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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Complaining about jerks

Something ain't adding up here
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Land_of_the_losers

Posted 3mo ago in Complaining about jerks - Permalink - Locked - 2.4K Views



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houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 3mo ago

I'm definitely a nurturer Kids live with someone else

She certainly is not nurturing her kids. And just to be sure, when I looked up the definition of "nurture," the first definition I found was "The action of raising or caring for offspring." So I will not let it slide with giving her the benefit of the doubt that she means doing so for her man, because there is far too much inconsistency in this profile for an honest mistake. It is just all over the place.

This reminds me of the fact that no one should be seeking any sort of relationship if their own house is not in order. You cannot be thinking that you are ready for meeting someone else when you are not mentally sound, because you are either going to (righfully) repel anyone who has their house in order or will end up in a bad relationship one way or another. I don't know how reliable this woman is about her "traumatic relationship," but no matter the context she is not in the right place to be seeking another relationship.

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user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago

I don't know how reliable this woman is about her "traumatic relationship," but no matter the context she is not in the right place to be seeking another relationship.

It doesn't matter. Damaged goods are damaged good and should be avoided.

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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago

She is a 'nurturer' but her kids live away from home.

Got it.

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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago

Oh she'll consider men up to aged 68? What is wrong with the 69 year old dudes? That is so AGEIST!!!

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Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago

Did she lose custody in the divorce, or did she dump her kids with her parents?

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 3mo ago

Yes.

Or, third option: Dropped off in a basket outside a stranger's doorstep.

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Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago

Didn't think that happened very much anymore, but if Trump changes policies that make it harder for single mothers to collect various government benefits, I can see more single mothers dropping off their babies and young children in the near future when having kids doesn't allow them to gain Section 8 housing or other government services anymore.

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First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago

Or fourth option -they were taken into state care as she is dysfunctional and unfit as a mother.

These types usually cite abuse without realising that they are the abusive one and the fact they had screaming rows with their man is just the symptom of their abusiveness not the abuse. Any sane man would shout if you were out at erratic hours with god knows who, had messages from admirers, got drunk, went awol and radio silent, forgot to feed the kids, spent his money on impulse and then flipped out on him when he confronted you about these things. Eventually even Duluth obsessed social services will figure it out and take the kids away unless the actual father is on the scene to have them and he may have long ago run for the hills.

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 3mo ago

These types usually cite abuse without realising that they are the abusive one

Well, in her defense, she didn't say who was responsible. Non-specificity does have its strategic value. I mean, look at the "One China policy." There's no way to know who was the illegitimate China in that case.

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 3mo ago

There is only Taiwan and West Worst Taiwan!

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 3mo ago

I'm guessing she was too lazy to write her own profile and used ChatGPT, which isn't too good on fine details like that.

Or at least her profile is generic enough dreck to give the impression it was written by a LLM.

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 3mo ago

Honestly, with the widespread availability of artificially-generated content, I don't know what's real and false.

Hello! It looks like you are writing a post for an online discussion forum. I have several recommended comments:

  1. Wow, good insight.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3mo ago

Wow. How lazy can you get. And to think I airways enjoyed your commentary. I'm so disappointed in you.

Thanks for using WAATGM AI! This should be to your liking to express your indignation. Just copy and paste it into your reply!

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First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago

She has no idea what she wants but please don't waste her time. Fair enough. Next.

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StrongWoman 3mo ago

Something about this is...off. She is probably just an alien parasite looking for a host or something, idk.

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mattyanon TRP Endorsed 3mo ago

I think the "have children" was her misunderstanding and clicking the wrong button. Like she thought it means that she is living away from home.

The big red flag for me is the age range.... 26-68 just doesn't make sense for raising a family. "Any age" means "I want a sugar daddy" in most cases.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3mo ago

I don't think this post is from Tinder but likely a sugar daddy or "seeking arrangements" app?

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3mo ago

Millionaire match. OP had to prove his net worth to get access.

I doubt these gold-digging hooooh-aahhs had to prove jack shit...

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 3mo ago

If they don't get a paid membership, they can't send messages.

They can reply to messages, though. Which means that the message-sender needs to have a membership. So the hooh-ahhs don't need to do much, it is true. Gotta love that passivity.

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mattyanon TRP Endorsed 3mo ago

reads like it yeah

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SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago

Well she got one thing right. She is indeed a cancer, just not how she thinks she is.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3mo ago

Minor quibble to a great post: This one may qualify as Damaged Goods flair. "Complaining about Jerks" is when I think they gripe that most of the men they are interested in are jerks while "damaged goods" is when they state they're broken by someone and need a man to buy a store "open box" (at full price, of course.)

Perhaps she means "undecided" to indicate that if the man doesn't want to have kids with her, she's ok with that.

Something to ponder for modern young men, my sympathies go out to them, is that the dating scene is similar to a farmer's market where you gotta get there early before all the best fruits are "groped". Many teenage girls fall into bed with the first guy that asks them out to dinner and they feel obligated to have sex and being naive don't know how to use birth control and get knocked up and being pro-life they have the kid. There are many single mothers out there who are genuine "victims" of this, and we can sympathize, but who wants to pick up someone else's mess?

When my parents met in 1958, the AVERAGE age of marriage was 21 meaning that least HALF of couples actually got formally married BEFORE then. The other half met their spouses and got married within about 3 years after that as my parents did (they met at a dance hall). They met via school, social/family networks, and church and body counts were on a single hand with some fingers cut off.

I started getting serious about dating back in the late 80's in my mid-20's and then it was tough: The girls available were usually jaded. If I had a son, I'd suggest he lock down one of the sweet virgins going to college who doesn't party like my niece.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3mo ago

This one may qualify as Damaged Goods flair. "Complaining about Jerks" is when I think they gripe that most of the men they are interested in are jerks while "damaged goods" is when they state they're broken by someone and need a man to buy a store "open box" (at full price, of course.)

The "damaged goods" flair is for victims of abuse. The woman in the OOP never alleged any abuse.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3mo ago

I recall you saying that, thank you. She said she, "just got out of a traumatic relationship" where she was "lied to" and "cheated on" so that sounded "damaged to me".

By "victims of abuse", do they have to specify that they were physically or sexually assaulted?

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3mo ago

Flair guide

Info on "damaged goods" flair from the link in the flair guide

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