Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago Stickied
Moderator note - review this excerpt from rule 4 on the sidebar:
If we catch you commenting at her TikTok, you will be banned from here as well as the WAATGM subreddit if you're still on that shithole platform.
Our purpose is not to facilitate harassment. We're better than that. Keep your analysis and commentary within the community.
On to the video itself!
As @loneliness-inc is fond of pointing out, men want women, but women need men.
Sure, with big daddy gubment taking care of the beta bucks side of hypergamy through welfare, section 8, WIC, child support laws, etc. etc. women might not need an individual man in their individual lives, but they are hard-wired to know, deep down in the deepest recesses of the most primitive portion of their brains, that they need a man for survival. (Quick aside - they also need men on a societal level, though they are blissfully unaware of that. If all men disappeared tomorrow, the infrastructure would crumble within months, clean water would disappear within days, and electricity would go away within hours.)
The woman in this video can survive without a man in her life. She won't starve to death. Hell, from the looks of things, she's more likely to eat herself to death. However, being truly alone is a miserable experience for women. Their every instinct cries out to secure that protector and make a baby with him.
She's not that old, but her looks are long gone (being overweight has a lot to do with that). Lurking women, you don't have as much time as you think. You really don't want to end up like her, or the many others we have featured here, do you?
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
"A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle." ~ feminist leader Gloria Steinem popularized this expression
I wonder how many sad lonely women today would thank her or lynch her.
No hate here, I actually felt really sorry for the woman in the vid. She is in obviously in pain.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Feminism absolutely tricked women.
Could you fucking imagine a world where women had to do jobs that literally killed them, go to war, be responsible for literally everything that ran society and all men had to do was be excellent fathers, maintain a home, and be sexually available for their spouse?
No man ever would fuck that up. We'd be like "bro, you're ruining this grift, shut the fuck up."
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
And yet they're absolutely not willing to give it up.
SMH
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Because, as far as mating strategies go, it allows them the least amount of accountability.
They no longer have to be chaste, attractive, or even polite - those things are part of the bad evil PaTrIArChY!
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
One thing feminism absolutely has done is allowed women to dramatically increase their asking price for a mate. When you can only make $15/hr, a man who can make $25/hour is a real catch. So these women would settle down with one man who would always have exclusive access to sex, and he’s average and unremarkable.
But, if you’re a woman who can make $100k a year, suddenly you don’t need that average man. In fact, he’s a net drain on you! So you bump up the stakes and say “make $150k a year or else I’ll just be by myself and enjoy a variety of men, like how bachelors used to be with women”.
The problem with this is that the men that are acceptable for them have a far larger pool of women to select from, than a woman like her would have of men. He could just as easily slip the hot bartender his number along with the tip as he could deal with her strong and independent self. Status doesn’t matter to him. So when their personality inevitably repels men away, there’s no need to take accountability. The men who want her as a wife are too dusty, and the men she wants as a husband are a bunch of immature f boys because they’d rather deal with a younger woman.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
There's an easy fix for this, and it even allows women to choose how they want to live.
For the past couple of years, politicians of both major parties have floated the idea that women should have to register for the draft just as men do. There is no reason whatsoever to limit that obligation to men: every single objection has been removed, including the fig leaf the Supreme Court used to justify not doing it last time (because women may now serve in combat).
People have made videos of themselves speaking to college-age women and telling them that they might have to register, since they have legal equality, and the responses are about what you would expect given what we know about feminists: they want no part of it. Many of them would gladly forfeit the right to vote to avoid it, even though we haven't drafted anyone in forty years.
Add in the trannies and the Democrats agreeing that you are whatever sex you say you are on any given day, and I see a way for everyone to get exactly what they say they want. When you turn 18 you have to declare your "preference" with regard to rights and responsibilities... if you choose CITIZEN you get a government-issued ID card with your draft number on it. If you choose RESIDENT you don't. Everyone would have the same legal rights and protections with one exception: the CITIZEN card would be the only valid form of ID on Election Day.
Nobody gets forced to fight against their will. Government would no longer discriminate either for or against anyone because of an accident of birth. Government would be officially agnostic about whatever letter of the alphabet anyone wants to be on any given day.
I'm guessing that the prospect of being forced to serve in uniform would be enough to reduce the number of female (and soy-boi) voters to irrelevancy, especially if some token (but non-trivial) number of draft-card holders were called up to serve every month. No excuses - no deferments. They could announce the numbers of the conscripts on the evening news like they did during the Vietnam War.
I would even allow residents to become citizens later, but only at the conclusion of a two-year term of uniformed military service.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Man I would love if the right to vote was contingent on registering for the draft. Wonder how many women would willingly lose their right to vote just to avoid the potential of compulsory military service?
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
Having seen a few of those videos, I would guess very few women would be willing to risk it, especially if it was made clear that some non-trivial number of people would be called up even during peacetime with no excuses or deferments other than legitimate - and temporary - medical issues.
Finals week? Too bad: you can use the GI Bill when we're done with you. Pregnant? Not our problem: birth control is legal and you voluntarily chose not to use it... stand on the yellow footprints or have your baby in prison.
They should also have to have their hair buzzed like men do.
I would even entertain the idea that you only get your draft card after successfully processing through MEPS (including a PT test). If a person is not going to be able to serve in a timely manner if called, there's no point in having his/her name on the roster.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Conversely about men that I have been saying is to keep a man all women had to do was three basic things:
Feed Him
Fuck Him
Dont be a bitch.
Men are so stupidly simple to take care of that if women did those three things, then you will have a willing slave for life. What I have been saying is how can women fuck up something as simple as that? I am actually in awe on how diabolically powerful and insidious Feminism actually is. They were actually able to destroy 2 million years of evolution and one of the most powerful instincts a man has, which is reproduction and his need for sex, in a single generation. They turned an entire generation of men into either MGTOW's or Pump and Dump Chads and both groups have in common is their non-willingness to commit to a woman.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
When you think about it, isn’t intelligence about adapting? If you can go around knocking up women left and right and then leave the taxpayers on the hook to pay for it all, that’s hugely biologically advantageous.
My girlfriend works with a man, he’s 34 and has SIX baby mamas. Even making an above average income (my guess is that he makes roughly $70k a year after overtime), there’s no way any of those kids are receiving the financial or emotional support needed from a father. He’s stretched too thin.
But, the state likely comes in and fills the gaps. So, thanks to the welfare state, he’s able to exceed the breeding capacity of all but the wealthiest of men.
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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
So she's not great looking. That's ok. Lots of people are not great looking. I've seen women worse looking than that who are happily married, with a house, husband and children, even a good job as well.
The reason why plain women manage to get married and hold down a life with a man is because they are able to make that man feel good. They are loving and caring.
Without knowing anything about this woman, I'm going to guess that she is going to be blaming everything and everyone for why she is single;
None of the reasons will be her fault.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Another side note: I went to school with some girl who was legitimately a 1-2. Depends if you want to reserve a 1 for the actually deformed (and not just hideously ugly and obese). She also appears to be a hardcore feminist/leftist.
She STILL was able to find a husband. Now, from the looks of it, her husband doesn’t exactly look like a high value man, this is true. But she still found one. And judging by her Facebook, she doesn’t seem to be worried about having the bare minimum needs met.
There’s a lot of men out there whose own instincts are crying out to find a woman and make kids with her. But women treat them like lepers for the crime of making only $18/hour.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
1-10 is bullshit.
The 1-3 scale is more accurate.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
1-10 is a handy shorthand, but like many things, people tend to fuck it up over time.
I've been with many chicks who fall in-between those two numbers, where I'd tell people but still not give up fucking others.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
True. It’s kind of what I argued. It’s another reason why high value men exist, but not really high value women. There’s not a large utility gap between an 8 and a 10, and I’ll take an 8 who is nice to me and gets on my program over a 10 who acts superior any day of the week.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Shit I'll take a 5 who:
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yup. I worked with a dude who moved on to a job where he’s going to be a millionaire many times over. Great dude. His girl is legitimately a 3. But she has a high value man, and you have to assume it’s because he cares about her.
All men have different standard of beauty. But if a man wants a 7+, then being a 10 is really not that much more valuable than being a 7. After that, it’s how you treat him. If he’s getting what he wants, then there’s room in his life for her.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Women doesn't realize that if they wait at the end of the race like a prize, then they are nothing more than trophies.
If they instead choose a man in are the beginning of the race and run it with him, she can literally be a 2, but he will value her more than he will a 10 at the finish line
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Many women absolutely fear what Jon Hamm did: divorced his wife as soon as he became rich and famous.
It doesn't happen often at all. Most men will do just what you said. However, they absolutely fear that one in a million guy who would do that.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Good example. she is probably good at making him feel good. If she is a 3 she probably didnt have a shitty attitude. The worst thing about modern women who are 5 and above ? They think they're hot stuff and the world owes them respect. The entitlement and delusional thinking is toxic to successful relationships. Being a 3 probably made her a good person.... probably more like a man in that she didn't have people chasing her the whole time. Didn't get everything handed to her on a plate.
Initial-Glove Wahmyns 1y ago
GUARANTEED this woman is choosing to be alone. She's been approached by her peer equals. All women have. She doesn't qualify for the men she thinks she deserves.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I WAS feeling sorry for the woman in the vid until I read your post. I was also feeling deeply sorry for this woman I know. She is about a 4 on the looks scale who is sweet, kind and very religious. She has gone to private religious schools her entire childhood and has been part of her church for her entire life. She is pushing 40 and is taking care of her Dad and his days are numbered. For now it's just her and her Dad and no one else.
I just realized that her situation is entirely her fault. There are men out there even now that would marry her. What the hell was she doing during her 20's? That she didn't have multiple opportunities? There wasn't even ONE MAN at the church she attended her entire life that showed interest?
Plus I know the thirst is real. There are women out there now that deserve to die alone that still find a man to marry them. UVA Jackie should be persona non grata to every man that knows what she did, yet even she found a decent guy to marry. My sympathy for church girl is gone
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Hard to feel too sorry. If she’s active in the church, then I can only imagine how many high quality and dutiful men that she had access to existed. If she’s a 4 now, then she was probably at least decent 10-15 years ago.
Most dudes are not Chad. Most dudes are happy to have one woman that will be by their side. There was someone who would’ve married her. Sad, but true.
Initial-Glove Wahmyns 1y ago
Sorry lol!
But it's true. Women get approached by men. All women. Fat women. Ugly women. Stupid women. Rude and mean hateful women. All women. Old women. Hell some women even get approached by other women!
The difference is, water seeks it's own level. An ugly woman might get approached by an ugly man. A fatty meets a fatty. To these women, those guys don't count, though. They think they should have Chad knocking down the door instead of Fred.
Church girl? She's been approached in the church. Guaranteed. Probably by older men looking for a young one to keep at home, bc she's obviously a capable homemaker. Being in the church, finding a partner to settle down with is pushed so heavily. I'm sure dad even set her up with guys. They probably weren't chadly enough.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
My wife is in her 50s and attractive for her age (she was a legit 8 when we met a month after she turned 20, and people who don't know her age tend to think she's younger than she is). The other day she was ringing the bell for the Salvation Army in front of a grocery store and got hit on by a guy in his mid 30s (so 20 years younger than she is). The guy works at a nearby military facility and is obviously young enough to be her kid.
When she told me about it I said, "Good for him. It takes a lot of guts to cold-approach a woman you've never seen before."
Initial-Glove Wahmyns 1y ago
I wonder if she felt bad turning him down bc he did step out of his zone to try.
I always did.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Dated a woman who is Egyptian and Coptic. She was 36 and her singledom was a big social problem. Even being married to a Catholic wouldn’t alleviate that issue.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Once thing I noticed is that in her second clip, she’s in front of a whiteboard. That suggests teacher to me. Mean income of $64,870, which is higher than the national average.
So what was she doing when she was younger? Who knows.
But let’s be generous. Let’s say she would accept a man who meets the criteria of making her income or more, and having a bachelors degree (because dating a working man is icky icky, even if he’s making 2x her money). That’s makes 1/3rd of men, or less. Call it 30%. Is she a top 30% woman? Has she ever been?
My mom’s aunt lived life single and childless, with a reasonably prosperous career. Loved that woman, still do in passing, but I also bore witness to what life is like for these women in the end. It’s…not pretty. Nieces and nephews taking turns carting her to and from doctor’s appointments, eventually being put in one of my mom’s cousin’s homes to live out the rest of her life. And upon her death, one of her “beloved” nieces couldn’t even be bothered to disrupt her busy schedule as a SAHM to attend her funeral. Or do anything for her estate. Besides asking when she’ll get her cut of it.
Compare that to women of old, who often got to celebrate their 75th birthday with their 4 kids and 16 grandchildren.
What sounds better, love from your children and grandchildren, or a career and eventual pity from your nieces and nephews?
Initial-Glove Wahmyns 1y ago
I'm sure she nit picked her way to singledom. And yes, probably a teacher of some sort.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Also imagine if you were an only child. So you don’t even have nieces and nephews to go to. We’ll begin to see that, these women living their older years with not a single person giving a crap about them.
Initial-Glove Wahmyns 1y ago
Lots of paid help
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
At home nurse business is going to be booming for sure.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
How people let themselves get that fat is incomprehensible. At the gym I've seen midgets, people in wheelchairs, guys in their 60s and 70s, etc. The amount of calories she eats must be like 10,000/day.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Not to excuse it or her, but its terribly easy. Just takes skipping that one workout. (if they workout at all), Or that extra snack, or that thing they shouldn't buy at the store. Then down the hill of rationalization we go, skidding on a fine film of shitty hydrogenated fats/sugars and whatever until you're down at the bottom and look at the top -- where your starting weight was, and you don't feel like climbing that hill.
For most men, we get to a point and truthfully look at ourselves and say "shit, I have to change things" -- and we do. I think women look at it from emotion-only perspective and just give up.
If she had a guy in her life that cared, he'd be the leader showing and supporting her to change. But she doesn't have it, so she just folds in on herself and drinks another glass of box wine.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I was listening to AM radio to a call in for help and advice show a while back. This girl calls and starts to cry on about how hard her life is being overweight and how lonely she is and most of all how losing weight is really really hard and she cant afford membership at a gym. The host asks her if she owns a pair of sneakers. Of course she does. He then asks her what is stopping her from hanging up, putting on the sneakers, stepping outside her front door and going for a walk for 30 minutes. Just a walk, a nice easy stroll through the neighborhood. The crying and tears stopped immediately and was followed by "Um Um Um." You could tell she was boxed into a corner. In the end I guess it was easier to cry about her lot in life rather than just stepping out the front door
Initial-Glove Wahmyns 1y ago
I know those women. When I used to work in an office, they all were fat. Some were fat and single.
Stupid me. I offer to walk with them in parks near where they live and take them around to meet men. I love to walk and am not afraid of men.
The excuses. "I can't afford a gym." I never fkn suggested a gym as that is the LAST place I'd suggest. Fat women don't want to feel fatter and a gym would do just that if they aren't focused on the right things.
"I don't like the bars." I never fkn said we would go to bars dumbass. Men are EVERYWHERE. Stores, car wash, parks.. same parks we would be walking at...
Oh fuck it. Die alone in a pile of your own lard.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I love the style of your brutal humor - and you are completely right. A lot of women like to complain and frame themselves as a victim, when its entirely possible to take steps to a goal.
But that's the difference between men and women, right? Men generally get their shit together because they know nobody else will do it for them. Sure, some stumble along the way but I rarely meet a dude that is trying to be a professional victim. Its usually the chicks.
My prior post was only to acknowledge how lapses in discipline add up, but I'd guess most of you guys already know that.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
LMAO!
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I have learned that if some people cannot identify themselves as a victim, they would not have an identity at all.
I distance myself from those people as quickly as possible. It would only be a matter of time that my proactive approach to defining my life would be considered oppressive and elitist.
Initial-Glove Wahmyns 1y ago
It wasn't very long until I was a hater and enemy.
Even back then the victimhood was strong
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
From The 48 Laws of Power:
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I'll add to this:
For women, the socal consequences of being a fat bitch aren't immediate: they'll still get offered dick, men will tolerate their bad behavior, and - in general - their lives will be unimpacted in the short term (and the women suck at long-term thinking).
For men, the consequences are immediate and brutal. There will be zero dating opportunities from women, even lower value women. People will instinctively disrespect you (and what are you gonna do, you fat fuck?), you will have zero acceptance, because fat acceptance is oddly gender-specific.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Let's also add that women, even unattractive women, don't ask out men hence they never experience the harshness of direct rejection. This woman's coping mechanism, that she's happy being alone and independent, worked for decades digging her deeper and deeper into spinsterhood.
Women such as this remind me of the parenting cautionary tales of the Willy Wonka movies: Nearly all the kids indulged or coddled their children making them into gluttons, media addicts (Mike TeeVee), and of course the monster Veruca Salt. Charlie, who lived a life in poverty serving his relatives who responded with gratitude, was the happiest character in the film.
It mirrors observations of friends of mine from 3rd world countries who (claim) that people in those nations are generally happier than the middle class people they know in the states. I wouldn't say life is better living under hardship, but it explains the happiness index that claims in the past half century that we're less happy than we were during the oppressive 1950's and, of course, women most affected.
We got a chuckle watching The Real Housewives series where the most entitled women on the planet are continually miserable and bickering at each other as they go on lavish shopping trips and eat at expensive restaurants.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Money don’t equal happiness. People in your life do. My girlfriend is Colombian and her and her family is basically inseparable. Means I get dragged into hangouts with everyone frequently. But even when they have problems, they have each other, and that matters.
We’ve just been taught to consume, then consume some more. What kind of life is that? God and family are all about 95% of the world has, and they’re happier than our people.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Money doesn't equal happiness, but being broke definitely equals misery
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yup. It’s why people who seem to “have everything” will still have depressive issues. Being able to drive a Lambo doesn’t mean you’re happy.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Some people's lives serve as a warning.
What if young women had to watch a bunch of these? It might, just MIGHT deflect them from chasing the wrong shit all the time. (For maybe a day.)
I seriously don't see how the pendulum swings back until society at large starts to change.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
We need brutal, near unsurvivable situations for society to change. Society has become easier, and women don’t understand the brutal reality of what the world was before, like, the 1950’s in America. Kill off all of the white collar make work jobs and replace them with a steel mill and see how long women want to be strong and independent
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
If those cushy jobs disappeared, women would seek to outlaw microwaves and cheap take out food. After all, someone now has to do the cooking. The irony is that women would turn around and blame men for cheapening and/or denigrating the labor of homemaking. It is a full-time job after all. /s
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It’s like clockwork that whenever the economy as a whole, or a company, hit a hard time, women get fired disproportionately. The company unsurprisingly figures out that they don’t need 50 MBA wielding project managers, but they definitely need those engineers that are actually doing the work.
I still remember the first time I got to deal with an overpaid female PM. She basically spent her days bothering people about their action items while seemingly doing no work herself. Her big deliverable for the company was replacing our freeware ticketing software with Jira. Yeah it doesn’t cost too much, but it was literally her “contribution”. She was finally let go, probably for having no use at all.
Anyway, it’s not secret to anyone with intellectual honesty and/or 2 brain cells to rub together that the vast majority of jobs that uphold society are held by men. The jobs that can be profitable during times of feast, but quickly become hemorrhaging in times of famine, are held primarily by women.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
This woman is the poster girl of centuries of chivalry putting women on a pedestal, a century of 1st wave entitlement feminism, and a half century of modern feminism. Women have been told by varying degrees they need only exist to be a "strong woman". Consider that even what we consider "wholesome" such as old style Disney portrayed the ideal woman as going to sleep in a castle guarded by a dragon that a "real man" should scale to take her away to a life of luxury.
Trying to turn that behemoth around is like trying to stop The Titanic on a dime to avoid the iceberg. Our whole society is fundamentally broken and as you said, needs to change but the society has spent centuries doubling down on its narrative.
As i read forums such as this, I'm reminded of what in (remaining) conservative American society lauds the 1700's USA founders who challenged humanity old paradigms of monarchy headed feudalism. Our generations are confronting centuries old paradigms. We don't have historical precedent for this challenge. It's all on us.
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 1y ago
It's her fault that she's fat.
It's her fault that she has a stinking attitude.
Had she been a slim virgin with a pleasant, submissive, cooperative attitude - it wouldn't matter that she was ugly. She would have been married long ago.
In short: she's alone as the result of her own poor choices.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
You know what we call ugly girls who have nice bodies and good attitudes?
Mrs.