Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 1y ago
The fact so many of the replies have zeroed in on her poor spelling simply tells me most of y'all have never known a doctor. In my (admittedly limited) experience, most of 'em know just enough to get by in their field of focus and are otherwise abject fucking morons.
Also, the way her writing is structured leads me to believe English probably isn't her first language.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
To be fair, it’s quite possible she’s from somewhere where English isn’t a first language.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Might have something to do with her capitalization and spelling skills being about on par with the reputation for sloppy handwriting skills that doctors have.
On a less flippant note, doctors tend to work shit hours which makes them absent spouses. Which is one thing when you are the intended/preferred breadwinner, but unless broham is OK with the DINK lifestyle, someone has to be holding down the house.
And since women stereo-typically do not respect house-husbands, this forces men to make choices.
BecomingABetterMan1 1y ago
In an alternate universe, where men are hypergamous and women are wallets with legs...
A woman prioritizes her earning potential before her fuck-ability for a decade, then feels like she deserves a man. She is literally Nice Gal, Beta Bux Becky. Good news is that some dude with 4 babies from 5 different chicks is ready to settle down with her.
Her spelling and grammar skills tell me that she's built like a sack of potatoes tho.
Justanaverageguy 1y ago
She’s a supposed “doctor” and can’t even spell the word “girl”?
No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Obviously a DEI hire. Retards are people too, you know?
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
Yeah i don't know about this one, something tells me there is a layer of low quality above and beyond the baggage that comes with her being a doctor in an intimate relationship with a man
Edit: Man i really thought someone else would comment on her probable hypergamy from being a doctor. Oh well, spelling dogpile, let's go
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 1y ago
A woman being a doctor in itself is not necessarily an issue when it comes to relationships. However, there are many additional factors that must be accounted for when it comes to women doctors.
The first factor is the time commitment. Anyone who wants to become a doctor will need to devote a large chunk of their life studying and in residency before they get to officially become a medical doctor. These years will be occupied by much time where dating is going to be limited at best, though not impossible. And when that time is limited, it will mean that relationships will have to take a back seat to the pursuit of being a doctor. Unless you already have a firm relationship with an understanding partner, you are going to struggle to have any relationship. And those years a woman would spend becoming a doctor take place at the prime years that she has to attract and secure a man. So if she is unable to find a man before then, she is in the same boat of having to try and speedrun a relationship into marriage if she wants to have children of her own.
The second factor is hypergamy. Simply being a medical doctor of any kind will put you in the highest bracket of earners, and a woman doing so will find herself in the trap of finding very few men even up for her consideration. However, the men she wants will not have this limitation for themselves. They will be more likely to choose a woman who has more time for them while at the same time not applying any bonus points in attraction for a woman being a doctor. Unless this woman is able overcome this hypergamy trap and accept that most men that are available will be earning less than her, she will continue to remain alone.
Which brings me to a third factor, projection/not understanding what men want. This woman brings up that she is a doctor in her post, which I would infer to mean that she thinks this should give her status. In general, you may have a higher status if you are a doctor. But in the dating world, a woman who is a doctor does not have a higher status in the eyes of the opposite sex, unlike how it works for men in relation to women. For many men, a woman being a doctor in itself is neither an asset or a detriment. Though when considering the previous factors of time and hypergamny, it does in effect become a detriment. But this woman seems to assume it would be an asset, and that is a mistake many women make when they try and use the male playbook while not understanding why it works for men and not for women.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Hypergamy for professional women has to work a special way: The rare number of men who exceed her status/earnings must value her success otherwise she'll be out-competed by younger, prettier, more easy going women but... if he values female success then wouldn't he engage in hypergamy himself and want to marry a rich woman who pays his way?
He has to want a woman who earns just slightly less than himself while not minding that if she were to get promoted, or he was to suffer some economic setback, it would destabilize the relationship. I think the ideal income for such a woman is about 75% of his own.
Note also how she says "ask me out". She wants the man to pursue her, as a "prize". She brings masculine assets (income earner) without any relief for the man from his own burdens. He has to provide not only income/status, but also the relationship itself.
Of course, such women make all these demands into "assets" because they believe that the man they want should be that way hence for such a man, they're assets. In a way, they're a lot like the dual-mating single mothers thinking their needs for a bailout make them attractive.
Back in the 90's, I realized that I could play games with these women, particularly the corporate nuns, to perhaps reform them but the problem is they are so emotionally repugnant, aren't they? They're selfish, entitled, and either passive-aggressive or offensive. Insufferable. They're the ultimately fixer-upper project except that the men who can easily bag them have better options or the ones such as myself just weren't up for the challenge.
Pic889 1y ago
It's simple, really: there is this type of career woman who thinks her salary is entirely hers (aka for her spending sprees), so a man has to make more than her to keep up with her lifestyle and also have money left over to pay the bills and make mortgage payments and the like. And of course, the man should be happy with this arrangement because he lets him into her pussy once in a while. The idea other younger women exist out there is lost on her.
The lesson here is that just because a woman makes good money, don't assume she isn't looking for a wallet with legs.
Then there is this other kind of career woman who doesn't want to be on the wrong side of a divorce court settlement (like Adelle was for example), so she wants a man who makes at least as much as she. This of course means that the more she earns the smaller her pool of candidates gets.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
I used to think that way as well but look at all the empirical data that we've accumulated since then. We've heard evolutionary biologists tell us that women are as cold and rational as an accountant at picking a mate except...
Why are there so many single mothers out there stuck with the spawn of utter losers? I don't just mean handsome losers, but losers with utterly little going for them except one thing:
Being in the right place at the right time.
There's a key window-of-opportunity in modern dating between 17 years old to 20 years old when most young women are vulnerable to falling in love with the first guy who meets their simple shit tests (ask them out, buy them dinner, don't fart in the car while trying to make out with her.) These women are often otherwise nice women after these men have upped and gone, but who wants a single mother even if she otherwise would be a good wife?
The corporate nuns want "the boyfriend experience": Someone to make the ideal game approach, buy them a romantic "planned" date, entertain them like a clown at a kid's party, and do the deed. I slept with two corporate nuns that if I had played my cards right, I could have married women who earned 4X my income.
Here's a fun story: My wife has a friend who needed a green card marriage in 2 months. It would make a fun sitcom episode: She was, still is, DROP DEAD gorgeous and went out to discos looking for a candidate and found one: A guy with a smoking and drinking problem (can't hold a job) and he sired two girls with him and also got her citizenship. She tried for 10 years to make it work before giving up. If he could have just held a job and kept off the bottle, he'd have kept her.
Lucky bastard.
The next stage in RP will be returning chivalry to where it originated: Men romancing women who have huge tracts of land.
Broteine 1y ago
This is very observant. I feel like this is spot-on!
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
A female doctor is not successful at either.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Since young female nurses are turbo-sluts, I can only imagine what a female doctor in her 30's gets up to...
AbusiveFather1 1y ago
guys she could be the PhD in gender studies kind of doctor
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
True, though those tend to express way more venomous and exhaustive misandry when complaining about their relationship woes.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
@AbusiveFather1 @Overkill_Engine It took me months to find a decent general practitioner who knew what he's doing: A middle aged white guy. Nearly every time I see him, though, he has interns there he's letting observe and EVERY ONE has been a minority woman.
It's tough nowadays to find professionals who know their job and aren't super expensive or try to rip you off blind whether it's mechanics, plumbers, doctors, A/C repair and especially construction but even worse now due to DEI.
My friends in Eastern Europe say this reminds them of the former dysfunctional Soviet Union.