Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
kevin32
Posted 1y ago in Entitlement Princess - Permalink - Locked - 1.6K Views
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago Stickied
I'm older now and have been happily married longer than she's been alive (to a much better woman than her), but as a guy who topped out at 5'7" and was not especially attractive in the conventional sense when I was younger, I don't feel sorry for this bitch one little bit.
The last person just suggested that she focus on the things on her list that matter and not so much on the things on her list that are superficial, and she instantly responded with hostility. That seems odd until one realizes why such a suggestion would get under her skin so effortlessly: it forced her to look at her own mate value, and she didn't like what she saw. The truth is that most of the items on her list are okay (political and religious comparability and a similar desire to have kids are practically essential for a marriage), and if she had stopped there she would have been okay. However, she's also insisting on similar interests (not that important, really: my wife and I aren't interested in many of the same things), PLUS she considers herself to be too good for any man who is not both in the top 40% of height and the top 20% of conventional attractiveness... even though she's fat.
Even then, if she'd just been honest rather than hostile I might be a little more understanding. If she had said, "Look, I know that I'm no prize myself, and I realize that I'm asking for the same things that more attractive women want, but I would rather be alone than with someone who is on my level," I would at least respect her honesty. But when her first reaction is to lash out as if the person suggested that she marry a homeless guy with AIDS, three baby-mammas, and a heroin addiction, she loses any chance of me feeling sorry for her, or even willingness to lift a finger to help her figure herself out.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
You and I are from similar generations and backgrounds and she sounds a lot like spinsters I knew back then: They're minimal hypergamous ("at leasters" I called them). They wanted a guy who was going to at least measure up (pun intended) in income and height even though, in our generation, women could earn the same as men (if they worked the same hours).
One of the spinsters even put it this way: She wanted to be "modern" in the workplace and "traditional" in the home, but only in the way that mattered to her (she'd probably want me to split the household chores). Equality and tradition when it suits her.
Statistically, in a hypergamous world at least 1/2 are going to be left behind and like you said, this would require her to face up to accepting that she might be in the left-behind group and that she's in the same category as the men she rejects. Such women don't just reject men, they dehumanize and emasculate them as non "real" men. It's a cruel way of thinking so your own lack of empathy for her is appropriate. Who pities a bully?
The other game she plays is to try to bury her one-sided hypergamous demands in a list of goodies that seem noble such as treating others well. But when it's all said and done, we know she'll pick a hot "bad boy" who treats others like dirt and hates museums and then gripe that he didn't treat her right.
I'm chuckling because I'm 5'7" and I "settled" in that I accepted women as they are and just went out and got the best one I could get (married 18 years). I sat down and asked myself: Do I want to go on alone in protest of the situation or do I want to do something about it? That's "manning up".
I have a wife and child while the spinsters, who were more attractive than me, and earned more money are single and childless. So "manning up" isn't all that bad.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
There are two reasons why she reacts that way:
What it says about her own value.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Women’s social status heavily revolves around the man that gave them commitment. If her husband is lesser, that hurts her own social status.
To be fair, this is true to a lesser extent with men. A man with an attractive wife or girlfriend is simply going to command more respect than a man with an overweight or ugly wife/gf.
The only main difference is that a 45 year old, bald, fat guy isn’t deluded into thinking that 25 year old hotties should be fighting each other for him.
This girl thinks the problem is that men don’t want to commit. False. Men are happy to commit…to the woman that gives them what they want. If they aren’t committing to you, there might be a reason related to you.
Oddest-One-Here 1y ago
She wants a Trophy Husband, but she is many pounds and over a decade past qualifying for any more than the husband equivalent of a Participation Medal.
LolTroll11 1y ago
Yeah. The way she describes herself, her requirements sound reasonable. However, she's still single, so I think she's ommiting the things that are the reason for that. I think she's just looking for sympathy on Reddit
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
I disagree with the notion that her requirements are reasonable. She's looking for a man who is - by female standards - a 9/10. For her standards to be reasonable she would have to be a 9/10 herself. Her weight alone precludes her from being better than a 5/10... or maybe a 6/10 if she's not really huge, has a pretty face, a better personality than she exhibits here, and she meets a guy who's into chubsters.
Any guy with the traits she demands could easily do better than her, which makes her demands unreasonable.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Where did you get the “top 20% attractiveness” from? The part where someone suggested guys who don’t get lots of attention I guess ?
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
It comes from the famous OK Cupid study that showed that women only find about 20% of men to be attractive. The other 80% of us are either "average" or "below average" in attractiveness by that measure. That also fits the Pereto Principle (a.k.a., "the 80/20 rule"), so when I see a woman who uses a phrase like "good-looking" or "attractive" I assume she means a man in the top 20% of conventional attractiveness... the same 20% of men that all women favor.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Ah ok. I did assume that is what you meant.
DextroShade 1y ago
The answer to her titular question is simply "Yes."
reignoferror00 1y ago
"move mountains for me the way the way I've done for guys I've fallen for in the past"
though it may seem like it, moving your fat ass from your couch to the fridge isn't moving mountains.
Baby rabies and wants an ATM, vacations, and wants to lock down a guy several levels above her as a status symbol and for him to dote on and entertain her? Shocker.
She's wants what's behind door #1. Johnny, tell us what's she won!
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inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
If that is true in this case the at least one of her bullet points is reasonable enough - the one about earning at least the same
More likely she used to work loads of those but because she isn’t hot didn’t get the tips she heard other girls getting and is still butthurt about it to this day
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
That just means she used to date losers and doesn't want to anymore.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
I think this may have happened: She was working in a service job and a hot guy comes up and she flirts with him and the guy says to her "Just give me my change. I'm not interested."
Hypergamous women justify their demands by both dehumanizing the men they reject ("He's not a REAL man!") but also in believing that the men they prefer are naturally more decent and trustworthy. This works in reverse in that they think that since they are "good" people, then her own lack of looks shouldn't matter since she is automatically pretty "inside" and therefore deserving of such men.
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tierteen 1y ago
60M
I imagine myself at that age doing what he did, if I would have a minute and just shitpost answers to this lovely girls so they are not stopping living the dream
Unfortunately there is growing army of white nights so it is not very original
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I actually think there’s more based young men coming of age. “Simping” is a big insult amongst Gen Z now. Pendulum is definitely turning to a less gynocentric society as men are growing up and learning that the whole “nice guy” routine is a lie.
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Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
I love how the knee-jerk reaction to the word "settle" is complete avoidance. They simply abhor the idea that she may not deserve the cream of the crop, and there's no reasoning about that; she won't ever admit that she's too fat, or too old, or too bitchy, or not interesting enough. One thing is to have some idea of you own value, another is to be delusional - and not being able to face reality for what it is is probably what got her in this situation (and thus why she's condemned to never get out of it).
Oh well, she's 26; enough time to get a baby, at least. And then she can play pretend with him, dressing him like the men who pumped and dumped her and telling him all about how he should be a
simpgentleman.AurelianWay Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Her post ended up getting removed? Going by the screengrab it seemed that all the other Carols were all upvoting her not to mention the blue pilled boomer giving her useless platitudes.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
The black background post is from one of the reddit archiving websites where you can view removed/deleted posts and comments.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
LMAO, I almost felt a tinge of pity in my cold, black heart until that final exchange. I meet her height requirement, yet I still find her unwillingness to give shorter dudes a chance really off-putting.
UpsideDB Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
At 40 you have the same chance of finding a woman without fatz, catz, tatz, or bratz as they have of finding someone 6'3. They wonder why "older" men date younger women ignoring the pile of reasons why we don't date our own age. Because we can pick women that haven't made as many poor choices, they're still looking for something that guys have no control over.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She just listed all of my qualities. Too bad I'm married and not into fat chicks. After 10 years of looking for a wife in the US I gave up and went to Asia. Sorry ladies. Your tiny pool of marriageable men is tinier than you thought. Yes, you're going to die alone unless you go to Asia and marry a short man, muahahahaha.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
Sounds like she's been a plate more times than a dish in your average restaurant
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Ah....the sweet sweet nectar of Schadenfreude. You know, I am beginning to think I will design a dating app called Fumble that will show these laydeez the current profile/successes of the men they swiped left on 5 years ago. It will end with photos of the man's family and the caption, "Could have been you."
Boxed wine sales would spike instantly.