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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Single Mom Tears

"like ohmigaw I'm a single mom and no man will want me but I'm not lonely I make good money at great career becoz I'm stronk and inDUHpendent but yeah kinda lonely [more neurotic gabbing]...
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Pic889 12mo ago

Why do women feel the need to flex how much money they make? Why should men even care?

When it comes to men, income is a flex because the man is willing to spend some money on the woman (at least initially), but when it comes to women it's either neutral or possibly a negative (if it means the man has to spend money out of his pocket to keep up with her lifestyle).

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Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 12mo ago

Exactly, a woman's income is only attractive to either modern men who want the DINK (Double Income No Kids) lifestyle or guys wanting to be stay-at-home fathers, but chances are, she wants him to pay all the bills, so her income is not worth mentioning

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Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago

What happened to the first marriage?

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mattyanon TRP Endorsed 1y ago

What happened to the first marriage?

The second marriage ;)

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago

"iT DiDn'T wOrK oUt!"

Most likely because she became booooooored and unhaaaaaaaaappy.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago

@Vermillion-Rx My wife has a dear friend who got divorced from a handsome man who couldn't hold down a good paying job while her career excelled. Funny story: I suggested to her that since he was a bit on the "rugged" side, he should consider a career in Falconry. She thought this meant just buying a falcon and getting started and I laughed: It takes YEARS to build that business, but it's one of passion over time and she wanted a "quick solution". She didn't want to invest any more time into him.

We can't take this woman's story at face value. We assume, as men, that there's little point to lying about our stories online but women fib all the time not only in public, but to themselves. Even so, let's go with her claim:

If a single father cleared $160K, he's still pretty good on the relationship market. He'd be paying the bills for the kid, no problem. it's ONLY a problem when hypergamy is in play: If she wants a man who earns $160K + 1$, then that guy probably is not interested in a single mother with kids in tow unless she's hot looking and a good personality.

She says "I am content but somewhat lonely". This means that if she wants someone, she has to make an effort. The days of a woman sitting around waiting for hot guys to ask her out and spend money on her are ONLY during their prime years: 18 to 30, no kids. Few women are actual inspins just as, IMO, few men are actual "incels". It's just a matter of doing what is required but they have social taboos preventing them from doing so.

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GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

My guess is that since she didn't trash him off the bat, he probably dumped her ass for some reason. Given that she went right for number two and rawdogged it, that was a good choice.

Naturally if she is even being truthful about her income, a majority of that could be his alimony/support payments - but we'll never truly know.

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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Probably what happened was the 2nd kid came out the opposite color of the husband.

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago

but we'll never truly know.

Granted, we don't even really need to know. She's a single-mom, which means she automatically demands more than a non single-mom version of herself just by existing in that state.

Sucks for her and the kids, but it is still not the moral responsibility of men that didn't put the buns in her oven. She can either compensate for that somehow or get the same kind of treatment in the dating and mating game that the bottom 80% of men get on the regular. Though let's be real, those men still get treated worse - this woman is the sociosexual equivalent of a panhandler whining that the sandwich that was bought for her was from McDonalds instead of Panera or Quiznos.

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mattyanon TRP Endorsed 1y ago

Granted, we don't even really need to know. She's a single-mom, which means she automatically demands more than a non single-mom version of herself just by existing in that state.

Yep.

Demand more, offer less, blame men.

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SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Soy-ciety and its social conditioning might not stigmatize single motherhood like it used to, I’m glad to see men are learning red pill truths. The vast majority of them are unsuitable for anything other than a pump and dump.

Rampant single motherhood and the loss of the nuclear family are the primary contributors to the downfall of our civilization.

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hhhhdmt 1y ago

You should not even sleep with them. They can trick you into pregnancy, lie about birth control etc. Its not worth it.

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GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

The informal market for positive pregnancy tests is also booming.

Sure she can just lie, but some like to make it more convincing.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago

They can trick you into pregnancy, lie about birth control etc.

Only if you fail to be in control of the birth.

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hhhhdmt 1y ago

Vasectomies are risky especially if you want kids later in life. But i do agree with flushing condoms down.

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Pic889 12mo ago

You should wear a condom even if you have a vasectomy, crotch goblins are not the only STDs you can catch.

Vasectomies protect against crotch goblins but not against other STDs.

This is especially true in this age of "destigmatization" of even the worst STDs, and the fact that lying about whether you have STDs or not carries no legal consequences.

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Musicgoon78 12mo ago

Getting snipped was the best thing I've ever done. I got tested a few times. It took. If 8 didn't do that, I probably would populate the earth.

I'll be honest, my STI prevention is an exchange of test results and I've done prep on and off. But I live a very promiscuous lifestyle.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago

Vasectomies are risky

A) everything has risk, but vasectomies are far less risky than trusting the woman to take birth control pills consistently and correctly.

B) the few people I know of who have had them have been really happy with the results. If memory serves, you're supposed to get tested periodically to make sure you're shooting blanks. Tagging @lurkerhasarisen and @vermillion-rx and @problematic_browser in case any of you want to weigh in.

especially if you want kids later in life

I mean, I'm no doctor, but I think that if you want kids later then you shouldn't get a vasectomy at all.

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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago

@vermillion-rx @hhhhdmt @problematic_browser

Yep. When I got my vasectomy the doctor was very clear that the odds of a successful reversal were poor, and the longer you wait the worse the odds become.

The reason he told us that is because some people think a vasectomy reversal is easy and reliable. It’s not. It boggles my mind that after several decades of “sex education” in public schools, a huge number of adults have no freaking clue how their baby-making machinery works.

We see that all the time in WAATGM dating profiles written by women in their 40s and even 50s who write that they might want to have kids “someday.”

The bottom line is that if you get the snip, you better be REALLY SURE that you don’t want to sire any future children, and that you should consider the sterilization to be irreversible once the swimmers already in the pipes are gone (which can take a few weeks post-op).

I never wanted kids of my own, and my wife felt the same. Long before we met, her doctor had told her that she couldn’t have children, and it might kill her if she tried. My getting snipped was an easy decision, and I viewed the permanence of a vasectomy as a selling point rather than an obstacle we might want to overcome some day.

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hhhhdmt 1y ago

Oh i 100% agree. We should never ever expect women not to lie about birth control.

Use condoms 100% of the time and flush it down the bathroom. Do not trust her.

I can't even think of a vasectomy i do want kids later in life. But they are good for men who have already had kids.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago

I read on another forum about a guy claiming his girlfriend spermjacked him and asked for details and he didn't answer. I did some googling on this and didn't find a reference to an actual case of a woman grabbing a discarded condom and using it to inseminate herself.

Here's the thing: They do sell condoms without spermicide but what's the point? Once the sperm is in the spermicide condom, they're pretty much done for anyway particularly after a few minutes. Rarely do men just toss the condom itself into the trash but rather wipe off their junk with tissues or TP. Use that to wrap up the condom and squeeze it out into the paper. Done.

Don't flush condoms down the toilet (they can jam it). Wrap them up in TP or tissues and squeeze out the sperm into it and dispose.

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Einsamer 1y ago

Don't flush condoms down the toilet (they can jam it). Wrap them up in TP or tissues and squeeze out the sperm into it and dispose.

Yes, don't flush them down. They can cause it to be jammed and it's also really bad for the environment.

Instead, fill in a little bit of cold(!) water, knot them up, then briefly wash them with cold water as well from the outside and make sure the water inside has moved all around (shake it a little bit). That will render all sperm ineffective in case she tries to use it afterwards.

Then wrap them up with a bit of toilet paper and dispose them in the trash.

Then you don't have to squeeze it out and it's also much safer.

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oowiw Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

if you're tall enough, make sure you pick a spot nice and high, where her coochie cant reach it, when you wipe your dick off on the drapes.

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Jules 1y ago

content, but somewhat lonely

Am I the only one who immediately had the association of 'fiery, but mostly peaceful'?

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago

I mean both are standard issue Doublespeak/Doublethink, so no.

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First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Do you think I will be single forever because I have kids?

How much compromising and settling are you prepared to do? You will always be sub prime. You sound like you could be a good buy on the sub prime market and there are heaps of men on that market but do you want to go there? Hypergamy usually says no.

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PoopBeast Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

What in the world are all these clueless ditzes doing to make this much money?

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
  • child support

  • OnlyFans

  • selling drugs
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hhhhdmt 1y ago

The average OF creator only makes 200 dollars a month. Even a successful one will likely make no more than 2-3 k a month. The women making 10,000 or more a month on OF are statistical outliers.

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OpenLegsPolicy 11mo ago

Because this is the way to go

On Instagram, where she already has over 1.1 million followers

a 20-year-old swimmer from Paraguay, announced her decision to start a career on the OnlyFans platform just two months after being excluded from the Paris Olympics. Alonso participated in the 100-metre butterfly event during the games in the French capital, but she did not qualify for the semifinals, finishing in 29th place overall. Following this outcome, she chose to end her sports career.

Fans can subscribe to her exclusive content for $35 CAD a month

She revealed that she would like to complete her studies in political science and is considering the possibility of working as a sports minister in the future. As she says, "I will always have a fondness for swimming and I may attend a competition, but it is not what I want in life."

@Typo-MAGAshiv

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago

I know all that. I was mostly being flippant/facetious.

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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

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