Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
Link Flair:
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 23h ago
The standards at 25 are far too reasonable, frankly, but I did get a good chuckle out of the pivot to activism at 40.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 15h ago
Yeah, most women at 25 are even more demanding than they were at 20
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 13h ago
They SOUND reasonable but OK Cupid stats show that "good looking" means she probably defines that as top 1% with "average" being upper 20%. Various street interview videos show 25 yo women estimating a "normal" job of at least $150,000/year.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 9h ago
Right, but that's just women being women. Getting into the top 20% of a given woman's options generally ain't particularly onerous, it just takes some consistent effort. Whether she'd add any value to your life to make it worth that effort, now, that's an entirely different discussion.
And any man who's bothering to pay attention will quickly see most women simply have no understanding of the value of things. They throw out ridiculous figures like that because most of them have never had to really work in their lives, most of their expenses being handled by Daddy, various boyfriends, Daddy Government or simply putting everything on credit 'til they're leveraged to their eyeballs.
But I digress. The point was her standards actually decreased between 20 and 25, if only slightly, while in reality it's generally exactly the opposite.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 8h ago
It's amusing that what we define as "women just being women" in the modern era is a lot different than what women were once regarded, or expected, to be. I know, we can laugh at it now, but the feminist interpretation of the past was that women were expected to look at a man's personality as more important than looks, craved "nice guys", and chaste. In my mother's era, most of the women were virgins when they got married.
That may tie into the observation of the woman undergoing a radical change of mindset between 20 and 25: She will have a few notches in her belt by then, gotten taken out to dinner a couple of times, and got a taste for the two-track utopia of 20 something for women: Sleeping with extra hot guys without guilt (since she doesn't feel "slut shamed" if the men are conventionally hot, who sees a woman who slept with JFK as being a "slut?") or gotten wined and dined while being clown entertained?
It also causes them to think twice about getting married too soon because then The Good Times don't Roll anymore. Kids, housework, and such are a drag by comparison. Yes, weddings are fun and she's the star of that show, but the marriage itself is not as much fun as 20s singledom.
Come to think of it, it reminds me of Cinderella and the clock striking midnight. Put aside the story for a moment and consider the paradigm that the ball is fun to attend for her: She got to dance in nice clothes, people watching her, the prince fawning over her, and fine food and drink unlike slaving away cleaning floors. No wonder time flew for her!
Women of my mother's era had an urgency mindset going: They saw that, on average, MOST women were married by 21 and they grabbed the top guys like how Dubai chocolate flies off Costco shelves. They knew to look for potential: A tall guy who couldn't hold a job was going to leave her in her 30's as a leftover. They KNEW this concept back then as much as we discuss here.
I miss my grandmothers but I'm calling my friends from the same era this afternoon to wish a Merry Christmas. They're museum pieces in the classical sense.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 3h ago
The modern feminist sez that the expectation that a middle-class woman be respectable is, of course, yet another example of past oppression.
Yes, respect is a must-have. One just shouldn't need to be or act a certain way in order to get it.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 6h ago
What.
Edit - OK, I googled it and braced myself to be grossed out because I had thought it was something to do with Dubai Porta Potties, but it's actual confection. What a relief.
GeorgeIII 1h ago
You’ll note that Dubai chocolate is a recent phenomenon.
The darker theory is that it was invented to draw internet attention away from the porta potties
No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 8h ago
LMAO!