So lovely to know the future of the human race is in good hands

I am so surprised , I imagined that she friend zoned a lot of good men , but luckily for her , those friend zoned men grew some self respect and found good women. Now she wants to settle , be a mom , be married . so the phrase "happy wife happy life " but she is attracted to attractive narcissistic fuck boys who don't want to marry her and a bonus emotionally unavailable. But since she has no one to blame while not blame youuu.

Please woman, do not rope a child into your shitty life plans.

That's a case of pre-meditated child abuse.

I love her self dates list. Literally just eating dinner at home is an accomplishment for her. Plus watching TV and drinking while doing it.

Like wouldn’t this have already been her normal routine anyways? Eating and laying around? It’s not like she was training for a decathlon before this. How sad.

And so the next generation of criminal thug or wanton slut comes into being. The relationship between single motherhood and lifelong negative outcomes for the child is so strong that it is almost assuredly a causal one.

TLDR;

Woman is promiscuous and disloyal. She mates with her counterparts who are also promiscuous and disloyal. Surprise pikachu face she is an inspin.

Decides to have a child alone while living the yolo cock carousel rider lifestyle thus depriving her of a real job and stability to raise said child.

Off-topic rant: where did this "I need to be happy alone before I can be happy with someone" bullshit come from? One of my friends is deep into it too.

I started to get panic attacks over being alone forever

STROOONG WOMAAAAN

Truly sad what decade long propaganda did to women. I believe she really couldve been happy if not for all the lies shes been fed.

I really hope she doesnt bring another child and traumatize it.

i started to get panic attacks over being alone forever

wtf this is your fucking doing, this is your fucking fault, YOU ARE SO FUCKING TOXIC THAT ACTUALLY YOU BROKE YOURSELF

You are not a red flag, you are a the definition of hell for men...

Then watch her claim child benefit when she cant afford a child on a single salary. Not to mention government subsidised nursery and education, which will only be paid back by the taxes of a single parent.

Jesus fucking Christ.

I started arranging self-dates. I would dress up, order in, sit on the sofa watching movies and drinking a bottle of wine alone.

It would be sad if it wasn’t so pathetic.

Got a cat, then another cat

Why is it always cats?

Single-parent insemination

Terrible choice. This child will grow up never knowing his or her father. And of course, kids that grow up in two parent households are statistically far better off than those with single parents.

My family….would help as much as I need

Easy to say until it comes time to actually do it.

My friends….said I would be selfish

Your friends are right. Listen to them.

Absolute train wreck. No doubt she, like most other women, rejected plenty of good men who would be great husbands and fathers but she went for the bad boy or the guy she couldn’t let go of because tingles. Oh well.

Women treat children like accessories. I'm scared for what the world will be like in 20-30 years when all these emotionally disabled bastard children are going to be running the show.

This is the end result of feminism, daddy government and the msm telling everyone the past 5 years that single moms are strong & independent and fathers are no longer needed. There’s going to be a lot of neglected children in the future. Time to invest in private prisons!

Edit: there will also be a lot of pressure on the brothers, cousins, uncles, dads of the single moms to “man up” and act as a father figure to these kids

She doesn't disclose her priorities and plans on her dates huh? Lol I'm sure every dude she meets is getting grilled harsher than a secret service special agent on his background investigation. And that's on date 1. Guaranteeing that any decent and above average dude she manages to trick into a date will immediately ghost after he correctly reads the crazy vibes she's putting out. And only losers will stick around for 2+ dates which she'll hate.

She'll inevitably have to settle with one of those losers but will prob get preggo from the ghosting Chad's. And will lie and tell the loser the baby is his.

Imagine growing up, and for your entirely life, when someone asks you who your Father is... and your truthful answer is "I have no idea, my parents never even met".

This woman, bringing another human into the world just to cheer herself up during her mid-life crisis. There are no words for how self-centered and selfish she is.

She probably doesn't want to be honest and disclosure her decision because that would prevent paternity fraud.

Or just don't have kids at all. It's a viable option.

And this is why it's called "baby rabies." All rational thought is abandoned in pursuit of their goal.

You're already having a hard time finding a fella, you're already on the wine and you're already at two cats. Adding an instakid to the mix pretty much guarantees you a lifetime of continued singledom.

But in the end, it's her poor decision to make. The person I feel sorry for is the kid who will wind up being the focus of this gigantic pile of regret.

A senior manager where I work (in the UK) has done this very thing! She's in her early 30's, single, juggling a high power career with the desire for parenthood, but was trapped by hypergamy and paid the price. She had an epiphany moment and realised that she didn't have time to find a partner, settle down and start a family. Panic set in, so she went ahead with expensive insemination before her biological clock ran out. First attempts at implantation failed, but she did manage to conceive and go full term during Covid lockdown and is now a single mum.

Hypergamy is where women typically 'marry up'. However, in her case, her high income role automatically prices her out of the market, except for perhaps a handful of potential men, all of whom are most likely already taken, or, are hot and wealthy enough to pick and choose, playing the field with no intention of commitment.

This medical process is very expensive, so I don't think we will be seeing too many incidents like this, as the price means the procedure is beyond the reach of the vast majority of single women.

I can’t stand to keep my own company so now I want to have a child to keep me company. For the child’s sake, I really hope she doesn’t go through with it.

I am not a religious man by any means, but there is a special place in hell reserved for people who knowingly deny their child a father.

She needs to be happy alone. But also needs to create a hostage to force to love her so she can be happy alone. This is terrifying.

there are plenty of guys who will dump their nut in her lol.

this monologue reads almost as good as anime villain explaining her backstory. In this case it's a cat-lady.

Jokes aside tho.. How damn sad her life has to be, if being alone was so destructive for her personality. I am alone for my whole life and i don't even realize that.... Well now i did.. where's my wine bottle and a cat.. Oh. wait.. I'm average, therefore uggo, man. Being alone is the default option. Nvm then. No point wasting cash on wine.

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So stunning and brave

Alcoholic plus wall plus babies rabies. Dating herself. Getting strong free dinner strategy vibes.

Credit where credit is due, she came so close in the 3rd paragraph. Just to throw it all out of the window by thinking she can go for a child without even having to need a guy. Top kek.

You know what? I suggest she goes through with it. What a lot of these mid-30s women don't know is that - alongside better fertility - there is another reason to start having kids in your 20s: energy. So many women I know who had their first kid in her 30s all say tthat they wish they had started earlier because they're always too tired. Now these women all have rrlatively stable relationships with a guy to help them out.

But imagine she wants to go through this alone. I can already see her starting to resent the child because she never gets a day off and can't go out with her friends anymore. It's like with weddings: they want to have it, but they don't want to deal with it after they get it.

since I won't need a partner to be a parent?

Because children aren't accessories. They're living, breathing human beings who need both mothers and fathers, not a single parent needing company.

While we normally don't allow posts like this during the weekdays, this post is being allowed as an exception since it is not a clear-cut profile and has elements of other phenomenon we showcase here. This woman fits several criteria at the same time: she is a leftover woman who cannot find a man to commit to her, she is a "strong, independent woman" who just wants to indulge her own selfish desire because she is afraid of missing the genetic lineage train as it approaches the geriatric pregnancy station, she is in her epiphany phase with regard to having a kid and she is a WAATGM-In the Making who would rather lie to her potential partners to silently rope them into something they would not probably sign up for.

This post is being allowed because we want everyone to observe the following things showcased in the post:

1. This woman and a lot of these kind of women are deathly afraid of ending up alone but have no qualms wasting their prime in dead-end relationships that they chose. This is because most women's dating strategy is to set up shop and to wait for the right guy to walk in. Notice that her idea of "being happy alone" is to take herself out on a date and not doing volunteer work to benefit others (and derive pleasure from it) or improving herself so that can do better. The answer to her happiness is self-indulgence, which is the sole reason she is deciding to be a mom despite the fact she is going to inconvenience her kid and her potential partner for her selfish desires.

2. How the hamster rationalizes and restructures counter-arguments to fit its agenda. Her friends point out to her that she will be selfish to raise the kid alone and advise her to find love and a loving partner to have a child with. Her decision is that she still wants love, a loving partner and a kid on her schedule even if it means bum-rushing the potential partner into adopting her timetable or by outright lying to them and hoping for an oopsie.

There are good reasons why men do not want to commit to most older women and this woman is a good showcase of one of the reasons why.

PS: I am changing the flair to "Epiphany Phase" (even though the post can fit several others) since I believe it fits better than the others for this specific post.

not fair to the child, woman is only thinking of her own emotional needs

Just don't let it be a boy.

Female selfishness really has no bounds.