Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Created by kevin32
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
- 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 4w ago
Yep, no surprise here that she is emotional. The clock does not stop ticking, and she is at square 1 of getting the family she claims to want. This is exactly why I say that women need to start early if they want to be a wife and mother in the future. Because the alternative is being in the same place she is and being the equivalent of a college student only doing any studying for the course the night before a final exam. In the same way that the college student could still pass the class under these circumstances, she could still be married and have children. But the odds are not in either of their favors. She would need to find a man right away, convince him to get married in less than a year, and start trying for kids right away if she wants a family.
Would it not have been better if she took the idea of marriage and family more seriously a decade ago? That way she would not only be less panicked, but she would also have a far better selection of men to choose from. And I will not give her the benefit of the doubt that she took dating and marriage seriously. Because the women that do are not still single in their 30s like she is.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 3w ago
Exactly. Their complaints are nearly always a form of confession once one learns how to listen properly for what is being said behind the mouth-noises.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3w ago
@Typo-MAGAshiv Changing the Flair to leftovers to where she states she's 33 and "wanting a family" (Rule 5). This could have been weekday content (I think I had initially seen this, forgotten she said it, then put it on weekend after doing a quick skim of it).
Folks should give this a good listen because she's actually stating a lot of truth here. She states "dating is fun" but it was "distracting" illustrating how a woman burns her 20's having fun going out for foodie calls and validation. Here's the thing: I enjoy going out to restaurants also, (who doesn't like food brought and served to us?) but I can't imagine having wasted other peoples' time on this for more than a decade.
An alternative subject line could have been "I suck at being alone" where she states how she's fine with going to work (whatever that is) and going out, but she can't find happiness in an actual personal life. In a way, she has no "personal life". Just "fun times" with men hitting on her for sex.
There's even"epiphany phase" going on as she realizes she made a mistake, but doesn't state how her actions caused her to be where she is. She knows something is off, and she's not happy about it, but she can't bring herself to say she LOVED using sex as a tool for the paid distractions men provided for her. Of COURSE the men didn't care who she is (see Jack Nicholson as Wolf https://youtu.be/s14luZI6OKY?t=33 ) but she didn't want to actually do the work to make "herself" into someone of value. Ironically, the men of value who might have looked past her shallowness and tried to connect with her "deep down" were worthless to her because she didn't care who they "really were" either.
Finally, regarding cramming: The trap of The Wall for Leftovers is that they don't want a "passing grade". They wouldn't settle for a mere "nice guy" in their 20's and barely would "settle" for, analogy, grade B+ much less "studying" their fanny off to get a C-. Plus they don't even know where to begin to make an effort after having atrophied their reasoning skills their entire adult life.
Another analogy: I was out of work for a year 8 years ago and it was an interesting time. I spent time with hobbies, my daughter, and even "finding myself" while looking for work constructively but not obsessively. Great times. When I went back to work, I did feel "strange" as this weird routine of getting up at 6AM and having to be utterly focused took some time to get used to. I did good, don't get me wrong, but I felt "weird". Imagine having an entire LIFE up to the age of 33 having been living like a fairy tale princess in Shrek in a castle tower with little experience of personal adult responsibility WRT men. No ability to empathize or understand them or even criticize yourself.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 3w ago
From what I gleamed from the video, it's a post-waller crying that men only care about her looks and nothing about her as a person.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
I wonder what she was doing 10 years earlier? I bet she has a list of qualifications as long as her leg. Now, that she is aging out and losing out to younger men, it is WAATGM? The same men 5-8 years earlier she rejected as too boring, not tall enough, not good looking enough etc.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 3w ago
Maybe she should have provided a reason for them to bother doing that, instead of what she did, which was take it as a given that they should just because she like, exists while vagina.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 4w ago
Public service message: If you enjoy the content, please consider posting this link to the Reddit version of WAATGM since I cannot. It drives more traffic to this site, such as myself, and that's how the content creation happens. Please do your part: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlC5DEp2EOQ.
Ok, with that out of the way: She says she removed her account and she meant it. The account is not on tiktok so this is a de-watermarked version I downloaded. This begs the philosophical question (I was considering it as the title)
In dating, or heck in life, does ANYONE really care about us as people particularly in the beginning? I was tempted to use that observation as the title.
GeorgeIII Jr. Hamster Analyst 4w ago
Didn’t watch the video, cause I don’t care what 30+ CC riders have to say.
To be fair, people by default do not care about you, man or woman.
For the vast majority of women, the only reason I care at all to interact with them is to get laid. I only care about my employer’s profits, as too many losses will put my job at risk.
Ask yourself this (not specifically you @polishknight): if you were asked by someone random on the street for $10, how likely is it that you would give them the cash.
The sooner we, as humans, stop expecting people to care about us, and ALSO accept that we don’t care about the vast majority of people either, the less frustration we will all have.
There is nothing inherently wrong about not caring about somebody as a person. Not when there’s 8 billion of us on this giant sphere.
JudgeSmales Jr. Hamster Analyst 3w ago
I have felt this way for years, long before the world became so damn performative, before everyone began acting like they are a reality TV star who just hasn't been discovered yet. "Influencer culture" has only made this worse, with so many women trying to be the next Kylie Jenner and "get the bag."
Most of us are merely extras in someone else's movie, and vice versa. When I eat in a restaurant, the people at the other tables are just the unpaid stooges in the background, pretending to nibble at their food and look interested in each other, while the only genuine, important conversation the camera follows is at my table, the star's table. After all, we're always the main character of our own dreams.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 4w ago
Reminds me of a saying "Desire leads to suffering".
Not that you shouldn't have a goal and work towards it, whatever it is, just that anchoring your entire existence on the outcome is the problem. And as we already know, being dependent on outcomes can lead to some bad paths. This is mostly in the emotional realm, not saying you just say 'fuck it' at work and don't do your job.
But we do truly live our lives and intersect others, but we're all still stuck in our skulls to some degree. (Cue the cyborg implants, but not sure if that becomes viable later or whether I'd even want one.)
When I go out to enjoy myself, I don't expect anything from anyone. I make sure that the goals I've set are met, like a nice dinner and some drinks. Anything else is just the universe RND() function and I ride the waves however they arrive.
People wonder how I have a full head of hair and don't show major grey everywhere - this is how I do it. Letting what doesn't matter truly slide.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 4w ago
I just recalled this wonderful line by Jack Nicholson: https://youtu.be/s14luZI6OKY?t=33
GeorgeIII Jr. Hamster Analyst 3w ago
Bahahahaha the classic.
Hot girl wants to be recognized for being smart/kind/charming, but is dumb/rude/boring.
In the end we all want to be loved for something other than the superficial. We can all dream.
No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 4w ago
Bolt-On woman cries and flashes her fake titties at you for sympathy.
She thinks she's pretty, but she got so much Botox in her face it looks like it's about to explode.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 4w ago
The whole trend of Botox paralyzing facial muscles and lip filler just throws me down the uncanny valley every time.
I really can't see beauty in those faces, just some cold animatronic style expressions that put me on edge. Its like I need to scan the exits before the 9mm barrels poke out from her tits and start firing.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 4w ago
More fake and plastic than a Barbie doll and wonders why she isn't getting Real Girl treatment.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 4w ago
Oh that's horrible. It is such a goddamned burden to think you're the hottest thing on two legs, innit. What a miracle that you survived the ordeal. Chad didn't truly want to get to know you and listen to your innermost thoughts, minutiae like agonizing about why oh whyy didn't your cousin say "happy birthday" using ALL CAPS and STARRY EYED emjois on social media; your cousin barely even tried to celebrate Your Birthday, "What Does That Meaaan, Chad??".
No, Chad didn't want to hear about that and massage your toes and nod along in fascinated agreement "yes, that's horrible, that's terrible, let me pour you another Chardonnay". NO no no, instead of being the warm and supportive partner you wanted at that moment, he just said "Whatever, babe: get on your back and let's TITTY-FUCK!" the jerk. Boo hoo. Why doesn't Chad care about your feeeelings???
Still, you didn't refuse all the unappreciated free stuff and VIP treatment that was handed to you, so I hope that numbed a fraction of the pain that you feel.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 3w ago
Hey I bet Chad thought her tits felt great once he got the lights turned down low enough to conceal her plastic doll face. That counts as her feelings, right?
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 4w ago
Ahahaha.
"Oh no! They all want to fuck MEEEEEEEEEEEEE" - yes, classic victim framing on their part. Christ, I really wonder if any of them understand how stupid that is later on. Maybe they do, but of course being women they'll never admit it, lol.
Nicely done, brother.