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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Single Mom Tears

"Dating sucks as a single mom! Waah!" "It sure does! Waah!"
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Typo-MAGAshiv

Posted 2y ago in Single Mom Tears - Permalink - Locked - 12.7K Views



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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Yeah when I was her age I wasn't looking to wife up a single mother. I was sleeping with one but didn't wife her up. Didn't do shit for her kids. Just cum in her and leave. So that means she's going to have to go for older guys who have finished college and are making decent money. When I finished college and was making decent money the only women who wanted to be a wife and mother were either desperate post-wall "strong, independent women", single mothers looking for a bailout, or foreigners.

This is what happens when you tell women they don't need no man. They become the men they wanted to marry, get knocked up, and then post on reddit.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

For some women, going older isn’t a problem. For most, I think they’d be repulsed by being with a man 15+ years their senior. At least when they’re that young.

That would be a catch for these girls, but they’re all wanting the man with top 10% looks and his life in order at, like, 25.

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Yeah that's why I just gave up on Western women all together. I got zero play in my 20s when I was a starving college student and had to bang cougars, ex-prostitutes, single moms, etc. Finally in my 30s they come to me all used up with a long list of demands and were insufferable cunts. Or else they were cougars and I already banged them all, haha. So that leaves foreign women. I almost crapped my pants when I met my wife and saw what a feminine woman is like and how they act.

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chunky 2y ago

Yep, pretty much my experience, too. I would have loved to have had a partner to get educated with, marry, and then build a life and family together. But that didn't happen. None want to run the race with you, they just want to wait at the finish line. I got my PhD (STEM) in 94, at the age of 29, landed a 100k job (in the 90s!) and bought a nice car, and they came running. But all were super shallow gold diggers. Made my millions, retired 2014, at 50, sold my flashy house in the trendy part of town and my Mercedes, bought a little working class bungalow and a Toyota, and have been travelling the world, and enjoying good company on 4 continents (until covid).

Not a single bit of regret.

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

They'll have to pry my Mercedes from my cold, dead hands... and my Toyota too :). Good cars. I wish they'd bring back air suspension and put it in these. Anyway I'll be driving them until the wheels fall off. I need to get me a bungalow on Koh Samiu... Beaches, babes, fishing, diving, kick boxing, etc.

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chunky 2y ago

I've had some good times with Lusophone gals in Lisbon, and fun in Bulgaria, Croatia, Hungary and Poland, too.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Ya my girl definitely has some modern woman in her (in that she feels validated via economic contribution). She’s way kinder than I’d ever reasonably expect an American girl with her level of looks to behave, though.

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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

I think having kids really filters out the bad nuts on dating sites.

LOL single moms are fucking brain dead...I'm sure Chad and Tyrone got in some really good nuts...

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

If the father of your children won't commit to you, why would I?

I've never gotten an answer to that.

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Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 2y ago Stickied

I've never gotten an answer to that.

Because it's the wrong question!

Remind me again who files for the overwhelming majority of divorces and who is the one to breakup most of the time?

So please, don't put this on the man. We don't know that he "won't commit" to her.

What we do know with 100% certainty, is that she is a single mother as a direct result of her own bad choices.

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NewReligionOfSociology Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

You're both right because Problematic's question is rhetorical by taking the woman's PoV for granted

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Oh it's not a serious question, because that would involve women doing two things they hate:

  1. Introspection
  2. Accepting accountability

I ask it as a uppercut to the ego when they try to get a relationship out of the sex slot machine.

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2y ago

Yeah they'd either have to admit that if he was a decent guy they just didn't make the cut, or (more likely) they'll try to blame him for not staying, which leaves them wide open to a follow up observation that it's really dumb to spread their legs for the kind of man that doesn't stick around.

The slightly smarter ones will realize the verbal trap being laid during the first step and either get really quiet or really angry. Either way, entertainment.

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

I ask that knowing that the sex parade is over at that point.

If she's at the point where she thinks she's owed a relationship because she took a few loads on the face, then it's time to let her go.

Edit: and usually it's a variant of "my baby daddy ain't shit, so i let him get me pregnant"

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Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 2y ago

Now that I have a son, I need to pretend to be responsible. Therefore...

I'm not into hookups anymore.

Muuuhhahahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaa

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

They're all into hookups.

I can't count how many "just looking for conversation" and "long term partner" profiles I've seen. It's nothing but beta filter.

If you're hot enough, you're fucking on the first date.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago

That was my experience as well, back 2002-2004.

"No hookups" meant "I'm easy".

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2y ago

having kids filters out the bad nuts on dating sites

Also, the filters let the hot ones nut in you.

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NewReligionOfSociology Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Well they'll say stuff like "I don't get anywhere near as many matches as I did before I had my son" but they won't in a million years be able to add the dots together and understand that it's because long-term relationships are a cost-benefit calculation for men and her kid tilts the balance towards the cost side.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago

calculation

math is a tool of the patriarchy!

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Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 2y ago

I'm not into hookpus anymore.

Every time. At this point, there should be a single mom's bingo with the most cliché expressions.

Being a single mom is great to filter out guys who don't want commitment.

Including the father, apparently.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2y ago

Men have a similar paradigm in that guys with 7 figure bank accounts will drive beater cars to drive the golddiggers away and this makes sense with one difference: the "beater car" guys offer other things of value to a woman: He is a good conversationalist, he doesn't have debt, he doesn't mooch, etc. A beater car isn't an 18 year debt like someone else's kid is.

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thekagaccount 2y ago

"The right person will come eventually!!" lol. What formula did she use to determine this? Perhaps I'm too judgmental.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

I think having kids really filters out the bad nuts on dating sites

My lord, the copium. It’s like they don’t even realize that there is a pool of men on there who also want a committed relationship, just not with Chad or Tyrone’s baby mama.

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Pic889 2y ago

If anything, single motherhood tends to attract players looking for a quick smash and who know they can get easily laid by saying the right words and bailing after they get what they want.

This is something not often discussed here: The fact women think they can negotiate their way to commitment (by withholding sex, giving ultimatums, making demands etc). A man will commit only if he sees value, not because the woman was a hard negotiator. Even Billy BetaBax is slowly waking up and not getting negotiated into marrying. And yes, the internet has definitely played a role in this awakening. Your work has an impact that's much bigger than the sum of what each of you could accomplish individually, lads.

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Initial-Glove Wahmyns 2y ago

Funny bc I find it to be the opposite.

The ones really looking for single moms are looking for the easily duped, careless, aimless, irresponsible..

The exact opposite of what they think they're getting.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

There’s that, too. Single moms are so much easier than average. They’ve often been humbled hard by the experience of trying to date again and will jump for a man that says the right things. Definitely an opportunity to finesse.

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Initial-Glove Wahmyns 2y ago

Shes 22. 22 years old.

Not one single prospect for dating.

Smh.

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nicknack 2y ago

She absolutely has prospects for dating lol, she has probably 800 million men or more on this planet who would absolutely love to date her. Most guys can sucker up one bastard in exchange for a 22 year old.

Her problem is she is still chasing Chad and Tyrone, the type of guy that gave her a baby, but that level of guy doesn’t want sloppy seconds. They don’t even bother with conversations with her their first and only message to this bitch is “dtf?”

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

And we all know that for the top tier dudes, the answer is “yes”. Only beta bucks are forced to offer all of the other stuff. Also, don’t expect wild sex, she “isn’t into that anymore”.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Unbelievable, right? Either she’s full of it and I’d just not liking the men presented to her now that she’s a single mom, or she’s really that low on the totem pole. I know in my early to mid 20’s, I’d have gladly played hero for a single mom if she was pretty. And I got no women during that time. Shocking, women don’t want guys like that, I know.

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Initial-Glove Wahmyns 2y ago

Yes. She doesnt like her options, which will never improve from here on out.

Well, that's a shame but you're better off.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Yeah, I’m glad that I learned the lessons the easy way and not the hard way. Imagine getting involved with one of these users? One like this would happily accept all of my resources and help with the kid, and probably cheat on me the second she receives that “wyd?” Text from her baby daddy.

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Initial-Glove Wahmyns 2y ago

Yeah I believe that would happen. To any of the guys who date any of these women.

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maseboogie Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

I also don't get nearly as many matches as I did before I had my son

You mean, you got more attention from men before you gave your womb to a bum-ass dude? Fascinating... /s

I don't want to be with anyone who isn't totally on board

Sweetie, you're in no position to be picky. Unfortunately, this will fall upon deaf ears and you'll utter this phrase repeatedly until pint-sized Pookie reaches 18.

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2y ago

I don't want to be with anyone who isn't totally on board

A standard never applied to the ones whom she routinely "gets with".

She's a good girl, you know. Except when she doesn't feel like being one.

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Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 2y ago

Sweetie

Sweaty

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2y ago

Sweaty

Swooty

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago

Swooty

Spooty.

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Initial-Glove Wahmyns 2y ago

Which would make her 40.

So technically, she'll never have the option of picky. And that's ONLY if she doesnt produce again.

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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

I think its highly unlikely that she will not repliate again. Let me rub the crystal ball and see what is in her future..... I'm seeing.... 2 more kids, both from different fathers, some dramatic weight gain, a filthy untidy house with crap everywhere, an array of un-appealing tattoos, blue hair, cats....

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Initial-Glove Wahmyns 2y ago

There really is only the one future..

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wswZtyqNGQ 2y ago

All timelines converge onto one point!

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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

The wine-cat singularity event horizon! BOOM

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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

We need to find out how to genetically modify cats that piss low quality wine. We could sell them to women over 40 and we'd be rich rich rich!!!

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago

LMAO

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Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 2y ago

Lmao the title of this post could have easily been

"Single mom looking for Prince Charming gets advice that kids help filter for great guys who want serious relationships"

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

I wouldn’t bring a single mom home to meet my friends and family even if I were, like, 60. They’re a no go for relationship. It’s hilarious that they think otherwise.

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