Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 2 weeks ago
George Clooney was attractive well into his 40s/50s (still is, now in his 60s). However, as a late 40-something, he was dating Stacey Keibler in her prime. So if she wants the physically attractive late 40s man (they do exist), the question is: is she as hot as a 20-something Stacey Keibler?
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 2 weeks ago
So close to getting it, but not quite there. Sweaty, the only commonality in this is you. The difference in men you are observing is due to YOUR declining desirability, not theirs. These men you are finally noticing have been there all this time, but they were overshadowed by Chad. Now that Chad has left your dating pool, you are merely noticing your other options.
I guarantee that the men she does find attractive do not find her attractive. Perhaps she should try lesbianism.....
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 2 weeks ago
She is just finding her actual options.
nicknack 2 weeks ago
Women are way more obsessed about looks than men are what makes you think dating women will help her, she’s the ugly one in this scenario.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 2 weeks ago
I make such suggestions mainly for my entertainment. Selfish, I know....
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2 weeks ago
Won't pay her bills for her or keep the car and house maintained in return for a trickle of duty sex.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 2 weeks ago
She will have to actually PAY for those services and bills.
[sounds of hands rubbing together]
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2 weeks ago
Lesbians are the most miserable women I've ever met.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 2 weeks ago
That is why she deserves them!
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 2 weeks ago
Of course they are, the have to deal with women in the same way we do on top of being miserable themselves.
hornetsfalcons12 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2 weeks ago
I’d venture that there’s a large share of 45+ “lesbians” that are really just post wall women desperate for any sort of companionship. I remember my mom’s train wreck of a cousin randomly came out as a rug muncher after 50+ years of being straight, and even being engaged to a man at one point (before he came to his senses and moved back to his home country).
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2 weeks ago
That's exactly what happens, then they realize "oh fuck, in all my relationships, men were the ones trying and making things work. Now there are two useless selfish people in a relationship!"
There's a reason lesbian bed death and much higher rates of DV are present in lesbian couples.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians about a week ago
As you noted, lesbian bed death happens when both people in the relationship believe that initiating is not a woman's job.
The sky-high rate of DV in lesbian relationships is largely the product of women being raised to believe that there are no consequences for throwing hands (or pans) in their relationships. Not only are women more likely to initiate violence, but men tend to hold back a lot (otherwise a lot more women would be dead). When a woman hits a man with everything she has, he's not nearly as likely to be catastrophically injured as she would be if he laid into her with his full force. Most male-on-female DV is not done with the intent to do serious harm. That's part of the reason so many women believe all the girl-power nonsense they see in movies... very very few women have ever fought a grown man who wasn't holding back.
hornetsfalcons12 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2 weeks ago
Yeah. Thought to be fair, selection bias. Women who have to resort to middle aged lesbianism probably aren’t the best at people skills and relationships already.
Initial-Glove Wahmyns 2 weeks ago
Ma'am. This is it. From here on out. The options are actually going to get less and less.
And by options, I mean the ones willing to date YOU.
She just doesnt like men. Plain and simple.
hornetsfalcons12 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2 weeks ago
You got it, I think. She likes those alpha men that used to sport bang her. Those men are now leaving her alone, and all that is left for her is men her own age that would actually enter a relationship with a 46 year old woman. She never wanted those men before, so why would she change now?
whytehorse2021 2 weeks ago
Sorry sweaty, I set my age filter to 18-28. The only time I raise the age is when I look for profiles to post on WAATGM.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2 weeks ago
I'm chuckling about some bad advice Steve Harvey was giving women including where he suggested motivating them for success: "Fly business class so you will get accustomed to luxury and then after that, you won't be able to go back to economy. That will motivate you to succeed!"
What horrific advice! What if one can't succeed! Won't that make them miserable then with daily life? What if they don't want to make the effort to succeed? (Laziness?)
A friend of mine from Nigeria observed that he thinks people are happier in Nigeria than in the states. There's less but they make happy with it because that's what they grew up with.
Sartre wrote a play "No exit" to describe a hell where ordinary living, for eternity, is misery in that the people themselves are discontented both with themselves and each other.
I'm flying basic economy in 2 weeks for 5 hours. I may be stuck in a middle seat in the back with a mere soda and pretzels handed to me. I'll bring a snack on my own, buy an alcoholic beverage, plug in headphones, and watch a nice movie and have a wonderful time. I'm looking forward to it.
nicknack 2 weeks ago
I’ve traveled to over 25 countries and spent well most of the last decade outside of US soil. People are in the US are miserable. The most basic things we need in life like family, fun, sex, food is all handled so poorly in the US. It’s like the system is designed to make you suffer there. The only reason I ever step foot there is to make money, and once I can finally make good money without ever going there I’ll probably never step foot on that soil again.
NotaBene 2 weeks ago
Where would you recommend? Not to get rich, but to belong to a community? Where I don't get thrown in jail for owning a gun?
Impressive-Cricket-8 WAATGM Endorsed 2 weeks ago
So why didn't you marry someone then? It surely wasn't because you wanted the guy you could have when you were in your 20s, right? Because then I'd have to ask why didn't you marry that guy in your 20s, and somehow it must be the guys' fault.
hornetsfalcons12 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2 weeks ago
“I wAs ToO yOuNg” - probably her on her life at age 33