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Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this tribe is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


Rules of conduct:

  • 1. No shaming men for any reason.

  • 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate tribe.

Recommended reading:

  • Understanding The Purpose of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

  • Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards

  • OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone

  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

  • WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.

  • Michael's Story

  • u/where_muh_good_mens' Story

  • "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"

  • Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.

  • Feminism has succeeded

  • Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore

  • Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

  • To The Man Who Will Love Me Next

  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

  • The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market

  • Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel

  • The Life Story of Carol

  • Memes

  • Complete list of resources here.

Content Archive:

  • https://theredarchive.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / $ Bailout $

I'm 37, not 38.
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polishknight

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Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 7h ago

Plot twist: she is not 37, nor is she 38. She is at least 48.

FIFY

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 6d ago

Someone please post the Reddit site since I, tragically cannot. It drives traffic here.

If you haven't guessed, she posted her 5 kidz names in all caps which I have redacted. Yikes! Any Lambo drivers out there?

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SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 6d ago

Damn. I knew I should have thrown money into a lambo instead of maxing out my 401k year after year. I guess I’m disqualified then. What a shame… I’d get to raise 5 kids that aren’t mine in exchange for a fat, entitled ogre with a used up pussy. Them are the breaks I guess.

“Not looking 4 FWB bkuz I’m not looking for that” A regular Emily Dickinson to boot!

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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 5d ago

It must drive women nuts to know there are "rich" guys out there who don't flaunt their wealth, but quietly save, live simply instead of extravagantly, and are actually the perfect "providers" in the "actual financial security" sense.

They have very few tools with which to find such men, because you can't see it by looking. They are dimly aware that even the man with a "lambo" may actually be poor, flaunting wealth they do not have. They know this because makeup is also inherently dishonest, and they understand that very well. They have no idea what $100,000 a year means or how much you could save or invest with it. It's just a number they use to rank men.

I love being on food stamps and making less than $25k a year, and I enjoy telling women those things. Makes them just cringe, but it's not socially acceptable to show it. Heh. Meanwhile... let's just say I've always been blessed to quietly provide for my family, saving a lot, and living simply and debt-free. I'd rather be me than the poor man with a "lambo" who attracts pigs like this. Pigs have no apparatus to judge a man's fiscal performance or long-term plans, and they trample whatever you give them, pearls or otherwise, with no regard for the work or planning it took to obtain.

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 6d ago

Stay-at-home parent

Yeah I'm just going to skip past the whole 37 not 38 thing because ultimately it doesn't matter. She's a 30+ year old single mom that has no job and is leeching off someone else, because I sincerely doubt that she is independently wealthy enough to be retired early. Also, based on the stretch marks on her tits, she popped out one of the little fuck-trophies relatively recently, so you'd be having to deal with the buzzer beater's potential tard baby too.

Literally better off taking your Lambo if you have one for a spin down in Vegas and just pick up some 18 year old whore with an offer to be a kept woman if she can pass a VD test and stay off the various flavors of nose candy.

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First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 6d ago

First guy that picks her up in a Lambo gets a date with her? Why else would he be picking her up unless he already had a date? First guy that picks her up in a Trabant still has a date with her.

Still acting like she is the prize to be won and picked up. The female brain really is hard wired. Got 5 kid and saggy stretch marked tits, probably impacting right now with the wall, has no job, brings what exactly?? still thinks she awards herself as the prize.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 5d ago

First guy that picks her up in a Lambo gets a date with her? Why else would he be picking her up unless he already had a date? First guy that picks her up in a Trabant still has a date with her.

logic is a tool of the patriarchy!

check your privilege, you misogynistic shitlord!

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Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 6d ago

I would LOVE to see the responses on her dating app! I am sure the comments are comedy gold.

We've often talked about the female propensity for delusional thinking, and I think this profile really encapsulates it perfectly. Let's be honest, both men and women can be stupid. I've seen guys doing and saying things that are, quite honestly, totally retarded.

But the one area in which I see a huge divergence between the two genders is 'delusional thinking'. You just cannot see it any other way.

the male equivalent profile pic would be this;

Old man, 73 years old, broke, living in sheltered accomodation on benefits, one shower a week, fat, erectile dysfunction - looking for a 21 year old virgin for fun times!

You just don't see ads like that. Sure, the broke old fat dude on benefits would LIKE to bang a 21 year old virgin, but men are smart enough to know the differnce between fantasy and reality.

It seems that women are not. They really cannot see that they are delusional. They just don't see it. It boggles the mind.

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mattyanon TRP Endorsed 6d ago

looking for a 21 year old virgin for fun times!

... Don't message asking about a relationship because I'm not into that. First girl to show up naked wins a date with me.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 6d ago

The issue isn't just delusion but rather entitlement. There are CENTURIES of western romanticism and feminism teaching women they are literal goddesses and princesses. In a subreddit I discovered of incel women chatting, they clearly were painfully aware of their low level of attractiveness but griped that men weren't making "effort" or treating them like "stacys". They wanted princess treatment even as they were clearly aware they are NOT princesses.

This is important for men to understand because of how we think: We think if someone explains something to us, such as we can't have something because it's not possible such as we cannot afford it, then we "get it" and get on with our lives and other people are also similar logical creatures.

An old woman friend said to me of a mutual friend: "You have to understand she was raised during an era when women were taught they we deserved chivalrous treatment".

Think about that. This was an 80 year old woman telling me that if a woman was raised a certain way to expect something, she couldn't change.

Adult men understand that if Reality is a certain way, just because you FEEL like you WANT it a different way, doesn't ENTITLE you to demand the world change around you. Some young men won't "get it" right away, perhaps, but out of our continual lesson that our Survival is based upon us not getting a lesson The Hard Way, most of us eventually figure it out.

A 20 something woman is a princess in a manner of speaking: She gets amazing amounts of validation. Even if she doesn't go to a bar or a dating app, she knows if she did, she could get sex at any time AND men buying her free drinks.

Rather than delusional, I'd suggest they're more childish. My 9 year old sometimes just refuses to "get" something and I have to resort to, as in the words of "Starship Troopers": "violence" where I inflict punishment. Removal of privileges. I shut off her electronics for a day. That usually gets a sullen compliance.

But as "adult" women in relations to men, this feedback mechanism is entirely gone. There are still men hitting on this woman on a dating app. Any "punishment" she receives is disconnected from a message. She doesn't want to connect the dots, there's no daddy figure such as me to inflict a lesson, so she won't.

https://fedrz.wordpress.com/2013/04/18/woman-the-most-responsible-teenager-in-the-house/

I know others have made this point but I'll add this recent epiphany: It's shocking to me our society allows people with the mindset of children to raise children and even prefers it. Granted, children CAN look after children such as teenage girls babysitting K-6 kids while the parents are off for a night on the town but to be in charge of a "household"? Insanity.

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JudgeSmales 6d ago

"Stay-at-home parent" with five kids tells me she is collecting some serious welfare, food stamps, etc., for which the productive among us are paying. As badly as I'm irritated by her entitled attitude, chubby arms, skanky hair and dreadful spelling, picking up the tab for this beast galls me the most.

Addendum: "I'm not old. I'm 37!" -- Michael Palin's "bloody peasant" in the Holy Grail

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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 5d ago

What I object to is you automatically treat me like an inferior.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 5d ago

I'm chuckling. So much of that great Oxford humor went right over my teenage head at the time. Ingenious. I watched it again 20 years later and laughed my head off for entirely different reasons. I would LOVE to marry a fat woman with huge tracts of land! My poor friends married fat women who were broke!

My pseudonym is based upon a wonderful Nobel prize winning book, With Fire and Sword, made into a film, about the 17th century Khmelnytsky Uprising by Ukraine against the Polish nobility. One of the first steps of breaking what was considered an almost Holy order of noble entitlement. When Europeans first met the Native Americans, they referred to them as "noble savages" NOT because of some notion of a holistic natural way of living, but rather that being able to hunt and live off the earth and do as one pleases was a literal noble privilege denied to the peasantry who, if they were to hunt a deer in the forest next to their hut, they would get blinded as punishment. Only noblemen could enjoy hunting as a privilege.

When men refer to each other as "Kings", it's carefully worded and considered such as "Kings" of our own domain where we paid for a house and live in it. That kind of thing.

The notion of a modern woman wanting a man to treat her like a "princess" gives me a chuckle then. She wants a man who treats her like a princess. Who gives her what she demnds and always with a smile. Reminds me of this scene from The Princess Bride: https://youtu.be/O6qpa-mRLnI?list=RDO6qpa-mRLnI&t=38

But a King didn't do chores and provide for a woman, a King's SERFS did. The era of the 1950's in American history was utterly unique: A post WWII era where Europe lay in ruins and was buying American made goods and union benefits were so lavish that American men could afford to go to an office or factory job and support a household on a single income. But was he a "King"? No. He was still doing his own work. Many men even back then were beginning to balk at this notion of "Gentlemen" who were servants of women. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=__Q6_27KKEc

So when women call me a sexist from the 19th century, I tell them I'm insulted. I'm mentally still in the 17th century. This video will probably be taken down, eventually, but the full film if anyone has a few hours to spare: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PwrlrfSQghM

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GeorgeIII 5d ago

I have big, big hope her profile is satire.

But you know what’s bigger than my hope?

This woman’s delusion. Probably her stomach too.

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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.

In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.

Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.

The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.


Rules of conduct:

  • 1. No shaming men for any reason.

  • 2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.

  • 3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.

  • 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.

Rules for submission:

  • 5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)

  • 5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)

  • 6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.

  • 7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.

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  • 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.

Recommended reading:

  • Understanding The Purpose of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

  • Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards

  • OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone

  • Mate Selection for Modernity: Studies show that the more a woman achieves and the higher her expectations grow, the lesser the pool of eligible mates available to her.

  • r/FemaleDatingStrategy advises women to delay sex with good men but freely give themselves to fuckboys

  • Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society

  • Dalrock - They’re back in your 20s where you left them.

  • Kevin Samuels - You're Average At Best

  • Paul Elam - Where the Good Men Went

  • Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me

  • WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.

  • Michael's Story

  • u/where_muh_good_mens' Story

  • "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"

  • Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.

  • Feminism has succeeded

  • Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore

  • Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?

  • "I’m 43 and Alone – Can I Find a Good Man?"

  • To The Guy I Left In The Friend Zone For Too Long

  • To The Man Who Will Love Me Next

  • The Truth Behind the Increasing Social and Economic Disparity of Modern Society and Why Good Men Are The First To Leave

  • The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market

  • Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel

  • The Life Story of Carol

  • Memes

  • Complete list of resources here.

Link Flair:

  • The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"

  • Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.

  • Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.

  • Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

  • Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.

  • Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.

  • New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.

Content Archive:

  • https://theredarchive.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

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