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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / $ Bailout $

Where have all the decent men gone?
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NewReligionOfSociology

Posted 2y ago in $ Bailout $ - Permalink - Locked - 3.2K Views



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itsandrewbuck 2y ago

Looks - Solid 8.5 Age - 8. Not immature, not too old, almost ideal point to start a family. Career - Solid 8. Interests - 8. Not unusual, but nothing all that interesting. Relationship goal - 8. Everyone says they want a relationship, maybe she's sincere. Intelligence/common sense - 2. Either she was totally dumb or irrationally smitten with a former f-boy to take on his spawn. Kids - (record scratch) - Want? Meh. Have? Ick. Using it in the picture? HARD NO. Zero here.

Overall score: 4.3. I gave more weight on the Chad's spawn criteria. It would have been even lower if I counted her zodiac sign in. Every Sagittarius chick I've dated has been an unmitigated disaster.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Yeah. I mean if you edit the face out, that’s okay. But just posting the face is a no go. Even for infants who all kind of look alike.

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maseboogie Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Fed up of boys and the their silly little games

Which is hilariously ironic since you tried to play the most diabolical game with a guy and failed: BABY TRAPPING

Now you're out here screaming the WAATGM battle cry since you have Chad's offspring in tow and you're deep in the "fun" category and not the "happily ever after" one. And even if she does find a guy to settle down with, those "street tingles" will forever guide her back to the Chads/Tyrones.

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Jeez I dunno. Anyway I gotta go fuck my wife and hang out with my boys. Bye Felicia!

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dongking 2y ago

Here we are! I'm ready. Finally I can spend my hard earned money, time and energy on Chads sperm. Sign me up!

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Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

She is a pretty girl...BUT being a single mother just cut her relationship market value in half. The Chads she could of have leveraged her looks into a commitment just evaporated. She is now a pump and dump to them. As for the beta bux, half are going to be leery to give up their hard earned resources to a ready made family and to a kid that isnt theirs.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

My general rule of thumb for how the general population of men value women can be summarized with the formula:

RMV = attractiveness in looks - (3 * has kids + max(floor((age-20)/10,0)).

So look at this girl. Wow! So pretty. She may even be a 9 in looks (and if you’re into the WASPy, conservative looking upper to upper middle class look, maybe she’s even your representation of a 10). These assessments may be a tad generous, but let’s go with it.

But, she has a kid. So subtract 3. She’s a 6-7 now. She’s still going to get suitors, but they’ve gone from the tall, athletic, confident, moral, economically prosperous men that a parent would dream their daughter married to decent men who may have a clear struggle. Or, of course, guys who look like the former dudes but are serial F boys or have qualities that repel women. So she’s now complaining because she used to get the guys who look like a 90’s A&F male model that make good money and want marriage/family, and now she’s getting the dorky guys or f boys that see single moms as easy targets.

And this model evolves. Say in 5 years, a little beauty leaves her face. So she’s down to an 8 in looks. Now she still gets her 3 point penalty for the kid, but max(floor((31-20)/10),0) is now 1! Because she’s in her 30’s. So she’s a 4. At 41, she has the kid and is maybe down to a 7 in physical looks. So now, she’s a 2. So if she thinks it’s bad now, wait until dudes start seeing her as a sport bang only.

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ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 2y ago

ROFL. This is up there with the hot/crazy scale!

Honestly, here were my thoughts as I read this profile, sort of like those 0-10 dials that people use to register how much they like a show as they watch, except between 10 (marriage material) 5 (sport bang) 0 (would not even bang)

  1. Age 26 -> 10 (perfect age; not immature like an 18 year old, not old and jaded like a 30 year old)
  2. Looks -> 10 (Hot, some heavy makeup but still probably a looker without it)
  3. Schoolteacher -> 9 (they can be crazy, but hey, she didn't waste 10 years of her life pursuing a worthless PhD, and she's stable enough to hold down a job)
  4. "Fed up with..." description -> 8 (she's been dicked down by lots of f-boys, but these days, good luck finding one who hasn't been. At least she has #1-3 in her favor).
  5. Basic info: Social drinker, doesn't smoke, wants a relationship -> 8.5
  6. My interests: -> 8.5/9 (seems normal, no weird shit like Wiccan forest dancing)
  7. Come to the final picture. SCREEECH... hold up. Go back to Basic Info because maybe it's her niece or something? No such luck. "Have and want more". -> hard 5.

Yeah, right up until that last tidbit she definitely had high MMV. But that single fact drops her down to sport bang only, and even that fade away as her looks do.

Her other problem is that she's already a single mother at 26. Guys her age, even ones who aren't top tier and realize they'll need to sacrifice something to get a wife, many of them aren't ready to be Dads yet. So if they have to sacrifice, they'll sacrifice on looks or something else to get someone who doesn't instantly force them to be a father. Which means her real husband pool is basically a decent but boring man in his thirties, with a few flaws of his own.

The 25-35 year old top tier guys who were courting her left and right before she had her baby have completely fled, and even the 25-30 year old second tier guys she used to keep in her friendzone have left because they don't want to be a dad just yet. Leaving either guys you really don't want raising your child, or much older (still not top tier) guys. No wonder she's wondering where all the good guys have gone!

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Absolutely. You can probably replace attractiveness in looks with a general attractiveness sentiment. Like if she smokes weed and drinks too often, maybe that itself subtracts 2-3 points.

But yeah, given everything, I’d put this girl in 6-7 range. At least your kids will have some good genetics on mom’s side with her. But she kind of has to start at an 8 to be in the potential wife zone. So having a kid means that chance is already gone. Unless she’s willing to accept less from her long term SO

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Pic889 2y ago

There should be a Nobel prize for this kind of breakthrough discoveries. Excellent work, sir!

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GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Please post a theoretical projection graph so I can laugh my ass off.

Nicely done, sir.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2y ago

5 point score!

1 point: The title of this forum in her profile. 2 points: Shaming men as boys dehumanizing them and driving away any good men. 3 points: Exposing her own child on a dating app while deriding boys as "game players" 4 points: She's a primary school teacher in charge of raising, and nurturing "boys". 5 points: "positivity interest" while expressing dismay at a world full of boys as she works with boys.

This woman reminds me of the essay "The most responsible teenager in the house". She looks after children as a profession but she's still mentally a child herself unaware of her own intellectual contradictions and paradoxes.

It boggles the mind, doesn't it, that such immature people are in charge of raising children. Perhaps it helps that they're at a similar emotional level?

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Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

When you are only suitable for recreational use, games is all you are going to get!

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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Sagittarius. Skankiest whores of all the zodiac signs. Real freaks in the sheets.

Sorry, sweetcheeks...you gave up your chance at decent men when you dropped a goblin.

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

The decent men are:

  1. With their wives
  2. Not interested in tending to your fuck trophy

Sorry dollface, by procreating with a man you aren't married to you made yourself recreational use only.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

I’d be interested in her story.

Did this child happen in the context of a relationship? If yes, who left who? If her, why did you leave him? If him, why did he leave her? If we want to make a massive stretch in the estimate, maybe 5% of single moms can answer these questions in a satisfactory way. I’d mostly expect to hear it came from some FWB that she dumped because he was a “loser” (obviously not too loserish since she let him fill her up like a Boston crème pie donut).

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Even in the very best scenario (child came from marriage and she's a widow) her profile says "I've been on the carousel for a long time and now I need a way off."

But given her age, I know that this isn't the case.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

It’s more just for science. Like this girl has the looks part down, she doesn’t seem insane. Some teachers are train wrecks, but generally that’s a favorable profession for your girl to have (more nurturing, less competitive). So, what went wrong?

It reminds me of my girl’s cousin. 23, pretty, makes decent money in a non-competitive kind of job. But she’s about to give birth with her boyfriend (not husband, boyfriend). I get along with this girl’s mom well, but ultimately she got knocked up at around her daughter’s current age by one man, had two more kids with another man, and is now married to a third man. So, that’s a lot of bad influence on her, and I wouldn’t be shocked if she’s dating again in a few years. Problem for her would be that zoomer dudes are way less forgiving of women with kids than Gen X guys, so I can envision this kind of stuff in the future. As my mom sarcastically calls it, a “pre-made” family (I used to be kind of BP and was okay with dating SM’s. My mom was not excited by the idea of me taking care of some other dude’s family).

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

You typed a lot, but I heard "carried before married" and I tossed her in the waste bin.

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