Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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reignoferror00 1y ago
I know, like, so weird, totally, like, gag me with a spoon! Is the 80's valley girl speak making a comeback??? Act your age, not your shoe size.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Is it me or should land whales never paint their nails? All that does is draw more attention to the fact that she has sausage fingers.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Since time immemorial, women have been conflating "I'd fuck you" with "I'd seriously date you."
That's the reason we have so many women who are trainwrecks - they get plenty of offers for dick, so the feedback loop never fully closes. There is no event that makes them stop and think "oh fuck, I'm the problem" because they can dismiss any negative outcome with a deluge of easy dick and attention.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
You sir deserve a medal!
Woman date up for sex. men are forced to down date for sex. Men date up for marriage so women MUST date down for marriage.
Women that are delusional have no idea that they are up-dating in the sexual market place from age 17 to 30. So a 5 like this woman has been banging 7s her whole life. She now thinks that she can lock down a 7 for marraige. She doesnt realise that she needs to down date to a 3 for marraige and nobody has levelled with her.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Men date and marry across and down.
Women date and marry across and up.
It's rare to see a woman marry down.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I beg to differ.
Nearly all women want to get married so there is competition amongst women for marraige. So short fat accountants with bad hair can marry younger hotter women.
Nearly all men want lots of sex but there is stiff competition in the market for sex. Average looking women go home with really hot guys from the club. You have to chadly to smash in the market for sex.
The markets for sex and relationships are totally different and stupid women don't understand this. They think that because they have been updating that thay are something special.
Heres another way to illustrate this: men sleep with really average women that they would never dream of marrying. Women marry men that they would never dream of having a one night stand with.
See what i mean?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
You're conflating SMV and RMV/MMV. A woman can have an SMV of 9 but MMV of 2.
that short fat accountant might be below his wife on the SMP, but still above her on the RMP/MMP. She only feeeeeeels that she's settling, when the reality is that she's far more replaceable than she (or frequently even he) realizes.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
You beat me to it: MMV =/= SMV.
Although SMV is one component of MMV, the two can be wildly different for the same person, or between fhe two people who constitute a couple. Although everyone wants to get the most they can get, winning the mating lottery by getting someone far above you is rare. Low SMV guys rarely get high SMV women for hookups, and low MMV women don't often marry high MMV men.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
This why so many women post wall have difficulty adjusting. They keep thinking that they can settle down with chad, (8-10) because that's what they're used to when they were slutting around.
Think about this carefully.... it's totally normal to see married couples where the woman is MUCH hotter than the man, especially if the man is well off. When have you last seen a well off attractive man married to a woman less good looking than him? Doesn't happen.
Woman ending up alone with a cat and dido is because they don't understand the difference between the two market places.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
*raises hand* me.
We were probably equally hot when we got together, but she's older than me and has since hit The Wall.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Hi TypoMaga,
I can't speak about your situation because I don't want to presume... I have no idea how chadly you are!! (wealth, looks, body, height etc) Maybe you got married young?
So, I can only talk about the average or general situation.
When you see an eligible dude that has his shit together and has money, what kind of woman does he marry? Its going to be a younger and much more attractive woman. On average, the women that men marry are much more attractive than they are. Because the market for marriage is the reverse of the market for hook ups.
This is much more apparent as men get older and have more success, more experience and are more red pilled, and are less likely to put up with women's nonsense and societies expectations about romance. You see it more easily in the second marriage. When I go to high end hotels, resorts or when I fly business or go to expensive restaurants in central London or NY and you observe couples in their 40s and up.... the guys area all married to women that are much, much hotter than they are.
I remember when I was 30 I was working in Switzerland with a woman colleague who was 40 and a bit overweight and not a looker. We were on a work visit, doing consultancy for a swiss bank, so every night after work we'd have dinner in the hotel, which was a 5 star in the Alps. And the waiter, would approach me and let me order my meal, and would then say 'And for your mother?' It happened nearly every night. It really depressed my colleague. And she would ask me,
"I don't look old enough to be your mother, do I? I'm only 10 years older than you!"
I thought about it for a while, and looked around the room. And I pointed out to her that every single man was with a much younger, much hotter woman. There was this one guy who was with a woman who was quite average and had those fat ham like arms, but it was obvious that she was his daughter.
The waiter simply could not imagine that there was any other possible explanation for an eligible guy bringing out an less attractive woman other than that it was his mother.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
I was just hitting my stride as a player at 24, then went all monogamous with my favorite plate from my harem. She was older than me and divorced, but she was really hot, the best sex I ever had (by miles), and she treated me better than anyone else. I wasn't doing great financially at the time, but I had potential.
18 years later, and her looks are mostly gone, but mine are still good (I catch women from teens through 50s, 60s checking me out). I have a great career in a skilled trade union. I could replace her with younger and hotter if I were so inclined, but she continues to add real value to my life beyond just sex.
When we got together, my MMV was slightly higher than hers, but our SMVs were roughly equal. Now, my MMV and SMV are both significantly higher than hers.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
good stuff. You find yourself in a situation where you could certainly dump your wife and get a 'younger hotter' women if you wanted to, but it would almost certainly be a huge mistake. Sounds like you have a great woman there .
I'm 52 and my wife is 44. I see all those younger women, but tbh, I am really not interested at all. I know what young women are like. Or, I should say, I know what young women were like 25 years ago and the vast majority of them insufferable. The hot ones were even worse.
They were disasterous. They took the worst from feminism and just evolved into lazy self entitled self absorbed slobs. And slobs is the really puzzling thing. I can recall a few times 'getting lucky' and going back to a girls house (this would have been 25 years ago) and being horrified at how disgusting her place was. At least two times I had to decline the offer of action because the bed was actually just too disgusting to get into (Imagine white sheets smeared with orange fake tan and various other forms of make up, in a room littered with clothes and shoes everwhere. No thanks. Taxi please). Women 'broke free' from the patriarchy and evolved into literal slobs.
When I look at the average 'hot young thing' all I see is narcissim and mental illness. And women have no idea how unattractive mental illness is. Stands to reason - sex is all about reproduction, and if you're nuts, we don't want to have sex with you, because we want our offspring to be sane. But the plastic surgery, fish lips and weird eyebrows of young women these days has me retching.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Financially, for sure.
Kidding around aside, most younger women can't even cook or add any value to a man's life outside of sex. It's sad.
She has her moments!
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
That's priceless. When my wife and I had only been married a year or two she had to have some surgery, and one of the nurses thought she was my daughter. I can see how a woman like your colleague might be bothered by what happened, but I wasn't. I figure that's the kind of "problem" most guys wouldn't mind having.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The difference is that men have immediate and brutal feedback loops. Women do not.
If a man is doing something wrong, he can go MONTHS without sex. The feedback loop is there: "you failed to do X, therefore you don't fuck." Some men are unable to understand what they are doing wrong, but the consequences are immediate and there is no gray area.
If a woman is doing something wrong, there are no mechanisms that will change her behavior. Worse, there are mechanisms that reinforce it - hot girl summer, Yas qween slay, boss bitch energy, etc - all tell women that it is success to run through a bunch of men without securing commitment. It isn't until a woman's sexual power fades that she enters into the epiphany phase and starts trying to become what she should have been all those years (and cocks) ago.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
It's a good one-liner. "Show me a picture of yourself when you first wake up in the morning." Some chicks look hot, most don't. I wanna know what I'm going to be waking up to.
FreeDinnerStrategy 1y ago
Protip: don’t start off your message with “Hey”. It’s a subconscious signal you’re used to being ignored or unheard in a physical setting.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
Duly noted, and post updated! Thanks for the tip!
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Oh the joys of suicide swiping.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
Considering that most women only look like they look on Instagram due to lightning + make up + filters, the confirmation selfie is a good call.
Yeah, I look like shit 95% of the time and I'll never look like those pictures I upload, but since I've got over a hundred likes, I deserve an Adonis.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
Look at this nameless bitch here acting like she is Lindsey Lohan.
In case any woman ever stumbles upon this thread and this comment: take a long hard look at this creature and the revulsion she evokes in men. Let me clarify where that comes from: men do not like grown-ass women acting like a girl. Act your age, be responsible, be mature, be practical of what you can do and what you can get. You'll do fine. If you're anything like this one, you will find your way to this forum eventually.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She acts like men on the dating apps are spending hours a day on social media, too. I have no use for social media. Why would I be on a dating app to find some new kween to simp all over on IG? I want to be the dude that chick wants to unleash the heat on.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Women that look like a lump of raw fermenting dough have no right to complain when a dude that looks like he was made of sculpted bronze declines to even use them as fuckmeat.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
"I don't think I look that bad!"
ummm....yeah. I think we will let your results explicate reality to you....
reignoferror00 1y ago
not looking "that bad" isn't equal to looking good.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
U! G! L! Y! You ain't got no alibi!
You ugly! (Eh, eh!) You ugly! (Eh, eh!)
I saw you walking down the street just the other day
I didn't see your damage from that far away
I should have got a clue when the kids started screamin'
You walked up with your buck teeth-a gleamin'
Your hair was all frizzy and your face was a mess
I thought it was a sack but it's your favorite dress
You hurt the trees' feelings and the birds all flew
I don't mean to insult you
Oh wait! Yes I do!
MelkorHimself Mod 1y ago
On various apps with "verified" profiles the bots can actually spoof the verification system. It's especially rampant on MeetMe.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
I KNOW, I KNOW! PICK ME! I KNOW THE ANSWER!
Why doesn't this woman (many women, in fact) realize that men get to have standards? Furthermore, the kind of men she's swiping on get lots of swipes from lots of women, and they are only going to bother putting effort into the best ones.
She should be grateful that she got to Step 2 (verifying that she's not a bot and will actually respond). Most men don't even get that... including from her. Perhaps she should swipe right on those guys instead of guys who have better options than a chubby frump with an overinflated ego.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
She does allow men to have standards-- standards which encompass her and no one hotter.