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Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
It used to be a matter of:
and now it's:
The whole point of asking a woman if she knows how to cook is not because you want to know if she knows how to cook. You ask a woman if she knows how to cook so you can watch her reaction to the question. If she responds happily and talks about her favorite foods, she's reveals she is good natured and easy to deal with; but if she responds angrily to the question and takes it as a sexist inquiry she reveals she is a neurotic feminist bitch who is easily triggered and has a delusional view of gender roles. With that said, you notice how women hate and reject their gender role but fully expect men to adhere to ours? If you as a male were to tell a woman you don't want to provide for her or do some other masculine gender role she will drop you instantly. At the same time, if you ask a woman to cook, she loses her mind.
Protip: just remove the lower piston ring and you'll never have to do an oil change again. Just refill.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 4mo ago
Oh yeah. Miss non-traditional, tattooed, former sex-worker with the nose ring and BA in lesbian film theory and the IUD implant wants to gain weight until age 40, then live like Donna Reed.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
I know next to nothing about IC engines, but I have a sneaking feeling that following that advice will be very costly.
PoopBeast Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
I've actually never asked a woman I was dating if she knew how to cook, so I was a little surprised by her claim that men always ask this...
...but now I'm going to start asking them if they can cook.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 4mo ago
Yup. It (cooking - knowing how) also is a good indicator of if a person is a yawning expense pit or able to manage expenses wisely.
So asking about it is not because you expect her to be barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen, but because you need to know if she's a sandbagger. Most women fall into the sandbagger category in some manner or other, so aggressively filtering them at every point is vital for a man.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 4mo ago
Strongly related to how women will expect top tier men to have no standards when it comes to women but a woman can have an entire laundry list of demands and feels entitled to browbeat a man for not meeting any of them, no matter how inconsequential.
Edit: related to the drop in first world birth rates in my opinion - women are becoming so toxic that the best reproductive rate they can aspire to is becoming a single mom with one child which is sub replacement rates. Because after becoming a single mom, even with one kid, woman are undesirable for all forms of relationship due to the risk they represent to men.
Many men will ignore a red flag for some under 30 poon that hasn't popped out a kid yet. Far fewer men will ignore those flags when brat is in tow.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Strongly related to how women will expect top tier men to have no standards when it comes to women but a woman can have an entire laundry list of demands and feels entitled to browbeat a man for not meeting any of them, no matter how inconsequential.
So true, she will expect Chad to accept her being 25 pounds over weight, but if Chad is a hair under 6', he is out of there.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 4mo ago
I think her rage is driven by her notion of what a date is supposed to be: Her making the man jump through hoops to entertain and please her in exchange for possible transactional sex later. He pays for food while she just sits there an eats it.
Asking her if she knows how to cook totally destroys that paradigm.
It IS a great question as you say for reasons that aren’t about cooking. Perhaps do what career women do to us: disguise their demands behind their own “success”: they want men as providers but state their own “success” to raise her demands.
Start on the date saying the dishes YOU like to cook and ask her what her favorite dishes to cook are. It’s not a sexist question then. We’re just strong, independent men (at cooking). Yes?
My favorite dish, for the record, is thanksgiving turkey: I coat with bacon grease to keep it moist and then when done, before it cools after the meal, strip off all the meat and use the junk bits to make turkey croquettes. I handmake gravy. The bones are useful for soup. The giblets and neck go to stew for the cat.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 4mo ago
I agree. There comes a time in a woman's dating life (if she gets old enough) where the tables turn, and instead of the guy qualifying himself to her, he expects her to qualify herself to him. And it usually sparks rage of the "How dare he!" type.
When she was young, she had no problem carrying on dates as if they were job interviews, grilling the guys on their "future plans" (aka how will you support my ever growing monetary needs), or even just sitting back and seeing how much of a dancing monkey he can be to entertain her.
Now, she's older, and all of a sudden the guys have turned the tables and have the temerity to ask her about shit that makes it clear she doesn't measure up, and she's pissed.
And I love how she protests that she doesn't ask a man if he can mow the lawn or change the oil or take out the trash. yeah, she doesn't ask about that because she expects him to do all of it. Even if he doesn't know now, if/when they get married, he damn well better learn. Can you imagine if a guy loudly proclaims "I don't know how to take out the trash. 'Cuz that's patriarchical norms and I'm more enlightened then that. Either you'll have to do it yourself or we'll need to hire a service for it." You think she'll allow him the same latitude she expects about cooking?
Fifty years ago, no man asked a woman if she knows how to cook. Because it was expected that she did. No need to waste time asking about it. It's a testament to how far women have fallen that a basic question about "Can you feed yourself without resorting to delivery apps and/or fast food and/or ramen noodles every day" now has to be asked because plenty of women (like her) can't manage to do it, and -- even worse -- are proud of that fact.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3mo ago
Warning: Old Geezer Man story ahead. AARP membership strongly encouraged!
I ruminated on something you said and would like to share back: 50 years ago it was 1975, when my wife was born. My parents loved all the gadgets and back then, they got a dishwasher, a garbage compactor (this was NOT a good idea in hindsight!), a VCR when they first came out, you name it. We were also one of the first households in the country to get HBO.
Another first for us was a microwave oven. It was like we’re the apes in that opening scene in 2001: A Space Odyssey. We tried to put EVERYTHING into it!
Back then, for those who couldn’t cook such as latchkey kids, was the TV dinners: You would put them into an oven and get mediocre “dinners”. Kids LOVED them! At the YMCA, they had an industrial grade Amanda Wave microwave and we could buy pizza slices and put them in. Yummy!
So anyhoo, back then, nearly everyone particularly women had some cooking skills because all this convenience food didn’t yet exist. Cakes were expensive to buy so people perhaps got Betty Crocker and baked them at home.
Kitchens were, and for Slavic women, still popular for feminine socializing. The smaller the kitchen, the more women that will be crammed in it chatting. They can’t seem to go out in the normal room. So naturally they know how to cook because they spend a lot of time in the kitchen. That’s a sexist stereotype but it’s true: women really LIKE being in the kitchen (at least the ones I know.).
Funny story: A (materialistic) aging Slavic woman managed to get married to a Freddie Mac executive and she blew $120,000 on a kitchen remodel. All of us were laughing our heads off at her. It’s like pimping out a 1990 Honda Accord. So gauche! Slavic women seem to enjoy “homey” kitchens.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
Very true, but I'm more amazed by the pro tip. I hate paying for oil changes and can't do it myself.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
I forgot to suggest if you do change the oil, throwing it into the ocean along with the battery or just be sure to safely dispose of your motor oil in a river and you'll be fine.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
When married at 21, my wife knew how to make zero dishes. Not one. Total and complete failure of her mother and our inept educational system.
However, women are adaptable as long as they can be taught what is expected of them. Wifey is now an excellent cook, so good I can barely maintain my target weight. She cooks only what I like and knows to ask permission before trying random recipes out. And my daughter, 100% homeschooled, is now a better cook as a teenager than most housewives I've ever met. Because priorities. She does not need post 6th grade math/science to be a housewife. She does need to know how to cook and clean.
No, you don't. My daughter can make homemade cheese-its, sourdough bagels from scratch, butter from cream, and can gut/prepare a wild rabbit. Also, I've legit known women that could not even operate a stove.
JudgeSmales 4mo ago
"She does need to know how to cook and clean."
Indeed. But I can attest, as many of us can, that practically EVERY woman's apartment I've been in was an utter pigsty. If she has a young kid and some toys are scattered around, that's at least understandable. But even childless single women can't keep house. Clothes all over the place, stuff on the floor, general disarray. None of my male friends live that way.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Have you taken a look at the insides of most women's cars? WTF? Most have trash on the floor.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
I like looking at nude selfies but I have noticed the utter pigsty's their rooms are. It really says something that the mess in their room is more noticeable than their boob. I mean pics where you cant see the floors
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
The messiness of my girls when left to themselves does not bother me. What does bother me is piles of junk in the main areas of my home, so these are subject to discarding if I find them. From a very young age my daughter was taught to collect all toys and stuff before she went to bed, knowing that if I found any they would be in the trash.
The messiness of women on their own is actually to be expected. They have no one to clean for. Women are created to be a man's helper and keeper of his home. A good wife does not clean because she is some kind of neat freak - she cleans because her husband wants it that way.
When you realize that any woman's purpose in life is literally to serve her husband and children, in that order, things start to make a lot of sense.
chriscrush 4mo ago
100% agreed. The mark of a good woman isn't her intrinsic ability to cook, clean, or do laundry. It's her ability to adapt to the needs of the man that she is serving and whose housing she is keeping.
Now, for 99% of worthwhile men, that is going to include cooking, cleaning, and doing laundry, and likely many other things. But it's about completing the task to our standards/satisfaction, not to some self-rewarding absolute standard of the task for the task's own sake.
Any good female worth keeping is going to understand this intuitively, or will be easily taught this, and will do so without the need for constant reminder.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
One of the traps women get themselves into is trying to impress/please the wrong people. Instead of trying to please her husband (whose standards are probably quite low and reasonable), she transfers that to all the other wives she knows or has ever seen on social media.
She then feels like a horrible wife because she cannot keep up with her false perceptions of other women's abilities and accomplishments and "immaculate homes". Meanwhile, husband is over here like "I never said I even wanted that..."
She ends up stressed out, feeling like she can't keep up, when all she had to do was ask her husband what actually needs to be done. Most likely he would have said "just get some groceries and take a break the rest of the day" but she would rather wallow in her victimhood.
To avoid the womanly temptation to this lifestyle, I have literally banned my girls from doing more than one thing per day outside the home. It has worked for years.
chriscrush 4mo ago
Very well put. Women are easily pressured and manipulated by their surroundings and predisposed to victimhood as a result.
Avoiding regular interaction with the world and its temptations seems like the right way to go for them. Especially because more time in the home means more time spent orienting to the appropriate goals.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
Well lady based on your sample of 3 men who didn't make your grade, yes you need to be thinking about what you offer and what they offer in return. Looks like men are thinking that way, so you stay single or you offer what they want.
That's how you have played it so far with them right. They offer enough of what you want or next! -like you did with those 3 guys. Men are just doing the same. What do you want lady? Its your choice.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 4mo ago
Since you put it that way, singledom it is! SIGH! So hard being a successful desirable smart aging woman...
No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
Men could extensively talk all day about mowing the lawn, changing the oil in the car, and taking out the trash.
Because we're good at it. Because it's what we do. Because it's what we bring to the table.
As a matter of fact, we rather you ask about what we can do, other than what do we make, what do we have, and how big our bank account is.
When men ask, "Can you cook?" We're not asking if you can turn on the stove and whip up some spaghetti. Any moron with half a brain can do that.
We're asking, "Can you support us by keeping us nourished with food and love? Can you give us the energy we need to keep doing what we do? Can you bring the family together around the dinner table to enjoy each other's company? Can you give us the mental and spiritual energy we need to make it all worthwhile?"
The bottom line is, "Have you been raised to be a wife, or do you bring nothing to the table but an ego and a pair of used up blown out leatherflaps?"
JudgeSmales 4mo ago
Agreed. By ranting about "Can you cook?" m'lady is just being performatively obtuse. Deep down she knows exactly what we're getting at. But for decades, women have been indoctrinated not to show even an accidental acknowledgement of traditional gender roles, lest the sistas think she isn't 100 percent down with feminist orthodoxy, yo.
Many women are so weak, they will go along with this feminist ruse throughout their prime SMV years despite the accompanying risks of being alone for the rest of their lives. Heaven forbid she should know how to cook (or be willing to learn) and, perhaps, even ENJOY IT.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
This is exactly what a good man wants, and used to be able to obtain.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 4mo ago
Asking what your signature dish is?
Heh. I like that question.
At least it's not a trap like asking a dude "when's the last time you cried?" and when he answers honestly, the lady is disgusted by his cringey unmanly admission to having cried.