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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Chasing Chad

Another height chaser blabbers her way into rejection.
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kevin32

Posted 3y ago in Chasing Chad - Permalink - Locked - 5.1K Views



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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
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kevin32 Ambassador for NiceGuys™ 3y ago

I'd like to see the exchange that followed, but it's likely that she reacted by shaming him for rejecting her while he DHV'd by not playing by her rules. Now she has to qualify herself to him.

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 3y ago

Upgrade now indeed.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

no thanks you talk too much

I have some bad news, bud: ALL WOMEN YAMMER!

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inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

Not on dating apps they don’t. Unless you are 6’5” apparently

A guy under 6ft doesn’t get a reply to a “Hi” - and she even admits it. She wasn’t even going to chat shit unless she truly has no messages (which I don’t believe)

Does she really expect us to believe she didn’t pre screen for height and already know? Or that if he only had the cat and the star sign that would have been enough for her to message? They really do think we are stupid don’t they ?

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

Not on dating apps they don’t

Never used one.

IRL, they just about never STFU.

reminds me of one of my favorite jokes:

Why don't women fart as much as men?

They never shut the fuck up long enough to build up any pressure.

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

If you want to experience what it's like to be a woman on a dating app, get on Grindr

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

Number one reason for women to go on dating apps is “boredom”. They enjoy the free validation and the occasional chat with a good looking guy. But male attention comes easy and they’ve no desire to do anything with a man. Kind of sucks that the dating market is full of either 304’s, or practically asexual girls who have no interest in dating/relationships.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

Nah, that’s with some sarcasm. More just not interested in dating. I work in the city and deal with girls like that constantly. They aren’t getting plowed by various versions of Chad regularly, just 0 effort in their love life. Imagine it’ll all magically work out because they always get male attention.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

I’m not sure tbh. I’ve dated women who are damn near puritanical. It’s not about them not being attracted to me; they’d be all over me in affectionate ways; hugging, kissing, touching. But sex is like extracting water from stone. It’s like they’re fighting their biological urge to have a man.

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inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

They don’t talk for that long when you are (significantly) under 6 feet. They also don’t meet - in general. I have definitely had some cases of being strung along for far longer that I should have allowed (and should have known better). One or two I thought were NAWALTs or at least “reformed” based on what they said (I know words vs actions

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inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

Oh I don’t but I wonder whether leaving it out is seen as more of a red flag . I don’t mean on tinder. I mean on the apps where there are various bio categories and height is one. Not the free form text

I don’t mean the “no hookup” types. It is often commented in these spaces how that is plausible deniability for if someone who knows them sees them on there

The girl I dated for six months from tinder would have gone home with me the first night if I had asked but I’m not that type. And she was a proper shy and reserved type. If you click then you click (but that is rare in my case). In this one case I fluked into some hardcore social validation by numbing into loads of colleagues who hadn’t seen me for months and were legit ecstatic to see me. Must have given her the completely wrong (but a very very positive) idea of me. That circumstance is never happening again

No - in my case the nawalt was a girl who seemed to pretty much never use social media and hardly even use whatsapp. Seemed like she was not one of these “glued to phone” types (which is far more intoxicating for women I find as I am a glued to phone type but not in a social media and validation sense). She also had lost a male friend to false accusations (as in her ended himself) and had some female friends who dumped guys for absurd reasons (wrong aftershave). So she at least seemed aware of how tough things could be for guys. She was still a flake and ultimately a ghost. Just after a much longer period of leading me on due to said positioning (probably unintentional) that made her seem like a nawalt. I was foolish and admit that

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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 3y ago

6'4" is in the 99th percentile for men in the US.

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 3y ago

Haven't you heard? She's special.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

Haven't you heard?

WELL EVERYBODY'S HEARD

ABOUT THE BIRD

BIRD, BIRD, BIRD

BIRD IS THE WORD

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Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

Special as in retarded?

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 3y ago

We just want it to be special. We don't want to be specific.

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inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

Did she really expect a positive reply to a reply that was unnecessarily long winded and a week late

She didn’t even fish for a lie as to why she took so long in replying

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

and a week late

Check out eagle-eyed owl over here! I missed that. Yeah, women are just about always on their phones. She just waited so long because she's a stuck-up bitch.

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Scorpion69_ 3y ago

She probably waited for so long because she was attracted to him from the start and wanted to neg him while trying to demonstrate high value (which she didnt).

Chicks are solipsistic af

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

wanted to neg him

The whole reason negging works on women is the same reason it generally doesn't work on men.

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago

Negging a man is a fast way to say "you shouldn't talk to me"

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3y ago

Minor (quibble): It probably does generally work on men, but largely betas. About 40 years ago, when dinosaurs walked the earth, most women were happy with negged betas who held their doors, bought them stuff, and were happy to follow along with her stick/carrot exercises. In some ways, I'm glad those days are over.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

negged betas

Do you know what negging actually is?

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3y ago

I do. You're correct that women don't "neg" in this context. Would "shit test" be a better way of putting it? I think the purpose of men's negging is to drop a woman's ego a peg or two to make her accessible while women use negative treatment of men in general to keep him compliant and obedient.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

betas who held their doors, bought them stuff, and were happy to follow along with her stick/carrot exercises

If they're at that point, they've already failed a bunch of shit tests.

The way to describe such men is "henpecked".

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3y ago

Agreed. I find it amusing that 30 years ago, women LIKED men this way. Well, sort of. They may have been in a continual state of Type-A nagging bitch misery, but they stayed with the men. They at least ate their own dog food.

Modern women's goals are to "fix" the men and then abandon them.

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

The old trick of using common courtesy, such as saying "Hi", is remarkably good at eliminating women who lack it.

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 3y ago

It's perfectly normal for strangers to start entertaining her out of the blue.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3y ago

When my wife can be a pain in the arse, I work it out with her because I don't want to go back out there.

I would guess that the "hi" opener from "qualified" men on dating apps would be more successful than anything else because it would pique her curiosity to look at his profile, which she did, and then message him. Longer stuff would not likely get a response from her and even if she was going to, she'd look at his profile anyway. So why bother with more than a "hi?"

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inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

As kind of revealed by this screenshot. Hi was seemingly good enough … because he was 6’5”

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

Yeah it really is just out-sourcing all the work onto the woman. Same thing with suicide swiping. Besides, women are supposed to be the one with social grace. If she can't even be socially graceful she must be insufferable and good riddance.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

Scorpio and 6’4” is “her jam”. And these chicks expect men to put in big effort to initial messages?

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 3y ago

Other than Zodiac names and height, you don't really need anything else at all to be successful in a relationship.

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Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 3y ago

I'm starting to think someone invented star signs to screen out stupid women

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

So, just about all of them?

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Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 3y ago

Unfortunately yes. It was too effective

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DivergentMemory 3y ago

That must hurt her ego so bad

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