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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2d ago

Someone kindly post to Reddit because I'm unable to. Feel free to take the credit.

Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago

Nothing damages the strong independent woman narrative quite like our present day shitty economy that is almost certain to get even worse for the foreseeable future.

JudgeSmales 2d ago

A day will come, perhaps in our lifetimes, when women will gladly trade sex for a can of Spam.

polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago

Immediately after the fall of the USSR, there was a tragic depression and a friend told me such a story of a 15 year old girl coming up to him while he was eating the EE equivalent of spam offering him a BJ for it. He simply handed it to her. This is why Russia is so messed up today after going through that. I'm happy to spare my daughter the hardships I went through, although I worry about the future in that there's always new dangers on the horizon.

woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 2d ago

In answer to your question, woman: yes, you are that dumb bitch with money. However, it's not just you; there are legions of other dumb bitches who are just as financially incompetent as you are.

I genuinely can't imagine working 3 jobs and still being financially insolvent. I work one job part-time and I'm sitting on over $10k in excess funds. She probably makes a lot more than I do as well.

Jesus wept.

WalmartDemon 2h ago

it's not just you; there are legions of other dumb bitches who are just as financially incompetent as you are.

Most people (especially women) don't have a lack-of-income problem, but rather a spends-too- much problem.

That's it! I'm now convinced that the proverb "Keeping up with the Joneses" got it all wrong.
It's "Keeping up with the Janeses"

All my frenemies got ze big house but ME.
All my frenemies got ze ~~indentured servant~~ 'band but ME.
All my frenemies got ze kids but ME.
[...continue at will and suddenly three jobs' wages are not even beginning to cover anything.]

Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1d ago

I genuinely can't imagine working 3 jobs and still being financially insolvent

Most people (especially women) don't have a lack-of-income problem, but rather a spends-too- much problem.

polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago

One of The Big Question articles posted recently had a woman claiming that she noticed mostly single women dining out or at bars both of which are expensive habits to have, particularly nowadays with tipping-creep. I always found the pricing of pasta particularly amusing: Something I can pick up 10 portions for a dollar box going for $15 with sauce.

Challenges for single women my wife knows includes that they don't have an ability to fix cars on their own or even understand how to price out repairs so they'll pay $25 to get their air filter replaced, lease, or have to tech refresh every 6 years or so. One friend had her fridge light out so I removed the bulb, put it in her purse, and told her: "Pick this up next time you go to Home Depot." I think technology is this obscure magical thing to them, like Hogwarts, where they can't fathom trying to manipulate something without a penis.

First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago

I can't imagine doing 3 jobs. If you do one job properly, you are done. She isn't trying at her jobs if she can have 3 of them unless they are just a few hours here and there. She did say one was full time I think.

woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 2d ago

Also:

I love myself. I've lived alone for the past [...] 8 years

Followed immediately by:

I'm so sick of being strong all the time. I would like to have a partner to help ease each other through those up-and-down emotions.

First of all, you're not strong. You're hard, which you mistake for strength, but those are not at all the same thing. You and every other grrlboss are like diamond-tipped drill bits. Hard, inflexible, only good for one thing and easily shattered if struck from the correct angle.

Based on what you show in your videos I feel confident in stating you can't help anyone through anything. You don't have the strength to be firm without being hard (because you're not a man) and you don't know how to be soft.

It's possible you could still turn things around and salvage some joy from your life. You seem to have friends and/or family trying to advise you on where you've gone wrong, but you refuse to listen to them.

You're useless as a substitute man and insufferable as a woman. Literally the only thing you offer is declining fertility and resentment. As the late Mr. Samuels used to say, get a dog and die alone.

The dog doesn't deserve that either, but at least you'll be paying for it and it won't know any better.

polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago

Let's be fair and say that dogs and cats being adopted by aging inspins is better than dying in a shelter. I would adopt (most) of them if I could. Some, well, are not adoptable but most are. What's tragic is that these women will pick up dog poop in public but will gripe if a man leaves his socks on the floor but otherwise is a perfect companion. This reminds me of a (true) Polish joke I heard years ago (in Polish): "My wife treats me like a dog" "She expects me to be loyal."

First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago

On a side point, I have become a little irritated by the way one of my younger daughters talks. She sounds just like this girl! I don't mean in the things she says, I mean in the way she says them and the facial mannerisms. I think this neurotic way of speaking is just how a lot of young women talk these days. It really doesn't help them. Speak calmly and seriously like you mean it and maybe you will be a little calmer and more serious and get taken more seriously. I fear young women are going about in a state of self induced neuroticism. Yes they can't have it all but at least realise this calmly please.

polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago

Don't know if you saw this. Gold.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WDfJn1kcQuU

I particularly like this actor in his roles in Office Space and Sex and the City.

I communicate with my daughter on these matters by asking her to observe others which helps. Show this video to your daughter and watch her laugh.

First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago

Thanks this is good stuff. I will show her.

user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago

I don't know what to do!

If you told her, she wouldn't do it anyway.

Will keep (trying).

Work on myself? I have! I've lived alone for the past 8 years.

This reminds me of one of the inaccurate quotes: "practice makes perfect". This is not accurate enough. It should be "perfect practice makes perfect". You can't expect good outcomes if you practice a bad habit.

I'm craving a little bit more. I'm craving a better partner.

In other words, it was OK to spend time with people of poor quality as long as they produced the tingles.

I need more single friends to go out with.

SMH. Wrong conclusion again.

Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1d ago

Unless I'm missing something, the second video you have up there is exactly the same as your second video from your part one post.

Was that deliberate? Or was this one supposed to be something different?

polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago

I may have messed up in that I bookmarked material as I was going through her feed and may have accidentally double-bookmarked it OR perhaps she double posted it? Apologies. I can't blame age, I've made these innocent errors my whole life.

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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.

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