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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Chasing Chad

She pays $$$ for exclusive gym membership where all the rich Chads hang out. Baffled that she is being ignored and no men there is thirsting for her
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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

This California 2 wants results just for existing in male spaces.

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ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 2y ago

I used to go to a gym regularly (Damnit, have to get back in the routine!) with my buddies after work. Our gym happened to be known as the one where all the hot chicks go as well. I admit I did enjoy the scenery, but I never approached women there, for a multitude of reasons.

  • As other's have mentioned, I'm there to get my workout done and leave. I'm not going to break a set to chat someone up and mess up my routine.

  • If I do have time between sets, I'd rather shoot the shit with my friends as we rotate on the machines. It was a good way to decompress, and I wouldn't feel guilty about spending time with my friends as long as we were lifting.

  • If I talked to any strangers it was to other guys, when I was alone and needed someone to spot me, or maybe ask someone a question about lifting technique. Or maybe if we're sharing a machine.

Bottomline is that the only people that treated the gym as a social scene were people who weren't treating it as a place to exercise. If I'm going to spend time in a social scene, it sure isn't going to be at a sweaty, smelly gym. I'd rather spend my socializing time budget at a bar or lounge or something, and use my exercise time budget to actually exercise.

I would add these points relevant to the OP:

  • Guys that are rich enough to pay for an Equinox membership and are hot enough to attract your interest get plenty of attention from women outside of the gym. They have no need to hit you up. And indeed, if you worked up the courage to talk to them first, they'd probably be polite but blow you off. Because they can get far better than you. Which brings me to my next point:

  • I don't know what state she's in, but assuming she's in a big, bicoastal city (which is where most Equinox clubs are), she's not some extraordinarily attractive gym bunny. Like I said, I used to go to a gym (not an Equinox) in SoCal, and the girls there were much hotter than her. In all honesty, I wouldn't have even given her a second glance at our gym.

  • If she's spending her time on a treadmill, she's doing it wrong. The guys she wants are in the weight room. It's like going to a yoga class and wondering why there are no guys. In most of the gyms I've been to, I've found that on the aerobic machines (treadmills, bikes, steppers, etc), were 50/50 guys and girls. Meanwhile, the weights section was like 90/10 guys/girls (closer to 99/1 in the free weights section). What's more, if I'm running on a treadmill, I don't know how you expect me to chat you up. I should be out of breath if I'm doing it right (not like her, walking on a treadmill). In contrast, in the weights section, guys will be taking a break between sets, so there's at least a chance that someone might say something to you.

  • if a guy who's serious about fitness wants to chat up a girl, he's going to prefer someone who's also serious about fitness. We know who those girls are. They are not the ones spending a half hour walking on a treadmill (unless you're 60 years old, obese, or rehabbing an injury, that's not a workout), or the ones who occupy a weights machine but just sit there texting rather than doing their set and getting off (ask me how much this pisses me off). And it certainly isn't the one taking a selfie video to post to tiktok. But if you see a girl who's coming in regularly, appears fit, and genuinely works out when she's there, then yeah, maybe you might chat her up if you both happen to be leaving the gym at the same time. If I'm in a place filled with people interested in fitness, why would I choose a person who's obviously not there for that?

  • And that's before #metoo made guys stop approaching completely. Guys have been banned from gyms just for looking at women, much less talking to them. Why would I want to lose access to my gym to talk to some average-looking girl taking selfies on the treadmill while pretending to workout?

Bottomline is she's doing it all wrong, so she shouldn't be surprised at the results. But yeah, must be the guys' fault...

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

the ones who occupy a weights machine but just sit there texting rather than doing their set and getting off (ask me how much this pisses me off)

Tell me you're a gym head without saying it

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago

or the ones who occupy a weights machine but just sit there texting rather than doing their set and getting off (ask me how much this pisses me off).

How about occupying a squat rack for something other than squats, such as curls?

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 2y ago

Give him some credit. We're talking about different levels of hell here.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago

I don't get it

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Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 2y ago

I used to go to gym where a weird guy used to set up three 'stations' and then do circuit training on them, with rest periods in between. Anyone that touched any of his 3 stations got shouted at that they 'were occupied'. And this in peak periods!

To this day, I'm baffled how he never got knocked out. What a wanker.

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Naw fuck him. If you're gonna superset:

  1. No rest. That kind of defeats the point
  2. Don't do it during peak hours
  3. Don't be an asshole if people want to use something you're not on.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago

None of the staff ever told him he couldn't do that?

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Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 2y ago

it was one of those cheap gyms with no staff except a door man.

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redpillschool Everybody tag him 2y ago

Is nobody going to point out that she put her head through the wrong hole on her shirt?

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago

Can't even dress herself, LMAO.

I think I'll do a WNB on her next.

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ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 2y ago

Also, after 7 months of "working out" she still has a fupa. Her shirt is not the only thing she needs instructions on.

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

When someone says that they "go to the gym every day" and their results don't show it, i call them on it. You know what I find out?

  1. Their "workout" is just walking on the treadmill. While it's better than nothing, they usually use that little bit of exercise as license to eat like a butter golem.

  2. They spend more time on breaks and on their phone than they do moving weights. There's a guy in my gym who camps on machines. He's been there pretty consistently over the past few months but he has made zero progress because he will do a set then get on his phone for 10 minutes.

This woman is exhibiting all the telltale signs of someone who is there just to be seen and, as someone who is on task, I find that to be revolting. Pair that with the fact that there are women in there who are getting results, and she's pretty much invisible to the type of men she is there to attract.

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Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 2y ago

Ah yes... the same old story "Men are such creeps! They're always hitting on women, we don't fee safe etc etc etc" but also "Why don't men hit on us? we're so hot! They must be all gay / small dick energy / incels"

The reason why men don't hit on women in the gym is that we all know that if a woman reports a guy for 'harassing' her at a gym, then he'll get banned (#believe all women).

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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 2y ago

I'm an old married dude, so this doesn't affect me personally, but I'm also a gym rat, so I know the rules. Rule #1 of women in gyms is that You Don't Hit On Them. That has been made abundantly clear: women complain about unwanted attention from men all the time, and many feel no hesitation in making their displeasure known to the authorities (like the gym staff who can revoke your membership if they use the word "creep" to describe you).

As others have noted, you also can't know if a particular woman is into your "type." There are buff dudes, cardio dudes, and limber dudes at gyms... are you her type, and are you willing to risk ending up on a viral video being mocked for being a creep while you look for a different gym in order to find out?

Feminism demands that we pretend that we're all equal, while also demanding the right of women to deal out severe punishments for unwanted approaches. Fine... they get the burden of approaching then. I've had it happen several times and I'm nobody's idea of a Chad. That's how I met my wife, in fact (although she's about the farthest thing from being a feminist as she can be).

I have a home gym now, so this is even less of an issue for me. I can lift in peace with my music blasting and nobody else using the squat rack or the bench. I can flail around like a lunatic doing cardio with my VR headset. I can crank away on my elliptical. I can stretch on a floor I know is clean because I'm the one who cleans it. I'm already sleeping with the only female member. I also don't have to concern myself with what anyone else thinks, and the only way my membership can be revoked is by a judge.

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GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Equinox is a US based gym chain, so I'm not surprised. And by that I mean Western Supah-Independent-Don't-Need-No-Man-Bitches infest the USA due to their hive-mind adherence to feminutz principles, which eventually turns them into femcels.

But hey, spending money on a Gym is usually worth it -- if you're there to improve yourself. If you're like this stupid whore and are there shopping for dick, she might've missed the memo where men get their lives ruined if they approach some chick and they're not up to her sky-high standards.

Even if she doesn't scream and charge you with sexual assault for having the gall to approach her, dudes that are already ripped are there to get their workout done and then plow whatever chick they have lined up for that evening, or go back to their girlfriend waiting at home because she can't get enough of his obviously maintained physique.

Its a bit like going to church and wondering where all the prostitutes went.

You're in the wrong environment, honey. And even if you were bopping about doing fuckall somewhere else, most men really don't give a shit anymore, because your shrill feminutz 'sisters' have been pushing this anti-male message for so long that most are just happy with recreational trips to places to get their fuck on, like SE Asia and the like.

I love posts like these though, it shows me the pendulum is indeed swinging and we may pull it out of the fire.... maybe.

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MelkorHimself Mod 2y ago

And by that I mean Western Supah-Independent-Don't-Need-No-Man-Bitches infest the USA due to their hive-mind adherence to feminutz principles

This one appears to be FUPA-intendent.

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Women: "Leave us alone!!!"

Also women: "Why is everyone leaving us alone?"

I totally ignore women at the gym. And you can tell the ones who want attention and then will complain the moment they get it from an unattractive guy. I usually save up a fart to crop dust them as I walk by.

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

dudes that are already ripped are there to get their workout done and then plow whatever chick they have lined up for that evening

Fucking bingo.

I go to lift, then I fuck off. I have plenty of access to ass outside of my sanctuary where I go to spend some time by my god damn self.

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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Its a bit like going to church and wondering where all the prostitutes went.

LOL that's where ALL the prostitutes are! Wanna get an easy lay? Go to church. Your only competition there is the pastor.
Church sluts are like Mary Magdaline. They slut around all week, and instead of going to therapy, they turn to Jesus to forgive them of their sins, and give them a clean slate.
Come Monday through Saturday, back to the CC. Sunday again, back to church. Rinse and repeat.

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GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Okay, I LOLed.

Sure, maybe not the best analogy but there we go.

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2y ago

The problem with church sluts is they still want to put on a show of having a good reputation, so they are far more likely to throw you under the bus to preserve said reputation. Which is a problem magnified by a shared social venue.

Which now that I think about it, runs in parallel with the gym bunny issue in the OP. Dudes aren't willing to bother with some basic bitch at the gym and cede her the social power to ruin them for whatever reason fits her fancy.

These are indicators of a greater trend of men with anything to lose basically quarantining women from their social circles out of self preservation. Simpler to right swipe on someone fuckable on Tinder in another town who does not know where you live or work and do so from a burner phone.

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Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

[These are indicators of a greater trend of men with anything to lose basically quarantining women from their social circles out of self preservation.]

This is exactly what I am doing. I have learned not to gamble with what I cannot afford to lose. And that puts women on the wrong end of the cost/benefit analysis.

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vangelis 2y ago

Didn't realise we were on a black pill forum

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago Stickied

It's not, and his comment wasn't blackpill.

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vangelis 2y ago

men get their lives ruined if they approach some chick and they're not up to her sky-high standards

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because your shrill feminutz 'sisters' have been pushing this anti-male message for so long that most are just happy with recreational trips to places to get their fuck on, like SE Asia and the like

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his comment wasn't blackpill

I rest my case

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago Stickied

Your rested case is garbage. Again, none of that was blackpill.

Blackpill is despair. Adapting is Red Pill.

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vangelis 2y ago

Blackpill is despair

Are you illiterate?

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago

No, but you're banned.

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Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 2y ago

Holy shit....

Some people

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago

lol

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Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

At the most, they are dark red pills.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago Stickied

This isn't a debate forum. Your original comment was fine, but please don't escalate further.

I'm removing this comment under rule 2.

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GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

I get it, not my usual M.O.

Consider it done.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago Stickied

Familiarize yourself with the rules on the sidebar if you wish to continue participating in this forum. It can be accessed via that half-black, half-white square button in the top right corner of the forum.

I'm removing this comment under rules 1 and 2.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago

I can make 1000 different accounts and still "participate"

...and we'll play whack-a-tard with the no-life dipshit. It's cool.

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Imagine having nothing better to do than go through the effort of getting into a place where you aren't wanted.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago

...and a place that gave multiple warnings prior to booting!

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Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

https://www.theodysseyonline.com/dont-hit-on-women-gym

Rule number one in the gym: DON'T TALK TO ME! This might seem like common sense to everyday gym goers, but it's not. I don't know what it is about a girl listening to music, sweating, and focusing on her workout that gives men the idea that we want to have a conversation, but we very well do NOT! Yes I'm a female, but what about that makes you think that I'm in the gym for any other reason other than to workout?

Remember that this sediment is for the invisible 80% The top 20 % got the message too and it is safer for all men to just ignore them which is now causing a meltdown. All their rules and limits go out the window for Chad; the rules are for the rest of us

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Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 2y ago Stickied

Remember that this sediment is for the invisible 80% The top 20 % got the message too and it is safer for all men to just ignore them which is now causing a meltdown. All their rules and limits go out the window for Chad; the rules are for the rest of us

If you're in the top 20% you're only safe as long as she's happy with you.

As soon as she gets bored or pissed off - for any or no reason - you too will be on the chopping block.

No amount of alpha frame, can out-alpha the government.

The government has much more money and a much bigger dick and much more alpha frame, than you have.

The game is rigged.

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Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

The only winning move.....

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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 2y ago

I don't much care any more, but there was a time when it would have been nice to have single-sex gyms. We've all seen countless examples of women demanding access to male spaces, then demanding accommodations that alter the dynamic, and eventually making it unrecognizable (if not thorougly gynocentric).

I wonder if there's a market for a gym chain that has separate men's and women's sections, along with an open area for everyone. I suppose that would run afoul of state laws in libtard states, though, and maybe even federal law depending on who was in charge at any one time.

Or maybe there could be some understanding that wearing a certain color signified a willingness to be approached. Girls who wore it could be approached, but would obviously have to lose the right to complain about it.

Or maybe women could just stop going to gyms to meet buff dudes.

It's too bad that it's come to this. Fit people generally want to be with fit partners, so the gym is a logical place to meet them, but feminists have poisoned the well.

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

I used to attend a gym that was in the basement of a renovated factory. It was dark, still smelled like oil, had no windows, and no stupid pop music. You know what else it didn't have?

Women.

It was just a bunch of dudes who wanted to lift heavy ass weight and go about their boring ass lives. It was heaven.

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ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 2y ago

That article you linked is a great one. In it, she lists all the things guys do that pisses her off and this part caught my eye: "There are men that think they know how to work out better than you do just because they're guys. [...] Then there are guys that are so concerned about what YOU'RE doing as if your workout affects theirs."

My guess is someone tried to talk to her about her technique and she assumed said guy was mansplaining something she's already perfect at doing. You can feel the smugness oozing from her words. The truth is, I've had guys come up to me and point out when I'm doing something wrong. And you know what? I've always been thankful for it. Poor technique in lifting can lead to injury and sometimes catastrophic failure. So someone coming up to you and pointing it out is doing you a favor. Even if they're wrong and I'm doing it right, I still appreciate that at least they were concerned.

But this is just point #395422 about why you should never give women advice. They just can't accept that anything they do is wrong. Even if it leads to bad results, it must be the rest of the world that failed her. She can never fail herself. In the gym, of the few women that lift, even fewer do it right. In terms of poor technique, it's been my experience that a far higher percentage of women have poor technique than men. And yet, I've never pointed this out to a woman, precisely because she's far more likely to be pissed at me and accuse me of harassing her than accept that maybe I just didn't want to see her get hurt.

But I guess feminist indignation and her ability to humble brag to all her friends about all the guys hitting on her at the gym is more important than minimizing the risk of serious injury (and if she does get injured, 100% she'll blame the gym, and not her technique).

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 2y ago

There is one scenario where you can give women advice and it might stick:

You're higher status than her and she seeks advice from you to get your approval.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago

Remember that this sediment *sentiment is for the invisible 80%

FTFY.

The top 20 % got the message too and it is safer for all men to just ignore them which is now causing a meltdown.

I default to ignoring, and not just because of that.

1) Until I started practicing dread on my wife, I followed the Mike Pence Rule, aka Billy Graham Rule. I still sometimes default to that out of old habit.

2) I generally keep to myself anywhere, anyway.

3) just because I might be top 20, 15, or even 10 per cent to some women, other women might perceive me as well beneath that. I hit my stride back in the day when I only bothered with women who indicated interest, and ignored the uninterested.

4) when a woman perceives you as "Chad", she'll even approach you. It hasn't happened to me a ton, but it has happened.

5) at the gym in particular, I'm there to workout. I only talk to someone to ask for or offer a spot, or to ask when they'll be finished with a bench, squat rack, or other piece of equipment.

So, yeah, they can choke on their disappointment and thank their sisterhood of shrieking harpies.

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ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 2y ago

just because I might be top 20, 15, or even 10 per cent to some women, other women might perceive me as well beneath that.

This is the biggie. It's not like guys (and women, for that matter) don't know that there's a double standard between the guys that a woman is attracted to and the ones she's not attracted to. It's that you can't always tell which group you're in.

Around a group of gold diggers who are just after money, I'm easily in the Chad group (whether I want them is another matter :-). But in a gym, there are far more buff dudes than me around. I'm certainly not in the top 20%. Even if I was more in shape, I have no idea what a woman finds attractive. Some women like total 'roided out, bulked up body-builder types. Others like lean, cut, toned physiques. And so on. If this chick wants to find a guy in a gym, then almost by definition, she's looking for a guy based purely on his looks. Who TF knows what her taste in looks is? Even if you're in the top 1% of fitness, are you sure you're her type? Do you want to risk getting banned from the gym or worse to find out?

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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

I think men sadly realize that the gym is the last bastion of exclusively male clubs/establishments that used to be so common. And women are even trying to take that over for attention.

Bring back the gentleman's club and the social acceptance of male friendships without suspicion of faggotry.

I've started a sort of men's club where we smoke, drink, and talk deep things once a month - like men used to do. I'm married, but all females are banished from the house during this time on the basis of their gender. It works really well.

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Arcturus 2y ago

The freemasons are still a men only organization.

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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

It's also a crazy cult full of idiots at the bottom and globalists at the top. No thanks.

But it's also attractive to men who don't see any other male spaces left for them to fit into.

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Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Ahh yesss. Social media/OLD is starting to bear its poisoned fruit. The perpetual affirmation device in her pocket cannot help her unlock the next level: boyfriend.

Most of her life training is just to sit there and see how many men have swiped right on her. So, why doesn't that happen at the gym? She is right there in front of them dressed in cute clothes! Won't some demigod Chad get her off this treadmill?

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User4566 2y ago

Kind of hard to hit on a girl whiles she's on the treadmill. I've done it before once, it wasn't successful.

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Durek_The_Bald 2y ago

270$ for a gym membership? Do squats come with a teabagging or something?

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Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Perhaps the gold diggers are learning to prospect on richer grounds....

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 2y ago

Just like whole foods, you pay for the prestige. If she actually wanted results, she would have spent that money on personal training or group training in a bare bones gym. But that is for people who want to see actual results but are getting started. She is not that. She's just waltzing around in richer grounds hoping that someone above her station will notice her and approach her. Like most basic bitches, her strategy is to make herself available and hope.

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Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

She is wasting $270 a month to be able to be near high value men, ironically this is a far cheaper option than gaining student debt in the tens of thousands of dollars to qualify for a career to be near high value men like a lot of women do these days.

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

She does have half the equation right, but it's a two step process and the second step is where women like her fail.

Step 1: go where the men you want are

Step 2: give the men you want something that they want

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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 2y ago

I think she has both of those covered. She's above-average cute and she's hanging around where well-off , buff guys go. (I don't know why everyone is saying that she's ugly or fat: she's clearly neither. She has prominent collar bones and a visible abdominal v-line. In a time when the average American woman is clinically obese she's easily a HB7 at a minimum. Some guys unironically treat this place like it's the #WNB tribe.)

Her main problem is that men know that approaching women in gyms is a very good way to get their memberships revoked, and guys who pay $3K a year for gym memberships are serious about keeping their gym memberships. Her secondary problem is that she's in the treadmill area keeping to herself rather than the free-weight area being sociable.

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 2y ago

Her problem is that she is a basic-bitch doing basic-bitch things while aiming for a level above her station. A 6 like her can easily score commitment, just not in this crowd she is trying to get entry to. To get into this one, she needs more than just looks and that is the only thing she has going for her.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Which is what I talk about to younger dudes that feel intimidated by women and the tremendous power that they hold in dating. This is how they operate. Going places and hoping that cute guy that they see will come and talk to her. They aren’t scary. Either you look good to them or you don’t.

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 2y ago

They hold more power compared to average men. Above a certain threshold, men dictate. As we all know, that threshold is only met by a very low amount of men.

Good girl-game is basically being feminine, receptive and reciprocal. They don't have to initiate and basic bitches have turned it into don't want to and must not.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Yeah. I’d imagine about 90% of men pretty much choose from the limited options available.

So in general, women hold the power. At least young women. Men take what they can get, women choose from an array of options. Of course, many of those options would be bad news in 5 years time, but hey, female empowerment!

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 2y ago

In general, yes. Average men pick below their means.

But, if you're here, then you're not average or will not be average for long. Use the info you get here for your self-improvement.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Ya, I already have an 8+ who’s nice and treats me well. I’m long past the days of falling into nice guy traps.

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WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

Created By kevin32

Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.


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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


Rules of conduct:

  • 1. No shaming men for any reason.

  • 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.

  • 3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.

  • 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.

Rules for submission:

  • 5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)

  • 5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)

  • 6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.

  • 7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.

  • 8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.

  • 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.

Recommended reading:

  • Understanding The Purpose of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

  • Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards

  • OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone

  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

  • WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.

  • Michael's Story

  • u/where_muh_good_mens' Story

  • "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"

  • Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.

  • Feminism has succeeded

  • Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore

  • Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

  • To The Man Who Will Love Me Next

  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

  • The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market

  • Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel

  • The Life Story of Carol

  • Memes

  • Complete list of resources here.

Link Flair:

  • The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"

  • Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.

  • Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.

  • Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

  • Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.

  • Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.

  • New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.

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