Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 5d ago
She: By 2023, aged 35 and despairing of men, I looked into freezing my eggs. The doctor assured me there was no physical reason why I wouldn’t get pregnant. But statistically egg freezing doesn’t always work. After much soul searching I realised that it wasn’t a baby I craved, but a family unit.
Me: She over played her cards and lost At age 25 is was," Where is my 6'4" Chad with a 10" dick who makes $10,000,000/week?" Now are 35, it is,"There are no good men out there. I am better alone."
I hope she is a liberal. The less the better.
UpsideDB Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
If you don't want to have kids, that's fine. But you have to accept that a lot of women's Inherent value comes from being able to bear/raise children. So she has to accept she is invisible to anyone who wants children. On top of that, she also now has to bring something to the table. More than just money. She has to bring enough where a guy is willing to give up hobby time and privacy. And with two dogs (who I'm sure are her world, friggin dog nutters) she's unable to have spontaneous plans.
She can keep waiting. Any man with decent hobbies won't want to waste time with her and her dogs.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago
Hey, you're alive!
UpsideDB Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Been a weird year, thanks for remembering me!
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
She hates Christmas because younger people and couples remind her of her failure as a woman, and yet at the same time she's a "life coach".
Oh, coaching future generations of wasteful women that don't do anything for society but consume? How fucking helpful.
I think at one point the switch flips and that is why you see these post-wallers going so hard, trying all they can to convince themselves that "its okay" they've failed. And they recruit future potential failures too.
Women hate other women, and this is yet another story that proves it to me.
UpsideDB Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Hah, all the "life coaches" I do work for have one thing in common, rich husbands. Back when on-premise mail servers were more common they'd almost always be hosted on their husband's company mail server. It was purely busywork that made them feel good.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
I was thinking how amusing it is how the women HATE being asked about it. If us men don't want to be bothered about our weight such as "have you considered going on a diet?" the sensible thing to say would be: "I don't want to workout and I enjoy my food and accept the consequences of that lifestyle choice" which should shut up most of the busybodies.
The irony of her situation is that, say, when she hits 40 or so she'll get her wish: People won't ask her that uncomfortable question anymore because for whatever reason, she will be seen as hopelessly single. After all, asking "Have you found a boyfriend... yet!" suggests there's still HOPE.
(In general), men experience anxiety about something they can't do anything about or they feel trapped or know they are procrastinating and it's up to us to do something about it.
But women, particularly in situations with men, are biologically predisposed, and encouraged by society, to expect men to "fix" their lives for them such as the term "I can't find a man!" Nonsense. There are plenty of men to be "found" that she isn't interested in AND she is waiting for the ideal man to "find" her. One woman told me: "You men have it easy, you just have to ask out women but we HAVE to wait for men to ask us out!" It's like someone drowning because they "can't" swim to the shore but must instead wait for the lifeguard.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 1w ago
As the old chinese curse goes, "May all your wishes come true." I agree that women get their wish as they age.
When they're in their twenties they humble brag / pseudo-complain "God, I wish all these guys would stop hitting on me!" Then they hit their 40s and they get their wish. No one hits on them, no one even gives a shit if they're alive. And then they realize what life is actually like when no one even sees you, much less pays you any attention.
Similarly, family might hold out hope into your thirties, and you can complain about "God, I wish my family / friends would stop asking me about getting married!" And then, eventually, they stop... And then the women realize with horror that even the last people on Earth who kept hope alive have now lost hope. And it kills them.
I've actually seen this. I have family friends who had family constantly bugging them about getting married, and after a while, it stopped. And when I've talked to them, they mention how bad they feel that everyone has basically given up on them.
This lady doesn't have to worry. In a few years, she can happily go to Christmas with the fam. No one will ask her any more. But she may not like how that makes her feel.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 5d ago
No one hits on them, no one even gives a shit if they're alive. And then they realize what life is actually like when no one even sees you, much less pays you any attention. THIS IS A MAN'S EARLY LIFE. MEN IN THEIR EARLY 20'S ARE INVISIBLE TO MOST WOMEN, EXCEPT CHAD. MEN GET A SECOND CHANCE IN LATE 20 AND EARLY 30'S AS HOPE FOR WOMEN DIES.
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No-Stress-Cat 1w ago
Imagine that, being alpha widowed by a married lawyer.
Moving from London to Wiltshire, complete downgrade.
There are no lawyers in a secluded village.
Maybe she can find a young gardener to drool over.
Outside of that, she's done. Heh, some life coach.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
Someone PLEASE kindly post to reddit on my behalf.
Before someone says "This is too late for the holidays", Orthodox Christmas is on Jan 7th.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 1w ago
Done. Nice find!
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 1w ago
"Your worth isn’t tied to having a partner or children"
Probably proceeds to insult men by calling them incels. And complains about men who refuse to "grow up" and commit. The phrase Peter Pan Syndrome might even be bandied about.
But sure, tell us how only women are shamed or face unique pressures to get married and have kids.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Its good to see one that understands the solution -leave society alone. The world doesn't want to give you everything on your terms and since you won't do any other terms, it will be more peaceful if you spend it alone or at the gym owned by your friend (who would have guessed the hair colour).
Still its all cope. Fundamentally she is not happy and not prepared to work with anyone to become happy , so she copes.
If only we could re-wind and tell the little girl who was told that the future was female and that she could have it all the truth? She is someone's daughter, someone who will not be getting any grandchildren from her. Its very sad, even if the family gives it all a good spreading of cope. Feminism hurts women's long term happiness prospects in return for short term gains. Its why they did better under guardians. You just couldn't find a man wanting to take them on on those terms any more.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
What makes this post particularly amusing and sad at the same time (I believe that's what Groucho Marx would call "farce?") is that she's even declined to spend it with her parents who are the last refuge of aging inspins as they give up on having a family of their own.
She says that her parents were both divorced previously to be married to each other, and then divorced (I believe) which doesn't help her chances. This is the product of the Austin Powers'/Playboy Philosophy liberation: aging people who need to figure out how to live life on their own. It's not the worst thing in the world, but it's compounded by a culture of diversity that has shattered other community organizations that previously helped those who were alone.
On the other hand, I'm swimming in community: I'll be attending the Ukrainian Orthodox services on Christmas day that includes a full party. I have a men's book club. There are neighbors that I visit who help us out when I go on vacation and cat sit. This is paltry compared to what I remember in my childhood when there were vast organizations combined with intact families.
My beloved paternal grandmother established her own charity: New Mothers, to help new mothers who were struggling with midnight feedings, colic, and such. When she died, the funeral procession was 2 miles long.
I also want to add that I consider all of you a part of that community. For decades, I have made friends on several forums and your witty contributions do not go unheeded by me. If any of you want to get a drink in DC metro, drop me a chat and I can see what I can do. DC metro is, well, meh compared to what I recall of Los Angeles but there are still some good places around.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year (Jan 14th).
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Sounds like you have a good life life. If I am ever in your area, I would love to look you up.
Interesting to learn of your grandmother. When one has encountered the genuine article, one just can't accept the left's version of the "Strong capable woman" (entitled, brittle and constantly demanding to be made equal). Strong women do exist but they are not what the left think.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
You're a good dude and I've enjoyed your posts here.
If I could, I would - but unfortunately not able to geographically.
In any event, wish you the best for this new year.
chunky 1w ago
The problem around here is that if you go to something called a "men's book club" (or any men's club), which sounds like something I'd love to do, you'd find that it's overwhelmingly a gay men's club. Something I'd rather not.
There are very few spaces for straight dudes to hang with peers, especially if you have no interest in fishing or other outdoor activities, which are normally done with guys you've known since childhood anyway.
Woman and gay men can have exclusive spaces, but straight guys can't.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
I recall the first meeting I went to after finding it in meetup.com about 10 years ago. I think it was 3 of us total, including the organizer who was retired military and the other was retired government. There's now about 7 total in the group age ranges between 30 to 80 years old. Topics have included military, government and history. Being in DC metro, nearly all members of the "club" have some government experience.
It's interesting that it started (for me) with just 2 members besides myself but grew. We haven't had new members for about 4 years or so including one who moved to India for the State Department so we have the meetings now at a shocking time of 8AM which is tough because of the time difference (it's now on zoom).
I think perhaps why the membership has remained static is that we got off of meetup and onto goodreads as the platform and I should bring this up at the next meeting. I think they're now comfortable with the group and perhaps doesn't want to have it flooded with new blood that may change things. Aside from myself, they're all center lefty white government workers/retirees so I largely keep my opinions to myself (why share something that isn't wanted?) but politics rarely comes up regardless perhaps, I think, because they subconsciously know it doesn't make a lot of sense at this point.
One of the members laughed that his wife belonged to a woman's book club and it mostly degenerated into a wine drinking club. There was a men's book club I belonged to about 35 years ago and a similar thing happened: The guys would get together for drinks afterwards so it split off into a drinking buddies hence, perhaps having the meeting at early morning even back then (9AM) made sense.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
This cultural sentiment is exactly why we need more of them. In the "old days" most guys belonged to some kind of men-only club, and not because they were gay. The fellowship of like-minded brothers is something I need - and that is with a good marriage.
Women hate when men get together as friends, and so does the government. "What are they talking about, what are they... planning?" This is another reason to protect male spaces.
I started a men's group during COVID where we flagrantly ignored all government regulations, and I specifically banned all female presence in my home during that time. It's still going. It's one of my favorite things every month. "As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another."