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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4d ago Stickied
PSA:
for those of you who had an "oh, shit" moment when you saw "MOTHER'S DAY SPECIAL", we still have a week.
It wouldn't hurt to call your mom today, but the obligatory one is next week.
As for me, I wish all your moms would give me a rest already, especially @Vermillion-Rx
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 4d ago
I had to put a restraining order on your mom and bar my windows because she won't take NO for an answer.
JudgeSmales Jr. Hamster Analyst 4d ago
Seems like a little too much makeup for the grocery store. But the perfect amount of makeup to go out and catch some (more) Chad cock. She'll certainly succeed.
Heaviuh_Things 3d ago
Personally, I'm not very impressed by the final look. But then my name is not Chad.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 3d ago
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woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 1d ago
I understand you were simply providing the source but I had to remove the link per rule 7. In future, if the OP link breaks you'll need to filter it through musical down and repost to streamable to link it here.
It's a pain in the ass but necessary to prevent @redpillschool being subject to bullshit liability tactics.
cc @Typo-MAGAshiv
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
So she doesn't remember much of her daughter because she was a single mother in survival mode?
This is why you should have married a good man before you have any kids, the good man's kids, then you wouldn't have to be in such survival mode.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4d ago
1) you know what would do you more good than all that useless makeup? Shaving your arms, Sasquatch.
2) yes, you are a bad parent. I've said this multiple times for many years, but here we go again:
single moms either chose a piece of shit to impregnate them, or used the power of the state to drive a decent man away.
If you're a singly mom, then you're a shitty parent because you robbed your kids of having a father.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 4d ago
Sometimes I nearly embrace nihilism when I see what happens out there.
Birthrates crashing, populations thinning out.
Did we just have our peak moment and are now managing a continued decline? Will AI and everything else supplant human interaction to the point where non-technological societies overtake ours? Was it all just a long con?
If someone asked me if Humans should continue to exist, I would say yes, but the trough we are at is like that scene in "Interstellar" where the massive wave pushing clouds out of the way bears down on us.
Yeah, guess I'm at that "what the fuck does it all mean" phase. I hope we survive.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 3d ago
The blackpill is real. More knowledge of what is actually going on only feeds it.
"Reality, looked at steadily, is unbearable." -Lewis
And yes, this nation (the USA) is far past its peak and nearing the end, like all large civilizations before us with a similar endgame.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 4d ago
On one hand we can all be dumb when we are young. There is minimal good advice out there for young women and a lot of bad advice. She probably hopped on the cock of some cool kid and got pregnant. It didn't work out with the father because they were too youthfully dumb / incompatible / selfish to make it work but she at least decided to do the kind thing and not abort her baby. Part of me inclines to be merciful here. This could well be a youthful error.
However one is supposed to learn from youthful errors and instruct others and I don't see that. I see quite a self indulgent attention seeking post that is a bit of a humble brag.
She is sorry for herself, not guilty. She is making up her face to go out. Nothing you do with a small child requires a face like that. So its quite ironic that she is sad she missed so much and is now racing off to have fun. This is more like "Look girls I am a hot single mum, follow me, try to be like me. I have value, you can too". What good advice is she actually giving. -Saying "Enjoy your kids, They are not small for long" and enjoying yourself without them.
"Survival mode" suggests hardship but in the west there is no hardship for single moms. The worst it can get is doing your shopping "alone" on line using the government and the father's money then answering the door to the house you got given by the government and carrying the food to the fridge and powered by electricity someone else paid for.
If I had to guess "Survival mode" was actually living at her parents' house or just round the corner (she just looks too indulged to have moved out far), feeling sorry for herself, shouting "Mom change the baby I am trying to sleep" She looks like a supported princess. Nothing has changed form her experience. She has not learned anything but to feel sorry for herself and to grift on line selling a vision of single motherhood.
I really do not find it attractive the way mothers love to dump their kids and go out like they were childless. I have had children in my home for over 2 decades. I can't count the times I hear a woman say "Oh they are going back to school next week -bliss". It happens many times every school holidays. I really don't like this. Perhaps this is because my mother never said it and didn't like hearing other women saying it. I always tell my kids I will miss having them about when they go back to school. They are not small for long and while I was never a father who was into changing babies, Once they are ready for a father, I love having them around. I want to educate them and lets face it school doesn't do much useful education, so parents need to do more practical education and explain how to get on in life than ever.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 3d ago
That's funny, I had the same experience as a father. I never once changed a diaper, and do not regret it one bit. But after my daughter turned 2 or so, we became great friends and still are. She was 100% homeschooled (reasons you list, and others). She is helpful and respectful and will make an amazing wife. She is totally ignorant of most worldly/cultural things, which is great. She has never used social media or owned her own phone, for instance. So far the experiment is a success.
I just commented on this a few posts ago, but women have trouble remaining friends with their husbands and children. A wife can do her household "duties" for years and totally neglect her family at the same time in this respect.
Sometimes that comes out in their speech. Mothers often do not "like" their own kids, but would absolutely say they "love" them. I don't think men understand this until they've seen it.
A father who is respected by his kids wants to be friends with them, and looks to the finished product rather than immediate needs/wants. This just doesn't come naturally to women, especially those who usurp/thwart dad's authority.
It's also not natural for wives to stay friends/companions with their husbands. They have to work at it and make time for it, or they tend to forget.
I was worried about this when my wife got pregnant, and she knew how important it was to me to not let the kid get in the way of our marriage/friendship. She decided to make sure that at least two dates a week were arranged, without the baby, so we could have fun together. She faithfully started the week after daughter was born, and never failed.
I'm sharing this because I learned how crazy it seems to most people. To me it was natural, but many wives shudder in horror and say something like, "We haven't had a date in a year." That just makes me sad.
Heaviuh_Things 3d ago
You make a very good point, companionship between man and woman is not effortless. May I ask, what sort of dates do you do?
As for women not truly liking anyone living with them under the same roof...do you think this antipathy extends to family members over time? Close friends, even?
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 3d ago
It's been 20+ years of dates now, but always something recreational or fun, as well as the um, obvious thing you would think of doing on a date with your wife :) Today we rode bikes, played Dr Mario (90s NES), and of course had our daily tea chat. Nothing planned or official, just enjoying things together every day. I have no idea how any marriage can survive without these kinds of things. Isn't that sort of one of the points of marriage, to enjoy things together as friends?
My current working theory is that women do not even naturally make friends with each other very well, despite all the advertising of women as more social/friendly/empathetic. But a curious thing happens when they submit themselves to male leadership. Most of my wife's friends are the wives of MY friends, or at least wives of men whom I respect.
When both wives are under authority, and have similar male leaders that get along, the friendship that forms between women can be great. There is no competition dynamic! Both have their own households and children to manage, both have similar issues in marriage to work on. And since the husbands agree on most things, they can easily defer in difficult matters, scheduling, or minor disagreements, and this is not awkward. "My husband wanted to do something with the family that day, sorry, let's plan another day." That kind of thing.
Not sure if that answers your question, just something I've noticed. I'm not even sure the right word is "antipathy". I also think that wives can learn to be "husband-friends", they just don't do it naturally. They have to be trained and educated on this, or they may never realize that it's so important to men.
Heaviuh_Things 5h ago
Food for thought...thanks for the detailed explanation.
I guess the biggest trouble is finding women who are not anti-men these days....outside the sheets, anyways.