Please, pretty please, break up with me. Really, seriously, I'm acting shitty so you get the balls to kill the puppy. I can't, I hate responsibility enough to hop on a strang dick to insure you break up with me. Hell, I can't even directly admit I'm hopping on dick so that you kill the puppy. Its very dramatic and crazy and I'm kinda okay with it. And you accept my behavior so, yeah I'm going to keep doing this shit.

Bitch, this is why ghosting is a practice. Drop that hamster in arctic water.

You should have dropped her the first time she no call no showed. That's how they run it in any low-end retail job, for good reason.

I know the feeling of sickness sinking to the pit of your stomach. It's hard as fuck. But you made the right choice for you. It's not that she didn't find you physically attractive, but she lost excitement in the relationship, and emotional excitement is what turns women on sexually. At the very least, she had some self control, assuming she didn't cheat.

Don't fight the pain. Embrace it. Fighting it will only reinforce it and make it stronger. The next few months will be tough as shit, but you'll live.

And hand to God: Go on the Ketogenic diet during this time. It's an antidepressant diet that completely changes your neurochemistry. I use it every time I go through a breakup, and I swear by it. Many users over at r/Keto have stated their depression and anxiety magically vanishing when they stick to the diet. I can attest to the same.

Oh yeah, and change the locks.

Regardless of whether or not she has fucked other people during those conveniently uncontactable nights, I think you're still done.

What she's saying is basically "I'm not getting any younger and I feel really invested in you, but I stupidly believe that I maybe maybe can get someone even better before I hit the wall. I'm not ready to be someone's girlfriend because I still want to look around and try my luck. I'm a dumbass who can't gauge my own situation even remotely well. Dump me and find someone who respects you and has reasonable expectations".

Unlike her, you have a lot more time on your hands and probably a lot higher value compare to the average man than she does compared to the average woman. So yeah, I understand that this is painful and very hard for you, but at the end of the day, she's probably doing you a favor.

Next

Well done on kicking her out. Do not give her any more stuff back until you get your rent money.

You did the right thing she is a very devious woman.

I can see from your text that you unfortunately are very easy to manipulate through emotions.

*Don't listen what they say, listen to what they do, she wrote that you are important and she "very badly" needs you in her life yet she did everything to the opposite.

She didn't ask you to break up with her as people here say. She wanted to keep you as a provider or either cuck you, here:

"wanting to fuck other people, especially girls."

"she started saying that everyone has those kind of feelings" - implying you

"In that moment I felt like she was right and gave her another chance." - seriously?

She was very sneakily trying to manipulate you into a one-way beneficial "relationship".

She just wanted to keep her man-slave, you were a valuable resource to her not a human being, you don't treat people this way, especially those close to you.

Read "No more mr. Nice guy" and buy yourself a GYM membership.

And under no circumstances, don't you ever get emotional with her again. You should completely ghost her.

She probably is a narcissit, watch this channel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rEYtx7Fu8cg

Also read this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3bn9s6/fr_my_story_she_is_not_who_you_think_she_is_15/

Also she is a liar and a cheater, she most definitely had sex with other people.

You didn't throw away anything, you didn't even have what you think you had. She threw away you when she spread her legs for some other guys.

You dont necessarily have to read between the lines of the email to realize that she wants CC, and its a classic case of familiarity breeds contempt/diminishes attraction.

You were correct to have a hardline stance of no break/no friendship/I leave. This is the reason she has this dilemma of whether or not you are serious you will leave, and also if she is making a wrong call unsettling you/hopping on CC.

For me, the crucial part of the email is the mere suggestion/her thoughts of a break; this means the 100% correct action is hard-next, blocking and don't be sexually involved with this girl again. It must end now; I fully expect her to crawl back after being pumped/dumped by Chad/Tyrone, so therefore you should block any form of contact to not crack.

I predict you will not listen. I was in your position 1 and a half years ago. Long-story short; I did listen to TRP by ending the relationship; but DID keep in contact. Had her as my single "plate" and stretched oneitis a whole year, whilst she had plenty of tinder cock. I finally blocked in 6 months ago, a year of opportunity gone.

tl:dr Hard-next and Block now.

She wants new dick. Cut your loses and end it. Just your turn and it’s coming to an end. Don’t be that beta cock fag that can’t tell when it’s time to end things.

That's when she started denying sex once in a while and blaming it on her tiredness.

... and I'm too tired to ....(whatever she wants you to do).... . Buh bye. This when the relationship is over.

She wants you to kill the puppy. This relationship is over, and you aren't going to be able to bring it back to life. The cat's out of the bag.

That same night she confessed that she had feelings of wanting to fuck other people, especially girls.

Cool. Schedule a 3way.

The first time, she told me she would be coming back at 10PM. She came back at 3AM.

Ok, so just so you're clear, she's not just thinking about fucking other people anymore. She is fucking other people. And you should be, too.

I phoned her multiple times

Mistake.

...but she only replied at 3AM.

Because: It's tough to text when Judy from Accounting is railing you with a strap-on and your face is buried in Janet from Legal's muff.

I was furious and we had an argument.

Also a mistake. Bigger one, actually.

She agreed to update me if she changes her plans.

She placated you.

Second time, she did the exact same thing.

Of course.

I didn't bother calling her or being worried.

Much better reaction.

We had another argument

/facepalm

where she rationalized her actions saying that "she was happy at the party and forgot about it"

"Hamster...hamster...hamster..."

and that "she wants to be independent".

"Cool. Don't let the door hit you on the ass on your way out."

Third time, she did the exact fucking thing again. Except this time, she crashed at her coworkers' place.

Judy and Janet had her tied up, this time.

And then she sent me a long email in the morning.

Her: {Lots of Words}

I am in love with you and feel extremely happy. You've made me a more confident, happier, and relaxed person. I enjoy how we live together and the things we do.

Waiting for the "but"...an here it is.

I also feel like I am trapped at times.

Translation: "I feel you are limiting me from being the Giant Whore that I want to be."

I would like to explore other emotional relationships get fucked by other people. A lot.

Fixed that for her.

and I feel frustrated because you don't empathize with my anxiety or negative feelings. don't want to wife up a giant whore.

Fixed that for her, again.

I still think about having sex with other people sometimes but I believe our relationship is more important.

"Except that I don't because:"

But I still don't know if this is going to last. I am not able to prioritize you above the fact that I'm out having fun.

This tells you EVERYTHING that you need to know.

The fact that communicating a change of plans is hard for me, that it feels like a chore and something that I'm obligated to do, even after your feedback, is a bad sign.

No shit. Showing a MINIMUM amount of respect for you is a "chore".

I sometimes think that in order to become even more confident and to self-actualize, I need to be independent of you. Perhaps this is wrong, because I've come so far already in this relationship. I'm frustrated by how you see this as "final": no breaks, no open relationships, no staying friends after breaking up. I wish I could take a break and be on my own for a month or two, but I don't want to lose you. I want you to be a part of my life extremely badly, and the connection we have is amazing, but I find it hard to give what you what you want.

This is a lot of bullshit. What she wants is to go out and ride the CC. She wants to fuck her way through the United Nations, or whatever, and then she wants to wear white at her wedding to you, the dumbfuck cuck loser who will wife her up at the end and save her from a life of spinsterhood and cats.

She wants to give you the LEAST AMOUNT of her youth, beauty and fertility. She does not want to waste a day more than is necessary on you.

How does THAT fuckin' feel?

And go read the part I bolded, again and again. She's pissed because she wants your commitment, but wants the freedom to give her pussy away to Outlaw Bikers, Drug Dealers and Escaped Mental Patients.

I bet that makes you feel VALUED right? /s

If that means I won't be able to have you, then I'm ready for the consequences.

Translation: "I am going to go be a Giant Whore. If that means I lose you, then so be it, but this is me trying to get you to accept it."

If you want to work it out, then we retry.

Dude, RUN.

This email shocked me and I don't know how to react.

Easy: Dude, RUN.

Logically I should immediately hard next her

Exactly.

but I really enjoying her company and I have strong feelings for her.

No, you have strong feelings for the identity you have projected onto her, not what she is, which is basically the Queen of Whore Island.

Additionally, I felt like cohabitation with her worked well both for practical reasons (money, flat management)

So get a male roommate.

and because apart from a few episodes everything always went smoothly.

"So, other than that Mrs. Lincoln, how was the theater?"

I want to fix this, if possible.

Of course you do, and it isn't.

I don't know how.

Doesn't matter, because you can't.

I would like some advice on how I can fix the situation.

The faster you dump that toxic bitch and get her out of your life, the better.

You have a "sunk costs" fallacy thing going on. And if you look at the "reasons" you want to fix it, it's basically "enjoy her company" plus "she cleans up the flat", etc. The real reason is, she's familiar to you, except for the recent bullshit. You don't want to have to go out, meet other girls, etc. You like the "comfort" that she represents. Except she doesn't represent it any more.

You can't put Humpty Dumpty together again.

Verdict: Punt.That.Cunt.

Well that's easy, ask her to marry you! Once she sees how serious you are, she will stop partying and will give you sex! That's how it works - you must have communication!

JK. Other commenters already summarized it, but read this. If somehow you have any further questions, go back to grade school and stay there.

I would like to explore other emotional relationships

I can't help but laugh when I see these. She's fucking Chad. It's over.

Hit the gym, block her on everything, & download tinder.

She’s already been fucking others. All your fluff writing is irrelevant. You have most likely been cucked, with her coming home filled with other cum.

That same night she confessed that she had feelings of wanting to fuck other people, especially girls

its over brah, unless you are fine with being a cuck.

Yeah she lives with you, yeah you have her on lease or whatever, but she has to go. Its over. Dont even try to "understand" her feeeelz letter. She lost attraction to you and wants to ride the CC. Pack her stuff and show her the door.

I don't enjoy partying that much and prefer to stay at home.

Find a girl thats compatible with you if you want a LTR, not a party slut. You commited to a girl that is not LTR material. Most of them arent nowadays, but thats just the way things are. You fix that by "uncommiting" to her.

You like her, enjoy her company, enjoy fucking her? Cool, thats awesome. Have her as a plate, dont live together with her, then shes free to fuck whoever she wants and so are you and you dont need to endure the drama and be a cuck.

I felt like cohabitation with her worked well both for practical reasons (money, flat management)

You are hamstering. You need to own your shit, be able to pay for your own fucking place, or live with your parents, friends or whatever. Never depend on a woman for that, for your own sake and mental health.

If you dont break up with her you are heading to a road of endless drama, depression and cuckdom. But its your life, so its up to you.

Yeah dude. If she tells you she wants to be with other people, she already is! Trust me. AWALT.

You tried to turn a ho into a housewife. Most girls are no good for an ltr so don't be too hard on yourself.

But you should be fucking other girls and planning your escape.

Honestly the only thing you can do to fix this is start fucking other women with her. This woman is your mental point of origin. Just be happy you didn't have kids or marry her, and also be happy she red pill'd you, even if you're still bluer than a smurf.

She's telling you she wants other dick and feels upset and offended that you won't accept breaks, open relationships or just friends.

It's over. She just disqualified herself as your GF. Plate or dump.

Tell her you don't want her to be trapped, but you don't share girlfriends, and you don't do "just friends". She's welcome to keep fucking you, though.

In terms of expenses and chores, we share everything 50/50.

Why do dudes keep doing this? My cohabitation has gone fucking splendidly. You wanna know why? It's MY house, MY bills, MY car, MY appliances, MY EVERYTHING. I have 100% control of the relationship, she's fucked if I decide to end it and she knows it. I make her buy the groceries, cook and clean. She pays for her own shit and I allow her to stay in my castle. As long as she meets my requirements for a live-in girl, she can stay.

Don't allow her to invest in YOUR shit, it gives her ground to stand on in a break up.

It's over. She's interested in someone else or being single.

Swallow the pill now and end your eminent suffering.

Wow I read her email. Don't be a faggot cuck. Leave.

I swear I read this same post at least once a week on this subreddit. The only thing that changes is the username posting it. Ghost the bitch, she clearly no longer respects you or your relationship.

She wants you to break up with her so that she can feel validated in her feelings.

Drop her like a fat ogre shit. She's trying to emotionally blackmail you.

There's nothing to fix, it's over although she won't ever just say it so don't expect her to. Your only option is to break it off, that's what she wants she just needs you to do it so she can have her emotional drama and go about slutting it up without having to accept any responsibility.

You aren't going to want to accept it but it's the complete unfiltered truth, if you choose to ignore what you've been told your reward will be nothing but a long road of misery and depression until you nut the fuck up and end it. You've been warned.

Fix what? You either turn into a cuckold, or get some self respect and end it and start fucking other girls.

So, how exactly are you fixing this? Keep us updated.

Download tinder.

Go to the gym and get laid, after that reevaluate your feelings on this matter and I suspect they will be a little bit different.

You told her to kick rocks, so you’ve got that part right. Now stick to it.