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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Single Woman Tears

I'm forced to accept guys with low self-esteem that approach me.
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polishknight

Posted 10mo ago in Single Woman Tears - Permalink - Locked - 5.6K Views



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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago

Its so difficult to find the right kind of guy these days. I know... I have a brilliant idea....just find the WRONG guy, have his babies, and then once he has dumped you, find a nice guy to take care of everything.

It's a good plan, right?

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 10mo ago

Playing it safe and posting under weekend content, but I am aware from the provenance of the post along with her language that she's a leftover but it's not explicitly stated.

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sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago

Last time i checked, kindness, and communication and willingness to apologize were bare minimum, and not enough for a nice guy to get sex.....

Why should that be sufficient for marriage ?

If there's no intimate attraction, then you get a platonic relationship. Why dont women learn to value platonic relationships without a marriage/intimate relationship? Isnt that what they are telling us?

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Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago

The true "bare minimum" for women is tingles, if you don't give her that, even giving her the whole world won't be enough for very long.

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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago

Tingles?

You forget drama. Lots of it.

And friendship circle envy. They want their female friends to say "Oh Jenny's guy is so tall and handsome, and he's a brain surgeon with a trust fund"

Oh and 'romanitc' - ie. he has a female brain.

Oh, lets not forget 'charismatic' - which is code for narcissistic, egotistical and sociopathic.

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Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago

Don't they like to provide their own drama?

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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago

If you're not willing to provide drama, they sure as hell will.

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SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago

They aren’t always mutually exclusive

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Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago

"The good guys are taken by horrible girls..."

Hhhmmmmm. That one line says it all right there. So Chadtherockbanddrummer is taken by the sluts that put out. And the rich doctorlawyerentrepreneur has already been fleeced by divorce and will not approach. Ohh the woes of waiting too long and having to deal with normal icky males that actually believe in love and kindness and give her the drys like the Gobi desert.

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user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago

Also possible.... she's fat and "horrible girls" are skinny bitches.

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 10mo ago

It never occurs to them that their behavior and appearance helps determine what kind of man is willing to bother approaching them. Approaching women is not something the overwhelming majority of men do lightly just for the hell of it. It often involves an assessment of effort, risk, and reward that is rarely if ever discussed or otherwise overtly revealed to women.

And if the only men that are willing to do so are truly the ones that have little self esteem or self respect....that says a lot about those women and none of it is good.

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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago

If you translate this word salad of mouth noises, what the two women are saying is that they want a man that can pull.

They want chad. I know what it takes to be chad, to pull. You need to provide drama and tingles. Most of all, you need to be unsuitable for an LTR. When these women describe the guys they hate, they are talking about incels. Men that can't pull. All women hate incels.

Women can't be happy because all they want is a guy that is totally unsuitable for an LTR. And they want to LTR him.

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user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago

If you translate this word salad of mouth noises

Never listen and interpret what women say with the actual definitions of the words they use. They are more or less expressing vague feelings or something or other. How more clear can she be?

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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago

Its easy to see they want. They want chad.

The majority of women are ONLY attracted to men that are not attracted to them. The feature of chad is that chad is not attracted to them.

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user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago

Do you believe this to be behavior with bad outcomes for society? Then is it possible to change behavior for better outcomes?

Do you believe this to be a natural law of human behavior? Then is it impossible to change?

If we can change this behavior, what can be done to change and improve this?

PS. I think (and hope) that this is a behavior that can be changed.

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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago

it's all about incentives.

At the moment, we have huge incentives for women to divorce rape men. Just file online at win $1m instantly. Also, young women who sleep around and get pregnant are incentivised with cash payments for welfare.

the only way to change behaviours is to change incentives. Scrap welfare for single mums and scrap alimony / spousal maintenance.

Problem solved.

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago

Oh look, another woman who has made the error of thinking that they get to determine what men want.

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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago

I can't believe that the penny hasn't dropped for this woman.

She says that only 'low self esteemed guys' approach her.

So by this, she is saying that guys with high self esteem DON'T approach her (and I believe her).

And she is playing this off as something wrong with men, rather than with her. If I were her therapist, I would ask her to repeat that. And again. And once more. And now say it again. And again. And now say it slowly, one more time.

"men with high self esteem don't want anything to do with me"

I rest my case.

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 10mo ago

It is great how they tell on themselves when allowed to word vomit.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 10mo ago

"Freddy, as a younger man, I was a sculptor, a painter, and a musician. There was just one problem: I wasn't very good. As a matter of fact, I was dreadful. I finally came to the frustrating conclusion that I had taste and style, but not talent. I knew my limitations. We all have our limitations, Freddy. Fortunately, I discovered that taste and style were commodities that people desired. Freddy, what I am saying is: know your limitations. You are a moron.' -- Lawrence Jamieson (Michael Caine), Dirty Rotten scoundrels

(This was also a fun film. Highly recommend.)

Women are raised in the west to believe their demands, or "standards", make them valuable and that 'real men" will celebrate earning her "ladyship" like a dog happy to fetch sticks. It's the foundation of Eff Dee Ess. That if only women would all remind me of the importance of pleasing them, simply for doing so for a "lady", that men would happily comply.

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sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago

Women are raised in the west to believe their demands, or "standards", make them valuable

In many soviet block countries as well.

And unfortunately, i see all the time, they keep on writing long essays on how demanding more expensive diamonds make them more valuable in the exes of real men.....

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago

I think they're describing beta males when they say low self-esteem. I'm reminded of when I was 22, lowest SMV of my life, and I had to fuck women of similar SMV so I got with cougars. By the time I was in my 30s I got with one of those "horrible women". You know, the ones that want to be a stay at home mother, submit to their husbands, cook and clean and nurture... And yes she's slim, young, and "needy" for protection and provisioning and that makes me feel masculine...

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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

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Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

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