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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Single Woman Tears

Only below average men pursue me.
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polishknight

Posted 11mo ago in Single Woman Tears - Permalink - Locked - 9K Views



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DextroShade 11mo ago

She's a mid bitch who can only attract average dudes. What pisses me off is that she suits on dudes for having different interests than her, as if dudes should want to watch Keeping Up with the Kardashians and The View with her and not be into anything she's not into like sci-fi or sports. Men and women have different interests, how fucking hard is that to understand?

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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

"I don't have the prettiest face" = female version of the elephant man

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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

"I'm average in looks" = face like a bulldog chewing a wasp, plus fat but with small tits.

"I look young for my age" = I am old and infertile

"I'm 135lbs" = I'm 168lbs

"I'm 5"6" = I'm 5"2

"I'm artistic and musical" = I'm a slut

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Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 11mo ago

I'm average in looks

I don't have the prettiest face

If she's willing to admit that much, can you imagine how she must actually look?

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago

Yeah she sounds like a homely Basic Liberal Farts Bitch that has a way over inflated opinion of herself and thinks she deserves a CEO-bro tier guy.

She needs to realize that not every woman is Prom Kween tier and should maybe consider staying in her lane.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago

When I met my wife, she hadn't ever seen an opera before so I took her to Madame Butterfly and then to The Merry Widow. She had a wonderful time. I love them so I wanted to share them with her.

I was thinking to myself that this woman gripes that "normies" are hitting on her average and less-than-pretty-face and she couldn't be bothered to perhaps take them out to the things she enjoys and share them with her. No. She's a PRINCESS and men are supposed to PURSUE her while also, of course, respecting her as an equal and apologizing for The Patriarchy.

She sits around griping that the hottest fish aren't jumping into her bucket and skinning themselves and frying themselves up for her.

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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 11mo ago

Obligatory:

https://www.google.com/gasearch?q=okcupid%20attractiveness%20graph&tbm=&source=sh/x/gs/m2/5#vhid=V_DitLqzOu00GM&vssid=l

She’s probably around a five, and she thinks that the men on her attractiveness level are twos (or as HoeMath puts it: “Not People”).

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 11mo ago

or as HoeMath puts it: “Not People”

ARGH not you too!

There are a bunch of us right here at WAATGM who've been saying similar for years, myself included.

My way of putting it was usually "most women don't even see men as people, but rather utility objects".

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

The manipulated man is very clear on this: women see men the way we see useful objects

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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 11mo ago

Bro… we both been saying it for years… along with lots of other dudes. I just crack up when the HoeMath guy slides the piece of paper that says “Not People” over the guys who are below 8 on the 1-10 scale on his graph. The deadpan way he does that is hilarious.

Now…

Have Sum V-Cards!

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 11mo ago

I like his presentation too, but I bristle at the way so many people act like they think he's so original.

Kind of like when people attribute the quote "women don't care about your struggles; they wait at the finish line to fuck the winner" to Rich Cooper (it was originally Patrice O'Neal).

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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

Meanwhile, they're fucking Chad and Tyrone on the sidelines.

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

HoeMath is original. Has anybody else explained hypergamy using crayons and paper?

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 11mo ago

Like I said, I do enjoy his presentation.

But I haven't seen him say anything that hasn't already been said elsewhere in the manosphere.

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago

Well nothing is original. We all stand on the shoulders of giants.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 10mo ago

True dat

Edit - Roissy was a fucking original!

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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 11mo ago

Fair point… I know there are some RP influencers who took stuff from WAATGM without crediting us as the source.

\cough\ … Joker … \cough\

Fine. Gimme’ my v-cards back.

The truth is that RP has gotten enough exposure to spawn a cottage industry of guys monetizing the stuff guys like us were putting in play 15 or 20 years ago. We were shouting into the void… now it’s being taken seriously.

That’s not a bad thing, I think. I’m reminded of the old saying,

“It’s amazing what you can accomplish if you do not care who gets the credit.” - Sun Tsu, in a letter to William Wallace

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user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

Thank you? Yes, yes, those are the words. Thank you.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 11mo ago

Sun Tsu, in a letter to William Wallace

Definitely heaping vcards upon you later.

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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 11mo ago

Oops; you’re correct. It was a Snapchat message, not a letter.

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Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

Make the ouija board great again!

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

Ya know you guys CAN get in on this stuff. I already talk to Hoe_Math on X.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 11mo ago

Ugh. I don't even have enough time to do what I want to do on the dot reds, so the last thing I need is another social media platform.

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago

I'm actually saving time on X. I get my news from the people that the news people get news from. So I don't have to waste time watching some long, dragged out youtube video of what someone else said.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 10mo ago

Heh, the only YouTube I do with any regularity is Rian Stone's, since it's the most applicable to my life. I'll occasionally catch some Clarey or Better Bachelor or some others if they're short (no more Rollo unless clips lol)

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago

Check out Denys Davidov. He does a daily update on Ukraine war. Very short and concise.

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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

I can't stand that stuff

How much you wanna bet that if Chad deigned to pay attention to her, and he liked video games, she'd be all starry-eyed playing two player everything in the hopes of making Chad see that she is really quite the nerd after all? Suddenly it would be all "I'm a gamer gurl, teehee!"

Women thrive when they meld with a man for life, when his interests/passions/hobbies become hers, and she learns to see them not as annoying but as interesting because HE likes them.

I got into fishing recently, wifey went with me for about five hours today. Sure, she slept on a literal rock and went for coffees and read books during much of that time. But she went with me because I'm into it, to support me. That's what a wife does. She doesn't have to be good at the thing, in fact it's better if she's worse than me, so I can teach her stuff.

artistic and musical

Most guys are, at something, if you womenz just look deeper than "he's not into makeup or fashion" and appreciate what's actually there. Most guys have hidden talents and express themselves on a deeper level than fake chemical face masks.

But that's not what you want. You want to attach yourself to a man who is recognized as a good artist or musician by others so you can increase your own popularity by association. A man who very skillfully and artfully paints pewter action figures in lifelike detail would not impress you in the least.

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Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 11mo ago

You want to attach yourself to a man who is recognized as a good artist or musician by others so you can increase your own popularity by association.

@polishknight made an excellent reply a bit earlier along those lines. It reminded me of this Frasier gag.

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Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

"How can we men possibly use sex to get what we want? Sex is what we want".

This is the reality for all thirsty non-Chads.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago

What I found interesting about this one is how illustrative it is of the female psyche.

She's not PURSUED by attractive men (even though she's quite conscious she's unattractive herself) as well as her not having shared interests. She's apparently at the wall (due to "looking young for her age") yet has no sense of urgency to push her to significant action in her strategy as well as "settle".

It doesn't cross her mind, or it's unacceptable, to perhaps introduce the least geeky men to her art interests or to (gasp!) approach men she desires. Relationships with men are ALL ABOUT being "provided" including the relationship itself. She's supposed to sit around and an acceptable fish should just jump into her bucket and skin and bread and fry itself.

She doesn't even get hit on by "attractive" men solely for sex and then P&D'd implying she's either exceptionally lazy or unattractive. She's likely middle aged, as in half her life is over and her best years are behind her, but she is utterly clueless.

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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 11mo ago

I find it difficult to wrap my head around such passivity. We all know a few guys who are like that: they never do anything to move the needle and then complain that they’re not getting what they want. But guys like that are looked down upon by both men and women.

Women just aren’t expected to DO anything to get what they want, even though they’re almost ideally positioned to do so… and nobody calls them out on it (except guys like us, and we get attacked when we do). This woman is slender and looks young for her age, which means that she has everything she needs to get male attention. All she has to do is pick one and indicate her interest. She may not be every man’s cup of tea, but if she does that half a dozen times she would certainly get a man on or above her level.

I and others have long noted that all a woman has to do is not screw up in order to “win” in the mating market. Don’t be fat, don’t be a bitch, don’t cut your hair short, don’t get tattoos, don’t be a slut. That’s pretty much it: all she has to do is to refrain from sabotaging herself. If a woman becomes proactive she’ll automatically be among the top women even if she started out as average. Be fit, learn to be a good cook, be stylish, etc..

Women like this are not much different than the fat guys who live in basement apartments playing COD all day complaining that the Chads get all the Stacys. I don’t feel sorry for inspins like her.

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago

I've posted this before, but perhaps you didn't see it. Youtube: "How I hacked online dating | Amy Webb"

It's exceptional that a woman gave a "Ted Talk" on simply observing what successful (in dating) women do, copying them to the best of her ability, putting in a little effort, and hamstering away her self-sabotage for a while to get a guy way above her usual level.

I'm reminded of the tale "The Princess and the Pea" where a qualification test for whether a woman deserved to be royalty was how easily discomforted she was because of "high standards", where she could sense a pea under several mattresses AND it would cause her to lose sleep. Dozens of generations of women were raised on the notion that this was healthy femininity: Being demanding and needy qualified them for higher status men.

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 11mo ago

artistic and musical

Rockbanddrummer

(Monty Python is not funny btw)

There's no accounting for taste and I can't fault her for her preferences (yeah, one or two Flying Circus sketches require you to know who Edward Heath was). If she doesn't find something funny, then so be it.

I will say, however, that there are a lot of things that women find funny that I certainly don't. I.e.: The punchline of every "Cathy" comic seemed to be: "I look terrible in this swimsuit! AACK!"

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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

She's probably referring to a guy she dated who incessantly quoted "The Holy Grail". All bona fide nerds, such as myself, can quote it nearly word for word. And thus has it ever been for, well, decades.

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 11mo ago

I learned to never do that.

It turns out you can get called a nerd for entirely unrelated reasons.

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago

Well sure. There's quotes from Star Trek, Star Wars, anything Mel Brookes has made, or any media that predates puberty for her or isn't from her favorite CEOAthleteRockStar.

Your only purpose is to enhance and elevate her status, not have interests of your own, silly nerd!

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First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

Artistic musical chads are like kids in a candy shop. They are in female dominated fields and have a huge number of women chasing them, particularly well married women looking for someone exciting and "sensitive" (someone I fancy who is arty farty). Plain Jane won't get a look in. Its probably the reason why half the guys who take English at university do so -to get access to lots of women who really want to meet Heathcliff, Mr Rochester, Mr Darcy, Dylan Thomas, Lord Byron or Martin Amis -any real or imagined literary Chad. Its a very long game for these boys. When the girls are at university, they avoid these boys and line up to be banged by Chad the jock but later on, when they fail to marry a smart man of means who will fund a life of art galleries and the theatre, they will gladly settle for one of these types but by then these types have matured and have heaps of choice among intolerable liberal women who want to cancel Monty Python, because Huff Post or the Guardian told them to.

Gosh I can feel my dick shrivel just writing about them. Why would any man educated or otherwise want one of them? You would have to be a desperate type who never got out much and was looking for plain Jane who should be glad of your attention.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 11mo ago

Monty Python is not funny

and so as a BLASPHEMER!!!, you are to be stoned to death!

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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

Are there any women here today?

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 11mo ago

"...all I said was 'Jehovah'..."

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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

HE SAID IT AGAIN!!!!!!!

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GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

Classic.

I like Monty Python, but it also overlaps the domain of nerds that don't understand how to NOT beat something to death. The Knights Who Say "Ni!", "Just a flesh wound", etc.. Once one of these people get going, its like a malfing soundboard.

Usually a stern look will cut that shit out, but otherwise you just have to walk away.

Bring out yer dead!

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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

NI NI NI NI NI NI NIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

The reason they have nothing in common is because they don't want kids. Women have taken this whole idea of couples as business partners to an extreme. Back in my blue pill days I used to think the same way. She has to be intelligent, like D&D, be into rocketry, like fishing, etc. No bro, she has to put out and make babies and nurture them and make a house into a home.

She's probably getting approached by contextual alphas(D&D game master at Barnes and Noble, top player at Call of Duty, etc) at the book store or coffee shop. Nerds, basically. It's like going to Silicon Valley and being disappointed that all the guys are into computers and have pencil necks. In reality she should be going to art classes or something like that.

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sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

I understand your pain ma'am. I also had to deal with desperate post wall CC vet woman trying to swindle me into marriage, and their fathers / uncles are also part in this.

I still have to deal with said class of women, and their father /uncles, but to a lesser degree.

Monty Python is not funny

Ma'am have you considered therapy ?

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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 11mo ago

The last time I was in the UK, I went into a pub/restaurant in Portsmouth, and they advertised a once-per-year event: Fawlty Towers Live.

Basically, you were going to have dinner in a reenactment of being served at Fawlty Towers. There'd be an actor playing Manuel, Basil, Sybil ... probably Polly... I was like "I would pay good money to see that!"

The barkeep said it was hilarious.

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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago

Manuel is the best

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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago

She is mistaken. 5'6"/135 lbs is WAY below average these days.

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souldrone 11mo ago
(Monty Python is not funny btw)

That is a hard no for me. NO

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