Just like the site says. Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

She wants to be seen as a prize while not being a prize. Classic.

Why exactly a man would consider himself lucky to meet a washed up specimen? The man has come this far without her. What makes her special now?

https://oslomgtow.wordpress.com/2018/11/09/the-guy-women-want/

I am turning 34 in a couple of months and I still write like an 11 year old. I have no idea about punctuation. Even a full stop is too much effort. Most people stop writing 'wanna' instead of 'want to' by the time they hit 13, but not me. I am a kidult. Please help.

Oh bullshit. Ain’t a woman on this earth that’s never had at least one guy who would drink puddle water she walked through. The problem is most of the time women don’t notice those guys or they know about them but are repulsed by them or they have some shortcoming that gives the woman the “ick”. As for those couple month relationships she’s talking about, those sound like she was a piece of ass to some chads for a couple months and she thought they were dating but they never were, hence the ghosting. Now she’s 34 and ruined and what she’ll do is meet one of those guys who fawns over her but she won’t give him any pussy at all hiding behind “muh sexual trauma from my past, muh intimacy issues, need to go slow, give me time”.

All I hear in this post is “wahhhhhhhhhhh”. Welcome to what life looks like for a huge swath of men. All of the best men at your age are either married, never interested in settling down, have been dragged through the coals by an equally ungrateful and egotistical woman and have no desire to do it again, or are interested in commitment, but with a woman at least 5 years younger than you (and probably more).

I went to Key West a few months ago and saw a 70+ year old amputee, holding hands with a woman who was straight up in her 20’s. Probably because that dude has lived a life worth living and has a bank account to show for it, and women of all ages think that’s attractive. But you don’t see the genders reverse for this, do you?

...whenever he sees me he thinks how lucky he is

If you want that, you have to actually be valuable to a man. You have no idea what a man wants, nor are you anywhere near the mark.

I really wanna be in a good relationship full of love happiness and care

All women do. Very few find one; it requires work, dedication, loyalty, respect, obedience, and humility. Only through considering the needs of your man above your own will you find real happiness. It is better to give than to receive.

I worked on myself

What exactly do women mean by this? You're on psych meds? Worthless feminine counseling?

Nobody at work or at gym

Both of these are male spaces your sex has invaded. You can whine and cry and get permission to join the boy's club, but you will never fit in, and the boys will just shun you and go find another male space (or create one if necessary). I have done exactly this because every man needs an exclusively male group/space he can be a part of, with zero female presence.

stay for a couple months and then ghost me

Then you weren't valuable to him. Maybe try figuring out why? Maybe try asking a man what he wants and then do it? The problem is you - either for picking the wrong man or not making yourself indispensable to him.

I am good inside outside

Only a bad person has to continually assert his goodness.

The dating marketplace is like any marketplace.

If someone isn't buying what you're offering, you need to...

1. lower the price
2. offer a higher level of service
3. communicate the value of what you're offering more effectively
4. approach a different target market

And usually, some combination of the above.

It doesn't matter how great you think you are if nobody is buying. Resources are always limited. If men aren't sticking around, it's because they believe they can get more value for their limited resources elsewhere.

"Nobody at work or at gym"

Dumbest thing I have heard all day. About ten years of PoundMeToo false accusations & opportunistic women complaining about being stared at at the gym. These places are where men have their guard up the most. Did she just crawl out from under a rock? These women have poisoned the well of modern dating & they don't have the self awareness to realize that you can't blame men for that.

She is un-ironically answering her own question in her opening sentence.

She says she has never met a man who thinks he is so lucky whenever he sees her.... and this is because why???

She says she has 'done the work'. But she clearly hasn't. Because men need a reason to feel lucky whenever they see a woman.

She seems to think existing will do the trick.

The time to make a guy feel lucky to have you is when you're 18-26. Then he will imprint your youth and beauty and forever see you that way. When you're 34 and have been practicing serial monogamy for 16 years, the only guy that will feel lucky to have you is a 34yr old autistic virgin.

I realize this isn't a full-on dating profile, so a lot of pertinent information is unavailable. But anytime a woman says she is a "great person" but says nothing about her beauty, my first thought is: Is she fat? If she's never met a man who thinks "how lucky he is" to be with her, maybe she's not worth bragging about.

i never met the one who whenever he sees me thinks how lucky he is

Because her version of "The One" (Alpha Bux) doesn't exist. The are PLENTY of men around her who would think how lucky they were if they had her. Unfortunately for her, they all give her "The Ick", and a long as she has her "standards" she will ALWAYS "never get lucky".

Fucking egotistical bitch, and she doesn't even know it.