Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
Link Flair:
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago Stickied
Any straight woman with a working vagina that makes it to 30+ and single is a fuckup of some sort unless she was held captive against her will in a nunnery or some other place with no access to men at all.
The Pig Woman experiment got suitors. Not even being grossly obese and ugly is an excuse for a woman being single. There will be a man willing to commit.He just may not be CEO+brain surgeon+cowboy+vampire+rockstar+olympic athlete+werewolf tier. So it is completely and utterly on a woman not being realistic about what she can achieve.
To add on and get specific to her, it is obvious from the thumbnail alone this woman is average on her best day. Imperfect facial structure, receding hairline (hairband makes it worse, stop that!), damaged hair, and she clearly gets little to no exercise based on how untoned her plump arms are and the lack of visible collarbone in a shirt that could easily show them if present. These are all things that would have been present regardless of her age for the most part, and are never improved by time. Based on those things that can be observed from looking at her in one second or less, unless she brings something non-physical to the table that overwhelmingly compensates for her deficiencies, a celebrity or even CEO tier man will never bother committing, as his floor for that is so far above her achievable ceiling it isn't even funny. Hell, the local bar/club tier bartender/beach-bum Chad can pull better at closing time.
If she were smart and self aware she would have cashed out in her early 20's with a middling-tier man and had been grateful to the man that gave her the chance to do so. Which really sums up the average woman's dating woes - they are ingrateful Icaruses that insist on flying too close to Chad.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago
That experiment revealed a lot about human intersexual relations.
I had mentioned that experiment in a reply to @Lone_Ranger recently on the trp.red side of the site.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
I was thinking of flairing this as "leftover" but kept it single woman tears from this single line from her: "I've never had that happen before" where a man "promised" her a drink but didn't. On her BIRTHDAY!!! At first I was chuckling because she felt let down on her birthday but perhaps it's also an epiphany for her: She's been a barfly since, by her own admission, she was old enough to drink legally at a bar for 11 years and consistently enjoyed free drinks and attention from men without a single, slightly, negative interaction in all that time. Like playing a video game on level 1 for a decade.
Her heartbreak is due, get this, to some guy saying he was going to get shots for EVERYONE in his friend's bachelor party (and one for her as well) but instead wound up getting a beer for himself. He didn't just let her down, but the entire group I suppose. Perhaps his group wasn't up for a round of shots (unlike her, many men aren't regular drinkers and don't want to mix hard alcohol and beer).
It doesn't occur to her that she's single not because "men" are the ones not delivering free drinks for all eternity, and engaging in approaches and "effort", but that she has done NOTHING but pump down shots down her gullet for her ENTIRE legal adult life.
And that's "difficult" for her. It's "difficult" to get into an Uber, to order drinks, and to take selfies (0.5X, of course.)
This is the quintessential aging, modern, American woman.
I have a few more wonderful videos of her WITH glam makeup. It's like a different person (but yet the same.)
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago Stickied
"Leftovers" (weekend type, as she isn't seeking commitment) is actually the right call!
From @Kevin32's stickied comment at the post creating that flair:
I'll be re-flairing it thusly.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
It probably doesn't qualify as "commitment", but she bemoans NEVER having a "boyfriend" (sounds like commitment) even as it's triggered by a revelation that a drunk guy at a bar didn't buy her a shot for her birthday as he "promised". She complains that "people" (namely men, doesn't apply to her of course) aren't following through with their promises. I mean, if some drunk guy casually mentions getting shots for "everyone" including her, that's as good as a wedding vow, isn't it?
Nonetheless, I knew this was iffy so I put it in as weekend content and flaired single women tears.
itsandrewbuck 3d ago
She didn't get her drink, and now her entitled ass is complaining about the dude chugging a beer and ghosting. Meanwhile, this dude is thinking about how many more beers he'd need to consumer before she looks worthy of...attention?
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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
"I love a good 0.5 selfie"
I'll bet you do.
32 and never had a boyfriend. She states it as if there was something wrong with men... because it could never her, could it?
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1w ago
But now she wants the princess courtship treatment, the white wedding, the picket fence around a perfect house for the 2.3 kids.
But, like, a dude welched on her free shot that one night, so her life is CRAP. SIGH! Oh, the agony of single life...
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
she has never had a boyfriend, because she has never wanted one. What she wants is to go to bars, have guys buy her drinks and get laid.
WHich is what she has been doing for the last 10 years.
So what is the issue? She got what she wanted.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
Good friend for Jesvs sake forebeare, To digg the dvst enclosed here. Blese be y man y posts thes to the Reddit Site, And cvrst be reddit “admins” fore I am unable to post myself afore their spyte
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago
FFS, someone help this man out before he goes full Chaucer, permanently!
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Hamster is working hard for this one. She has never had a boyfriend because a guy offered to buy her a drink on her 32nd birthday and then decided against it.
How many dicks have run through her in her 15 or so years of never having had a boyfriend?
She goes to bars all the time. This might be closer to the reason she has never had a boyfriend. But the real reason is because she didn't want one enough to give herself to him.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1w ago
I'm sure plenty of men have asked her to be their girlfriend and she said no
She certainly chases men who will not commit to her
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1w ago
Women love to conflate being single with being chaste.
While she didn't mention it single does not mean no sex.
I love how women say they've never had a boyfriend, single for years, etc.
Nah, you are not truly single unless you've been chaste they just didn't want to give you a lable or commit
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1w ago
Hey, don't underestimate how twee she must've been during all of those sexual encounters.
"Gosh, Bradly- (HIC!)- I'd love to go up your bedroom and see your etchings. (HIC!) Golly gee! Will you drive me to church tomorrow if I pass out with my head in your toilet?"
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
She's 32 and never had a boyfriend? Does that mean she is a virgin and celibate?
Spoiler Alert: Of course not! This translates to she is a pump and dump mattress for Chads. She is the girl at the bar that that you get lucky with then worry about the next day wondering if she gave you an STD. Naturally all this Chad fucking artificially inflates her perceived worth and SMV into thinking that if Chad fucks me, I am Chad level relationship material. Of course the thought of being in a relationship with an 80% normie never crossed her mind; those men don't exist and are invisible. She needs to realize that sex will get a man but sex wont keep a man. A lot of women today conflate a mans sexual desire with his desire to commit.
When women say they never had a boyfriend, never been on a date, hasnt been on a date for XXX number of years, broke up with their last boyfriend XXX years ago, etc. Donovan Sharpe wrote an article on what to do when a girl says this. She is virtue signaling to you that she is somehow chaste since she hasn't had a relationship in a while or in her case, at all.
When she says something like this you respond with "so you are saying that you haven't had sex in XXX years????" If she says no she is going to know that you know that she is lying and even more damaging, she thinks that will show she is low value and not attractive enough to have sex in XXX years. She can’t answer no because she’ll think you’re thinking “What’s wrong with this chick if not a single guy has taken her out or even fucked her in XXX years?” (Because that’s what she would think if you told her the same thing.) Yet she know if she answers yes you are going to think she is a slut. Then be amused at seeing a real life computer glitch happening to a woman. You can actually see the gears grind in her head trying to come up with an explanation.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
I shall post a video of her next week because she is a goldmine (or more like a dumpster fire) of material. She has an OK face (with heavy makeup) and a good rack, but her full body shots show she’s obese.
This is my favorite of the videos, however, in that she's gone mental because some drunk at a bar implied he was going to buy her a drink (on her birthday!) Further looking at her wording (not that we can take at full value what she claims) that she’s enraged that a man offered to buy her a drink, but didn’t. “Never happened to me before”.
I was wondering if I should flair this as a “leftover” or WAATGM In the Making, because perhaps she did get some men in the 11 years she “consistently” has gone to bars in her adult life but never a man who didn’t follow through with paying for a drink. So now “ALL” single people, in her view, are “hopeless”.
“I’m getting old and a drunk guy I give zero fucks about didn’t buy me a drink after I thought he would. The World Is Coming To An End.”
This is classic Wall behavior. She’s heartbroken. She is officially over the hill and this Man With No Name, almost a Clint Eastwood character, has delivered the message. She’s a mortal now with the rest of us and our existence, for her, is unbearable.
But yet, it’s not. My wife is a mortal, I’m a mortal, and we lead otherwise pleasant lives. Sometimes people let us down, sometimes we don’t get what we want, for free, at someone else’s expense, and yet it’s ok and we’re happy nonetheless.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1w ago
My goodness, this thoughtless brute who failed to buy her that shot... My god. It's like she returned to her village in Quang Tri province, only to watch him napalm the whole place into a smoldering crater. What PTSD she must be suffering.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 6d ago
Further thought: Imagine you’re a guy who, as this woman said, talked with someone for a half hour or so and they left for a half hour and then forgot about you. As men, we’d be a bit sad that here was a possible love (or sex) connection that was missed, yes? If we go out to a bar, single, and the night ends and we go home alone, consistently, we’d be upset about lost intimacy.
This woman’s PRIMARY concern for validation. She complains she doesn’t have a “boyfriend” but she didn’t want a “boyfriend” for 11 years. Just free drinks and thirsty men hitting on her. She doesn’t even make a pretense of complaining that she craves intimacy, wants someone to talk too, have kids with, and so on.
“Boyfriends” have pesky needs even if minor. She might need to put away a dish on the table or he might talk about his bad day or work. She has never experienced that and doesn’t want to. At 32, she utterly lacks the ability, or desire, for emotional intimacy.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 5d ago
The "boyfriend" did come off more as a kind of an accessory. Sort of like a handbag or a watch, except she expects the handbag or watch to buy her watches and handbags.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Why does anyone care. If at her age, she has not had a BF, there are major issues with her. It would be like being a virgin at 32.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
In the old days any woman not already in a relationship or married by 27 would be seen as a thornback, thus unsuitable for either one, a man in the same boat back then would be often considered suspect but they would never claim that he is unsuitable for marriage unless he was broke.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
In the old days there was the understanding that unless a man came from Old Money, it was going to take time for a quality man to build wealth since birth circumstances are not voluntary for men. And external circumstances can impact a man's progress in that regard.
Meanwhile, a woman is beautiful, chaste, and fertile, or she is not. Her station of birth has nothing to do with those. She has to actively choose to waste her best resources.
Unfortunately with the information age, women seem to think that just because they can dial a rich Chad on Tinder means that every man had the same advantages.
PoopBeast Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
That's right. The next time any of you start complaining about constant ghosting, meal-whores, and the hopeless struggle of trying to be a top-10% man, just remember that somewhere out there there's a frumpy, low-effort, 32 year old bimbo who didn't get her drink paid for this one time.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1w ago
If she doesn't have a special memorial built in her honor, there is no justice in this universe.
JudgeSmales 1w ago
"Thoughts and prayers" to this dismal damsel for her distress.