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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Damaged Goods

"My boyfriend got arrested for domestic violence. Even though he nearly choked me to death, he's still a good guy."
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kevin32

Posted 3y ago in Damaged Goods - Permalink - Locked - 2.8K Views



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DextroShade 3y ago

Men hear these kind of stories and rightly judge women for their choosing and defending guys like this while normal men are mocked and put in the friendzone. This bitch has demonstrated by her actions that she does not deserve to be treated well and should spend the rest of her miserable days sucking dick for fentanyl.

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OPPTRP 3y ago

Women are so deluded it’s unbelievable

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PHALLUS 3y ago

She should have his baby!

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DextroShade 3y ago

She probably already does.

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Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

What's wrong? Didn't women say they liked to be choked and tossed around?

Or were they just gaslighting themselves.....and men?

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago

Good to see you over here. Let's get you properly flaired.

Back on topic, and I've told the story many times before, but one of my exes actually got pissed off at me because I refused to choke her!

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Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

As a kink it is more popular than you would think, but even then you would not want to risk actual death from the activity, in this woman's case, her BF was abusing her in the classical meaning of the term, but she keeps making excuses for him which indicates that she sees him as a Chad.

Women will break the rules for Chads and enforce the rules for Betas.

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 3y ago

I am going to go ahead and ask the inconsiderate, misogynistic question: What the fuck did she do? While she is claiming they were having "such a small fight", for all we know she might have been goading him by listing the list of his friends she has fucked behind his back. This is not to say that I condone his behavior. He should be locked up for his violent behavior. That said, there are two people involved in this situation and what we should be getting out of this are:

  1. She is damaged. She is not a victim. She is only a victim of her choice (and possibly her behavior). This is not the first time it has happened to her.

  2. Learn to enforce boundaries. Do not date such women. Do not allow women to rile you up. Walk away. That would be better than getting convicted. Do not be this guy.
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atomicben 3y ago

What a mess. So, her dad has to FLY to get to her but NOW she needs a restraining order? Yeesh, this chick CANNOT think for herself. Surprise surprise. Also needs people on the internet to tell her she's being abused. ugh. It's amazing the excuses they'll make when they're with their perceived alpha. If her friend told her the same story she'd have told her to call the police and leave because he's abusive. When it's her own self - no fucking clue.

And no, he doesn't know how angry he gets, that's the problem. But ya know what, this chick is such a fucking airhead, god that would be frustrating.

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Bulba 3y ago

Not much can be done. There will always be a certain percentage of women in the population that do not know how to deal with abuse, probably due to lack of proper upbringing. And sociopaths with decent SMV will chase these women as they are easy to identify.

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Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago

He must be one hell of a Chad for her to make all of these excuses for him, if he was a Billy Beta, she would cry abuse for something trivial like telling her not to max out his credit card or not putting the toilet seat down.

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Bonzai-Shaihulud 3y ago

This. This is the kind of things that made me being very cautious with any news I see about a "feminicide" : it's always a tragedy for sure, but if I ever see a sentence explaining that the guy that killed his girlfriend / wife / whatever had been even once arrested for domestic abuse or being violent against anybody, I'm not sorry anymore for the victim.

I'm not into victim blaming, but don't count me into the voices that would be crying for her when she knew he was violent, when she had his fu**ing foot on her neck and she still tries to made excuses for his behaviour. When you see the cracks in the dam, you RUN, sister...

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Bonzai-Shaihulud 3y ago

A little follow up, kinda late, but 3 days ago, another feminicide happened in my country. Yesterday the equivalent of the district attorney in the town it occurred released information about the case to the press.

And lo & behold, the guy wasn't knew for "domestic abuse", but the cops were called months ago for a domestic dispute, tried to convince her to came to the police station to fill a complaint (not to avail) and the guy was "well known by police forces".

In the end, it's a tragedy & justice must be served, but I can't stop myself guessing that she surely knew about his past & she nevertheless chosen him. She thought he would never been violent with her, while he was surely basically using violence daily to settle his problems in his "professional" choice of career, and then a very predictable tragedy stroked.

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