Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
Link Flair:
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3d ago Stickied
Someone please take one for the team and post to the Reddit site, since I cannot, since that drives people to come here (including myself way back when).
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 23h ago
Is this a dating profile or a job application? Cos either way, I would next it.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3h ago Stickied
WAATGM's Rule 3 in its entirety, with the relevant portion in bold:
It's white knighting, even if unintentional/inadvertent, and we want everyone to break that instinctive habit.
NeoSpartan 15h ago
Age 42.... oof.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 3d ago
Well I certainly have "descent" looks. My level of attractiveness is always descending! H'yuk! H'yuk! H'yuk!
I saw my doctor and said "I think I've got an STD?" He said "I doubt it, your wife would've warned me by now." H'yuk! H'yuk!
Hey, and what's with the airline food lately? In my house, they're called 'TV dinners'! H'yuk! H'yuk! H'yuk!
I'm here in the Borscht Belt all weekend, folks! L'chaim and try the veal!
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
Beat me to it, crap
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2d ago
BOOOOOOOO!
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2d ago
"Get off the stage, you schlemiel!"
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3h ago
Schlamazel!
Hassenpfeffer incorporated!
No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
My favorite line:
*SPLAT!!!*
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
I had to translate the last sentence since it was a bizarre mixture of English/Hindi:
"So, what are you thinking about -- just jump, brother!"
RegretKaren has regrets. How unusual. She's the kind I see going out, already drunk off two drinks, slurring her speech to her "bestie" as she attempts to drown her sorrow at being a stupid cunt with her life.
I just turn my head, take a pull from my tumbler of amber and smile to myself. A peaceful and quiet reckoning that she assuredly deserves.
You just know that when she had actual attractiveness, she squandered it. I have no sympathy - at all.
throwaway415 16h ago
ah of course shes Indian. theyre somehow even worse than american bitches. feminism is even more rampant in India than in the us it seems
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2d ago
English is a great language, but not perfect. I do not know of a term that surpasses "overdemanding".
A) yes, you did
B) that's no one's problem but yours
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
Thanks for the sermon, but my religion prohibits female pastors.
Why yes, my looks are definitely... descending?
You literally wasted your life. Women have two functions in life. "Chemist" is not one of them.
TJMS 2d ago
Fucking lolz, I'm gonna hafta use that one
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2d ago
A few observations:
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
Yes you are too demanding.
You want a great deal and you want it in return for what? It looks to me like the guy gets an older woman who wants a lifestyle of travel and wants help building her business. So you come with a wish list and you want to pay for it with more wishes? Yes you are too demanding.
You have got into marketing late in life. You are still in the early phase where you think that a great salesman sells sand to arabs. You fail to see that good marketing is about building relationships that deliver value on fair terms for both sides. Sure you want the terms on your side to be good but in the end it doesn't work long term if you can't deliver value fairly on both sides. If you are delivering no value in return for your sale you are not marketing you are conning and yes a con woman asks too much.
Gondola_the_Observer 2d ago
Empathy, the ability to understand the feelings and view points of others, is said to be a trait that is strongly developed in women. Yet I never see proof of this in the real world. Has she ever asked herself "A healthy, ambitious, honest man in his early 40s, with strong sales skill who runs a successful online business, who is descent looking [Ed. note: so 7 and up] and of acceptable height, who doesn't want kids or a family but instead wants a hedonistic lifestyle while being loyal... hmm what kind of woman and relationship is this man is looking for?" If she thinks that such a man - if he even exists, which I doubt as some of his character traits are contradictory - would profile her as an ideal partner then she is beyond delusional. This is insanity and rejection of reality. My advice to this lady, find comfort in a pet, and meet your end in solitude.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2d ago
"Empathy, the ability to understand the feelings and view points of others, is said to be a trait that is strongly developed in women. Yet I never see proof of this in the real world."
I also pondered this. When I was young, I thought empathy meant personally experiencing, in a limited sense, the feelings and emotions of others. If someone was hurt, they would feel hurt, happy, etc. A more adult empathy is what you describe, the ability to at least see and understand the viewpoints of others.
Instead, the majority of them only view one thing about men: our sexual urges. My sister's Cosmo magazine was filled with pages that described to women how to be more physically appealing to men (or at least what they thought it was). Note that this appears to have collapsed of late as women get all kinds of medical procedures to "appear younger" such as botox and collagen filler that actually makes them look horrific but it signals consumable income.
What makes this one amusing is how , as @First-light points out, she thinks she has marketing skills including "emotional intelligence" and here's a hilarious one, leadership. Nearly everything she claims she would have focused on early in her life she's doing a lousy job at in relation to men. Yes, her post is on X which is notoriously riddled with typos but still, she claims to be a writer so she has no excuse. And risk taking: Nothing is more risky than approaching descent men and asking them out. There's a wonderful term I discovered to describe this: The Dunning-Kruger effect.
This is the paradigm of the "strong, independent woman" who views herself as "intimidating". Rather than being a net asset to men, she becomes a threat only raising demands from him but keeping all the benefits to herself like someone who throws a dinner party but only invites you to collect and wash the dishes afterwards.
Gondola_the_Observer 2d ago
One thing that I found out works well - at least if the woman likes/respects me - is calling her out on this. "Have you ever thought about how I feel / see / experience this?" This puts them on the spot and forces them to switch perspective. If they don't do it that's a very clear signal that she doesn't like/respect me.