No one denies that dating in 2025 is difficult. Before social media, people met through church, social groups, friends, family, work and bar/ restaurants. Now, Online dating sites are the rage, and they are not working as designed. Why?

The Pill came out in the 60’s, which gave women control over pregnancy in a way never before possible. Women could plan their lives without unplanned pregnancy. And what was the conventional wisdom at the time? That everyone was going to get more sex. But that did not happen. Why? Men and women think differently. Men want variety and women want Chad. So what happened? The Chads got all they could stand and then some, the 8 ‘s and 9’s got more than before, and the 7’ and below got less and some got none (Incel). Women had access to high level men, but having a 9 for night is not the same as having him for a lifetime. And with plenty of women wanting a 9, there was no incentive for him to choose one woman when he could have many.

Disney and Hollywood added unrealistic expectations in dating for women. The leading men in movies were 6’ plus. As proof, one only needs to look at the male actors who played James Bond over the years. Daniel Craig is the shortest at 5’11” all the rest over 6’. Disney pushed their leading male characters with exaggerated chest size and muscles way beyond normal size. Disney also pushed that shorter male characters were undesirable and evil, like the short king in Shrek.

Less than 15% of the men in the USA are over 6’, yet 80% of women want/demand 6’. One only needs to visit any OLD site and you will see women’s ads where they clearly state height requirements, with no exceptions. This unrealistic expectation harms women’s dating prospects, for there are only so many men 6’ plus. That means many more women will not end up with their 6’ unicorn and feel that some how they have been cheated. If they do get into a relationship with a man, they feel they settled for less. Not exactly a healthy start in any relationship.

The Princess syndrome. If a young girl has been told she is a princess and is treated like a princess by her parents, at some time she will believe it. Thus, why should she go after the lower 80% of men? Why bother with those bottom feeders? She deserves only the best i.e. 8’s,9’s and 10’s. All she has to do is make herself known, and the men will fight for her attention. And what will happen to the majority of these women? Again, they will feel that some how they have been cheated. If they do get into a relationship with a man not 6’, they feel they settled for less.

6’s acting like 9’s. All women over estimate their appearance while discounting most men’s appearances. One only needs to look at the OKCupid graph where 80% of men were rated by women as unattractive. This makes women think they can date outside their league. Years later, they find they can’t.

Conclusion. 80% of women are chasing 20% of the men based upon nonsense. It is mathematically impossible that all women will get what they want and the majority will feel they had to take a consolation prize i.e. a man of lesser value. This begs the question, “Why can’t average women be satisfied with average men?

Imagine how funny it would be if it read:

There will actually come a day in your 40's you will realize you are indeed well past your prime. And it will make you depressed. You, not me. I'll forever be hot and desirable.

This post fits the time line of attention whores. When they are younger they can get quite a lot of A&V from men, just by putting out. That dries up pretty quick.

To replace the A&V they used to get from men, they pivot to creating content which is basically a desperate pity party. Men no longer notice her BUT she can still get likes and comments from other fems.

The click bait of this kind of women is that she is counting on other women say 'but you're so beautiful!!!' any man would be just so lucky to have you!!!!!!!!!!!! maybe they are intimidated by your extreme beauty!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh no, a woman's golden ticket has expired and now she has to experience a dating life that's still better than what 90% of us experience! Let's stop everything and figure out how to make things better for her at once!

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Note: This is real in that it was on her channel (not something someone overlaid this text on.). Weekend Content since Rule 5: She's not stating she's seeking commitment. Happy Holy Saturday!

My wife is in her 40s and just hitting her stride as an excellent housewife. She feels joy in learning to be submissive to her husband, and is learning all kinds of trad home skills, like how to skin/cook squirrels and make carpets out of yarn. "Strength and dignity are her clothing, and she smiles at the future."

This woman's problem is not that she is "past her prime". It's that she squandered her entire life for popularity, attention, and money, and has nothing of value to show for it. She is a useless, unfulfilled, purposeless woman, like millions of others without husbands/children.

The devil always collects his due. As her physical body slowly decays, only depression, hopelessless, and resentment will remain. She will gradually become a bitter old hag who still smears makeup on her face and dreams of the past.

If that's the facial expression she wears as (I assume) one of the oldest women in that night club, it's no surprise she can't attract any interest.

On that day, it really won't help to have a lot of useless tattoos that looked a bit better on a young body that everyone wanted but which are now saggy and dated. If that was her hand, what other delights will her (now scarcer) lovers see?