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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
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YaBoiMarcuss 4y ago
Her looksmatch is watching alpha.m's videos and commenting made up stories about being a millionaire and banging different white women every week
PrettyWater9941 4y ago
Her bio screams of..
Inclusion and Entitlement
And damnit "Filters again"
Admirable_Bee_8714 4y ago
Funny how all these women have "amazing kids" and yet the lions share of the prison population in the US was raised by single mothers.
ZarBandit 4y ago
No collarbone = fat.
Plus her whole persona is eating. So it’s not like she moderates herself. “Where’s my free meal?”
oxyoxyboi 4y ago
Indian women become fat af after kids
InstantChekhov 4y ago
What’s expensive taste do you mean?
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The wall destroyed her.
TZ879 4y ago
Being "super independent" guarantees the person will stay independent, because they will always be alone.
Loud-Bottle-7879 4y ago
Guarantee you she has no problem accepting that child support check though.
SCCock 4y ago
Why would I want to take that away from her?
TZ879 4y ago
Touché
phoenixgreek 4y ago
So.... who is she? Her hobbies & pastimes? ...nothing? Just some selfies and what kind of food you want Chad to order for you? Sheesh
Paradox_Blobfish 4y ago
Steak with potatoes is not really expensive taste tho. Like potatoes are quite literally dirt cheap.
bigrome347 4y ago
So a steak can cost anywhere from $30-$100 with a side of potatoes. Crème brûlée goes for about $15-$18. And the sangria is $12-$18. With her two children what are they going to eat?
ScorpionGOH 4y ago
It will work and she will take his half his shit get a 3rd kid and do it again to some poor fool
logiauser 4y ago
Where do these people get such expensive tastes? 15 years of making all the right choices and I still live well below my means.
What compels any man to take on this liability?
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Internet. When there's a bunch of "influencers" on social media (cancer) platforms bragging about the latest, greatest restaurants they ate at, or the flashiest clothes and cars they got, it makes the rest of the wanna-bes feeling they have to keep up.
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Svartanatten 4y ago
Cancer killed my grandma.
But feminism turned my mother into a crazy person who broke up our family (over money what else) and is now screeching about how all men are monsters, regurarly.
Hard to tell which is worse, mum best cancer after all but that feminism isn't something you can fix.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Desperation for Poonani. She’s reasonably pretty, at least from her photos. A man who’s been “making good decisions” for 15+ years may have never had any access to women. The first one that gives him attention gets his world.
Wide-Illustrator2906 4y ago
This happens alot more than most people are willing to admit.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago
Comment removed for rule 1. The use of the man-shaming slur "simp" is rarely going to go well here.
Additional reading:
PSA: We are not here to shame beta men,
"NO SHAMING MEN FOR ANY REASON" is Rule #1 For a Reason,
AND stop blaming men for women's bad choices.
plz_say_sike 4y ago
She reminds me of some of the Indian chicks in my town. Drank the feminist stunning and brave koolaid and fked as many white dudes as possible. Didn’t listen to the advice of her parents on education or marriage. Got knocked up. Popped a couple biracial kids out as a low wage, single mom and then at 30 bitches on social media about how there are no good Indian men available & they’re all scared of commitment.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago
Comment removed for rule 1.
We don't shit on other men here. You have the entire rest of the internet to do that, but we don't permit it here.
Man-shaming slurs such as "simp" will rarely go over well here.
Please familiarize yourself with the rules on the sidebar if you wish to continue participating here.
downzeitor 4y ago
If you switched "Indian" for any South American country you will still be right 100%.
BrokenWing2022 4y ago
That's what Western culture will do to a non-Western girl.
I knew a couple in college whose families semi-abducted them back to India so they wouldn't end up like this. Props to them.
mustangfrank 4y ago
I can't think there would me many white guys in India. Why? I don't think the pay would be the same in a western country.
I have worked with some Indian girls in Houston, and I have to say some were absolute foxes. I am here to tell you they were HOT.
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HoppingBumbleBob 4y ago
Yep, independent means don't want/need a man. I don't know about you guys but I would prefer my wife to want and need me.
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3-10 4y ago
Yup, was deployed to help stop the slave trade in Africa. Libyans saw nothing wrong with slavery, they held the whips and Islam approved it, so there they were upset at us grabbing slaves and returning them to the South part of the continent.
40moreyears 4y ago
Ouch.
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Indians and whites are biracial? ROFL!
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
What was the advice they got on education? As in the U.K. most Indian girls prioritise education above everything else. And I believe this is true in the states
I believe that make up the bulk of the women on “the sub that shall not be named” who rant about their qualifications and six figure incomes not actually qualifying them for top tier men (as well as always being repulsed by men who are interested in them)
yolower 4y ago
Which sub you talkin abt?
AdmiralShawn 4y ago
It rhymes with Female Mating Strategy
happychickenpalace 4y ago
Free Dinner Strategy
Wtfbyamey1 4y ago
But I don’t see Indian girls dating western dudes or doing hookups And I live in Mumbai
Proof-Examination574 4y ago
You could say the same of anywhere. When I was in Indonesia there was one bar all the foreigners would go to and so all the girls who wanted foreigners would go there. There was probably only 4 of us that were mixed couples in a city of 2 million people.
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Wtfbyamey1 4y ago
Ouuu, so you mean Indian girls out of India hookup with dudes and all
CA-GMOW 4y ago
Seen this far too often.
The brown guys are mostly blue pilled here in Canada. They get used as Betta bucks once these girls are off the CC.
sniperwillsnipe 4y ago
Lol my friends are hooking up with white girls every other week
CA-GMOW 4y ago
I have friends who do that to, and I have had similar insistence precovid.
But that's not most of the brown guys.
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YouthfulCommerce 4y ago
Not just in your town... that's basically all Indian girls who are westernized.
Al-fa 4y ago
Not just in your town nor the ethnicity....that's basically all TYPE of girls who are westernized.
TheGeeksama 4y ago
in india also things are getting way out of hands the bengal , south delhi and mumbai feminist .woke turns everything crap
OhBarnacles_007 4y ago
Women seem to eat that shit up the fastest.
Svartanatten 4y ago
Damn that is sad. Altough I guess if I find myself single it would be a pro if I get around to finally travel to India. But since I don't do casual hookups I guess it matters little.
But... Do they like 6'3 Vikings (pale asf)? Asking for a friend... The little head that doesn't rly get a vote in my life.
Boring-Bandicoot1606 4y ago
Yeah man the slutty gold-diggers will just open their mouth for you cum asap.
sniperwillsnipe 4y ago
Yeah you can find brown dudes dating in Sweden so you can do same in india
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Almost all women go weak at the knees for super tall guys - especially in countries with shorter than average populations - like India
And in India certain women buy expensive chemicals to put on their face to effectively bleach their skin whiter to look more attractive (in their mind). So i that should answer the other part
AnthonyCarmine 4y ago
That’s sad that people need to bleach themselves
SpideySurreal 4y ago
Sir the discreet low-level of contempt Indian women have for my average brothers (me too) here in India would come as a surprise to a lot of people.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Not me. I once dated a woman from Gujarat. She thought Indian men were “gross”.
SpideySurreal 4y ago
That sounds appalling sir. I earnestly hope that that toxic woman was not a part of your life for long.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
She was not.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
I only really got an understanding of this opinion held by Indian women through Reddit (relationship ones and FDS). It is usually pretty clear when it is an Indian who is writing a story
Also from a British Indian girl who messaged me who didn’t even hide her contempt for guys of her own race and how she was only interested in white guys. And she was so painfully average I assumed it must be widespread
SpideySurreal 4y ago
Thanks for sharing this sir. In my opinion, there is no dearth of above average to stunning native women in India, but their disdain for Average Men and overall entitlement is well-known to most modern Indian Men. The cancer of Feminism has ruined generations here too. And there's plenty of anti-Men laws here as well.
Or maybe it's just me being out of touch with reality...
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
I had heard there was some of the harshest anti men laws in India - which to an outsider sounds really surprising
I wouldn’t say you are out of touch with reality. I saw something the other day suggesting that the percentage of women aged 18-34 (in the US I think) with no relationship at all is 50%. This shows they will sooner be alone than with even an average guy. Crazy times
Goldmansachs3030 4y ago
You can go towxindia and see the enititlement, though then you will get bad from two sides.Anyway, i do not want a tinder used up girl who gives herself away for free.
Svartanatten 4y ago
If only I were interested in casual flings it sounds like a gold mine...
In Sweden the averege height is about 6ft or slightly above (fir ethnic swedes). Like I barely know anyone below 6'1. Dad's exactly 6ft and not considered tall.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
I’m pretty sure most women there would want something serious. It is just whether they have blown that chance already by past behaviour
And the most traditional are likely held for arranged marriages within Indian families
Svartanatten 4y ago
I worked with a few Indians and I only have positive experiences tbh. But its just a handful of people and definitly not enough to even guess the general population.
Probably still will travel there though.
BTW thx for a genuine good convo.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
I feel bad about getting a little snippy in the other reply thread now !
Thing is about Indian that us westerners don’t understand is how vast it is and how varied all the different regions are. Basically like Europe but was pushed together by the British. So it will be very difficult to generalise
Those from the north nearer to Afghanistan and Pakistan will be very different from those on the Indian Ocean
I spoke to a British Indian girl on an app who suggested there are branches of Hindu Indians that are as strict and religiously conservative as those we often associate with Islam. Insular, conservative, traditional etc
Which I really didn’t know or expect
Svartanatten 4y ago
Words don't hurt. Grew up with a devouring mother who would regurarly tell me I was to ugly to be loved, like at least once a month since I was, 5-6yo. Then 5y of bullying and well I played esport in the early days so...
I definitly never get offended by words again. And I don't speak with my witch of a mother, she lost it completly past year. Last conversation she said that me knowing more then her made her feel stupid then some screaming about how all men are monsters, pedophiles and all foreigners.... Ye I given up on that relationship...
I shared a work apartment with an Indian guy from, Bengali (probably got that wrong, I dont rly care a lot about such things) for 2½ year or so.
Was a rly diverse company, real competent women and we had shifts with basically every continent represented. And our boss hated quotas, was labeled a racist etc cuz he supported the Swedish democrats (they want borders, that's far right here) but he choose based on personal skills and he recruited while traveling the world. Swedish racists sure suck at racism....
darkskinx 4y ago
din the brits take over india
YesYesYesVeryGood 4y ago
Cute! but them kids though.... where is the father?
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Are you sure those 2 kids are from the same father:)
ialwayslurk1362354 4y ago
Does she have the thousand cock stare?
denvercaniac 4y ago
If her BMI hints at fatling, ensure she rides no trouser gatling
WaycoKid1129 4y ago
Ain’t nobody trying to take care of your crotch goblins
wtbrift 4y ago
BIG FOODIE = 5 star restaurant dates at his expense.
AngryCockOfJustice 4y ago
HUGE FOODIE.
aka you pay, I snap photos, eat 60% of it, waste 40% of it and, defecate 70% of what I ate
gentle_lemon 4y ago
Sorry there, Persian princess...been there, done that.
I don't need to touch the oven again to make sure it's still hot.
AndyBrown65 4y ago
LOL. I wonder if she got what she wanted, her periods last 28 days
denvercaniac 4y ago
"huge foodie"
heh
ScalpelLifter 4y ago
Looks wise she's my type. Shame about the kids
nameunknown12 4y ago
It really says a lot that the woman that already have kids are always the ones that "aren't looking for a hookup", and are looking for a "long-term relationship".
NationalistGoy 4y ago
They need a beta bux.
Mr_Chad_Thunderpenis 4y ago
Do you remember that profile with the attractive virgin that wasn't looking for a hookups but only long-term relationships followed by marriage and kids?
Yeah me neither. Because a profile like that doesn't exist on any of these sites.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Maturity myth in a nutshell. It’s funny, they kind of understand how the classical deal works now; in exchange for his resources and protection, she offers her sex and child rearing abilities. Of course, it’s all warped because a lucky dude in this situation would get 1 kid, while he has to provide a home for 2 extra.
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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Disgusting. I can get over a man taking care of some other man’s kid, if that’s his choice (I don’t agree with it, but hey, some single moms are still nice people and can get a man to look past it). But to not reward that man with his own children? All of that sacrifice, only for that kid at 16 to look at you and say “shut up, you aren’t my dad”.
APathWellTraveled 4y ago
Post wall single moms are like the epidemic of modern online dating,
More men are waking up this this and focusing on their health and wealth. Seeing more and more men break out of societal "expectations" makes me hopeful for the future. I love this sub and the general awareness that is slowly coming into the mainstream in the last few years.
Rick264 4y ago
The commentary and opinions shared here are what keep me coming back, and the more I grow in life , the more traits I see on this sub , begin to shine through at work, school and some of my friends life. I just close my eyes and thank God I now have knowledge of this kinds of women.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago
When we see comments like yours, then we all know our effort is paying off.
NationalistGoy 4y ago
When I used Tinder in the past, I set the age range between 29 and 33, so a few years younger and a few years older than me.
I shit you not, the number of entitled single moms on that age range is ridiculous.
I recently installed Tinger again, but set the age range from 19 to 25, and wow, there are single moms, but not as many. Also they seem to be more friendly, less bitter, less aggressive in their approach.
Already had 3 dates with a 21 year old who absolutely likes me.
AngryCockOfJustice 4y ago
Don't forget to do some background investigation if things are going to go serious. After all, you're investing time and money
NationalistGoy 4y ago
I am definitely not going serious. I am not hers, it's her turn lol.
AngryCockOfJustice 4y ago
My man
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago
Haha nice.
Svartanatten 4y ago
In Sweden you would need to go down to age 18 to find single women not single mothers.
After 22 they are single mothers or good women meaning they are taken ofc. Few of them as we have a shortage of women that's worse then China.
BrokenWing2022 4y ago
Lucky duck. In America you'd have to go down to probably 14.
...and after saying that, I just realized why there's a growing 'loli-wife' subculture.
Svartanatten 4y ago
Well age of consent is, creepy low in Sweden but that would even be illegal here...
Dating apps don't go below 18 obviously
Vaako81 4y ago
You are missing one importance factor mate. The average broad in the USA is about 171 lbs at 5’-3”. It’s not like europe in which the average broad is slim or slender.
Svartanatten 4y ago
Very true, if you scroll through Swedish tinder it makes you wonder how there can be so many hot chicks that you never want to meet (hint, 72% of fertile women identify as radical Feminazis...)
knucklz74 4y ago
They literally should have their OWN dating site, and be BANNED from others. Hey why dont one of you make a site Minus single mothers.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
They would lie about whether they had kids - most likely by omission
A recent match did this. I kind of worked it out when asking what she was up to over the weekend and she was being really evasive. Wasn’t answering and eventually talked about having a chill day (and only answered for Saturday- Sunday is Mother’s Day)
I looked more closely and there was a pic of her in a top that clearly had “Mum-“ and second word was cut off (didn’t originally spot as it wasn’t big writing , was in mirror and hyphenated. Luckily “mum” is the same reflected
She was (as is typical) very lazy with trying to hold conversation so ghosting has been particularly easy. The amount of times women will reply in a way that kills the flow of conversation stone dead is astonishing really! (And I don’t mean killing it through a reveal of kids - I mean a statement with no follow up and nothing to spin a further conversation out of )
knucklz74 4y ago
Thats because they already have a fuck boy, they are thinking about trying to turn into husband material. And he wants nothing to do with her.. Yet she needs re affirming by other guys. I wouldnt waste my time, even if she want a single mother.
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Svartanatten 4y ago
I got a Swedish dating app to add a filter that allows me to hide anyone with children. Turns out there were not a single one available in 22-27yo in my area except students at uni and you know they are just looking for free housing to save on loans and hookups.
I dont even want to walk away, I just am left with no choice.
BrokenWing2022 4y ago
Holy shit bro. I'd pass you a beer through the screen if i could.
Svartanatten 4y ago
X. Accept artifial beverege and fill up the horn and screams:SKÅL! Chosen.
knucklz74 4y ago
Thats sad. I always feel so bad for your age group . Im older and didnt even consider to date AT ALL SOMEONE FROM U.S. . I was on a international cupid. I weeded tgrough a lot of them before i met someone real. It took a year. But it WAS SOOOOOO WORT IT.
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Svartanatten 4y ago
My dad's GF is Thai, lives with him, they are not married. She is learning the language and she's very kind and my dad is like a new person after spending 40y with my toxic mother.
I didn't see him smile until I was like 30yo...
Swedish men with options go abroad, our domestic women are sadly so far Feminazi that you can't believe it. About 15% divorce rate between swede+Thai and 50%+ among swedes...
Also ofc those with few options go abroad but its different kind of women that each group are looking at, my dad's woman is a trained nurse who had a good job at a plastic surgery place.
I have not asked how it works with visas etc but I think she's on a work/study visa. Spoke to them just a few hours ago, she rly studies a lot and understands Swedish somewhat already.
But tbh we don't even deport convicted illegal migrants that's been convicted of rape or murder... So it's probably not something to fear.
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Svartanatten 4y ago
Yes that summerizes it, Swedish women HATE Thai women because, well 72% are radical feminists and generally unpleasant ofc not all but, well 72%. In a country with worse demographic (woman per man) then China its rly hard to find a good one... . My uncle has been married for about 10y to his Thai wife. They are happy, she learned the language, works and, ye I like her she's nice.
Will be my dad, two or three of his brothers for Easter. And with them their woman, one from the Baltic states (I always fail att translating them, Lithuania, the southernmost?), and two thais, the youngest brother is the only one with a Swedish woman today.
My first shift partner was a middle age Thai woman (highly qualified job, wife to one of the higher ups, still happily married and could easily have been a trophy wife if she wanted, still worked her way from the ground up) who would cook me lunch boxes, I grew up with a Thai migrant in my class that I helped learn Swedish and in return I got to learned some Thai. It's definitly not like I can communicate but, well I can thank for dinner, count and some polite phrases and, some less polite (hey we were kids
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
I admire your morals. If I could get Swedish girls in their 20s who wanted hookups and housing I’d definitely do that for a while
Hookups are not an option for me even if I wanted them though. The level of muscle I’d need for being a fair amount below average heigh requires too much work and too many drugs to obtain and maintain (and even then may not even work). But no use dwelling on that!
But i find given that Seeking now exists there will be student girls who rather than wanting hookups and somewhere to stay will sooner look for an “arrangement” where their existing housing can be paid for along with gifts, trips and networking and all “hookups” being effectively paid. And that’s if you pass a vetting test. So what you describe inevitably sounds reasonable by comparison!
Svartanatten 4y ago
I had a coworker (multi millionaire) who lives in Uppsala, Sweden a oldest university city. Central huge apartment, big boats.
He was around 35 and had new students each weekend. He told me many of them viewed the fact that he used to be married and had a kid meant that he was a man who might be open to commitment one day so they both wanted the arrengement while trying to win him over.
He eventually reconciled with his wife, she was a good looking Latina but, men like him are rare and seeing him with 18-20yo hotties probably made her realize his value. A good ending especially for their daughter.
I mean he still took her to Disney Land and Disney World annually. That's expensive especially if you travel from Sweden.
He worked rly hard for his fortune, was a shorter dude I might add altough that doesn't matter, he had game, money and an apartment at a prime location. And more then one million dollar+ boat...
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Svartanatten 4y ago
He was a truly nice guy, taught me some game and that's actually how I got my first GF. Though I'm not into the casual stuff his wisdom was useful.
Like, don't wear expensive watches to a first date (lots of clock enthusiasts in that line of work, high pay little free time) and just some tips on how to get used to flirting etc.
Great man and last I heard the rumor was they were having a second child. She came back to him, not the other way. He even said that was the end game, that she began respecting him when she realized how popular he was among other women. You know pre-selection but, well I guess they had already been married.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
You clearly misunderstand on the height thing - and I don’t blame you. You simply cannot relate. Telling someone that it doesn’t matter if they are shorter if they work really hard and are a multi millionaire and wok on game is not exactly reassuring when they know that there are guys who simply don’t need any of that.
I said the other day - there is a reason why “get jacked” is such a common refrain in these parts. Because it is infinitely more achievable than “become a multi millionaire with a boat and a prime apartment”. And that is not being defeatist but pragmatic
Also - you have already revealed that the definition of “shorter” is rather different in Sweden
It does make me laugh that women who are “seeking arrangements” think they can convert it to something long term. Talk about being sold a fantasy. I’m not saying it doesn’t happen but it must be vanishingly rare
Svartanatten 4y ago
You are correct. This man was clearly an apex, an outliner. I mean we worked at a very odd consulting firm to begin with, I met many original characters.
Yes I added the part about swedes being tall to put it in a context, that I'm not rly considered very tall where I live. I mean sure it doesn't hurt but it's not that big a thing here.
Except ofc to some women it's a big deal but they usually in my experience are often competing with friends in "who can catch the tallest dude" or shit like that.
But it also means that being short isn't that big of an issue, most players I know have been, well shorter but fit and charismatic.
SwinginPastMyKnees_ 4y ago
"Pretty woman was based on a true story. That happens all the time" - delusional women.
reignoferror00 4y ago
Only the darkest parts of the original screenplay happen all the time.
https://www.thethings.com/how-julia-roberts-pretty-woman-was-almost-a-very-different-movie/
spyramyr 4y ago
They'd complain, then the rest of the sisterhood would complain because they know at some point that will be their life too.
The best way to handle it is to have a dating site that automatically filters out single mums. They can create as many accounts as they want, but it just won't show them to anyone. They'll give up and go back to the other sites
Overkillengine 4y ago
Put the filters in the hands of the individual users and you'd get the desired end effect. Just make falsifying the required fields a reportable and bannable offense. Like if a woman lies about being a single mom.
The bonus to end user controlled filters is if you are just trolling for a pump and dump you can filter for them that way too.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
They will lie by omission in your scenario. It is rather common
knucklz74 4y ago
Verrrrryyy true. This needs to happen. Im married now , but i remember dating here and it was fucken horrible, you couldnt find a decent woman. These animals are everywhere
spyramyr 4y ago
I'm divorced and living the monk life. I looked at the dating apps for all of 5 minutes, seeing the entitlement mentality of women like this was enough to convince me not to give up my peace and quiet. As long as the world continues to pander to them, it's only going to get worse for men.
Stallion88inTx 4y ago
With you Bro...my new line for folks is "Oh, didnt you hear Im on Permanent Disability" (confused and shocked look from friend)....."From CHICKS!" (Hillarious laughter ensues)
knucklz74 4y ago
Look bro seriously. I dated a couple of woman like this. And was told by both even though they didnt know each other at all. I needed to get with the program and be a simp or else and deal with the fact their kids were ABSOLUTE PIECES OF SHIT. And that it should be ok. Lmaoo. Look bro . I had ENOUGH!! I started dating internationally. WOOOOOWW WHAT A DIFFERENCE. I ended up marrying a woman i met. Shes a GEM. NOTHING LIKE THESE PIECES OF SHIT HERE IN THE U.S. She has principles, morals. Seriously like night a day. I avoid EVEN talking to woman here at ALL COST, not worth my breath
Svartanatten 4y ago
I love an happy ending.
Snoid_ 4y ago
Where is your wife from?
knucklz74 4y ago
Brazil
vic_vega_is_fake 4y ago
"Huge foodie"
You will be buying me and my kids dinner 7 nights a week.
PirateDocBrown 4y ago
I figure if she's a "foodie", she can cook for me. Put the kids to bed early, I'll be over for that steak and creme brulee at 8:30.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Directly or indirectly (so buying the food )
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Expensive dinners at that. She ain't talking about no Happy Meals @ McDonald's.
3-10 4y ago
She is talking 3000 calories a meal 7 days a week. That’ll do great for her ass.
Svartanatten 4y ago
Look at her fav meal. Maybe I was a bit spoiled since dad is an amazing chef (trained) but that sounds like a bad Sunday dinner from my childhood, except ofc we didn't drink.
If she's a foodie that's rather basic, I always imagined they enjoyed some wild food...
kakarot4star 4y ago
Honestly this was my first thought. For a so called foodie, her tastes are pretty basic.
3HardWay 4y ago
Foodie means they enjoy stuffing food in their face.
Svartanatten 4y ago
Oh so I'm a foodie. I tend to identify as an occasional stoner but, they work well together
DoDo_01 4y ago
You can't be fresh out of a relationship but you have to deal with her two blessings
The absolute delusion
Eadgun 4y ago
Says she’s a foodie, yet her favorite meal is basic as fuck.
She’s even delusional about something she’s “huge” into.
She’d prolly be impressed by Outback Steakhouse.
BlernstAndYoung 4y ago
Never even specified the type of steak, or how the potatoes were cooked, it's like hearing a virgin talk about sex. Guaranteed she buys the cheapest steak and cooks it all the way through until you wonder what tannery it came from. I doubt she's ever made her own creme brulee.
Also, sangria is basically wine for people who don't like wine. It's ok to enjoy it, but why would you have that as the drink representing you? It's not exactly marketing oneself. The whole meal is like what a 14 year old imagines you would eat on a date.
V_M 4y ago
Being a consumer as an identity, is about poorer people being jealous of seeing you consume, not about what you consume. All that matters is the dollar value on the bill and the resulting antisocial media updoots.
Sensitive_Tough1478 4y ago
33, blown out, and a shit personality. What a catch.
Tiki-Tiger 4y ago
She has not hit the wall yet but it is coming. With two kids and such a stand offish attitude, the juice is not worth the squeeze.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
This assumes her pictures are in date and not pre-kids. Note there is no full body shot
Saw two women with strollers discussing going back on “dating websites” yesterday. Their bodies looked to have collapsed. All wobbly and hanging everywhere
Tiki-Tiger 4y ago
I don't disagree.
Loud-Bottle-7879 4y ago
You understand. Photos are always years old and HEAVILY filtered. I think we have all ended up meeting some where we had to do a double take to see if that was even the person in the photos.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Multiple times I’ve ended up unintentionally whale hunting. Like I’m the one who has to bring the personality, the income generating potential, the leadership (and I don’t want to hear from FDS chicks about how that’s misogynistic. Sorry, I’ve been a beta pushover before and it turns women off, they definitely seem to like men who take charge and show leadership). The least you can do is be better in the classically feminine areas. If I’m also the better looking one, then what on earth am I getting?
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
I posted this yesterday and mentioned I had to stop myself from laughing out loud
I walked past them a second time and caught one saying “if we didn’t have kids we’d be straight back out there” - or something to that effect
This was in public. I am no Chad and didn’t fancy two warpigs screaming at me in my favourite place to walk
Herald_of_Leshrac 4y ago
Post-walls gathered in their masses
FDS says they're still "catches"
Sagging bodies, holes are ruined
While entitlement keeps stewing
OH LORD YEAH
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Sangria doesn’t really pair with steak and potatoes. And what cut of steak? Do you like it rare/medium rare, god forbid well done? Do you like to cook it low and slow on the pellet grill then finish it with a nice sear? What is your best marinade recipe? As a self described “foodie” (fuck I hate that word) she should be more specific and descriptive of her culinary endeavors.
What she means is that you provide the food, I eat it, watch you pay/do the dishes, then pretend to be too full for sex; and I’ll be on my way to morbid obesity when my metabolism inevitably slows down closer to 40.
Every time I hear the term “foodie” I think about how much I enjoy breathing, but I wouldn’t describe myself as a “breathey”. Yet another female hobby that is nothing but an essential bodily function.
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lemko1968 4y ago
And it’s suburb Boxed Wineburg.
DrDog09 4y ago
"Huge foodie"
Bet she has the ass to match.
Big_Werewolf_Cock 4y ago
Why do these women always sound condescending when listing things that are potential turn offs for a guy?
She could say “ I have two kids and I understand if you’re not looking for that”
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago
iT sEeMs CoNdEsCeNdInG tO yOu BeCaUsE yA cAn'T hAnDlE it!
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
They are pre-rejecting men before the men can reject them.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Pretty much this. And shaming tactics - they want to make it sound like there is something wrong with the man for having standards
Silver-Discipline550 4y ago
A man who has standards is shamed because he won't give his commitment. A woman that has standards is praised.
IntroductionNew3421 4y ago
In 5 years after marriage she will be double her current weight, a "housewife" you have to support along with her 2 kids that are not yours. So you would end up carrying someone elses baggage. Definitely pass.
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IntroductionNew3421 4y ago
They don't even know that by saying that they are recognising they do not have more value than a nanny. They are basically saying, my contribution to this family is almost non-existent, considering a nanny can be a 12 year old girl.
Flashy_Glove6208 4y ago
Stay independent as you are and raise your two children.
What a crappy sandwich no youth, no beauty, 2 children, ran through and entitled independent attitude.
Make no mistake, as soon as she can claim in courts a man is a father figure to her children, he's getting a child support law suit/ and divorce if he married her.
33 and single, boohoo, there are 15 years of reasons why she's single and other men passed on LTR with her. Run for the hills !
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Imagine if you responded to her claims of independence by saying you are impressed that she doesn’t have an employer or collect any child support or benefits. I expect she’d be completely stunned
People don’t know what “independent” means
I am sure there is a “womanese” definition for it but I can’t quite put my finger on it. Seems mostly related to “I can survive as an adult in the modern world”. Which really isn’t something to brag about.
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
"Independent" is womanspeak for "I don't listen to no man!". It has nothing to do with being self-sufficient.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
Makes sense. Also explains why I’m pretty sure men don’t often describe themselves as Independent. Because they use the true definition and most are grounded enough to know that it doesn’t really apply (really only does to a small number)
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago
I've said on this sub many times, that most women use words with complete and utter disregard for their actual meaning, but rather for the emotions those words evoke.
You have positive-emotion words like strong, independent, smart, intelligent, industrious, ambitious, and others.
And then there are the negative-emotion ones, like incel, creep, misogynist, and many others.
They'll almost never use any of the words accurately at all.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 4y ago
Labels. Not values.
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
I had a talk with my current FWB last night that ran along these lines. When men speak of truth it is typically the literal, factual, objective truth that can be verified by others. Where as women view “truth” through the lens of how they are feeling right now. Which is why their truth, and thus their words, should be mostly ignored by us. It’s true to her, but not true by any objective definition.
I think this is also why often women tend to lack empathy for anyone other than themselves and their children. It’s their solipsistic nature. My ex-wife always used to say that I lacked empathy, which may have been true to an extent, but she was completely incapable of seeing things from my perspective.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4y ago
And of course “curvy”. Gosh do they not know what that means (hence the updated banner). It is rampant
I got lectured about not having empathy by an ex. What that meant was I didn’t just sit and listen to her complain about things - I suggested solutions. She didn’t want that
It is that mindset that makes me really question the effectiveness of “therapy”. Not least because she was studying it which is how she knew precisely to lecture me on this in the first place. Basically swallowing a section of a textbook and spewing it at me
Boring-Bandicoot1606 4y ago
Where do I not sign up
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago
No violence or advocating suicide.
30 day ban.
inkednewfie 4y ago
Lmao, hard pass.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4y ago
A) comment removed for rule 3.
B) if you really don't see a problem with her profile, then keep silent and read the comments here. You might learn how not to be taken advantage of by women like her.