I am seeing someone, we’ve smashed about 4-5 times. I like this person but I don’t get optimally stimulated with great erections with Condom on. I believe she is of the opinion we are exclusive as we’ve very lightly communicated it. After the last time we did it, I asked her let’s get tested? She asked why and said I don’t have any disease (not in a butt hurt way). I don’t really want to risk anything with a new partner. How should I go on about this, without making it awkward ?