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Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


Rules of conduct:

  • 1. No shaming men for any reason.

  • 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.

Recommended reading:

  • Understanding The Purpose of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

  • Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards

  • OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone

  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

  • WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.

  • Michael's Story

  • u/where_muh_good_mens' Story

  • "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"

  • Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.

  • Feminism has succeeded

  • Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore

  • Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

  • To The Man Who Will Love Me Next

  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

  • The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market

  • Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel

  • The Life Story of Carol

  • Memes

  • Complete list of resources here.

Content Archive:

  • https://theredarchive.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Pushing Muh Agenda!

Women are not necessarily being delusional.
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polishknight

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1d ago

The number of below-average women who think they deserve the best... isn't below average.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 20h ago

I read a poll that most people think they're above-average competent drivers.

I just had another insight into her remark: If women are happier being alone than "settling" for one of the mere 90% men, doesn't that imply that 70% (80%-10%) of women will wind up unhappy or alone?

With those kinds of odds, one would think that such women out to develop an imperative and urgency to make an "effort" to find, approach, and land those men.

Top tier men in this era really ought to settle for nothing less than women with huge tracts of land for dowries.

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 11h ago

For a great example of compartmentalization, the dismissive "men will fuck anything" exists uncomfortably in the same mind as "that one really hot dude fucked me because I'm special".

When the question to oneself turns to "Am I hot or am I just easy?" one answer is clearly more palatable.

The result is an abundance of 4s and 5s who truly believe that they deserve 9s and 10s. Objectively, such women would be lucky to get a 7 but they could not possibly imagine settling for a man who is below a mere, inferior 8.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago

Public service message: If you enjoy the content, please consider posting this link to the Reddit version of WAATGM since I cannot. It drives more traffic to this site, such as myself, and that's how the content creation happens. Please do your part: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlC5DEp2EOQ

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GeorgeIII Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago

It would indeed be delusional to think you deserve a top 10% man, unless you are a top 10% woman yourself.

So it’s a good thing that 100% of women are top 10% women.

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 10h ago

Put away your calculator and your slide rule, nerd. Attraction is not about numbers. It's about feeeeeelings.

If you say "I deserve Prince Charming!" and you feeeeeeeeeeeeel it, then you deserve Prince Charming.

Put away your protractor, dork. Put away your punch cards you're feeding into the clickity-clacking maw of your UNIVAC 900 at the Urbana University Cybernetics Department. It's not numbers, it's feeeeeeeeeeeeeeelings. Like confidence.

I feeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeel that my face is handsomer than Brad Pitt. I feeeeeeeeeeeeeeeel that my dick is the size of a Toltec war mace festooned with obsidian spikes.I feeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeel that my bank account has more inflation-adjusted money than a 19th century railroad baron at the peak of the great northwest lumber rush. I feeeeeeeeeel that I deserve Playboy's Miss February from 1998, who hasn't aged a day since her centerfold.

Numbers, poindexter? Pah! Don't tell me about numbers.

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WalmartDemon 1d ago

60% of the time, it works All The Time!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wBwe7XULs2U

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First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago

Its not so much delusion as privilege in a gynocentric society where women are not asked to contribute anything.

You can wait in line by the carousel for a turn to ride a top man who would never settle for you and receive no criticism for not providing grandchildren, slutting, lowering your value, wasting your time, wasting his time, setting a bad example etc.

If you end up alone in your old age with no one to care for you, you will be cared for by the state, If you can't cope in life, the state will help you out. Money will always hire a low status man to sort your problems out. The state will hire soldiers and policemen to keep you safe. In short men to whom you mean nothing and who for whom you have done nothing, will take care of you via the state so you have the privilege of never needing to invest in a man. You have the privilege of that choice.

So long as you see it that way you are not delusional. Think this is normal, think this is because of "civilisation advancing" or because of leftist ideas instead of because of privilege and you are delusional.

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Heaviuh_Things 14h ago

The delusion is not so much the wanting to be with a 10% guy.

It's holding this silly belief that whatever they want is what they need, and then whatever they need is what they deserve.

Something along the lines of "I feel like I am this amazing woman, so the universe owes me a Chad and I will get secretly but extremely jealous and bitter if other women around me get one and I don't!".

Their "privilege" is that nobody dares to knock some sense into them and suggest that they actually have to compete for and "earn" these top dogs. Like you said, they are effectively told that investing in a man is totally beyond them.

By coddling them in this and many other ways, modern women end up contributing little to society, I agree.

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 10h ago

I saw this one woman on a video on Facebook-- she was pretty decent looking-- showing a wedding video of two rather homely and overweight people getting married and she was complaining "I can't believe THEY are getting married and I am still single!" The implication being that she was far more desirable and men ought to be lining-up around the block waiting on bended knee.

Yeah, it's almost as if the newly married couple had a realistic set of expectations and self-awareness and perhaps even developed some personality features.

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JudgeSmales Jr. Hamster Analyst 7h ago

Yet another example that women grade themselves on a curve, while grading men on absolutes ("I will not settle!). Sounds like a recipe for a lot of lonely spinsters who don't get hit with a clue-by-4 until it's at least a decade too late.

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago

If you end up alone in your old age with no one to care for you, you will be cared for by the state, If you can't cope in life, the state will help you out. Money will always hire a low status man to sort your problems out. The state will hire soldiers and policemen to keep you safe. In short men to whom you mean nothing and who for whom you have done nothing, will take care of you via the state so you have the privilege of never needing to invest in a man. You have the privilege of that choice.

Yup, this is what I meant in a prior thread when I mentioned:

They are worse than useless or without purpose. They consume more than they produce. None of these women got through life without siphoning off of men. Every single one of them I guarantee had a moment or three where they received something at a man's expense, knowingly or not.

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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago

you will be cared for by the state

Which is why I laugh at women standing on the side of the road with a 'homeless' sign. What a crock of shit. Bitches need to draw a line through 'homeless' and put 'make me an offer.'

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First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago

Me too. Whenever I see an attractive or even normal woman begging, I know its a lifestyle choice. Odds are no man will cope with their level of selfishness and dysfunctionality. But they have the option to behave like that and people will still give them far more drug money than they give male beggers.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1d ago

often is "if I don't get a top man, I will be happier alone than settling with a lesser man."

If that were true, they'd STFU and live happily with their choice. Instead, what we see is constant complaining about how lonely they are, how they thought they'd have kids, etc etc

To be fair, though, women complain about everything, no matter what.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago

This is a neat example of the whole "strong and independent woman" paradigm.

If they're so "strong and independent" and "don't need men" then... Why do they want want top 10 protector/providers so badly?!?!

Also, how do they expect to land the top tier men with vast choices with the attitude that they don't "need" him and have already made plans to wind up happily alone anyway? What possible connection do they expect to have with this ubermensch?

I've noticed a rise in my X feed of sexually frigid and ambivalent women including a 35 year old pretty "virgin" who says she isn't going to "settle". Well, by age 35, it doesn't look like her options are increasing. All the women on X are giving her flexes :"You go babe! You're a virgin by choice rather than like loser men!" Well, how is losing with vast resources a flex rather than a failure? It's like a lottery winner winding up broke.

There's some much copium on X that Germany could refuel all their decommed nuclear power plants.

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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago

"I dOn'T nEeD nO mAn, BuT i WaNt A mAn! I cAn Be SuBmIsSiVe To ThE rIgHt MaN! REEEEEEEE!!!"

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WalmartDemon 1d ago

It's like a lottery winner

...forgetting to hand in the winning ticket.

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 11h ago

The right lottery ticket will blow in through your window into your upturned palm. If not, it wasn't meant to be...

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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


Rules of conduct:

  • 1. No shaming men for any reason.

  • 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.

  • 3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.

  • 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.

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  • 5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)

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Recommended reading:

  • Understanding The Purpose of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

  • Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards

  • OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone

  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

  • WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.

  • Michael's Story

  • u/where_muh_good_mens' Story

  • "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"

  • Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.

  • Feminism has succeeded

  • Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore

  • Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

  • To The Man Who Will Love Me Next

  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

  • The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market

  • Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel

  • The Life Story of Carol

  • Memes

  • Complete list of resources here.

Link Flair:

  • The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"

  • Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.

  • Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.

  • Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

  • Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.

  • Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.

  • New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.

Content Archive:

  • https://theredarchive.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

Related forums:

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