Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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MyBoyJob 1y ago
Right wing Chad ain’t touching this woman. Honestly Chad has a deal breaking age filter below 30.
Solezhtyn 1y ago
More red flags than the chinese olympics
Justanaverageguy 1y ago
Hellooo avoidant personality, BPD, and NPD all wrapped in one. Get some new bedroom furniture, toots. I had a bigger bed in the fucking army. Buy a full bed frame and actual end tables.
JudgeSmales Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It's not much, but I'll give her tiny props for her bedroom selfie: her house does not appear to be a pigsty, like practically every woman I've known. But, alas, I prefer my "traditional" women to have a few more tattoos. Sorry, sweaty.
No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Hard left liberal feminist. Nothing says "traditional" like being among the most "traditional" profession known to man.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I agree. She has lots of tats as per her profile.
Not interested.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
Her affiliation sounds very muddled. Like, conservative, but doesn't live the professed values.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
The upside-down emoji after her, “Swipe the direction of your political affiliation” indicates that she wants you to do the opposite.
Do you even meme, bro?
She claims to be a country girl in the city, which means that she left traditional protector / provider types behind in favor of effete guys with “He For She” bumper stickers on their Prius’s who will watch her kids when she mosey’s on down to the redneck bar to get some strange from a guy with a measurable testosterone level.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
No, I don't really meme much, sir. Nor do I emoji.
I'm behind the times, what with my mustache wax and my Brill cream and my gin martini, which I simply call a "martini."
NPC070201 1y ago
....But which I call class. Godspeed to you, gentle sir.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
"Traditional" is treated as a magic word by modern women in desperate need of a bailout via relationship/marriage in the hopes that by identifying as such, they will get what they need.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 1y ago
As @Typo-MAGAshiv so often says (he's quoting someone, I believe, but I can't remember whom):
Women use words not based on their actual meaning, but on the emotion(s) they (are meant to) invoke.
sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I wonder if women's tendency to bastardize words and language palyed a role in some cultures imposing strict regulations on women's education.......
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Distinct possibility.
Upgrading you to Junior Hamster Analyst for your continued commentary.
sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
thank you milord
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Don't do that!
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Naw, those are my original thoughts, and I've been sharing them for years:
https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/qqg4lk/if_you_make_the_cut_we_might_go_for_coffee/hk06lgf/
https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/sab74f/dont_worry_her_husband_is_almost_dead/htscay8/
https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/ru0d47/divorced_after_22_years_because_marriage_is/hqwl4p9/
https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/jxowgd/at_49_but_passing_myself_as_42_finally_learned/gcxu10r/
https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/edwhxk/i_wasnt_going_to_copy_this_from_the_sex_workers/fblu1sj/
(Listed in the order I found them. I'm sure there's more, but I need to get on with my evening.)
Edit - back when I was new to WAATGM, @loneliness-inc told me that TFM had said similar with his "words are magic spells" thing. Others have said it to me again over the years. I think @Oddest-One-Here also said it to me recently.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
This right here. Words like Traditional, values, Jesus, church, good man etc. are red flag words indicating that she is looking for a bailout. It's the conservative, traditional church guy that will forgive her past and stand by his woman and take care of her for life.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
A commenter on youtube who claimed to be a divorced traditional woman tried to explain her viewpoint like this: She's against "transactional" relationships. A "gentleman" should naturally want to be a protector/provider because that's just what he is. He doesn't expect anything from the woman for this. That's "transactional", see?
And when she gets what she wants, then she will "selflessly" give sex and affection to him. Of course, this is because this is what she "naturally" wants to do. It just turns out that she only does this for "gentlemen". Imagine if someone said "I want a Christian employer who unconditionally gives money to his workers and then they, if they're in the mood or feel chemistry, show up to do work."
Oh, except her ex was a psycho (she claims) so she divorced him. Wait, wasn't she supposed to love him unconditionally after he PROVED himself to her?
So in their minds, men are supposed to be sort of like dogs who are loyal and hard working no matter how we're treated. Since a REAL man should be like this, then a woman needn't have to anything to EARN it because it's his PRIVILEGE to be this way.
Hence, independent boss babes covered with tattoos and face piercings who want the thrill of being protected and provided for like a child running around the playground with scissors.
sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
My Indian side of the family knows a woman in the "clan". Her parents tires to convince me that if I marry this daughter of them, she will be a good match for me, she will start doing everything and become the best I can hope for.
In summary: "everything will happen and she will fall in line after the marriage"
The parents of said woman are both college level instructors. So I tell them - it sounds like someone wants the diploma first, and then she will study and pass the exams. Would you allow such a student to get the diploma?
You can imagine what the response was.
INB4 bob and vegenestan now is a feminist sh.thole. Quite literally, women can go free for murdering, and a man can't get divorce from a cheating woman, because the proof of her cheating might be deep-fake. Unsurprisingly, the reversing the genders would immediately nullify this judgment, and the courts will force the man to pay anyway and offer the woman council to seek other men.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Indian women are the worst.
I mean after American women, of course.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
I'm a centrist, so I should keep staring at her?
No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She got a booger on her nose.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
That's just the rest of her face.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
You like suffering?!
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Very few centrists are truly center center, they either center left or center right even if ever so slightly, I would have identified as centre left before, but the Overton Window has slid left so much during the 21st century alone that I would be viewed as center right if not outright right-wing nowadays.
Durek_The_Bald 1y ago
Ah yes, the radical minority.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
The left-right spectrum is an imperfect way of describing someone's political stances, but as a kind of shorthand or summary, it gets the point across.
Durek_The_Bald 1y ago
Successful, good job, and hyper independent, but needs provisioning. That's a tough sell.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Even if I went into this blind without the profile/description, a few questions would be easy to vet this one.
Tats are a big 'tell' anyway. "Trad"/Conservative women don't bother with getting sleeve tats. Not in my experience, anyway. I think the economy is finally tipping over, there will be many more "trads" coming out of the woodwork when jobs start to be cut.
DextroShade 1y ago
Tattoos are indicators of psychological damage just like scars are indicators of physical damage.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I didn't get past the heavy tattooing. To me, excessive tattoos are a huge slut flag. One of the best theories I've read is that they mirror traits they find attract in men. They like guys covered with tattoos who are assertive, so they reason that will work for them too. The more attention from assertive guys means more opportunity for getting pumped and dumped by those same guys.
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1y ago
You are correct - the term I use is 'transference' - women are more prone to it than men. They can't find the attributes that they want in men (masculinity), so they adopt those attributes themselves - they literally become the men that they would like to have.
The other use of tats is slut signalling. All social groups need to signal to other interested parties. For example, drug dealers have subtle hints and cues that allow drug users to spot them on the street.
Sluts have to have a methodology for signaling to chads that they should approach. And tats are the tried and tested signal. Think about it - if you're in a bar, and you see two women that are both similar, both about average looking. And you, being a man, want a first night smash and dash. One has an ankle tat and a lower back tat poking out of from her low slung jeans and crop top. Which one do you go for? the tatted girl every time.
because she is signalling that she makes poor choices. And you know that you can be on of her poor choices.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
When I visit a red light district I already know the hoes with tats will have the most experience and the young non-tatted ones will just starfish.
chunky 1y ago
If she's got a daughter over 18, then a real trad would cut her, the middleman, out and just date the daughter.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I’m a traditional man. I want my own kids. If, let’s say, I had a family and the misses napalmed my life, I wouldn’t be eager to go sign up for someone else’s family. It’s 2024, I don’t need to play stepdad when I can just get my passport.
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1y ago
This newbie is basically not even trying. She only has one nose ring, and there is far too much skin that is not covered in tattoos.
I want my single moms fat, out of work, with at least 7 facial piercings, no skin untattooed, with no less than 5 kids.
Must try harder. She doesn't even mention her abusive ex, ffs. Do you even single mom?
So its a no from me, I'm afraid.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
A Real Single Mom has to have dirty words tattooed on the insides of her eyelids so she can flip them inside-out at exactly the right moment.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
Disgusting.
Does she even have stretch marks or floppy tits?
No for me dawg. That's on top of not even mentioning her toxic exes.
Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1y ago
She does have tiny floppy tits, and the nipples do point at the ground, which is most excellent. And she does have stretch marks, tiger stripes and also those curious cottage cheese dimples. So far, so good.
But she is clearly not committed to the Single Mum lifestyle, because there is acres of un-tattooed flesh on display. And for me, that is a deal breaker. I need 100% coverage.
Us rich men have clear needs - we want to simp for post wall used up single mom sluts that don't want to bear us kids
sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Women stole the word "traditional", to mean that they will be provided for without qualifiying for a it. a truely traditional woman works from day zero together with the man to build everything.
Persuasive redefinition i think the fallacy is called.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I bet she was hot 15 years ago... Now she's not even a decent cougar...