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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
What I don't understand is how women think that kind of picture is attractive.
Best I can do: She thinks it's cute, and all her girlfriends say she's cute, so she must be cute to provider millionaire men!
The predatory woman is a cunning monster that knows her target - knows how he thinks and what he wants. She can genuinely fool him into thinking she is his dream come true, even into her 50s. She would never post a pic like that.
This woman is just clueless. I honestly prefer it this way, absolutely stupid about men. "They wanted me before, so now that there are TWO of us it's an even better deal right?!" So much easier to avoid with the poison label on the outside.
Bangkok 1d ago
I can tell you how it works.
She probably is externally attractive (except the obvious).
I remember thinking along the lines 'she is this defective it will be easier to score'.
She is looking for men that feel defective.
Being honest is what can be done to a man that might fall into this trap.
" listen, she is looking for a man that feels defective, once you and her sign the papers and you have something to loose, that is the last day you will get it wet. Even then she will continue to have children by other men you will be responsible for.
Later on she will plot to get more than she deserve, even if prenup was signed, by trying to put you in criminal jeopardy at best, getting her ex to stuff you into Wallmart carrier bag at worst. "
https://www.cnn.com/2006/LAW/09/21/closet.murder/
Any dating app is a great advert platform, she just filters by dudes that will get her dinner first.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 3d ago
She’s already seven months into a VERY long term relationship. The question is why any man she’d want would want one with her and her bastard daughter.
We simply MUST stop normalizing this sort of thing.
tallhandsomerichdude 3d ago
If only there was a time machine to allow you to find a good man first, and then become pregnant.
HitTheRoadJill 3d ago
Or in this vaping 20 year old’s case, find a man who had a vasectomy.
throwaway_old_guy 3d ago
Makes you wonder who the Father might be...
Some Tyrone or Chad that gave her the tingles and then dropped her the second she announced she was pregnant?
It also appears she is holding a vape in her right hand, and who knows what she is loading it with that will affect that baby girl she is expecting.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2d ago Stickied
What makes you so sure the man is the one who decided to split? I know you don't think that women are magical creatures of pure goodness who fart rainbows and shit diamonds.
throwaway_old_guy 1d ago
Not at all sure, just an assumption based on TRP threads and anecdotal reads on the subject of Women who have found themselves in the position of being pregnant and abandoned by the Father.
In this particular instance, and not knowing whether this Woman has either/both, a solid financial background to support her and the impending Child (doubtful, seeing that she is seeking someone to take them as a package deal) or a village of family to help raise it, I can only surmise the answer to those questions would be No.
I know Women can be illogical at the best of times, with pregnancy hormones, the likelihood can only increase. This is what leads me to the conclusion of the Father skipping off to the next available Woman.
It doesn't matter the gender, their orientation, racial background or religious beliefs, there are good Humans that will face the consequences of their actions and shitty ones that will do whatever it takes to avoid them.
MentORPHEUS TRP Endorsed 1d ago
The ghetto coded grammar immediately let me PRESUME that she prefers to combust solid state fossil fuel.
NPC070201 18h ago
Agreed. The grammar is a giveaway, it made me think the same thing.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 3d ago
What sometimes bounces around my mind is the fact that there are so many groups who have a vested interest in supposed paternity-- department of health & human services, state government benefits agencies, child support collection agency, the mom-- yet not all of them have an interest in confirming that it's factual paternity. There's a misalignment whereby the only people who want paternity confirmed are the dad who'd be on the hook and (maybe) the kid, but everyone else benefits from the paternity being ascribed and not really being confirmed. It's just a really weird set of perverse incentives. "This is the 'dad' who's sending money, don't even bother to check if the kid is actually his, just as long as his name is on the form."
I don't know if this woman knows who the dad is and is on good terms, if she's on bad terms with him, if she honestly doesn't know who the dad is or if she says it's 'Bob' but secretly knows its 'Frank'. All I can tell is that she wants her Tinder date to let her start over entirely as the new daddy and have a clean slate. Any rational man wouldn't dare to stick his dick in that beehive. There are just too many unknowns.
Bangkok 2d ago
They all look for sucker, including that woman
It is similar to scooping money from drivers, hiking fines, installing more cams etc.
They all look for someone that have something to loose.
I think that it might be nature selfregulation in work.
Too many people thinking max 1month ahead, too many psychos and women in power.
Nothing too loose Tyrones and other migration policies seem to confirm that.
throwaway_old_guy 2d ago
The State really does not care WHO the Father is, just the one that appears on the Birth Certificate so they have a name attached to the file for collection if/when the Mother starts to collect benefits from an Agency or through the courts.
There was a case I remember hearing about in the Court System in British Columbia, probably 25 years ago now.
A Woman living in Vancouver, BC was in a cross-border relationship with a Man from WA State. She became pregnant, he dumped her.
She went through the Courts to try and collect from him, and AFIK, had a difficult time of it. Her Public Defender then filed for Child Support against the Man's Brother (who she had met at some point).
The Brother failed to appear at the Hearing (because, why would you respond to something so ridiculous) and had a default judgment against him. That included garnishing his wages since there is a reciprocal agreement between BC & WA. I'm not entirely sure how it all worked out for the innocent Brother, but the takeaway is to always CYA, no matter how crazy it seems.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 19h ago
Years ago, the state of Oklahoma had a default judgment program. If a woman, with a child, wanted aid, she had to fill out a state form. On the form was a place for the father's name. Once the name was on the form, the state sent out 3 registered notices 30 days apart to the last know address of the man. If he did not respond, the man was declared the father of the child. One day, a man was pulled over by the the police, and a warrant check was done. There was an arrest warrant in his name for non support of a child. He was arrested and booked. He knew of this women, but they had split years ago. He goes to court to demands a DNA test. He is not the father, but has to continue child support until the court ends it. Then he has to sue the women to get his money back, after she spent it all. So he sues the state and wins. The state stopped this default program due to so many men suing the state and winning. The default program was costing more money than it was taking in.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2d ago
That's why!
For any young, naive, overly-optimistic dudes reading this: never ignore a notice to appear in court!
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1d ago
And potentially treat it as an opportunity to countersue the plaintiff for opening a frivolous suit. At the very least force them to pay your fees and damages for time they took from you by forcing an appearance.
Men need to learn to be vicious about shit like this. Otherwise women just learn they can abuse the system at will to no consequence.
MentORPHEUS TRP Endorsed 17h ago
Rather easier said and hoped for than done, but I certainly agree in spirit. Also second that: NEVER IGNORE a summons!!
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 16h ago
At the very least going through the process will hopefully get more men to talk to a lawyer instead of just showing up and blindly hoping that The System will treat them fairly.
Because it will not. Not unless one makes themselves too much trouble to treat unfairly. It's rather like dealing with a bully, just one motivated by convenience rather than personal malice.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 3d ago
I bet she likes Cookies n Cream ice cream after a meal of surf n turf.
Everpax Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
Get pregnant off the hot guy first then find some chump to help you raise the kid, tale as old as time.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 16h ago
The only thing worse are the ones that step out for some side seed while in a relationship. Both are cuckoldry attempts. The latter just involves outright deception too.
Bangkok 2d ago
Black chicks worst kind.
Colour entitlement on top of women entitlement got them fucked up more than any other women. And if she is forever fat then she is winning mortal combat with this combo.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2d ago
Return to Sender.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2d ago
Address unknown.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2d ago
No such zone.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
Has she taken that picture in a public washroom? Probably on a night out. Not bothered you can see she is vaping while pregnant. Probably had some drinks too. Start as you mean to go on they say. So if she did this with her first kid, she will probably do it with the second. Do you want her doing that with your kid?
The kid's own father decided she was not worth the misery. Why should I disagree?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2d ago Stickied
What makes you so sure the man is the one who decided to split? I know you don't think that women are magical creatures of pure goodness who fart rainbows and shit diamonds.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
True, could be so dysfunctional that she let a low value man knock her up. Could also of course not know who the guy was?
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2d ago
And gee, both of those are also incredibly valid reasons to treat her like the hazmat that she is.
Wear PPE and maintain minimum isolation distances at all times.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2d ago
Or, he was a decent man and decent father, but she used the power of the court system to force him out.
We just don't know, and we should strive to overcome our gynocentric conditioned impulse to always blame the man.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
I am not sure we can blame a man for not wanting to be with her. Look at how she advertises herself with such entitlement. Really would you want her?
She could have forced him out but she is quite young to have been in a relationship long enough with a guy for him to build anything to destroy. However, fair point, we never know.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 19h ago
Years ago, I went to a bar, and saw a woman who was pregnant with a beer in her hand over the months at the bar. WTF was a matter with her?