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Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


Rules of conduct:

  • 1. No shaming men for any reason.

  • 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.

Recommended reading:

  • Understanding The Purpose of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

  • Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards

  • OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone

  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

  • WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.

  • Michael's Story

  • u/where_muh_good_mens' Story

  • "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"

  • Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.

  • Feminism has succeeded

  • Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore

  • Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

  • To The Man Who Will Love Me Next

  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

  • The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market

  • Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel

  • The Life Story of Carol

  • Memes

  • Complete list of resources here.

Content Archive:

  • https://theredarchive.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

Related forums:

  • WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

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Has she ever considered reflecting on her past decisions as a coping mechanism?
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polishknight

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 20h ago

Public service message: If you enjoy the content, please consider posting this link to the Reddit version of WAATGM since I cannot. It drives more traffic to this site, such as myself, and that's how the content creation happens. Please do your part: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlC5DEp2EOQ

And now for something completely different! Weekday content!

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 9h ago Stickied

Weekday content!

Not quite. I'll leave it up anyway.

1) she doesn't express a desire for commitment for herself. Yes, we can read between the lines and see that her jealousy envy comes from a desire for it. However, for a post to meet rule 5, the desire for commitment must be expressed explicitly and in the woman's own words rather than inferred (no matter how obvious)

2) I had actually been sitting on this exact post for the weekend! Fucker beat me to it!

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TJMS 16h ago

"Don't be a jealous bitch. Get over it!"

I just saved her years of therapy.

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JudgeSmales 15h ago

I know the age gap will stand out, but that is not the core issue for me.

To men, 11 years difference barely represents an age gap. But her mere mention of it informs us how she really feels about seeing her "baby sister" living a happy life while she senses The Wall fast approaching. Cradle robber!

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Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 11h ago

the wall is fast approaching, you say? The wall has been and gone my friend! It is no longer visible in the rear view mirror!

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 9h ago

Eh, we can only know if we see what she looks like. Some women delay the impact until their 40s. Some hit it early, like even still in their early 20s.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 9h ago

To men, 11 years difference barely represents an age gap

My dad was 11 years older than my mom. My grandparents on both sides were even farther apart.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 6h ago

As pointed out on X (perhaps also here), modern women are notoriously demanding of men as "protectors" to make her "feel" safe particularly if she's got a black belt in judo. She wants a man stronger than her to take care of her... like daddy.

But yet if a man says he'd appreciate if a woman could make him a sandwich, she'll say: "Didn't you stop needing mommy to breast feed you at the age of 2?"

This is bigger than Twisted Sister's jealousy: ALL women are like this who want an older, more powerful man to protect her like a child but if someone else is enjoying such a privilege, they classify the relationship as unequal and wrong.

Did you hear about a new hero in town? Tobey Maguire! Go Spidey!

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First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 11h ago

"They put effort into each other and their relationship looks genuinely healthy" If a jealous woman says this then it is probably so.

Madam you simply have to take this as instructions for how to go and get the same for yourself. If your little sister can do it, them probably you too are not endowed with any psycho genes or the victim of a terrible upbringing. This should be possible for you (if you get your skates on before the wall). Find a good man and put effort into him. If you do he will probably get even better.

The common error is to find a good man and complain that he does not put enough effort into you. Have you ever done this yourself madam? Did the man just get worse and worse, till you wondered why you ever lowered yourself to be with him?

Women, do not expect perfection in a man. He might, for example, be older than you thought ideal -like your sister's man. Then do not expect him to love and care for you without you loving and caring for him too.

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 7h ago

Her younger sister sounds like one of those simpering, pathetic "pick me" girls. With their smiles and their pathetic "How was your day, sweetie?" and "Baby took her first step today!" and "I love you, mwah, mwah." UGH! Does she even know how to insult her husband's inadequacies? Carp about his annoying features which grow more numerous and unforgivable with each passing week?

Ugh, her wormlike behavior makes me wanna vomit.

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SwarmShawarma 6h ago

go and get the same for yourself

She is David Attenborough there, just reporting.

Maybe monkey do eat bananas, but she'll never nibble on it.

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Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 11h ago

It is interesting how she only describes the desireable behaviours of her sisters husband (attentive and affectionate etc).

What she fails to mention at all is the desireable behaviours of her younger sister, which is the root cause of the desireable behaviours of that man. She doesn't mention it at all!!!

Let me help her out: without even knowning this younger sister, I can guess her desireable behaviours - she is submissive, she doesn't fight her husband for leaderhship of the family, she is good natured, not a slut, doesn't sleep around, is not a cunt / bitch.

Madame, this is what it takes. Do you have it in you? Do you?

I thought not.

Now run along and get to the cat&wine store before they sell out.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 7h ago

You get a cookie for beating me to this point. We all know what she means by "plan dates".

A lot is implied here by womanspeak but it's likely that if she met a guy like this when she was 31, she would have barely given him the time of day and friendzoned him. Here's a neat way to putting it:

She's jealous of what the sister GETS from the guy, not the guy her sister has.

So that may answer the question in that the "desirable" behavior of the sister is simply the sister desired him. That's it. That's The Table. She actually appears to give some minimal affection and appreciation for the man himself. Not a lot, but at least SOMETHING.

They think it's a cool phrase to declare themselves The Table but it also illustrates a feature of a table they lack: Just basic acceptance. The Table doesn't tilt and knock the food off to see if it's "not threatened by the table". The Table doesn't over consume or require excessive maintenance. The Table doesn't have a lot of other men's emotional junk on it. A Table is a pretty minimal role but this woman isn't even capable of being a good Table.

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 8h ago

she was 20 and he was 31

A child groomer, eh?? Disss-gusting. Why, a 20 year old barely knows how to tie her own shoes. Why didn't she go straight to law school instead, graduate, get hired by a major firm, rack-up billable hours for the next few years and become a non-equity partner by age 29, like a Real Woman should? Did she learn nothing from her big sister?

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GeorgeIII 5h ago

What are the odds that this woman had ZERO interest at all in getting married when she was 25? Let alone when she was 22?

I don’t think it’s ever been said on this forum, because it’s so damn obvious: if you don’t want to be married, you won’t be.

And she still doesn’t want to be married. $20 that if her sister’s marriage went under tomorrow, she wouldn’t be interested anymore.

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PoopBeast Jr. Hamster Analyst 2h ago

For any guys who are confused by this behavior, remember this mantra; "if she really valued a relationship, she'd be in one." It doesn't matter what she says otherwise. Once you realize that, modern female behavior starts to make sense.

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WhereAreAllTheGoodMen Sidebar

We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


Rules of conduct:

  • 1. No shaming men for any reason.

  • 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.

  • 3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.

  • 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.

Rules for submission:

  • 5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)

  • 5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)

  • 6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.

  • 7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.

  • 8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.

  • 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.

Recommended reading:

  • Understanding The Purpose of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

  • Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards

  • OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone

  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

  • WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.

  • Michael's Story

  • u/where_muh_good_mens' Story

  • "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"

  • Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.

  • Feminism has succeeded

  • Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore

  • Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

  • To The Man Who Will Love Me Next

  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

  • The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market

  • Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel

  • The Life Story of Carol

  • Memes

  • Complete list of resources here.

Link Flair:

  • The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"

  • Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.

  • Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.

  • Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

  • Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.

  • Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.

  • New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.

Content Archive:

  • https://theredarchive.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

Related forums:

  • WhereAllTheGoodMenAre
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