Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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reignoferror00 1y ago
"And we must also revive our most fundamental bond, marriage, because it connects men to their sons in a way nothing else does."
I thought it was a dissatisfied dead-bedroom marriage and/or a soul crushing and money sucking divorce. There is something guys that get married and their dad will most likely have in common. Bonding over trauma.
DextroShade 1y ago
What this article fails to mention as it rushes to blame men is that the average woman is fat but still thinks she is entitled to a tall, fit, wealthy man. We have seen numerous examples of this thanks to Kevin Samuels (RIP) and Fresh and Fit where they ask the women what they want and they all say 666 men regardlessof how fat and ugly they are or if they have kids; data gathered from dating apps bears this out as well. When they refuse to give the vast majority of men a chance they have no one to blame but themselves when they die alone. We have average at best women on Fresh and Fit literally breaking the female delusion calculator for fucks sake!
The article did almost get something right when it touched on the epidemic of fatherless homes, but it fails to mention that this is also the fault of women either by them having some fuck boy's kid out of wedlock or by wrecking their own homes to pursue Chad and Tyrone because they were "bored". The article tries to imply that all these dads "went out for a pack of cigarettes and never came back" but said situations where a stable husband and father just randomly ghosts his own family are exceedingly rare as the vast majority of divorces are initiated by women.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Note to college females who don’t want to marry “down.” You already outnumber males on campus 2 to 1. The ever fewer white males on campus are finally getting tired of the relentless and expanding PC environment that blames them from every ill from rape to black crime and at the same time expects them to pay more and more taxes to support the “47%.”
If you want to marry at your social, financial and intellectual level, you are going to have to out compete the other two girls who are trying to land the same lacrosse player/frat boy/computer geek. It may be fun to chant “Black Lives Matter” and “take back the night,” but your best chance for finding a well matched mate is while you are in college.
The competition just gets tougher out in the real world (ask your older sister about how much fun the dating game is in your 30’s! ) Your future financial security, not to mention happiness, depends on beating the competition. So if Trump rallies are increasingly “where the bros are,” you might want to take a shower, shave your legs, put on some nice clothes and head for the next Trump rally.’
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Stop incentivizing and encouraging women to divorce their husbands.
That's easy.
Eliminate no-fault divorce. Make "til death do us part" actually mean what it says again, instead of "until the woman changes her mind because she's boooooooooooored or unhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaappy. Make it so that to be granted a divorce,, fault must be demonstrated.
"Men hurting, women most affected".
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 1y ago
404 error due to muh soggy skneeeeeezzzz.
WymynZ can't be responsible you silly inkel.
Responsibility is a misogynistic tool of the evil patriarchy!!!!
Men hurting - not only do we not care, we will make sure that it's clear that we don't care.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
TL;DR summary for everyone: matriarchy ruins young men, women most affected.
Pic889 1y ago
What are the chances there are many nerdy, not-6-feet-tall, not-in-the-possession-of-cheesegrater-abs men in that campus who are successful in their career and are willing to enter a committed relationship?
But nope, men have to be successful and attractive to be "eligible", aka women can't help themselves from only considering the top 20% of men and rejecting everyone else. And when those men in the top 20% know their options and exercise them, it's surprised Pikachu face from said women.
I mean, it would be great if men had gone on a "white strike" and stopped going along with the plan women have for them, but chances are the men women claim to want do exist but simply aren't considered attractive enough.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
MGTOW is the "white strike". The latest incarnation is "passport bros".
Initial-Glove Wahmyns 1y ago
So they blamed fathers. Lack of fathers. Fathers in the home. They blamed studying. They blamed the workforce.
They blamed everything but themselves..
They never said "am I someone who a man would want to grow up and marry?"
wswZtyqNGQ 1y ago
Feminists have as much (self) reflection as vampires.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Feminists are just women who want to fuck despite not being feminine
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 1y ago
No my dear.
Feminists are not only the ugly femcels. Feminists are ALL women.
Ask the most "anti feminist" """"red pill""""" woman (
Initial-Glove Wahmyns 1y ago
Oh that much, eh?
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
All great observations. I'd add this one from the article: "This was one part of her frustration with dating prospects, along with [the college men's] “lack of relational skills.”"
What this means is that (the men) lack "relational skills" in that he should know how to approach perfectly, ask her out in a seemingly casual way, and pass all of her shit-tests. For all this talk of women "maturing faster" than men, when it comes to dating, such women today are mentally 12 year olds in 20 year old bodies.
"Relational skills" are tough. I help my daughter by going out with her to the playground and when she says she wants to play with a child, she asks me to go up to them and ask them. I take her with me, and show her how it's done. Then she tries and the few times she's rejected, I comfort her and help her get through it. Young boys? We get trained to "swim" so-to-speak by being thrown into icy water.
It doesn't help that aside from emotional risks of rejection, the feminists, without significant opposition from most women, introduced legal pitfalls as well. Their 1950's "play hard to get" routine simply results in the guys taking them at their word (how "clumsy" of him!) and ironically, the "serious" men that these women claim to want focus on studying instead of spending their spare time, money, and emotional energy on meal dates.
There's an interesting difference between male and female "incels". Many female incels who were quite (otherwise) attractive but they played their "sleeping beauty in a castle" game so well that no man approached her and rather than just cutting men a LITTLE slack, they decided they were better off alone rather than "settling."
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
The relational skills they are looking for equates to you being a doormat and her slave. Read up on origins of Chivalry from gynocentrism.com. These women follow it to a T.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Women are like buses: if you miss one another will be along soon.
Initial-Glove Wahmyns 1y ago
"Relational skills" here means "ass kissing to the Nth degree."
They don't want an equal partner with his own opinion or thoughts. They want a whipping boy to finance their frivolous lifestyles. They want to be worshipped and revered, praised and applauded. They are princesses high up in a tower. You sir, are a lowly peasant. Have you earned the right to even speak to this lady?
I 100% guarantee these slores got asked out by guys in their dorms. Guys "not up to par", guys who need help with style. Guys who are funny. Guys who arent 6 ft. Guys who dont play sports. They put themselves in this position bc plenty of guys are looking to date.
Spoiler alert ladies-- college is the last time you will be around 15K young men on a daily basis. This is your chance to grab a guy with potential before he gets the big job, the big money. Get in the eyeline of a business major. Get in the business clubs. Volunteer. Stop spending time online or chasing Chad's. Stop hanging out at football practice. Stop hanging at the bars. Use those 4 or 5 years wisely and it will pay off and you won't end up a careerjob nun or a CC rider.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
What's so insidious isn't that most of them want a whipping boy, but rather they have this notion of what a "real man" (tm) is supposed to be, or at least what they think their "soulmate" is like, and this is reasonable to them. A "gentleman" or "real man" enjoys meeting her demands and naturally is that way such as the 6 footer who (usually) didn't have to do anything to be tall. I know a few smart guys who got straight A's without even trying. Their notion of the man they want is one who doesn't have to "work" at being a man. In our modern era, particularly with the full blast social media/advertising women are exposed to, regards "effort" as something for losers.
Consider the superhero movies that have become so popular and women's fantasies about witches and vampires: "magic" or "magical thinking" (an actual psychological term) describes the notion that the rules of "normal" people shouldn't apply to you if you're "special" and young women, for their entire lives, hear how 'special" they are continuously.
Therefore, they believe they deserve a "real man" as "special" as they are.
When men fail to live up to their expectations, they feel ripped off as if the men are being irresponsible. She is her magical self, so he should be too but he is refusing to. She has showed up, and he should "show up" too.
People aren't aware that about a century ago, women regarded it as oppression to be appreciative of men, to need to have their own "relational skills", to PURSUE, yes, PURSUE men and to put their family needs ahead of having fun in their 20's and 30's and doing as they please. It's funny that young men reading Playboy knew that lifestyle was a fantasy but for women, nobody ever informed them theirs was. The advertising, schools, corporate America, and even their parents tell them "you can have it all! Study hard and you'll find a man at least as rich as you can be!" so she thinks "Ok, great! I'll spend my 20's having fun with bad boys and working 60 hour weeks at corporate America to make more money so the most successful men will be happy to wife me up and spend his money on me to show how much of a gentleman he is!"
Another way of comparing generations: Men were told that we oppressed women back in the 1950's by expecting them to be kind and sweet and love their kids and cook and clean and enjoy that, like Martha Stewart, and this was forcing our view of what a woman should be on them. That all is about 1/10th as tough as it is to be the male breadwinner back then, much less now. Men's ideas of what a "real woman" was like, back then, did at least have standards for women to live up to, even if they were minimal. But these were certainly attainable for most women.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Better yet, don't go to college at all. You'll be indoctrinated with horrible woke propaganda, saddled with lifelong (non-bankruptable) debt, probably not a virgin. In other words, there is NOTHING college does for a woman that is beneficial to her becoming what she was meant to become.
This is why my daughter will be getting $0.00 from me to go to college. I plan on marrying her off well before 20 to a nice guy from our homeschool coop/church.
Initial-Glove Wahmyns 1y ago
The article is about UVA so its too late for them to not go
PoopBeast 1y ago
Translation: "Why are the small subset of men who meet our looks and heights threshold, who we give a sex monopoly to, and who we give no reason to settle down and become marriage material....not settling down and becoming marriage material?"
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Pussy used to be the incentive for men to do shit. They took that away from 80% of men so why bother going to college? Stay home and jerk off to porn and play video games. Work the bare minimum hours at Wal-mart to cover pot/alcohol, get food stamps and housing assistance. For social interaction there's D&D or other in-person gaming.
Sorry ladies, no pussy = no good men. Enjoy sharing the top 20% of men and keep working... millions of single men and single mothers on welfare are depending on you.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
What? You are saying, that like incentives matter? Mind blown. Next you will tell us that actions have consequences. /s
Good point, sir!
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yup, and the funny thing is foreign women are figuring this out and offering incentives and living with consequences such as being married and having kids.
PoopBeast 1y ago
Exactly. This is a point that I think a lot of people either forget or fail to articulate: When something feels too out of reach, you eventually stop reaching for it.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yeah and even if you do serve in the military, go to college, and work hard like I did, you're invisible to women anyway unless you look like gigaChad. Aaron Clarey has countless examples of men like this on his show. Electricians, truck drivers, accountants, engineers, etc.
The only thing men should invest in, if they want women, is a gym membership and plastic surgery. You can be a total piece of shit loser and you'll attract all the women.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Women used to pursue relationships for stability. The government came in and made sure that they’d still be able to eat and sleep even if their life was in shambles. Turn them all into “strong and independent women”, soon they’re choosing men using the same basis that men choose women. They want the most attractive man that they can possibly get.
So hey, if you can just hit the weights for 4 hours a week and women will do anything for you, why not go for it?
I remember once that I told a spinster the fact that men could live with few possessions and be happy, and her mind was blown. Women want money in order to consume, men want money in order to attract women.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Another way of putting it is that women usually want money (and more stuff), and "hot" men, to impress and be accepted by other women. Our modern era is one of extremes: Women are addicted to the feminine hivemind which is far more intrusive than any "Patriarchy" while men struggle to make and keep friends but have personal autonomy. There's merit to both viewpoints, but the healthiest state is in the middle.
I personally wanted money for personal comfort or "eff you money". If a boss was abusive to me, I could walk away and did. At the same time, it means that I have to live life frugally and there's a tradeoff to that. No nice car is worth putting up with an abusive work environment. Restaurants every week means a loss of long term comfort.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Me too. Whatever your opinion on Andrew Tate is, he nailed it when he said that the most free positions to be in are either being rich or poor.
Like take Ye. There’s nothing that they can do him from a business and financial standpoint to harm him. He has total latitude to say whatever he wants, because any money beyond what he already has is just bonus money.
On the other end, the dude living in a tent on a beach in San Diego, what are you going to do to him to scare him? He’s got nothing. Gonna take his tent? He could get another one by just panhandling one evening downtown.
In the middle? Well, you have a mortgage. You have a car loan. You better put your pronouns on your LinkedIn profile and applaud when we say “diversity is our strength” while every job that you cold apply to tosses your resume in the trash due to not checking DEI boxes. Be a good little wagee.
So yeah, you have two choices as a man. Say “screw it”, never try and be broke forever, or deal with the system for awhile, while you build up that FU $. I agree that the latter just sounds better.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
The latter isn't too tough. I just redid my mobile plan and rebalanced my investment portfolio. Small and big steps. I look to save money where I can and earn it as easily as possible.
What amuses me is how women who have it made, like some of my relatives, who earn at age 22 what I do at age 56, blow their money like drunken sailors. My wife was amused that when she worked at Ann Taylor and opened a store during the biggest snow storm we had for a decade, 3 feet of snow high, some woman drove 30 miles to go to the store (she lived next door to it) because she wanted to buy a T-shirt. She risked her life to buy the T-shirt. She marveled that Ann Taylor at that location cleared about $10K a day from women. I spent about 1/10th that much on my clothing for 2 decades.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I knew this guy who lived with his mom, had no job, and just bummed off everyone. Multiple women would come over and fuck him all day every day. Like really hot ones. He was always invited to all the parties, where he would go and all the women would be all over him.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Did he look good? Or was he just a master at game?
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I guess he was hawt enough for women to approach him, hunt him down, and fuck him in the loft at his mom's house. His game was the laid back stoner dude Native American with long hair. He just came off as really approachable and so he didn't really have to run game.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Ah, got it. Basically he’s the guy who takes full advantage of the masculine-ization of women. Like how men have “right” women and “right now” women, women have the same thing as well. Except they have it with bonus emotional damage.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Mr Right vs Mr RightNow is a pretty old adage for women.
Oddest-One-Here 1y ago
Where have they gone?
1/ They found a good woman.
2/ They think they found a good woman (chameleon or develop FOMO).
3/ They are looking for good women younger than you.
4/ They decide to become players (Why be the good guy who pays when he can be the bad boy who get some).
5/ They dropped out of the whole dating scene.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
@Loneliness-inc,
Cross post this reddit please.