Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
I was reading the title and wanted to respond to this. No, there is no shaming at all in the modern Christian church - or in western society for that matter. The large internet and social media companies have made it "illegal".
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
The catholics used to ship these disgraceful women off to nunneries. I think that's poetic justice. Imagine being a woman in a convent full of older women who know every single one of your tricks and tolerate none of them. No orbiters to dry your tears, no men to compete over, no men to blame for all your problems. It's like slut hell, and I mean that kinda literally. I also think it's a great thing to bring back.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2mo ago
We'll basically have a secular version: nursing homes. Because that's where these women will end up after either failing to have any family at all, or behaving so badly that their family wants nothing to do with them.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Yeah but that's when they are old. We can't have these women running around in public for decades, inflicting pain and suffering on men. If you suggested "jail" I could be convinced.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Millennial women are hitting their 30's. They turn 30 and get treated just like men and go insane because they were lied to and now are lonely and have unfulfilling careers. Living a life of degeneracy leads to self destruction and emptiness. It's no mystery once they get to that point that they realize their mistake. Problem is it's usually too late to make a difference, and there is more to being a follower of Jesus Christ than claiming to be.
Anyone who is glorifying themselves on social media is suspect in my opinion. They get diminishing returns on the attention they receive from being a whore, so they seek alternative means of getting attention, like larping as a reformed whore. She got a breast reduction and put on a shirt because their eggs have gone bad and they're hoping they can grift naive tradcucks. I think the "anybody can be saved" part of Christianity has truly been one of the worst poisons the west has ever ingested. Somehow we're all expected to pretend a whore is anything but because she told Jesus she's sorry; they will even have the gall to tell us that we're the bad guys because we don't want to take a shit deal, even though we're not the ones who repeatedly sinned. The problem is if you've forgiven, you wouldn't hold the person's actions against them anymore, so refusing to marry them means you don't forgive them. Thing is, we shouldn't have to forgive them; they essentially tried to plunder the social contract by availing themselves to the comforts of society while actively subverting it. If they were genuinely remorseful for what they've done, they'd accept that they deserve no more respect than a fleshlight. They aren't sorry though, that's why they think they still deserve a wedding ring after all they've done.
Everything a woman does is for attention, it's to get you to give them attention. They value themselves based on the attention they can get. They've sensed the turning of the winds. Soon, senseless screeching and irresponsible behavior will no longer be tolerated by the men that they desire. Feminism has been planted in their collective culture and psyché, meaning that further generations of girls will find the literature, and start the cycle again. For this, I have no solution.
No-Stress-Cat 2mo ago
This is a woman problem that only women can fix.
Men have already told women the solution.
It's completely up to women to do something about it.
But all they want to do is cry about it:
Then you need to do something about it.
It's too late for you, but you can save the children.
But they don't want to hear any of that "nonsense" because there's nothing in it for them.
As far as I'm concerned, they can drown in the shit they refuse to stop swimming in.
Perhaps the ship will have somewhat righted itself by the time our great grandchildren have grown up.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 2mo ago
There is a lot of political opposition to the disgusting woke train. The world is slowly and belatedly waking up to the trans bullshit.
But women are not going to wise up and settle down young. They will double down on their careers and marrying betas at age 35, with the expected impact on fertility and birth rates. I don't see any way this is going to reverse itself anytime soon because the current situation is absolutely fine with women.
sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
I think that the definition of forgiving needs an update.
If I forgive someone, I will not use the persons actions against them to curb their rights. This does not mean, that they will immediately qualify for things they don't qualify for.
Marriage is not their right. They need to qualify for it. Just because one day they finish effing around does not mean they qualify for marriage.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Imagine a lawyer arguing to a judge that since his client has asked God for forgiveness, his client shouldn't have to serve any time for 2nd degree murder.
BobbingForBunions Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Great distinction.
I liken this to taking on an employee who is a convicted felon. I forgive that person for his past actions if he is truly sorry for them. That said, while I'd advocate for his right to seek employment, I'm not going to hire him.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2mo ago
It's funny that comparing leftover women to convicted felons, I think the felons deserve some consideration:
They can and should be hired for everyone's sake: It costs more to incarcerate them or to deal with the fallout from recidivism. Perhaps what is important is to not TRUST them. Put them in positions where they are highly supervised which certainly increases the costs of employing them or help them find work where this isn't an issue.
One touching story I read was about felon who couldn't find work so he bought a 2nd hand hotdog food cart and then went to costco and bought supplies and sold hot dogs, chips, and soda and made a decent living. I think everyone wishes him well. He has paid his debt to society and wants to be productive. Is there anyone here who is against that?
But a leftover born-again virgin is looking to sell 3rd hand goods at new prices with a fake COA. I have nothing against someone such as her wanting to get married and have kids but... she isn't going to get first pick which is... ok. Because men live in that world. If we're not hot or rich then we have to "settle" for, gasp, ordinary women. So such women can SETTLE for working class men churchgoers who live in a trailer and be GRATEFUL for that opportunity, like running a food cart.
sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
I would like to add the concept of plurality.
In a society, where we have Gordon Ramsey, and other great chefs, it is not an issue with another hotdog seller. He is not in a place to demand singular commitment of a patron.
Equally a patron is not required to tie himself with such a hotdog seller. There is a choice among many options, and the patron can quite literally "spin plates".
With such unbounded nature everything works fine.
The women being discussed here, if they want their things, they need to find a place, where they will be nothing more than an option.
I am probably going to sound too soft / too beta, but i do not think a short working class churchgoer in a trailer need to tie himself with such a woman.
I had been there. (In bald eagle, mcDonanlds and Assault Rifle units, I am 5'13 ''- not a typo, and do not go to church or anything of that sort - but I had lived on the street, in a trailer). But I worked my way out of there. I will not want to tie myself with such a woman for life.
Granted, at that time I was more laxed to a woman's qualification, because I was blue pilled. But still, not a reformed 304.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2mo ago
Actually, I'll say that if someone wants to reform themselves and move on from that, that's ok with this caveat: They have to 'forgive' the men as well in that if she isn't to be judged because she's old and has tats, then she should be ok with dating the short, fast food worker guy who drives a truck in the back of the church rather than chad thunderbucks who sits in the front.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2mo ago
Shit, if a woman is post-wall, if he's gainfully employed, and not a woman beater or .pdf, she should be grateful he deigns to have anything to do with her other than using her as a cumrag. Way too many women have wild misapprehensions about their true station in life and that's why they end up corporate nuns and cubicle concubines.
user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
forgiving =/= forgetting
I was once told the definition of forgiving was to let go on the anger you have for that person. I'm still not 100% sure this is a solid definition, but it gives me some perspective.
Still, forgiving is not the same a forgetting. I've forgiven people whom I still never want to see or interact with again.
Forgiveness has been a unspoken contradiction within Christianity, but I don't have enough time to discuss all the problems with the Christian church.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 2mo ago
Right. Part of earning forgiveness is accepting the consequences.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2mo ago
Such as some doors in life being permanently closed. Shit ton of women out there are utterly unworthy of marriage, and I don't mean that from a turbo-religious point of view.
They simply are just shit partners and a liability to a decent man who would literally be better off alone than tying the equivalent of a female shaped millstone to his neck.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Same, and one of those people was my abusive whore of a mother. I've struggled for decades with God's command that I forgive her, and I think I have. I genuinely wish her "well" in that I hope she repents or faces judgment for her evil. But as for me, I hope never to speak to her again.
I too will abstain from turning this into whining about the church, I offer only this: I think many people have no idea what it means to be truly hurt, or haven't made sense of it yet. Think of all the blue-pilled Prager simps running around in churches who haven't been reamed yet. We were all like that once.
These people say things like "just get over it" about the destruction of your family and mean it. They have no idea, and worse they are self-righteous because they have no idea what forgiveness really means and think they've always done it.
Sorry, rant over, but you triggered me, heh.
sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Ah - The God Getaway (ChatGPT came up with the name- I will tutor a bit today, and then later I will write 3 entries in my blog - one being this)
I have noticed a few mechanism of evolution of turning to "God". These are overlapping, but not necessarily driving factors or causal reasons of one another. I list them in no particular order.
1. Indulgence by a super Alpha:
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As long as money is flowing, God seem to be quite literally the golden parachute for glib women. And God happens to represent the super alpha, under whom, both you and I are supposed to toil. Hence instead of claiming that such women herself demand that you give her your validation and resource, the first smokescreen is to speak of behalf of God, and claim that it's God who gives her the license to act as a """deserving woman""".
2. Best friends of a Harem:
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This dynamic is most common among the so called """Tradcon women""" : But don't you love God? Why can't you and I both pray and Love god together?
I understand that I am going to sound like a Freudian Circus, and I will ruffle a lot of feathers - but the mechanism here is that the woman is trying to Gaslight the man as a fellow "lover" of a bigger alpha than the man himself is. [Yes, I am aware that the word love may have different meanings, but the mechanism is still the same]
The man is now her best friend, loving the same entity. Sexual innuendo aside, this places the man and the woman in more or less the same category: Belonging to the Harem of God. This gives the woman a second smokescreen. Most self acclaimed "Traditional Masculine* men also labor under a degree of solipsism here, and can't realize that they have been placed in a questionable place here.
3. No objectivity, no requirement, no qualification needed:
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There is no qualification needed to be a "reformed woman".
There is no process needed to speak on behalf of God. You do not have to spend 249023 years practicing and searching for answers in a Monastery to speak about God. Any 304 can become a speaker on behalf of God, as long as you serve as a foot soldier of the establishment of God. The establishment of God, the Churches, need men to give them money so that the Pastor can buy a new house and a new aircraft. As I see it, something very similar to the old fable hunter and the bird is playing out here with a key difference [Bird is trapped. Hunter about to kill him. Bird says: Don't kill me, I will make sure other birds fall in your trap. Hunter says you are a disloyal bird. You are not loyal to your own kind, how can you be loyal to me. Hunter kills it] .
Here, however non-chad non Tyrone men are quite below the 304 ( i.e. not the same kind) in her eyes, as well as below the Pastor seeking to make a quick buck in his eyes. So the Pastor has no reason to doubt the loyalty of the 304 - hence they agree to work together [e.g. born again virgins, telling single, never married, virgin men in the church to marry single mothers to get closer to God, requiring men to sacrifice themselves for single mothers with other peoples kid, like Jesus died for the said man (said woman is not required to do the same, because she already """gave birth""" to a child and hence went through her hardship), etc]
There is no need to prove the existence of such God and the process that makes a woman a born again virgin. There is no additional requirement on the 304.
This is quite literally printing free money. Why would a 304 not want to participate into such a program?
Maybe later I will find more mechanisms. Hence I will Necromance and edit this post as I think of more.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
The great father promises you a ton of free stuff in the next life in return for saying you are sorry and will be a good girl now.
Really its quite a handy moment to activate the back up plan back up plan because you were getting less stuff from men anyway now. Besides your appetite for sex itself has fallen too. You neither feel as hot nor look as hot as you once were. But the great father is happy to have you. His followers welcome you with attention. Among his followers you may even find a solid beta guy with few miles on the clock, the kind of guy who always was the backup plan but he stopped being interested in you at some point after you mounted the carousel. You are not sure when that was because you had stopped noticing him but now his kind are welcoming you. You were always hotter than mousy church girl who made clothes and jam for a hobby and has four kids already. You can probably turn his head.
Plan B looks better than you thought. You still can have it all. You had the fling, You had ten or so proper chads strangle you while they stretched your arse. That was fun but now you are going to get born again and get everything church mouse girl had too, only better because you are worth more. You go girl.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Gosh, turning to Jesus made her tits go away.
It's a miracle.
SwarmShawarma 2mo ago
I think they are still there, something pulls her upper body so bad forward that her ass is sticking out, like its ready to get mounted
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
It is really a clever sleight of hand. They can simultaneously put their past beyond YOUR judgement while dipping into the collection plate with the other.
Don't fall for it, gents. If this does not work, she will be reinflating her breasts for another OF account in three months.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Her shirt is missing "Wept".
Also, I can't help but think of Genesis, where the Lord tells Lot via the angels that the entire city he is in will be destroyed, because the evil is so great and egregious. Turns out you can't convert a demon, they must feel the wrath of God.
I know there is an emphasis on "turn the other cheek" and such, but when things are too far gone even the Bible says "nah, nuke it from orbit just to be sure."
NeoSpartan 2mo ago
Lol, no they hit the wall and this is disingenuous and strategic.
For the younger ones... there does seem to be to some extent a cultural backlash against how degenerated our culture has become. Media people like Nala are sometimes savvy enough to notice and hop on the bandwagon of grassroots cultural trends when they see potential profit or fame.
They are fake as fuck but it's a good sign I guess.
wswZtyqNGQ 2mo ago
If this is a good sign then it's not a good sign. If this shit is accepted by the "cultural backlash" then that backlash is doomed to quick failure.
NeoSpartan 2mo ago
I don't think it was accepted though. The 10% weakest and most pathetic are always going to simp and be worthless but most normal people seemed to reject it from what I saw.
wswZtyqNGQ 2mo ago
Fair enough. Type 2 errors are the problem though. What fakeness is passing through their filters?
NeoSpartan 2mo ago
Plenty, but less than before. You can thank the general erosion of our society for that, a silver lining through stormy skies. The more obvious fakery there is, and we have seen ever increasing levels haven't we.... the more cynical and discerning people in general become.
Best example is boomers probably. They are the most easily tricked societal cohort by far, right? A lot of people tend to forget that boomers spent their formative years in a vastly different america/world than we did. Society in general was much safer and higher trust in those days, the oldest ones will even talk about how nobody needed to lock their doors back then. You could leave your bike unlocked outside a store, etc. ya know?
A big chunk of these people who seem incomprehensibly naiive are just boomers whos brains have lost too much of their neuroplasticity to effectively adapt to rapidly changing social realities.
Younger people who buy that crap are just straight up retards though. Especially if you grew up with the internet... either they are following the PC line because that is what gets you promoted at corporations, or they are simply retarded and susceptible to trickery.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
I’m actively involved in church with my wife. I see quite a few women in their early and mid 30’s entering the church now. While I welcome them, it’s interesting that only once the attention dried up (and potentially the kids started getting hard to deal with) did they seek God.
God’s always been telling you what to do. You just chose to ignore him until your life was a mess.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Repenting when someone is at the end of their rope is a human thing, and I don't blame anyone for that. What I do often take issue with is the subsequent behavior. The behavior Zacchaeus or David or Mary (the prostitute) exhibited is what you'd expect. Abject humility, awareness of the severity of what you've done, public confession, a joyful desire for restitution and restoration (when possible) to the people you've harmed, and a serious intent to amend your ways based on thankfulness for being given a second chance.
What you do not do is immediately go and start making memes of how awesome you are, and teaching others about what you know nothing of. You sit at the feet of the masters and shut up. For years. You observe, learn, listen. This is not about you, at all, and you are privileged to be a servant here.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Yup. I’ve always been catholic, but I didn’t really understand lots of things before. Like how I didn’t understand what a POS King David was, and how the psalms were written because of how he felt when he humbled himself and repented, and experienced forgiveness.
The Catholic Church and their emphasis on original sin and all of us being sinners sounds harsh, but it’s honestly the humbling one needs to really understand what they’re being told.
sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Thank you for pointing these out.
I have talked about qualifications above, that repenting or changing sides does not immediately make such 304s qualified for being a wife, the same way the same 304s will not accept a man who has done nothing as a qualified husband.
But the points you raised are also important. I will update my personal world view based on your response. Thanks again.