Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
kevin32
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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MidgetSpinner 10mo ago
Girls love their fucking lists of quirky TikTok-diagnosed disorders. So unique and special.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
Until I started watching this one channel where the dude makes fun of stupid stuff chicks post on TikTok, I wouldn't have known. But damn, every single one has some kind of fucked-up bullshit that they copy from each other.
redpillschool Everybody tag him 10mo ago
Never fuck around with borderline. NEVER.
Don't think you're the one guy who will escape alive.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 10mo ago
I met a biological clock ticker on a dating app after she had stood me up twice. I beat the shit tests and bedded her and when we had an argument after church (about 2 weeks total of dating), she lit up a cigarette, grabbed some vodka and fessed up she was BPD. She also stated she wanted to have a family ASAP but I should pay for a $10,000 diamond ring (that exact amount) and let her "sacrifice" her career to stay at home ,at my expense.
I ran for the hills.
(Ok, my apartment). I switched my phone to send directly to voicemail and hid. She left drunken messages threatening to kill my cat and slash my tires. When she sobered up, she had someone call me to ask to not put her in jail but I said she had to leave me alone and that was that.
Mundane_Worldliness7 Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
Yep, crazy pussy is to be avoided at all costs. No matter how beautiful, you are better off at home alone, with your video games and liquor. See the signs, notice them and walk away, no matter how long you’ve been in a dry spell.
No-Stress-Cat 10mo ago
I can confirm this. I barely made it out with my head still attached to my shoulders. I wonder what ever happened to the guy she ran off with, or if they ever found his body.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
I'm still proud that I passed on such a specimen years back. She honestly walked up and was like "you, me and some booze at your place". I knew better, and sure, who doesn't want to fuck -- but I knew she'd be some stalking stab-you-in-the-night kind of bitch if I did.
She didn't approach me because I was super special, she just did that because I was there. And I knew that, too. If it had been anyone else, sure, they get the offer.
Shudder
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 10mo ago
Yup. Just like how women don't have an actual magical pussy that will convince Chad to settle down and become a stable family man by itself, there is no man with a dick that can cure insanity. Best not to even try.
Justanaverageguy 10mo ago
Why do so many women have BPD these days? I swear it’s like 40% of women.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
It's a short term mating strategy designed for times of scarce resources. I suppose Chad is the resource.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
She is advertising for a Prince Charming white-knight. A man that will save her from herself and all the baggage that comes with her. Her post is suppose to flip all your protector instincts on and save this beautiful damsel in distress.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 10mo ago
Women have a lower bar to reproduction than men. Defective men get filtered faster by society and nature.
HateGuard 10mo ago
There was discussion here that evolution is random and then patterns emerge from this random evolutionary changes that will fit current conditions.
There is more BPD, because our world evolves this way that there can be more BPD. Woman with BPD in 50's would be left on her own or put in place by force [not necessarily by brut force]. If still she wouldn't be good enough she would end up alone eventually without children. All in all evolution to accommodate BPD was supressed, even if above is not very accurate.
Today you can be helicopter and if you get 1000 helicopters like you, you can start movement and require to be called helicopter in documents and have rotor attached to your ass at state cost. If state makes problems, you can invade USA and some people that identify themselves as tanks and F-22s will join you.
All rainbows are getting recognition. In 20y BPD might be something that will be required to be respected under penalty.
Stat doesn't care. State is like huuuge company, and every huge company is there to look after share price, poll results, hold on to the positions they have - in short term.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 10mo ago
Go back to #9: mommy issues. I'm no psychologist/psychiatrist, but I bet my left nut that half of bordies (since they don't like to be called borderline) have a dysfunctional relationship with their mothers. (edit: I just reread, and she mentions bipolar, not borderline - but I'm pretty sure she's both)
My psychologist sister-in-law was once commenting on a case (broadly, nothing unethical) about how a mother was smothering her daughter - the kid wanted to grow up, the mother didn't want to lose her baby -, and how this was creating a lot of issues. I mentioned that this girl would become a bordie, and she said it was already on the making.
Zephyr 10mo ago
Bipolar is the "acceptable" disorder they come up with themselves. She screams BPD all the way.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
Yeah, we talk about son husbands a lot, but single moms can damage their daughters, too. Especially in this era of declining family size; children might be the only link to the outside world that these women have from a social sense. So they basically turn their daughters into emotional servants, just like they would with a son if given the option. It’s a scary thought for a woman to have no one around as they age.
HateGuard 10mo ago
I would extend this to moms which are ruling in marriage and dude is less than background.
I have seen that pic of my ex, either BPD or CoodependentPD. My ex was on a trip with mom and her 40something old nevermarried sister. Sisters hanging on mother smiling-like and mom in the middle, crossed arms on the table in front of her, taking plenty of space - keeping it wide, face like she was one of the unhappiest weight lifters in the world - yes huge woman.
She had only 2 pics of her father, one of them was smiling dude cuddling some animal in chair. Other irrelevant.
Only brother, moved out and noone know where he lives.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
Yeah, have to love women with main character syndrome. I talked on here once about the movie “Encanto” and how pretty much every male character but one was completely insignificant. It wasn’t a “woke” film unlike others from Disney, but it was definitely female dominated. It’s a summary of what deluded women think; men add their sperm deposit, and then get out of the way for the women to be in charge.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 10mo ago
Caveat, I knew this one girl with borderline personality disorder who, for some reason beyond me, seemed more well-adjusted and better quality than the majority of women I've ever banged.
I never was more than just a friend with her but I watched her go through a relationship with a guy and to my knowledge she never dicked him over or anything. They even stayed friends.
I get the feeling there was some kind of catch for her to be that composed, but I have never seen a BPD have her shit in order before. She was the unicorn of BPD's
It made absolutely no sense to me. I don't understand it, her personality was consistently always pleasant too. Shit made zero sense
that being said though, shouldn't fuck with BPD's in general I'm not endorsing giving one a chance
Edit: possible was misdiagnosed. She had it way too put together
Zephyr 10mo ago
BPD is a disorder that can only be diagnosed by a clinical observation and history of someone displaying a range of specific dysfunctional behaviors. If they don't display these behaviors, they don't have BPD. If they can control it they don't have BPD. The inability to stop these behaviors is what makes it BPD.
Every discussion on BPD is pestered by the unicorn BPD that for some reason do not display a single characteristic of BPD. It is simply not possible.
"Well, you see, I'm diagnosed with a festering, oozing pus filled sore on my arm. But, unlike everyone else diagnosed with a festering, oozing, pus filled sore on my arm, I do not actually have a festering oozing pus filled sore on my arm" Not the best example, but what I came up with now. See how that doesn't work?
HateGuard 10mo ago
She might have had BPD and then not, but not having it when behaving reasonably. I was reading there is tiny percentage of grls controlling it after therpies and some of them don't replapse. But studies were self reported if I remember correctly and results were based on that someone did improve if could keep 1 friend for x time period [also self reported].
Other options [except already being said], she was diagnosed by her top alpha and repeats after him, she can be in the making or have some symptoms.. I can't figure out that one gf I had had it or was co-dependent. Although she was pain and red flagged she never was massively dangerous [altho she knew I protect myself with CCTV and such].
I met one real BPD and skipped her right away, you could not, not see red flags right away. Story was similar to the one above, she approached me and was ready to go.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 10mo ago
Yeah whoever diagnosed her really may have misleabled her experience, or she was genuinely an extremely rare case of BPD.
I mean I have bipolar disorder and most people would never be able to tell.
It's possible but unlikely she had BPD. I really don't know. I fucked a real BPD so I have had one before. I'm fully willing to accept a misdiagnosis in this case. She was way too composed
redpillschool Everybody tag him 10mo ago
Doesn't sound like BPD to me.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
I have to agree.
BPD chicks will flip their shit if you go off ''plan" for anything. Have to stay at work late? She's already imagining you fucking her best friend. It doesn't matter if that is true or not, she's just got a whole other universe of bullshit between her ears that usually ends up with someone bleeding.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 10mo ago
It was bizzare. She said she splittedbband was clinically diagnosed
Entirely possible her diagnoser was garbage and mislabeled her
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 10mo ago
I asked her if she was sure she had it and she insisted she did
Perhaps she didn't, I'm entirely willing to entertain that hypothesis
Zephyr 10mo ago
She didn't. She only wanted to sound edgy I suspect. Or have some excuse for something shitty she might do if the fancy took her.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 10mo ago
The trick is they still want that even if they are fucked in the head too.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 10mo ago
Holy fuck.
If I played my WAATGM drinking game on this one, I'd have to get my stomach pumped.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 10mo ago
I don't know if you'd even make it to the hospital to get pumped, you'd have to play it with beer shots to survive
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 10mo ago
Whiskey bottle is staying firmly on the shelf for this one.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
Wow, she'd make a great wife and mother.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 10mo ago
This is certainly an easy bullet to dodge, as it is moving at walking speed while being lit up by rave lights. You don't get much more obvious about how bad of an idea it would be to pursue such a woman when she straight up provides such a list without a hint of irony. Not that you would need her to outright state all of this to figure out that it would be a bad decision, as she would most certainly show multiple signs of these issues right of the bat.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
I would bet the farm that she fucks like a demon. For all those that say "Don't Stick Your Dick In Crazy," we also know that "crazy" girls are also some of the best sex you will ever have. The kind of sex you get from crazy will make you ignore red flags and cloud your judgement. It's unfortunate but true. Along with the best sports, porn fucking you will ever have, the baggage and emotional rollercoaster she will put you through will make you contemplate eating the dangerous end of a barrel.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 10mo ago
...fail to realize that it means "do not engage in heterosexual sex"!
HateGuard 10mo ago
Difference is you will get it instantly.
There is enough dudes that had vanilla girls with crazy shit going behind closed doors but not right away [inc me].
Redpillpusher 10mo ago
These are the females that you give a fake nickname and burner phone number to and never take home before you smash. Preferably you are from out of town visiting when you smash
Pic889 10mo ago
Again, this displays how modern women have a distorted view of relationships: "I can list multiple red flags and men will still try to date me and have sex with me, and since men owe women commitment and won't shop around for better women than me (that's what romcoms told me, I am the main character after all), I can be a total trainwreck and I'll still find a man to commit to me and put a baby in me". In other words, they think that sex is the hard part and commitment is the easy part (again, that's what romcoms told them).
The 2020s will be the decade of the inspin: All those strong independent (and entitled) millennial and early-Gen-Z women hitting their late 30s or early 40s and realising they were never close to achieving a committed relationship, while at the same time their pool of suitors is drying up completely. Be on the lookout for the inevitable attempt to guilt-trip single men over 30.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
Ain't no b in her bpd
Zephyr 10mo ago
Might be a B and an A and a N or even a H. Hell, she might have the full DSM-5 Cluster-B bingo card filled.