Simple explanation. She thought she was such hot sh*t that this rejected guy would plead with her, but when he didn’t her massive ego was injured. Good for that guy for moving on.

Men are not going to chase her endlessly to stroke her ego. Those days are gone.

They want equality so they can enjoy it.

Googled this. The female in question is obese.

I remember a friend getting harshly rejected after attempting polite conversation with a random woman at a lounge. She then proceeded to remain in his general area and stare at him all night. Their first reaction is 'No', usually a knee jerk reaction designed to milk more attention/validation. She seriously thought he was supposed to keep trying to 'break the ice'.

What the hell? I see posts every other day talking about how men are awful because they persist after being told no. Yet here we see a guy respecting her boundaries and he's somehow the bad guy for that? Wtf do women want?

He did what was right. I'd have done the same, life's to short to be feeding females egos, they have enough simps doing that already.

Everytime I do this (which is pretty much everytime a chick replied that way) they go nuts.

​

Last time I did this, the chick actually had to go to a mental hospital for 3 weeks. And she was the one to call it off.

No effort, no pressure applied.

Wait. What? Effort? Pressure? She wanted him to, like, work, and then apply pressure?

Pressure is bad. Pressure is rapey. You're not supposed to pressure girls to date/have sex/whatever. Whenever we men apply pressure or keep going when we meet resistance, we are called criminals, rapists, sexual assaulters, and sexual harassers.

Can you women please make up your minds? Which is it? Do you want us to push a little or not? Do you want us to put effort in or not? Do you want us to press you, or not?

JFC.

Damn men, you have to want me! Get back here!

2 months of talking???

If within two months I haven't gotten the most mind-blowing blowjob she could give, I'm long gone. Imagine spending 1/6th of the year in the talking stage.

F.

I had a girl tell me she wasn't ready for a relationship in my 20's and I responded similar but with out blocking. I didn't understand her game back then, but I still ignored her after that. A week later tops she approached me and asked if I wanted to hang out. She put out on the first date.

Now I understand what they mean by "done with games, looking for something serious".

They're done with torturing other people (for fun, now it's time to play serious game for money aka marriage).

He spent two months presumably chatting w her online. She decided to play the “relationship” card and he folded. Dude was done adding sunk costs to what was not going anywhere, while she wanted him to beg. She wasn’t into him, she was into being wanted.
Rules have changed lady.

I don't get these women.

If he was willing to talk to her online for two months, then he did make an effort.

And by her telling him she "wasn't ready for a relationship," he took her word at face value, cut his losses and ultimately cut her off. I would have done the same.

Why tell him 'go away' if you want him to stay?

A few years ago I dated a girl for a few months who I later found out was bipolar who acted just like this chick.

By like month 3 she would text me all the doubts she had and that she wasn't ready for a relationship. I said that's fine and to be honest and not waste my time if this wasn't going anywhere.

She got really mad that I wasn't fighting for her or throwing an angry fit that she was "rejecting me." I had enough of her games and told her I didn't want to see her anymore. She texted me on and off for the next year trying to get me back, that it was all a test, that she wanted a relationship and to be taken care of, etc.

She was 30 years old. If you are 30 and still act like this, you need to reevaluate your life, behavior, attitude, and overall approach to relationships...

'I expected you to beg!!'

'Then you aren't really looking for a man.'

Ironically enough, I'm in a remarkably similar situation myself

Whatever you do, you’re doing the wrong thing lol

I asked for X and received X and now im devastated.

Yet more proof to never, NEVER listen to a woman about what she wants.

Dudebro lowkey knew that anything other than a blatant "fuck yes" is a "fuck no" in disguise, and that it was not worth his time being an orbiter or dancing bear or whatever the fuck else her stupid little game was.

And fellas....also note that being polite and ghosting her is far more devastating to her ego than any amount of chastising her about being a timewaster or a thot. Reserve your displays of anger for women worth caring about.

"I asked the waiter for steak and he brought me steak. Why didn't he bring me pizza!?"

fucking parasite

Women still don't understand how disposable they've let themselves become. Beyond sex, and maybe childbirth, none of them have any idea what it is they're meant to bring to a relationship. They all expect to be treated like queens but aren't worth the effort.

Or she could have said that you got my attention but you gotta keep me intrested wich is a green light that try a bit harder

Is she complaining that she wanted him to "fight for her" or complaining that she now realises she's lost a man who is so non-confrontational?

They are always "devastated" or have been "abused"

Less every - day- radicalism, chicks

Play stupid games win stupid prizes

Women still want "no" to sometimes mean "try harder".

​

Men don't want to be "creepy" and get into social or legal trouble.

​

These rules, unwritten or otherwise, need to be clear and well understood. That might not be "romantic" to the immature girls in their 20s that think they have everything figured out, but it isn't worth it to the average man.

​

The idea of romance needs to die.

she wasn’t ready for a relationship with him*

When you blow up on them, call them b!+ch, fvck you etc. You act weak and they can show their friends "see? he's psycho." if you act calm and collected, you're in control of the situation.

Don’t ask for things you don’t want.

Walk off of the parking lot. There's no reason to haggle over a used car that doesn't want to be sold.

As it should be.

Dude was talking to 4 other broads.

Today I did this with a Russian model I've been talking about for a day, just a day. I told her to go to the beach and have a fun day, she said "I can't, and we need a process to know each other" and I told her 2 days later "good luck with the process". She unmatched me. I feel so good.

[removed]

I don't have time for games. Wait. Actually, I do! [And she's a beauty.] (https://cdn.thewirecutter.com/wp-content/media/2020/10/playstation5-2048px-1011018-2x1-1.jpg)

What did she expect?

The best part is the end, “no pressure applied”. What is it that’s going around now, even if a woman willingly sleeps with you if she can make a case that pressure was applied at all, even just to the point of asking more than once, right to jail.

[deleted]

[removed]

She wanted to say no.

She wanted him to pressure her.

She wanted to regret having sex with him after the fact.

She wanted to get him arrested for rape.

2 months. The man has the patience of a monk.

2 minutes of talking with these women is hell.

play stupid games, win stupid prizes

WTF did she think would happen?

Bye you fuckin birch.

I agree with his moves except the blocking. Next time, don’t block and turn on read receipts. The “read” with no response hurts way more than a block. Utilize these more fellas.

Chase excellence, not retarded whores, Gentlemen.

I can't deal with these people, and they are also the ones to twist the story and call the man possessive if he would have wanted and explanation. Good for him for getting out, bad cause he waisted his time.

These low IQ hoes don’t realize that this shit hurts girls who mean NO when saying no

Guys will just think “ahh she wants me to apply pressure, she’s playing hard to get”

What a Chad the guy who fucking stopped talking to her, when people like this appear it’s best to leave them at no, either they mean no and you respected their boundaries, or they were playing hard to get and u rejected their shit test

Win/win situation

the woman literally told the guy she wasn't ready for the relationship. so the guy left. i am extremely confused. i am also concerned.

I am saving this for the next time some redditor tells me women don't want to be pursued.

Saw a prime example of this in the series Yellowstone. One of the characters Kayce (son of the main character ranch owner) has his wife tell him she’s leaving and taking their son because she can’t take his bad boy ways anymore. She gets set up in her own apartment, he comes over to see the kid and they argue later.

He says “You told me to leave so I did” and her reply was of course that anytime she says that he’s supposed to fight for her

Wait a minute. Who are you?

Lol had to put this here. Jokes aside, isn't it considered near rapey if the guy keep pressuring once the woman said NO, one time? I am lost. If she is not interested, aren't men suppose to back off and respect boundary and not be apart of the patriarchy and oppress women?

I am lost, confused, bewildered, disoriented, befuddled. I don't know what is right and wrong any more.

....but as soon as he starts pressing, its sexual harassment??? The mental gymnastics involved here are astounding

I don't chase does. I don't put up with does that won't lift for me. Give it up or you're meat, NEXT

Beware what you ask for, you might get it. She wanted groveling and got none of it. That is the only reason she is devastated, not because she ended it.

Good morning

wah sher wah ! heavy driver

Gentlemen,

Here is a perfect example of how...

Consistency is a tool of the patriarchy!!!

Stryng indypyndynt wymyns have been lecturing us for decades, on the concept of no means no. When a wymyns says no, you better fucking respect her wishes.

They backed up this demand with threats of prison time and public shaming and humiliation for the horrible crime of raping a woman by continuing to pursue her after she expressed disinterest.

Men listened and men changed their behavior patterns. Men stopped trying harder. Men stopped pursuing as soon as she displays even the slightest disinterest.

And they're unhaaaaaaaaaaaaapy, because they wanted you to fight harder to win her over