She needs to define herself as ratchet. Cause she loves troubled men.

Women are just broken

Sounds like a girl I once went on a date with. On paper, we were both perfect matches for one another and I feel both of us generally wanted it to work out. She didn't feel "the spark" after the first date and that was that. WTF?!

And another one.

Omg! This butterflies in the stomach or that "spark" is the biggest scam on the earth lol.

I have encountered this so many times. When you have 3 dates almost 3-4 hours long. You have all your goals, Interests and all the personality matches exactly what you are looking for, it should be a game, set and match in terms of compatibility right ? But nahh you get thrown this everything is perfect but can't feel the butterflies things .... That's checkmate and keep wondering what hit you.

I do feel butterflies when someone is totally crazy and exciting but then I can see how this can go pretty wrong long term.

You gotta know that sparks fucking start crazy in real but also die down that quickly as well. So let's just embrace and move on hahaha.

He checks all her boxes except her box. Her box needs another hit of excitement and danger; time for it to hit the local biker clubhouse and have a train run on her.

Here's the problem he has his shit together and you sure the hell don't; you're an attention whore and excitement junkie looking for your next hit.

This literally feels like the story of my dating life.

When I was in college I was an alcoholic coked out drug dealer who used to steal shit. Women were lining up out the door for me.

Now, after having spent time in jail for a DUI and drug charges (I got off easy and only charged for the dui), I cleaned up and got my shit together. I have a good job, a degree in stem, quit all the drugs. Now it’s like Women want nothing to do with me cause I’m “too safe”.

Women are seriously stupid bro. But I’d rather be single than back in jail.

He's Everything You Want
He's Everything You Need

He's Everything Inside of You That You Wish You Could Be
He Says All The Right Things

At Exactly The Right Time
But He Means Nothing To You
And You Don't Know Why

Hmmm, sounds awfully familiar to us Gen Xers

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Relationships based on excitement and tingles never lasts.

I actually looked at an article written by a dating/ relationship counselor that said tingles or butterflies are mostly from the anxiety of the chase or instability in the relationship. A nice decent man is not as thrilling as somebody who is more elusive so no tingles!

i was talking to this chick who is about 33 i think and she told me she went on multiple dates with successful guys in our age group (im in my early 30s) and she said they were all boring. she has a kid with a 6 ft tall abusive chad who she ran away from.

these chicks think they are gonna feel the way they felt when they was 16.

‘Butterflies’ in your stomach is part of the fight or flight response when the amygdala in your brain gets stimulated. This is when you feel fright, fear or detect some sort of threat. So this women wants a man who makes her fear for her safety.

she must be over the age of about 25. The truth is, that once they have had so much sex, they have had this butterflies feeling, so it's rarer and rarer that they ever have it.

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That's what hookups do.

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Women say that the number of partners she has had "doesn't matter".

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Just think logically. If someone has spent the last 10 years hooking up and going from bad boyfriend to bad boyfriend and she lands on you at age 30-40, its unrealistic to expect her to magically just decide to stay committed "through tick and thin". Even if she wants to, she probably can't, but she will tell you that she will be good. She will even want to not be a whore, or keep smoking weed and drinking excess wine and eating fast food and hot chips... but she will be addicted to her risky and dangerous and unhealthy lifestyle. Why would she still be fit, not too stressed, insecure or narcissistic about her looks, willing to be submissive, honest, willing to work in a relationship, faithful, loyal... etc. why would she be any of those things? She likely isn't.

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She had the choice between a family and self-respect and building a future and going, childishly to the carosel time and time again because feminism and society told her to. Guess what she chose?

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She can buy her own McMansion and put up her own picket fence.

Chad literally fucked the butterflies out of her.

Had an ex leave me after 1.5 years because she never felt butterflies... well sorry I did not stress you out and make you feel anxious. Women are def odd.

RP truths pictured here:

1. Hypergamy

2. Unrealistic expectations

3. Tingle chasing

I hope she breaks up with him so that he can go and find a better woman.

Butterflies is nothing more than the anxiety that comes from having something you're not entitled to in your reach and the feeling that it may blow away any moment. Think of the feeling you get when you find a 100 bill laying on the ground and wanting to grab it but you have anxiety from being watched or someone coming back as soon as you grasp it.

I'm willing to bet if you did a study the same brain function you get from gambling and women get from dating Chads and high value men will be exactly the same.

She answered her own question and doesn't even realize it. We all know his behavior isn't the kind that generates tingles but she is completely oblivious to it. Sad.

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My favorite line and biggest TRP truth:

"It's even worse than someone annoying you"

Her brain is busy trying to talk sense into her pussy but it's a losing battle.

Just like some mens brains can't talk their penises out of dating girls like this, so too some females brains can't talk their pussy's into dating a guy like this.

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Nah I've had that You can't fake the feeling People can seem great on paper and then you just have no chemistry.

It's not about people being good enough it's about how well you click and actually feel about someone.

well if she feels nothing then she better gets someone who does and leave the poor lad alone.

after all it will fail anyways by her cheating or some shit so toodles.

Due to womens dual mating strategy you can never trust them, and the more "freedom" they get the more the will devolve into their primal natural state. Now that the pillars of society men build are eroding, we are seeing what women are really like on a base level.

Sometimes the spark and connection just isn’t there. Nobody’s fault. Just move on and try again

somebody call chad and tell him his cum dumpsters out here acting up

Anyone above 12 who uses that many emojis is a red flag.

I'd love to fast forward five years to listen to her regret.

Doesn't that tell it all!

That's why when women get married, it's not for life. They're lying. Their #1 reason for divorce (I mean in private conversation, not the lies they put on their divorce filings), is that they're /not feelin' it anymore".

And so guys need to know that it doesn't matter how much they make (since she gets paid to divorce you, so it'll be hers anyway), nor how well you treat her, after she gets bored and starts thinking about her party days riding the c*ck carouseland some guy she meets gives her the vaginal tingles, she's gone! And so's your stuff!

Of course, this is where most guys go full-on mangina.

Bang enough guys and you kill the butterflies. Simple as that.

This classy lady will come to regret her decision in a year or two.

Not only guy has to have all these amazing qualities... but he has to be "exciting" on top of that!?

The 30's are gonna be really interesting when all this attitude comes crashing down and marriage rates plummet.

women in the dating pool: "MeN aRe TrAsh"
also women in the dating pool:

She needs to do him a huge favor and leave him be. Nothing will bring back the tingles for her. She belongs to the "Game of Tyrones" now.

When will women learn that they are only happy when they are unhappy.
The number one thing that gives tingles is drama and a feeling of risk.

If those elements are not there, she will get these feelings of boredom.
It works like drugs, in the same sense that you build up resistance to it.

The more you expose yourself to it, the more resistance you build up.
There is a reason you start off getting the tingles from your crush looking at you, and ends with having to run around with gang bangers.

Women tend to lack the understanding that you cannot always be happy and excited.
If there is no down, you no longer have any up.

Tats and a criminal record get the jezebels

I hope that guy gets the hell away from her and finds someone who doesn't have the baggage she does. He probably wants a wife, this woman is busy working through her childhood traumas.

Can't make a hoe into a housewife, gents.

Sounds like a “catch” dodged a bullet without knowing it.

just because you have your shit together and are cordial doesnt mean you know how to illicit sexual tension. nice guys finish last because they dont know how to exude "fuckable" just "dependable"

If I ever go to the bars again I should go with lifts in my boots and wear a suit. If I start getting approached because I appear 6' I'll just leave.

#fuckheightsupremacistsmaytheydiealone

Deliciously irrational and short sighted. Instant gratification at the top of the agenda shows just how poorly this person plans for anything. Not that I'm saying she or anybody else should stick it out and drain the poor guy emotionally and financially.

I wonder how she reacts to potential new friends... "No we can't be friends, since we didn't instantly and immediately become bestest frends!!!!" Surely nothing substantial can grow over time?! Surely no individual could ever find affection [or friendship, or interests, or anything else] they didn't immediately see?!

It's simply unfathomable for me to base potentially life changing decisions on "tingles." Sheer fucking lunacy.

Wish we could see the profile to followup their life

She is too stupid to handle this qualified guy. I hope that the guy will leave this stupid girl ASAP.

When only the top 5% will do, suddenly being in the top 10 just ain't gonna cut it.

If you have to have tingles, buy a vibrator.

Gets everything on her list. Still bitches about it.

Next time, he should push for hot anal on the first date. Crazy broads.

I just hope this man realizes her insanity and leaves.

Hmm...just throwing it out there, but I wonder if she's talking about lacking arousal, or lacking any kind of connection. And if he shares her interests, is smart and funny and kind, and she still doesn't click with him at all despite actively wanting to, she might also just be a boring-ass basic bitch with the personality of toothpaste who can only connect with people when drunk or high. I think that happens alot too; it's not always the CC that does it--sometimes being told they are a special princess just for having a vagina means they never develop character, even if they manage to avoid being a slut. "I like stuff, and, like, makeup, and OMG, did you see that thing celebrity thot said to man-bitch feminist actor?!" This is bad at 16 but practically ear-stabbing pain when she's 30. I've met women like that, and I'm not entirely sure they even know what to do with a penis, and they don't want to find out because that might ruin the $12 of face-paint they put on before going to get their asshole bleached.

Women want but they don’t know what they want

If someone isn’t feeling it then they aren’t feeling it. I can’t fault her or anyone for that, sometime it just happens. I will fault her for complaining about it later and for thinking lasting relationships and real, solid love is the product of magic like some Hollywood movie or fairytale that just hits you like a bolt of lightning instead of something you work on and grow all the time. I hate when people have these insane checklists and then ditch out after one time because they had 10/10 … but still think they should have something extra. I had a guy roommate like this not too long ago and it drove me nuts. People like that think that they need to give 0% to get 110%, that the universe owes them and one day the bill will be paid in full not even considering they haven’t given anything to get anything back. A bunch of it is insecurity / not wanting to try and fail, but I still don’t have any sympathy for those people.

I'm sure she's looking for the thrill that only a thug can give her. That sense of excitement that comes from knowing you might wind up in jail or shot dead from who you're dating.

He’s a good man. Society’s expectation of what a man should be, what he is told to be growing up from teachers, the media, etc. And for some it is still not enough, hope the guy wises up and figures out she’s a bird.

Who wants to bet that her whole life is a mess? That he has to have his whole shit together so she doesn't have to? That she habitually chases men who are a piece of mess before she met him?

How was your date?

He was nice.

I'm sorry, let me give you a hug.

I felt nothing! Why?! Damn it, I want to feel that feeling again...

That's what happens when you burn through your pair-bonding capability, which is why "alpha widows" are a thing. No matter how great of a catch the man is, he won't create the same spark, especially if such spark is a combination of her previous encounters (e.g., the physique of Jason, the smarts of Luke, the wealth of Ramón, the street-smarts of Jess, the good sex of Ed, the charisma of Fabricio, the emotional availability of Peter, the superpower of Spider-Man, etc.).

And then you've people wondering why men prefer women in their early 20s: It's because at least there's the possibility she hasn't slept with half the town, and thus depleted her pair-bonding capability. In other words, there might still be fertile soil in which to plant seeds for a healthy relationship. But heck, pointing out this out means you hate women and are a sexist pig

Today's idiots are many.

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sometimes what we perceive as perfection isn’t attractive... and that’s why trying to be perfect doesn’t mean anything in order to “find” someone

She is searching for MDMA not for a man.

Just another alpha widow. Nothing to see here.

So many fucking emoijs.........

Maybe it’s just that she’s incapable of feeling happy no matter what she has going for her

Nothing is good enough for women nowadays

This epitomises the ‘men department store’ joke