Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
polishknight
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago Stickied
Part 2 of this saga. Saturday was "Single Woman Tears".
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
This is an epic find from @polishknight I have already commented a few times...
The thing that she is not understanding is this: in a market place, the customer is always right She and her lady friends are out there trying to sell their wares (used up, old, infertile pussy) and what she is resolutely failing to understand is that there is basically no market for her product.
The customer is always right.
It's worth repeating. If there are no buyers for a product, it means that there is something wrong with the product, not with the buyers.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
The Milk Maid story.
Pic889 1w ago
Even actual corporations selling actual products don't get this anymore, it's always the customer who "didn't get it" or the message that "didn't reach the customers":
Some movie or videogame bombed heavily because it targeted a "modern audience" that doesn't really exist? It's the customers' fault for "not getting it"
VW has to close factories because people have stopped buying their unreliable shitheaps (note: VW cars are unreliable shitheaps according to multiple reliability surveys)? It's the customers' fault for not buying VW's unreliable shitheaps
Customers didn't want to buy some crappy tablet that could run neither iOS nor Android apps (be it the Surface RT or HP Touchpad or some other me-too iPad knockoff of the previous decade)? It was the customers' fault for wanting useful apps on their tablet
It just goes on and on and on... I miss the time when companies would openly admit they failed to produce what the market needed, but the culture of "I deserve" has festered for so long that of course the board of those corporations think they "deserve" customers.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
You forgot to add in Disney and Bud Light.
They are maybe more relevant than your tech examples, because their issue is basically their attitude. They align their products with woke attitude and then have a melt down because their customers don't 'align with their values'.
That would be the more correct analogy. A brand selling beer should just make beer. Make better beer and you will sell more. But the moment you try to align with 'values' that are only a minority interest, then you cannot be surprised when sales tank.
This is what the OP woman is doing - her values are that men should not prefer fertile women. That they should be woke and liberal, but somehow mysteriously continue with paying for women's dinner etc.
She is demanding that the market (men) change their taste, rather than observing what is going on in the market and then adapting.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 2w ago
Of all the parts that made me gag from this post (thanks @polishknight ! :-) the biggest is that she keeps harping that she wants "an equal", but then expects that guy to behave like he's won the lottery ticket. Which one is it?
Let's accept her idea of an equal guy at face value (nevermind that her idea of equality is someone far, far superior to her). She snags a date with him. Guess what, according to her own definition, he did not win the lottery ticket. He found an equal. So when he behaves like he found an equal (insist on splitting dinner 50/50, taking some time to think about whether he wants a second date, placing some demands / expectations on what he wants out of the relationship), she's upset that he doesn't behave like he's won the lottery and worship the ground she walks on.
One could ask the reverse question: if they're equal, and she's disappointed that he doesn't treat it like he's won the lottery, why is it that she doesn't treat it like winning the lottery? Why doesn't she offer to pay for all of dinner, have a sparkle in her eyes, text first, and do all the things she expects her "equal" to do?
The actual reality is that if she ever found what she defines as her "equal", she's the one who will have won the lottery, and should be bending over backwards to keep him happy. It shouldn't be an act. But even if you buy into her deluded world, her complaints make no logical sense.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
This is what her and friends look like: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O4QzHeUE-CM
JudgeSmales 2w ago
My main takeaway is: If these "successful" boss babes are so awesome and living their best lives, why don't they keep doing that and leave us out of it? Because deep down they know they are failures, LARPing with their fake Prada bags and shoes.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
In all fairness, these women largely interact only with each other and don't want men's input and that's part of the problem: They listen to each other, in a sort of hivemind, without considering what men, particularly the men they desire, want. They often even pay for therapy or read shelves of self-books telling them the same thing they want to hear over and over.
Something that occurred to me recently when one was griping (but not relevant to this forum) was they accused men of not seeing women as "people". That the men "only want one thing" and don't have empathy for women. That's a case of projection in that these women have nothing but demands for men and mock and belittle any concerns men have. For example, this woman gripes men are "takers" if they want to go "50:50" on dates. A man not giving them something is "taking".
If you've even seen The Sopranos, the concept of the show is a mobster who undergoes therapy and avoids resolving the issues that drove him there to begin with: His concern that his lifestyle would result in him being separated from his family. All of this self-examination is for nothing because he doesn't want to give up "the life".
EmpireCrimson 2w ago
I didn't realize they delivered Copium by the gallon. This woman doesn't understand that single men in her age bracket have many more options than her age bracket, and there's little point in trying to change the thinking of a professional woman who wants to be independent until it comes time to pay the bill. That says nothing for the truck full of emotional baggage that he would have to deal with having nearly any woman in his life.
Her understanding of the male mind and the unrealistic expectations of how a man with many options will behave is the icing on the cake. She clearly expresses this when she wants a guy on a first date to feel as though he's won the lottery. He may feel that way over time, but on a first date he's trying to make sure that he heard/read the numbers correctly and comparing them to the ticket in his hand.
She's lost. All we can do is stand back and watch her wander. She thinks she is a prize, but doesn't behave like one. A wise older woman once told me to be careful of women post-menopause; it is like puberty in reverse. This woman validates the wise lady's opinion.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2w ago
I just love how "iNdYpYnDyNt" she is until it's time to pay. So many of them are like this. They say they want equality, they say they're independent, but when it's time to pay for anything, it's always all on the man.
consistency is a tool of the patriarchy!
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 2w ago
Just like there are no atheists in the foxhole, there are no feminists when the check comes...
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
I always get a laugh when women state that they want an EQUAL.
No woman has ever wanted an equal. They want someone who they deem superior to them. Not just in one attribute either; they expect it across multiple dimensions.
They also want someone who is “equal” not to who they actually are; but who they FEEL that they are. The latter is always several multiples inflated from the former. Most women I know absolutely suck at self-awareness/analysis.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
Yeah, they're all fantastically successful in their careers, with their own homes and shit, but not apparently able to pay for their own meals, like a grown up might do.
It's a scooby doo mystery.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
What I especially like is how there was a man, presumably who met her height requirements, who actually PRAISED her iNdYpYnDyNsE and said she could foot half the bills if she didn't "need" no man and she reacted with horror calling such men "takers" who "want a lot" from her.
What are these men "taking" or "wanting a lot" from her? What does she think "equality" is?
I know that sometimes these posts can be a lot to grok through, but there's so much gold providing insight into their convoluted thinking. It's an astonishing level of self-delusion indicating such a lack of adult responsibility that what successful, mature man whose built a lifetime of assets would want to trust such a woman with anything of importance in his life based upon this behavior on a first date?
Notice how in part 1 she was WAILING at how the odds were stacked against her because she "needs" a tall man and yet here was a chance for her to stand out: to provide something of value (paying her own way) and she declined.
On the other hand, there are likely a dozen late 20's girls on the dating apps who would be more than happy to go on a dutch coffee date with a 6'2" silver fox.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2w ago
FTFY
Like most wahmyns, a smorgasbord from which she can pick and choose what's convenient for her in the moment (h/t @lurkerhasarisen)
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
Good grief this was a struggle to read. That woman is a completely lost cause.
My initial thought after reading this: It’s no wonder that women are primarily the ones that are duped by con-artists. Even at this ripe old age of hers she expects Prince Charming to come sweep her off her feet. You can feel just how hard she is trying to swallow the delusion that everything should be like it was in her 20s. If you had no morals/principles/integrity you could probably swindle these sad sacks out of half their net worth just by leaning hard into the tingles game.
As men, we are more likely to notice that if something seems too good to be true, then it likely is. These women probably only think “the man I deserve has finally arrived”.
The only other thought I had was that women still have no idea what men want or desire in a partner. In other words, if the guy you want has to tick so many boxes; why in the name of Christ would he pick you when most of your other competitors likely want the same yet have more to offer. They can’t see past their own wants, and project them onto men; assuming, incorrectly, that we value the same attributes as they do.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 2w ago
There's an interesting psychology behind con-men. The term is an abbreviation of the words "confidence man", and con-game is short for "confidence game." The key thing to understand though, is not that a con-man inspires confidence in himself, or gets you to believe in him. It's that he gives you confidence, that you can outwit him.
Take the classic 3-card monte. You watch a guy rapidly move these cards around. You see a bunch of people before you bet and lose, failing to find the right card. Why do you play? Because the con-man believes in you. He encourages you to play, tells you that you look like you have fast eyes, that you're smart, that your slick haircut means you're the type of guy who doesn't fall for scams, and you'll succeed where everyone else has failed. You decide to have confidence in this man's assessment of you (after all, he's telling you that you're smart and can't be tricked), and he takes that confidence and lends it right back to you, that he has confidence that you'll outsmart him and take his money.
Bottomline: the confidence flows from the con-man to you, not the other way around. He tells you you're smart, and you believe him. So you play. And lose your money. He keeps feeding your ego, giving you confidence that you can win despite your losses, and you keep playing and losing. Until one of two things happen: at some point you realize he's lying to you; that you're not actually that smart; that his confidence in your abilities is misplaced. Or you lose all your money, and when you're no longer useful, his tone changes, and he tells you to get TF away from his table so he can go find another sucker to scam.
To fall for a confidence game, you have to be willing to be deluded about your own ability to outsmart the con-man. You know he's running a con. That's not in doubt. It's about your ability to outsmart him, something he willingly pumps you up about to get you to sit down and play.
These women are already primed to be suckers in a con-game. They already believe in their own outsized intelligence, ability to spot scammers, outwit average losers, etc. etc. etc. Because all their life has basically been one confidence game with people (both men and women) telling them how smart and beautiful and great they are ever since they hit puberty and started growing tits.
Chad is basically a con-man. The women know he's a Chad, that he's pumped and dumped plenty of women before her. But they believe they can outwit him. And he's more than willing to tell them that they can, saying things like "Oh, I might settle down if the right woman comes along. BTW, did I tell you how much of a sucker I am for blondes?" And she keeps playing the game and losing, until eventually Chad gets tired of fucking her and tosses her to the curb.
We men never get that decades-long confidence game run on us. So we're less likely to fall for it. If some fat neckbeard living in his parents' basement playing video games (to take a stereotype) ran into a supermodel, and she got super friendly and telling him how hot he was and asking him out on a date, he'd probably say no. Because no matter how much that supermodel is trying to build up his confidence that, no really, he's worthy of dating her and can get her to fuck him if only he'll pay for a nice dinner, he senses the con and realizes she's just trying to wrangle some free food from him. IOW, that so-called neckbeard incel can do an accurate enough self-assessment to understand when someone else's confidence is misplaced. He knows he doesn't have the qualities needed to get her into bed, or into a real relationship, assumes that the only thing that's happening here is she's out to scam him out of a dinner, or maybe she's an escort, or something like that. And he wisely chooses not to play. Not because he doesn't want to have sex with her, but because he understands that he can't. No matter how much the con-woman tells him he can.
So you're 100% right that these women are primed to be taken advantage of by con-men, which they do, by the planeloads (especially planes headed to male prostitution/exploitation areas like Bali and Jamaica)
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
This comment ought to be stickied. Or turned into a proper post.
Esp the bit about Chad being a 'con man', in the very real and old sense of the world - that he is running a confidence game.
They say that the financial markets punish over confidence and delusional thinking. The pro's realise that it's impossible to predict the markets - its actually the amateur retail investors (we call them Belgian Dentists - rich and clueless) that think that they can - those are our marks. To be precise, we want people that are rich and clueless, but think that they are smart. My ideal client would be someone like Kanye West - rich, retarded and really believes that he is not only not retarded - but somehow smart.
It works very much the same way as the chad game. I spent parts of my life as a chad (when not married) and I recognise the 'con man' element to game. The ideal mark is a woman that thinks she is better looking than she actually is, but is actually not as good looking as you. Those chicks were easy to play. They though that this was their lucky day (a higher SMV guy smashing them) and they really thought that they would be able to do the old bait and switch - that once you sampled their pussy, you would be hooked and fall in love with them. They thought they had what it took to land a chad.
These old ladies now in their 40s and 50s that are single and wondering WAATGMG are basically women that got conned by chads their whole life long.
The most profound thing I ever read about fraud is this: the easiest people to defraud are those that want to be defrauded.
When you know, you know.
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
Great analysis.
I’d add that even the women that lack any semblance of self confidence also seem to fall prey to Chad’s game. Almost as if women’s natural way of being is to be deferential to men.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2w ago
Remember the Tinder Swindler? Hahaha
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
That was my exact thought too! That woman was such an irredeemable idiot.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2w ago
It was more than 1! I don't remember the exact number, and I'm sure there are some who never came forward, but there were a bunch who gave him money.
It was ridiculous. Like most scams, my first thought was "how the hell did anyone fall for this crap?!" yet people do!
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 2w ago
I see that @Typo-MAGAshiv beat me to it, but I was going to mention all the women who fall for romance scammers and end up losing everything their husbands left to them.
I honestly feel sorry for women who are grieving their dead husbands and do things out of desperation. The guys who prey on them deserve to be put under the jail. The others, though: the divorcees, the single moms, the never-married women who priced themselves out of the market? My sympathy meter is stuck at a much lower setting.
The types of women the OOP writes about are the kind that end up in Bali supporting a charming broke dude who’s stringing a herd of women along. He won’t be put off by her self proclaimed status as a boss babe: that’s his target demographic. She gets a fantasy that she can afford, and he lives like the king. Her vacation (being on a tropical beach sipping top-shelf booze and having sex every day) is his daily routine.
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
That’s an insightful reply. It’s even worse when you consider, as you pointed out above, that most of the wealth these women end up squandering was acquired by a former loving husband attempting to build a family with a tingles addicted chad chaser.
I find that the addiction model helps me understand the behaviors that follow in these cases. These women are absolutely addicted to chasing tingles, and not in a tongue-in-cheek sense. You can see it when they use addict-like language to describe an otherwise uneventful situation; “Fireworks go off in my head (when he pays)”
Pretty much everyone here has experience with an addict in one form or another. It’s easy to predict what kind of long term decisions they will end up making. It’s sad, the sexual revolution of the 60s/70s was a huge net negative for women, but you won’t ever hear any of them utter anything remotely like that. Many of them, when left to their own devices, behave just like addicts.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 2w ago
It's been a pretty raw deal for most men as well, but of course no one cares about that until we wise up to the shit sandwich we're being fed and elect to stop frequenting the establishment in sufficient numbers to cause it to fail.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
Their behavior is why I coined the term "Chaddict".
Because that's certainly what it is - an addiction. And it's about as rational as a drug addiction; anyone with a working brain knows you don't let a druggie into your house or give them access to your bank account, chaddicts should be treated no different.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
This entire convo is the reason I have the 'no dates' rule. Never go on dates. Just don't do it.
You can get sex lots of other ways. Dates are by far and away the worst way to get sex. Or even a relationship.
I would consider 'wants to go out on dates' as a red flag in a woman.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
I never dated my wife. Our idea of a big romantic night is sleeping naked together. Bonus if it's in a tent after we had a fish fry at a mountain lake.
jihocech 2w ago
Exactly. Dates are a reward.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
Specifically, a reward for women you already know personally and carnally, and who has behaved well. (Gotta spell it out for some of the spergier peeps)
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
This.
if a woman is well behaved, has genuine desire for you, bears you children, keeps a good home - THEN you can take her out on a date now and then. Then and only then.
A date is symbolic exchange of value inside the mating game - since we lived in caves, men have provided resources to women that bore them children, for the express purpose of raising offspring. There is no other function of resource sharing between the genders. None. Spergs be going out there, showering sluts with resources in some kind of relationship LARP with no sex and no provision of child bearing. Its beyond retarded, feminist and blue pilled.
If you're even in doubt, ask yourself 'what would chad do?'. What would skittles guy do?
And then do that.
Sluts are so dumb that they will categorise you as chad if you behave like chad. Chad doesn't go on dates.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2w ago
For anyone who didn't catch his reference: Roissy's classic Be a Skittles Man
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
The Skittles Guy thing is such a classic.
I feel like I have been both Skittles guy and also the blue pilled guy in my life. I know which gets better results.
Skittles all the way.
For all your spergs posting questions like 'how do I get more dates' ....you're asking the wrong question. Fuck dates.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2w ago
Back when my wife and I first got together, I was almost a Skittles Man.
After she kept earning upgrades and locked me down, I beta-ized the crap out of myself in a misguided attempt at making her happy.
I'm slowly becoming Skittles Man again (at least as much as one can while married lol).
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
I just re-read that skittles page again. It's pure gold.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
Get her some skittles for anniversary present.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2w ago
LMAO
Alright, so back when I first read that post, I started keeping a flattened Skittles wrapper on the back of my sun visor in my car to remind me. I had it there for so long, it faded into the background for me and I didn't really think about it.
Cue my wife borrowing the car and interrogating me over the Skittles wrapper, and me just laughing
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
I see what you did there - you left empty skittles packet in car for wife to find, so that she will know that you have been giving skittles to other women. Resulting in instant dread.
It's a nice variation of leaving condom wrappers in your car.
You crafty old donkey fucker.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
"love it that women are expressing these attitudes!"
Oh we love it too, believe me, we love it too.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
Yup, self filtering like they are doing takes so much effort out of vetting a woman. Normally you have to super vigilant since they like to hide the entitlement and crazy long enough to set a hook.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 2w ago
It’s wild that she repeatedly refers to men who can pull women half her age as her “equals.”
It’s not complicated: your RMV is equal to that of the people you can get. The list of dubious accomplishments that she and her “fabulous” girlfriends have amassed is irrelevant. Masculine men are not going to look at postmenopausal “boss babes” who expect to be treated like virginal swimsuit models the way they would look at a winning lottery ticket.
Such a man would be getting hit on by women who are much younger and effortlessly feminine. Why would he expend valuable time and effort trying to impress her? She would have to go all-in to impress him just to get the Tuesday afternoon spot in his rotation. Why?
Because she would NOT be his equal. Her RMV equal is Gary from the Accounting Department, who has to delay retirement because he’s five years into a mortgage he had to start over on after his wife divorced him and took his kids. Sure… he’s 5’8”, has a bit of a gut, and his hairline is receding, but he’ll pick up the check at Applebee’s and won’t dump her if she doesn’t put out on the first date. He would be nicer to her than she deserves, and he would absolutely give her the ick.
She and all of her friends are STILL chasing Chad. After three decades of chasing Chad and not getting anything more substantial than a bunch of semen injections, I’m not sure why she
thinksfeels that she should be in a better position than she was half her lifetime ago, yet she unironically declared that she’s becoming more desirable as she enters each new decade.Why is her second home of any interest to a man if she can’t / won’t even buy her own coffee? She expects him to lay his resources at her feet before they even meet - the resources he amassed with no help from her - yet not only are her resources off the table (then why even mention them?), but she squandered her most valuable resources twenty years ago.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 2w ago
The only thing equal about her and her desired partner is their age. In every other way, he is far more desirable than her, and even age-wise, his age makes him far more desirable (or at least less undesirable), than her age, even though it's the same number.
It would be like if a 25 year old guy states that his equal is a Paris runway model, because, well, they're both 25 years old. What's she doing dating that 40 year old billionaire?
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
"then why even mention them?"
I had my brother's family over for dinner about 5 years ago along with his lovely 23 year old daughter who had just gotten an RN degree and I casually asked her what her plans were now and she said: "I want to get a master's degree and marry a rich man". I wasn't sure if she was joking or not, but I didn't want to state RP wisdom because it's my brother's daughter and none of my business.
Well, about 5 years later and she's had serial monogamy with a couple of guys and the latest guy she's living with for 2 years is a tall Danish guy whose covered in tats and she's gotten about 6 tats of her own (so far, last I saw on facebook). The mother and father are afraid to say anything.
Back to your question is that a woman thinks her hypergamy is an entitlement: If she's tall, then she DESERVES a taller man. If she has 3 homes, then she DESERVES a man with at least 4 homes (although she would "settle", ick, for a man with only 3 homes, what a loser!)
Another aspect of their hypergamy they don't consider is this: If a man is to consider her assets of value, then wouldn't he, if he had a choice, want a woman with even MORE assets than him? Huge Tracts Of Land?
Anna Faris divorced Chris Pratt and so Chris Pratt turned around and married a Kennedy. Yeah, she really showed him! A 6'4" Chad friend of mine wife cheated on him so he divorced her and he married a good looking woman whose family owns $100 million of commercial real estate (back then, probably more now)
Hmmm, if I was a Chad I'd pay for the dinner date. Sure... enjoy. If she was worth 10X more than me. No prenup. I'm a romantic.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
Yeah they don't want to see the reality that more and more men are realizing that any woman that insists on a paid dinner date isn't worth a clipped nickel outside of a literal 19 year old debt free virgin with no tattoos - and even that tier of woman is skating on thin ice by insisting on it unless she treats a man very well.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
If the woman in this post is the same one in the Saturday one, even that is being incredibly nice. The millisecond a woman gets tittoos, her MMV cap is that of some semi employed trailer park meth-head. Gary from accounting is too good for that kind of woman, and the faster he realizes it, the better.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2w ago
No, not that one from Saturday but this one from Saturday.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
Oh, OK. Well to be fair to Gary, he's too good to pay for the retirement some menopausal crone too, if only he'd realize it. Coughing up some cash to spurt some knuckle children down a hooker's gullet would be a better ROI for him even if he could finesse a strong independent billsexual hag into putting out.
Justanaverageguy 2w ago
But she thinks she’s too good for Gary and would look down on him, that’s the problem.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
Well, her problem technically. Gary's life would be nothing but improved by her complete absence. More men should realize that most woman's interest is generally transactional exploitation layered behind plausible deniability. And that an actual hooker charges far less for a far better experience.
PoopBeast 2w ago
"transactional exploitation layered behind plausible deniability"
Damn. That's WAATGM poetry, and a perfect description of the state of dating for men.
It's too bad prostitution isn't legal in the US
BobbingForBunions Sr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
I rarely consume content created by women. Articles, movies, television shows, videos, novels, etc. I find them neither entertaining nor insightful. And I assume their content suffers from delusion and/or duplicity.
I realized this morning that polishknight's compilations make up 95% of the female-created content I consume. They're entertaining and insightful (but for reasons that would surely irk the authors).
Kudos, PK. And well done.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
Female content is awful. I watched a few movies that had NO FUCKING ENDING!!! No it wasn't a "to be continued" or a setup for a sequel. It was just 90min of emotional scenes and then done.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
"It was just years of emotional scenes and then done."
average marriage.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
Although it was written by a man, this is a French film about women that I found thoughtful: The Dreamlife of Angels https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120449/
It's about 2 women friends in working class France who are trying to get by and they sleep and bum around and get odd jobs. One woman finds happiness in what she can in the world around her while the other is in a state of continual discontent and bitterness (sound familiar?) as she craves the hottest guy in town. Don't read any spoilers. One of the best endings in cinema.
Another good film about women but written by women is "Clockwatchers" starring Lisa Kudrow. It's a great film to show women who romanticize Office work. Sort of like a female version of Office Space.
I'd say both are wonderful "date" films great to watch with women or open minded friends who can handle thoughtful cinema that doesn't have bells and whistles.
While I'm at it: Other foreign films about women and men's lives you may enjoy:
The Closet (Gerard Depardieu). (Comedy: A man worried about getting laid off so if he pretends to be gay, will affirmative action protect him?) My American Uncle (Gerard Depardieu) (One of the BEST films about men's lives) Run Lola Run: An absurd German film which is a stereotypical German film. Hold your breath and the film pacing is so fast it's over before you know it. The German version SOUNDS great. Don't mind the subtitles. "Sprockets" on steroids. Without Anesthesia (Polish film). A man falls out of favor and his life collapses around him. Polish version of Falling Down. A Friend of the Deceased (Ukrainian). An unemployed man's wife leaves him and he needs to find a purpose. Moscow Does Not Believe in Tears: If you mention to any Russian woman you've seen this, she will probably be willing to talk with you. A classic Russian film about the lives of women seeking husbands and what their lives turn out like. Unrealistic towards the end, but it's an attempt to show life choice consequences. Weather for Tomorrow (Pogoda na jutro). No foreign film list about life is complete without SOMETHING with Jerzy Stuhr, the classic Polish actor. Jerzy portrays men in different walks of life and the choices they make.
sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
Cool, are you able to pay the price for what you want?
Congratulations. You have discovered, that experience and certificate hardly matters over harmony.
Um, are you also not wanting men in your terms? Didn't you overlook us because we were not good enough when you were younger?
Let me articulate the best i can:
1. "interesting professional life" is interesting in professional side of the life, not in the intimate side.
2. If your dating isn't focused on intimacy, then I can't give you the graduation of dating. There is no affirmative action in dating.
PoopBeast 2w ago
Boy, I wish I loved anything as much as some women love getting free dinner from guys they just met.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
This lady is not self aware. She see's her side of the picture but not where it fits in the bigger picture. She is therefore a bit too self obsessed to see the reality or wises to hide from it.
We just want men who pay for dates and are out equals and we just want this and that but can't find the quality men.
What do the quality men want? Can you offer it? Will you try? ...OK then lady.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 2w ago
Hell, women like the OP generally don't even realize there is a bigger picture. Not only do they never ask "What do the quality men want," most of them aren't even capable of asking that question. To do so requires they grow beyond their natural solipsism to the understanding men are fully-formed individuals, just as human as they are, with thoughts, feelings and desires all their own.
Absent a strong father to shape them and a patriarchal culture to keep them in line, most women never mature beyond early adolescence at best.
...which ain't to say men do a stellar job raising themselves either, of course, but that ain't the focus of our little community.
No-Stress-Cat 2w ago
I guess they could always date each other if they wanted to date "their equals". These leatherflaps don't even realize that the caliber of men they're looking for aren't interested in dating other men just because they have tits and a vagina.