by 40.
No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 3h ago
"..." she says with a face full of so much crack filler one could recaulk their entire bathroom.