Wasted her 20's on men that would not commit (by her own admission), and is big mad that men in their 30's see no need to commit to a woman that did that.

Her entire cope and seethe is predicated on the assumption that men have nothing better to do with their lives than to comply with her chosen life plan and to hork like retarded seals upon her command.

@Clearview, for future reference these women can be flaired Epiphany Phase since her focus is on how her dating life has changed being older than younger.

Her observation reminds me of how I, as a "seasoned citizen", realized in my 40's how employers took advantage of my "work ethic" I had been raised with to exploit me such as not recognizing the extra value of things I did for the company that weren't on the job description. I learned a valuable lesson on office politics which was that I wasn't being paid to bring value to the company, but rather for the PERCEPTION of value my boss thought I was providing to him. So even though my field has rampant age discrimination and I refuse to put up with unnecessary nonsense, I was able to offset that by figuring out their game.

As this woman aged, she has more demands but she hasn't increased her own value or even the perception of such (see above.) Despite being self-centered, she has little awareness of how she is perceived by the men she desires (or more accurately, the men who have status, money, etc. she desires.) Also, it doesn't occur to her that these men may have figured out what makes her tick. As we grow old, we have a choice in that we can also "grow" as well.

Did everyone notice how she framed hitting the wall as something positive?

To her, it apparently means she can be MORE choosy as she has the requisite life experience (ahem…notch count) to see through Chad’s pump and dump strategy.

What many women fail to understand is that it isn’t just your beauty that fades with time, it’s your optimism, femininity, and relative purity that escape with each thrust of Chad and Tyrone’s cock at 2:30AM. Nobody wants to try and pursue an alpha widow or a jaded whore with 20+ former partners, or raise someone else’s kids.

The game is so easy for women. Just select one of the millions of high quality options in your early/mid 20s that are literally throwing themselves at your feet and treat him well. Women can’t even do that. The allure of the cock carousel must be feminist catnip.

Only a woman could say "hit the wall" and then try to make it out as if they've magically crossed a threshold where they don't take any crap.

No, you "hit the wall" for real, and your value is declining. Cope, seethe, whatever - your replacement has perky tits and an ass that won't quit.

She admits that she spent her 20s "entertaining" men who had no desire to commit. The THOT-to-English translation is that she was bed-hopping with men she found attractive. It's possible that if one of her f-buddies had offered commitment she might have taken it, but guys like that don't have to marry girls like her to get them to spread their legs. She's attractive enough that she could have gotten commitment from a HVM if she'd been looking for that and been willing to offer what wife-grade women offer.

Just yesterday in another thread I noted that as men who were previously overlooked come to the attention of women at the Epiphany Stage (like this woman), unless they're already red-pilled they're likely to interpret their sudden desirability as an indication that it's their turn to be a pony on the carousel. After a decade or two of getting scraps, they're suddenly getting love-bombed by multiple women.

When they're being treated like the Chads were being treated in their 20s, why would they act any differently when they are presented with the same variety of options in their 30s? It's not like those same women were demanding commitment as a prerequisite for sex before... why should a man with options commit to any one woman when he finally gets to take a few spins on the carousel himself... especially since there are plenty of women willing to compete for him in the only way they've ever known?

He's a pony on the carousel now... the fact that one woman wants to turn him into a plowhorse is of no concern when other riders are lining up. The fact that they're just trying to lasso him as a plowhorse is irrelevant... the motivations of the women throwing the V at him don't much matter as long as multiple women are doing it.

We often tell men that they can't turn a whore into a housewife, but nobody wants to tell women that they can't turn a carousel pony into a plowhorse.

Women often frame this as arrested development among men who don't offer commitment to Epiphany Stage women ("I grew up... why don't men grow up, too?"), but they fail to realize that their dual-mating strategy targets different groups of men. The men being pursued for commitment now are not the same men they were pursuing for tingles then. Quite the contrary, in fact: the men who are sought-after in their 30s are new to being chased. They weren't participants who might have "grown out" of their desire to party - they were observers who were never invited to the party in the first place.

After standing in the rain for 10-15 years they're finally being allowed to enter the rave, and as soon as they get to the dance floor some slut who's worn out from dancing with 50 guys wants him to take her home so she can get some sleep.

Nope.

Notice how quickly she deployed the SIGN language (hair line comment). Instead of taking accountability for her lack of poor planning, she projected her failures onto men.

I love the maturity and the consciousness that I have now

What consciousness? You gave yourself away when you said you

don’t take shit

And used the example of a man saying he’s “not ready for a relationship right now”, and proceeded to shame men for their hairline. Translation: the men who are telling you that don’t look as good as the men who used to tell you that. Guarantee you’d be a lot more tolerant if one of the guys you used to deal with dropped the “I don’t want a relationship right now” line. But hey, these current men only give you value if they offer relationship, so you’re clearly ready to run through those just like you used to do so.

Also, you give yourself away by using that as your example. It wasn’t a problem if a dude didn’t want a relationship when you were 21, because he was hot and you could also potentially find another man who would at any time. But now you’re 30, and you NEED that security. You need the strength and breadwinning capacity and stability of a man. Hence why you’re so quick to go from man to man and make yourself perpetually available for “love”. I used to see these women all of the time on apps like match.com. Perpetually on there, looking for a guy who is willing to move fast. Because at 30, doing the “5 year plan” with a man could easily end in him telling you to hit the road when you’re 34.