Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
MelkorHimself
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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DextroShade 10mo ago
I bet she still only went after dudes who were over 6' and not fat. Why would a guy want to date someone who weighs more than they do? It's fucking disgusting.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
Fatty's like her really piss me off because unlike going bald, being short, having a big nose, being fat IS something you can fix, it just takes a lot of hard work and discipline which is why there is a stereotype of the fat being lazy because any mention of hard work and the tears dry right up. It is so much easier to cry and say"I CANT" and feel miserable then to actually put down the fork and start exercising.
I was driving and listening to this AM radio show a while ago and they had a caller that was crying because she was fat and cant get a man. The nutritionist on asked her if she owned athletic shoes? Of course. Then what is stopping you from walking out your front door right now and going for a walk for 30 minutes? The crying stopped immediately then it was "Um Um Um" until she hung up.
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
How dare you people make fun of this queen? (Fat queen)
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 10mo ago
What do you mean, "you people"?!
AlwaysStoic 10mo ago
"Very hot 36 y/o" was willing to be seen in public with this delusional whale, but, of course, it was all because of her 'confidence'. In womanese, 'confidence' implies being an insufferable cunt who argues with strangers in parties, for hours, about flimsy issues like equal pay or abortion.
Durek_The_Bald 10mo ago
I blame the previous generations of women for not teaching their daughters right. Telling comfortable lies to set their daughters up for failure and unhappiness. Shit parenting. How the fuck can she not know that being a fat, disgusting pig is going to hurt her chances of getting a man to her liking?
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
At this point, I consider the only sensible answer to be this:
"No girl, you're just perfect the way you are! Everyone is different, and everyone is special - you're just a different brand of awesome! Everyone deserves to be themselves and be loved! You just need to put yourself out there more, be more confident! You're prince charming is just around the corner! Guys like all shapes and sizes. Lots of guys prefer 'full figured' women! You're a real woman, not like those stick insects! The guys that rejected you are probably gay! Or childish and immature! Maybe you just intimidate men, because of your excessive awesomeness? That's it - men are sometimes frightened of women if they are too attractive! Don't change a thing girl, just be yourself!"
Please feel free to copy past this into the reply area of any / all of these land whales looking for validation. Because sometimes, the worst thing to get is what you want.
nicknack 10mo ago
If a man posted this I would just think its an obvious troll post, but a woman's delusion knows no boundary. They are so used to lying to everyone and themselves that she can somehow think she has any appeal whatsover at 270 pounds 39 years old.
She has the audacity to actually think she has a chance with a fit buff guy 5 years younger than her? How nuts. When I match with a 18/19 year old super model looking chick on IG I know there's a catch. Usually money. All bro is asking for is money and she doesn't even want to give that for some action.
At the end, how can she unironically ask if changing her weight will help her in dating? Well she's a woman, zero logic I guess. TBH Even if she lost 140 pounds like she needs to, she'd still be a "empowered" 39 year old hag. American men are desperate enough to take that type of woman but she'd still have to settle for a ~45 year old, which empowered women tend to not want nowadays.
Stoksks 10mo ago
If I'd have mouth full of meat balls, after that I would turn into a canon.
On a side. That is really miserable to be [assumingly] lied to, whole life. Men are lied to, women are lied to. At least men have better chance to turn things around. But even that not always. Women are ill tortoises put upside down, at youth. I'm disgusted by fat ugly tortoises on its back, but even more so by lies.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 10mo ago
For men, at least, we are lied to but it's also clear that the people and society that lies to us doesn't have concern for our well being. On the contrary, we are openly targeted if we express weakness or vulnerability to those asking us to "share your feelings". Our maturation process is much like the phrase "woke" that describes coming to the astonishing revelation that we need to question authority.
On the other hand, the greatest lie women are told, or "woke", is that the system that continually praises them and reminds them of how oppressed they are also feeds them tons of entitlement. "I'm rebelling against a system that encourages me to express how much I want!"
Liken this to those lab rat experiments that dispense cocaine drops everytime a lab rat rings a bell that says "I don't like cocaine!"
Justanaverageguy 10mo ago
Women- “you’re supposed to overlook and accept all of our flaws, while we nitpick and reject you for yours.”
nicknack 10mo ago
Not just that, we are supposed to cherish and value their flaws. They want a man who prefers and loves a "curvy woman". They want a man who cherishes and values her " life experience" at 39 years old. A man who looks for and wants liberal feminist opinions in their partner.
It's not enough that the man just bites their tongue and accepts her despite her flaws. He has to actively like what's flawed about her.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 10mo ago
It's like one of those control freak moms that not only punish their kid but try to gaslight them into liking the punishment.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 10mo ago
Her problem isn't just that she's old and fat.
She also has a very apparent issue with refusing to date on her level. Guarantee she turns her nose up at men 2" taller and 50 lbs lighter who don't have a bodybuilder physique.
Edit: Looked up a BMI calculator specifically meant for women.
https://www.omnicalculator.com/health/bmi-women
According to this, she is severely obese, so severely obese that 95% of the US population in her age category are lighter than her.
She is literally in the bottom 5%.
Jules 10mo ago
Ha, that's a fun calculator with additional (much needed) categories. I usually use https://www.nhlbi.nih.gov/health/educational/lose_wt/BMI/bmicalc.htm but it stops beyond BMI 30 (which is rookie numbers). I didn't even knew there was Super obese [Class V] and Hyper obese [Class VI], so if you consider that, she's still kind of a catch (as if)
nicknack 10mo ago
This is pretty much hardwired into all women. I mean, men are taller, stronger, smarter and much more mentally and emotionally stable than women are, so for all of evolution pretty much all women date up. It's just a matter of how greedy they are and just how much better than them they want. It seems the less greedy ones died out.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 10mo ago
Sure, but her level of delusion is objectively ludicrous.
Hopefully no one moped rides her well enough to get her pregnant before the last of her eggs finish dying. Male birth control can't come fast enough, women need to be subject to strong selection pressure for reproduction if the human race is to survive.
Jules 10mo ago
Chances are, it's gonna happen. When I go to/from work I constantly see women around her weight class with a bunch of kids in tow. Trying not to break rule 1, but men really, really need to stop banging those fat chicks.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
I couldn’t even get excited for one. I see a fat woman and I’m repulsed.
Pic889 10mo ago
The trick is to pull the pin on the fat grenade after the kid arrives. Pregnancy serves as a convenient excuse too. But the woman featured in OP's post did the exact opposite.
Jules 10mo ago
Wow, just... wow. I can't help but dissect this, savoring every sweet moment - you might say fatty tears are my gummiberry juice (there were several - ironically fat - feminists here in Germany who said male tears were theirs, so while I hate explaining jokes this is needed for context).
I have an idea why it might be difficult
The plot... thickens, bwahaha (Like... literally)
And he'd still be your catch of a lifetime. If you didn't eat him when you eventually got hungry, like you do every 10 minutes. And we all know that's going to happen.
I hope they still are well, and you didn't sit on them or something. Or induced a cardiac arrest
Run Forest, RUN!
And that guy deserves a medal for generosity and holding back! It's not about being in the same league, it is about playing the same sports, or even slightly similar sport. He is playing football, or actual football (some people call it soccer), while you play... tic tac toe? Certainly something where can sit on your lazy ass and stuff your face.
Yeah he was beneath you, Kween. Christ...
I'm imagining it right now. And I'm thinking of the 'scratched vinyl sound' while imagining it.
A medal for this guy as well. Not only did he not feel any attraction, I am betting his dick shrunk down and tried to recede into the safety of his abdomen. And when he got home, he showered for an hour, to get this dirty feeling off of him, unfortunately for him, it is on the inside.
What gave it away, Sherlock? And while you're asking for 'the harsh, honest truth' I am sure that's not what you want. So there you go: No Kween, you are a perfect little flower just as you are. Give it time, one day he will come and sweep you off your feet. Miliseconds before his back breaks under your frigging weight, ffs.
Phew that felt oddly relaxing. Feels good after a long day
MelkorHimself Mod 10mo ago
This post was a combination of The Big Question and Leftovers. The OP seems to understand that she only attracts subpar men because of her weight, but instead of accepting reality she has resorted to shaming the men she does meet whilst soliciting internet strangers for validation. One would think after 24 failed attempts and observing the same patterns that a light would click on. Evidently not.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 10mo ago
It's fucking amazing that she knows the truth but still is asking about it........ how can a 300 lb woman seriously ask if being 300 lb is a problem after she asks guys out and they tell her she's unattractive?
"Why can't these honest guys who tell me I'm too fat just be honest with me and tell me I'm too fat???"
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 10mo ago
It's quite simple actually
She is posting because she wants confirmation bias, or in this case disconfirmatory bias, rather than advice
She wishes her fat wasn't a problem, so she is hoping people just post "you go girl it's not you"
She doesn't want advice, she just wants people to confirm her preferred reality while expressing some legitimate self awareness that she can't shake
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 10mo ago
It's an interesting difference between men in this situation and women particularly since she's actually asking out men and getting direct feedback. A severely obese man who gets rejected would hear the harsh news he needs to lose weight and that sounds obvious to everyone here, but someone in that situation is probably overweight for a reason. Perhaps they've been that way all their life, they have self-esteem issues, and so on and it's certainly not something they chose. "Wow! I really like being obese!" It's easy for someone on the outside to point out the obvious but it's far more difficult to realize, even when it's achievable. She has to give up all the food she enjoys, engage in uncomfortable exercise for several hours a day, and know that it will be time before she can even hope to see improvement. Not only that, but modern women dislike the idea of doing things for men since "they are the table" and men exist in the universe to please them.
And that's perhaps why she asked if other women had done this because women are generally not pioneers. She doesn't want to change her whole life around and go through all that and... still not land the man she wants. It's not guaranteed and that's the situation us men have lived in for years where even if you do work out, and do everything right, it's still a crap shoot for us isn't it? She also can't do anything about her age just as short men can't do anything about their height meaning if she wants a man who wants kids, the top guys she may desire are going to set an age limit at about 28 or so.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 10mo ago
And yet noone forced that cake into that mouth.
At some point you have to hold people responsible for their decisions.
The problem is the societal lies....... "men like confident women!"..... it's easy to believe that shit if you're fat.
We do the same to men..... "women like confidence" and "women like money" and "women like a good provider". Usually thought it's men who are the gullible ones and usually the women see right through the lies. But not in this case.
True..... you just can't fight biology.
But would we be as sympathetic with a guy who is "50 and fat and poor, done nothing with my life, and I live in my car....... how can I be attractive to young hot rich supermodels?"
Let's not forget that she still wants a top 10% man. That "buff 36 year old" sounds like top 5% in looks. She thinks she deserves a top 10% guy who makes top 10% money....... while she's spent 39 years stuffing cake into her mouth without even bothering to walk to the cake shop.
It sucks that you reap what you sow, but that's life for everybody. You don't get to destroy your body eating pies with a side of delusion and then get a top 5% member of the opposite sex to commit to you.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 10mo ago
I want to clarify what I meant by "choice". As human beings, we make choices that have negative consequences and it's proper to hold us responsible for them, but it's important to clarify, if only to help understand our motivations, between a deliberate choices and an undeliberate one. On the flip side, choosing to lose weight will mean choosing to give up the food she loves. It will mean choosing to spend years engaged in uncomfortable exercise. It will mean giving up time she would prefer to do something else. It's unpleasant and making a choice to do something unpleasant for a long time, for an end goal, requires massive discipline to choose unpleasantness. It's tough. Of course we tell men to make the tough choice all the time and I'm not letter her off. I'm just pointing out how humans make this mistake. Most of us have problems at times sticking to our goals.
nicknack 10mo ago
Confidence does help men and women to a degree, but it’s not because the opposite sex finds it attractive or some blue pill shit like that. It’s because confidence gives you the chance to make things happen.
You have to be confident to put on those nice clothes and go out there and find her/him. You have to be confident to have a conversation with a stranger. You have to be confident to try. It’s not attractive, it’s just something you have to do.
Imagine for a moment you were teleported back to being 16, you’d probably smash half of your school because you’d keep trying for every girl over and over and they’d all bite after enough tries.
I know guys who aren’t conventionally that attractive but get laid a lot more than some shyer homebody better looking guys. The same applies to women if not more. There’s so many 5-6/10 that put themselves out there and get way more genuine male interest / relationships than the 10/10 who stays at home shy and nobody knows exists.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 10mo ago
I remember a friend of mine in college who asked out 100 women and got shot down by all of them. He was devastated. Aside from I think that particularly environment had hardened women (a high male:female ratio leading to the women being picky) but also, he probably started to make unconfident approaches guessing he was probably going to be shot down, he was getting emotionally hurt, and his approaches were probably awkward.
"Confidence" isn't just the approach in this context but also the appearance that all is going smoothly, that he expects her to say yes, that if she shit tests him he'll laugh because he has no fear and that he believes he has "abundance mentality". It's the difference between a car salesman who tells you need to buy this car now because it will be sold soon after and he sold a dozen cars today versus the nervous one who says you can come back anytime and he'll make whatever deal you like.
One thing that's neat about this woman's story is that she was able to make multiple approaches to the point of trying to close while for many men, just getting that initial conversation going can be a challenge.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 10mo ago
Confidence needs to be backed up by competence. You can be confident all you want, but if there is not a reason to be confident, then you only look foolish. For example, I can be extremely confident in my ability to bench press 300 lbs. But it will not do me a fat lot of good to be confident when it turns out that I could not handle that weight and the barbell crushes my chest. In that case, my confidence would be ill founded.
In context with the dating market, yes, being confident will allow you to make a move and give you a greater chance of success than if you never even try. But when someone sees you acting confident, they are going to try and look for the reason why someone is confident. When you have someone like the woman in the story, her confidence will be of no help because the men she approaches will not see a reason for her to be confident nor give any credit to her confidence. They will see that she is fat and they will understandably not have any interest. Her obesity makes her confidence ill founded.
If you are acting confidently and someone asks why you are confident, you better have a good reason to give.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
The guy trying to get money out of her was actually the closest to modern women. They expect to be treated to a nice meal and lavish gifts on the basis of their gender alone.
The fatty is not just coming to realize what rejection is like, but extortion. Ironically, she'd make a better wife than a lot of women simply by understanding men better. She's nowhere near a unicorn, but then the bar is pretty low right now.
And btw, in the real world your weight in pounds is inversely proportional to the quality of man you are going to get.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 10mo ago
Yeah, I was struck by that one too. I mean, gold digging is a time-honored tradition for women. Lots of hot chicks expect to be "taken care of" by a wealthy man in exchange for giving that man access to their body. And most women, even feminist, don't have a problem with that, if not outright encourage it. What's more, guys understand this: if you're not desirable enough to attract a hot chick who also pulls a decent paycheck and isn't looking for a bailout, then you better be willing to pay for a trophy wife.
Here you have a hot 36 year old who's looking for a bailout, and seems willing to give this old, fat woman a chance as long as she pays his bills. Why doesn't she take the offer? After all, lots of men do.
RedPill115 10mo ago
It's classic red pill theory, her brain knows on some level that pair bonding and low n-count is the only thing she has to offer for a guy long term.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
In a few years 50% of women over 35 will be unmarried and childless. Millions and millions of lonely Karens.
If I was an entrepreneur, I'd start a business where you "rented a man" for a day, just like a prostitute but instead of sex the guy would pretend to be devoted to her. Fat/ugly chicks could rent a man to bring to a party to show off what she could land to the other girls. She could whine and rant and manipulate and nag him all day (extra fees apply).
You could rent the "drug dealer" package or the "upstanding nice young man" or the "successful arrogant CEO".
To the guy who does start that business, remember who gave you the idea when you're rolling in dough :) Because as the scales tip women will be glad to trade their money for even the illusion of a relationship.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 10mo ago
Already happening, at least in Japan: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPhr6N-c8as
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QS2QdRaW3Qs
Also, sex tourism by women is booming in places like Jamaica, Africa, and Bali. Where (generally) old, ugly women unable to have a relationship in their Western country go to impoverished countries and pay poor men to pretend to have relationships with them.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
This is so messed up. I take back everything I said, and my considerable investment capital. They weren't supposed to actually do it, the bastards.
Pic889 10mo ago
Is there any reliable source for the "50% of women over 35 will be unmarried and childless" claim? Asking so I can post it around in other places.
Red_EE 10mo ago
Here is a study done by Morgan Stanley. They probably wanted some market research in order to determine what they should invest in.
https://www.morganstanley.com/ideas/womens-impact-on-the-economy
Mundane_Worldliness7 Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
She is an older version of a psychotic / bullying chick who first shows up in middle school. Said women remain and become bolder with age. I’ve been harassed and fondled (re: by the definition that most women use: assaulted) by such women. As vulgar as they are, the whole thing is simple: they could easily get a man if they picked from those available, instead because maybe once a drugged out / drunk Tyrone or Chad fucked them, they get focused on having a relationship with such a person.
ObliviousDuck Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
And here is another example of a woman who's been told by feminism that what they like about a man should also be what men like about them.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 10mo ago
It's also the rationalization that women use to justify their shallowness: They'll say they want a man whose "confident" and awkward handsome/wealthy men who approach are "confident" while non-handsome/poor men are "creepy" even if they say the exact same things.
To her credit, she's putting in some actual work and not just hitting the dating apps or waiting for men to approach AND she appears to be talking this out: "does losing weight help?" Well, that's like asking men if having nice cars and expensive clothes helps. Unlike short men, she can hit the gym and work out but it will be an arduous journey that will take 2 years at least and at 40 something she's not getting any younger.
This ties into my contention that there are (few) incels or even inspins but rather people who just haven't utilized all their options. The question is whether a woman defines a relationship around her laziness (the sleeping beauty fairytale) hence personal effort is anathema to them.
No-Stress-Cat 10mo ago
By at least a few laps around her.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
Only needed the first paragraph: yes, the biggest problem is your weight. And it’s probably around your age where morbid obesity can really start to wreak havoc on your health. Probably need to lose another 100 lbs just to fix that.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
Bruh! I'm hitting that age and my gym time is a godsend. Everyone else is on obesity treatments. Whether it's crushed knees or meds, very sad. I'm hitting Machu Picchu in 2026. Brutal stair climbing at high altitude. I'll be 51. #killingitinoldage
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
Absolutely. I’d love to do that in the future. And I’m already 37. The extra ice cream isn’t worth it.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
OK, you're invited. We'll probably have to spend a week at the base adjusting to the altitude and it takes a lot of planning and reserving way in advance and there's no guarantee it will be open. Not too long ago there was a worker strike that shut it down... That's why I'm saying 2026.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 10mo ago
I don't imagine that the obesity treatments work all that well or are doing anything other than trying to either manage the symptoms of the obesity or try and short circuit the process that is keeping these people fat. Would I be correct? My guess is that they are still obese even after the treatments. The thing about treating obesity is that it actually does not cost money. In fact it saves money. But it costs discipline and commitment to treat. And many people cannot overcome this. So it is no surprise they go the "easy" route of treatments.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
Yeah it's not actually treating the obesity. It's stuff like meds for high blood pressure, surgery for crushed spinal discs and knees, darth vader breathing apparatus because your fat crushes your chest when you lie flat, diabetes medication, etc.
OPPTRP 10mo ago
She never clarified if she is eating the 24 men?
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
I would never ever consider dating a 300lb woman. I see them at walmart all the time. They have a butt in their front FUPA area. I saw one at goodwill and she couldn't even sustain her own weight so she had to lay on the shelf/conveyor while going through clothing. It takes me a full hour standing on cement to get sore knees at my weight and then it's just a simple stretch to continue. If one of these land whales asked me out I'd politely decline, just like the 24 men she asked out.
ZZoMBiE13 10mo ago
I've said it for years, but I'll say it again. Want to know the difference between a man who is a 4/10 and a woman who is a 4/10? The man KNOWS he is a 4/10 and adapts. The woman just hears the "10" part and thinks she deserves Jeff Bezos money with Brad Pitt looks (or whomever the hoes think is hot now, I'm old. Shut up).
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 10mo ago
Oh, where to I even begin?
I guess next time try a dead one? At least he won't be able to run away.
Oh, so you do know. That's already good. But have you tried other fat men? No? So you'd probably consider a dead man before a fat one? How quaint.
Yes. Yes, you do.
Well, you've put it better than I could. His face went 180 from happy, pleasant to trapped animal about to be shot. Honesly, you have a way with words. If only you had a way with treadmills too, you'd probably be married by now.
nicknack 10mo ago
I know a lot of american women who starve /workout themselves skinny to get a fiance and pull the fat grenade pin right after the wedding. I'll at least give her credit for being upfront about what youre gonna get, a delusional fatass.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 10mo ago
LMAO!
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 10mo ago
If I wanted to date a linebacker I would go gay and mill around NFL or NCAA training grounds.
Don't get me wrong, I'd still get rejected by them, but I'm just saying, if I wanted a linebacker I'd go for a linebacker
Lose weight woman
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 10mo ago
She's more like an offensive lineman.
I'm sure the odors emanating from he voluminous folds are quite offensive.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 10mo ago
Short answer: yes. Long answer, it certainly is not helping and will lower her chances of success, but also yes too.
Being obese tells you a lot of things about you; namely that you lack discipline, impulse control, the ability to delay gratification, and that you are lazy. You don't get to that weight through accident or through "genetics." It is a series of poor decisions and bad habits that cause that result. And if you are a man who wants a family, you do not want a woman who will be a bad influence on her children and likely pass on the same bad habits to them.
Not to mention that it is indeed unattractive. The reason for that is not arbitrary, but rather because it is an indicator of poor health.
I can see her attempt to get around this by appealing to the idea that her confidence can carry her through the issue of her obesity. No, no it will not. Confidence without competence just makes you look like a fool. The reason confidence would ever be attractive is that it comes with the implication of competence. Once it is revealed that the confidence has no basis or reason backing it, you simply look delusional.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 10mo ago
Yes-huh! Check this out!