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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Single Woman Tears

I feeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeel so humiliated! Guy laughed in my face when I said I was dating for marriage. He just wants to have fun... Boohoo
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Loneliness-inc

Posted 3y ago in Single Woman Tears - Permalink - Locked - 6.3K Views



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aldabruzzo No busted Pillsbury biscuit cans 3y ago

r/thathappened

More to the point: Yeah, no. Sorry. I'm going to break tradition and maybe a rule. I don't believe a man laughed in her face when she said she wanted marriage. I do not believe he laughed in her face.

Actually, no, this doesn't break a rule. The rule prohibits arguing that a post about WOMEN's bad behavior is fake. This is a post by a woman arguing a MAN "behaved badly".

I don't believe this because she argues a man, loudly, pointedly, publicly, crassly, and to her face, ridiculed her. That doesn't happen. Men are not permitted to ridicule women, in public and to their faces. They're just not allowed to do this. If this were real, about 6 white knights would have intervened on this woman's behalf. Police would have been called and this man would have been hauled off for questioning. At the very least, the man would have been loudly and forcefully ejected from whatever public place they were in.

Men cannot do this anymore. Men cannot laugh in women's faces. Men are not allowed to humiliate women publicly like this. If this had really happened, the man doing so would be up on criminal charges right now.

I call bullshit. I call fake.

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 3y ago

No. It happens. When I was cold approaching, I wasn't really into the idea or style of being a wordsmith to attract women. I heavily relied on body language and short, concise words to convey interest and disinterest. I could get away with it most of the time. The worst that might happen was that the girl might walk away, which I didn't give a shit about.

As you can imagine, hot girls got a little bit a leeway on what is tolerated. Average or below average girls did not. All this tells me is that she is relatively below average to the guy and hence he can get away with this. And that is exactly why she came to the internet to whine because if he called her to bang, she might still go.

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SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

Maybe if marriage and vows actually meant something in our society more men would do more than laugh at the prospect.

Marriage today is little more than a system of wealth transference from a man to a woman. You can thank no fault divorce , female entitlement and punitive alimony/child support laws, as well as biased child visitation schedules for the demise of marriage and the family unit. Special mention to big daddy government (the taxpayer, men mostly) for being the “new daddy”.

No man of wealth and good standing should subject himself to the risk of marrying a lower class woman. It’s just not worth the risk. Even prenups are routinely thrown out in court.

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Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 3y ago

Maybe if marriage and vows actually meant something in our society more men would do more than laugh at the prospect.

Yaaaaaas!

Marriage today is little more than a system of wealth transference from a man to a woman.

Marriage was always that. Check out this Colttaine video on the topic. There's also a follow up video.

https://www.bitchute.com/video/oplNnhOonQk/

You can thank no fault divorce , female entitlement and punitive alimony/child support laws, as well as biased child visitation schedules for the demise of marriage and the family unit. Special mention to big daddy government (the taxpayer, men mostly) for being the “new daddy”.

You can thank the bullshit idea of equality for all this.

Because of the belief that everyone is / ought to be equal, we got universal suffrage.

Universal suffrage gave women (and other consumers) a clear majority of the vote. Producers have no voice.

Pretty much every major problem in society stems from this. Go ahead and trace them back and you'll see it too.

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chunky 3y ago

This is why you put your assets into an offshore trust, before saying "I do".

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CisgenderPig 3y ago

Don't wait until you're about to get married (or even better, don't get married, ya walnut). Uncle Sam is the original hoe who wants your wallet.

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mattyanon TRP Endorsed 3y ago

simpler: never say "I do".

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 3y ago

Or just to the trust part no matter what, and if she dislikes the lack of a ring and vows, she can strong and independent herself right out the door. Not like the jewelry and sacred toilet paper were going to make her stick to any vows anyways - so why bother with them?

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RecoverInTime 3y ago

There is a chance she was attractive enough to marry. On average your average guy is hooking up with girls they arent very attracted to, for ONS. The ones they actually want to fuck (and maybe view as LTR material) are swiping left on them.

If you had a dime, you wouldnt laugh in her face, even if you dont like marriage. But when a hb5 tinder hook up says this, it is very cringeworthy and borderline disrespectful.

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orbilius 3y ago

when a hb5 tinder hook up says this, it is very cringeworthy and borderline disrespectful.

Age could also be a factor. If an average-looking 20 year old says her goal is marriage, I wish her all the success in the world.

But when a 40 year old says she wants marriage, that is pretty laughable. That ship has sailed, lady. You squandered your youth and now only a fool would marry you.

Also, you describe it as disrespectful - I would probably say "insulting" - particularly if I suspect this is a situation where she wouldn't have dated me when she was younger (and hotter) but will date me now because she's after my money.

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Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 3y ago

If you had a dime, you wouldnt laugh in her face, even if you dont like marriage. But when a hb5 tinder hook up says this, it is very cringeworthy and borderline disrespectful.

Laughing in someone's face is disrespectful, regardless of how they look.

OTOH, laughter can be involuntary.

But none of that matters. It doesn't matter whether or not he was justified in laughing at her. That isn't what this forum is about.

We are here to discuss HER and her sorry life.

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OtPayOkerSmay 3y ago

She doesn't deserve sympathy, but unfortunately reddit will give it to her; and she knows this.

She deserved to be humiliated for a) not knowing her value and b) expecting marriage out of a hookup app. Maybe she'll smarten up and lower her standards to a blue-pilled guy who doesn't just want to look for fun. I don't think this will be the case, and she'll likely keep chasing chads on a hookup app and getting "humiliated" until she runs head first into the wall.

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 3y ago

Rule 1. No man shaming.

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Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 3y ago

Looks like some retardation is following us here...

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 3y ago

It's going to follow us everywhere.

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Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 3y ago

her plausible deniability conversation

Please explain this.

How was she aiming for plausible deniability?

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

I think he was saying that she was after a hookup, but didn't want to look like a slut.

It's possible, but not likely.

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Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 3y ago

I think he was saying that she was after a hookup, but didn't want to look like a slut.

That's why I asked him. I wanted to give him a chance to explain himself.

It's possible, but not likely.

Highly unlikely.

Men sometimes forget that women don't value the same thing that we value. Even when the item is the same, we value it for different reasons and to different degrees.

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Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 3y ago

I would try to break past their ASD.

Why does she have an ASD system?

Why do you want to convince her out of it?

Why do men develop the best strategies for getting around this system, while women try to keep them up?

Ever stop to ponder these things or are you too busy shaming men?

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Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 3y ago

Your last paragraph was shaming men.

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Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 3y ago

You have some learning to do.

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

The only woman who didn't laugh in my face when I said the same thing("I'm dating for marriage") is now my wife.

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SheLarror1234 3y ago

The guy did a good thing. Lets all laugh at females who think this is okay. We live in the most reprobate culture and society almost to ever exist. Imagine some dumb person thinking they turned a new leaf because now they are bored of participating. Now they deserve a crown? What disrespect lol. Its anti judgement

Honestly people don't even know the effects of their bullshit ways, and they need to. Many average people would be best locked up, or put in a cave until they actually learn the consequences of their actions. How many kids are now programmed unrightfully due to the older ones influence and moral imprecision. My hope is that the youth and life continues to laugh at this behavior of no consequence. Maybe when nobody is getting married and when more dudes rise up and raise their standards could we be on the road to improvement.

And those comments smh. All idiots and betas. Honestly the guy in the post inspired me even greater to laugh at women who say these things lol, and it should to you as well.

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Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 3y ago

Many average people would be best locked up, or put in a cave until they actually learn the consequences of their actions.

Why do you desire to be a tyrannical monster?

Lock people up for making bad choices???

If you want them to suffer the consequences of their bad choices, you simply need to stop bailing them out.

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SheLarror1234 3y ago

I was going to agree with your statement, but then I thought about it.....this form of judgement is not fair all of the time. What about those who were/are messed up due to these mistakes? There has to be some recompense, whether it be punishment/instruction or reward. People are raised and herded into believing they can fly after jumping off a cliff when they cannot. Instead of just letting more and more people die, someone has to either say STOP, or do something about the ones teaching those to kill themselves.

Without a bail out, Ideally you'd hope the person is quickly caught, and that lesson is learned. But with a society that does not try to understand understanding and accountability, how would they comprehend their mistake, or right from wrong?

No bail out in a time of trouble? Then they hate god. They are some who will justify themselves no matter what has happened. What do you do about those?

Point is lesson has to be learned or even the self inflicted consequences are meaningless. And by the standard you presented, in context, one of the consequences for hypergamy is a destroyed society. I'd rather be seen as a dictator for a while than to make people suffer, forever. Because without order and understanding the evil will just keep repeating...

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DextroShade 3y ago

There is nothing wrong with dating with intention, but she was likely blatantly unmarriagable due to red flag tattoos and piercings, bastard children, espousing feminist ideals, and a history of sex work. I would have laughed too.

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Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 3y ago

There is nothing wrong with dating with intention,

True.

Not only is there nothing wrong with it, there is everything right with it.

But she expected him to have the same values as her. She's wrong for that.

but she was likely blatantly unmarriagable due to red flag tattoos and piercings, bastard children, espousing feminist ideals, and a history of sex work. I would have laughed too.

I don't know why you need to make assumptions without any basis in her writing. Let's stay away from conjecture and stick to what she actually wrote.

What's true about all women, everywhere in the western world - is that marriage is terrible for men and women are lousy wives at best and terrible cunts at worst.

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flowingwisdom13 3y ago

I wonder how old she is

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CisgenderPig 3y ago

High level Chad move from this guy.

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mattyanon TRP Endorsed 3y ago

Women: laughing at guys interested in them

Women: destroying marriage by making it a one sided deal that benefits only them, and only when/if they feel like it

Also women: why won't men take marriage seriously!?

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