Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
I was involved in a conversation the other day with a woman in her 40s (I think - just not sure where in her 40s which will link to a point I want to make).
She is either divorced or going through a divorce and was complaining about men on dating apps (she’d only used one - Facebook. She said because it was free but also from my perspective it’s the lowest effort of all of them if you already have a Facebook profile)
I’ve forgotten why this was even the discussion but she was talking about how she needed to get out and do more because spending and evening “looking at pictures of ugly men” was apparently not a good hobby
If we lived in a world where we could really be honest with women the way we are with men then someone would have told her she is a divorced woman in her 40s with a saggy body (and so I assume kids) - ugly men are your options. That’s who you have to pick from. And so maybe you should have considered that before divorcing your husband.
Caveat is I have no idea why she is getting divorced - might be down to him. But women need to really understand what dating over 40 when your body isn’t on point would be like. If they knew perhaps these marriages would work out more. (And even if their body is on point they are still going to struggle to get someone they think is on their level if they look for similar ages)
She wasn’t helped by the fact that her friends were trying to sabotage her by bad mouthing some of her matches (“he’s too short” etc). Too her credit she is apparently not filtering on height because she is too old for children. Another case of saying the quiet part out loud of course
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
You write "she is a divorced woman in her 40s with a saggy body (and so I assume kids) - ugly men are your options. That’s who you have to pick from."
Plot twist: those 'ugly men' that are swiping on her are actually only interested in a pump and dump! They are posing as interested in LTRs so that they can sample the goods and then move on. Pump, dump and ghost.
The fact that she doesn't realise that is testament to
a) her delusion (comes standard issue with women)
b) the fact that she hasn't been very long in the game (the post 40s divorced woman game on OLD game)
So those 'ugly men' are actually not even an option. They look like an option, because they are swiping on her, but all they want is a smash and dash. And here's a further plot twist: She isn't even their top pick. They are settling. They would much rather be banging some 23 year old, but they are hedging their bets. They take one look at her, a woman in her 40s, and they realise straight away that she is in a buyers market, so they have some leverage.
They will happily bang her a few times, but that's it. If you don't believe me, just read go over to the other site (huuw-ptttt) and read any of the threads which start with 'Whats up with dating after 40???' to get an idea of the tears of the inspins.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
I’ve seen some of those posts but never dwelled on that sub. I gather most are from women? Although I expect there are some men whose main complaint would (I assume) be that if they haven’t had any or many LTRs (or in some cases a failed marriage) at that age then most women assume there is something wrong with them
But I expect most are women getting a reality check.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
She "doesn't understand" but boy oh boy, everyone any man with an IQ above room temperature will understand. Every man that she ever met "understood".
Boosted_Arrow 3mo ago
Celsius or Fahrenheit? kek
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Its okay, her undertaker will understand when she's laid to rest.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Even her cat understands.
No-Stress-Cat 3mo ago
Of course not, grandma. Now put your teeth back in, you're drooling all over your cream of wheat.
AlwaysStoic 3mo ago
Her anger at her white neighbour being with a Filipina and NOT HER is delicious. Ozempic (if she has the money), vodka, social isolation and cats beckon.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
We should start marketing a pre-mixed cocktail for women over 40.
1 part Ozempic
Dash of Prozac
1 part Xanax
3 parts vodka
Slim line tonic water
White wine chaser
We can call it Cats & Whine
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
I love the racism that these women have. “Why is this man with this brown woman and not me? I’m way better”
Clearly that’s not the case.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 3mo ago
She doesn't even want the white dude who's with the Filipina. She's just pissed that she isn't in a position to reject him.
If it wasn't for the Filipina, she'd be saying "OMG THIS DUDE WAS GROSS BUT HE TRIED TALKING TO ME!"
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
That is true x1000
She doesn't want the guy. She wants the guy to want her. She is pissed that nobody wants her.
Mundane_Worldliness7 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
White in capital letters. I’ll bet her neighbor is cute and that the writer is a hater. I’ll also bet that she had at least half a dozen serious marriage prospects, which she turned down.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 3mo ago
It always warms my heart to see a woman who has clearly relied upon being able to exploit the goodwill of men for the first half of her life having to face the reality that not even orbiter tier men want anything to do with her for the last half of her life.
Her anguish is an orchestra.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Her anguish is an orchestra, and the symphony playing tonight is called "Loneliness" in D # minor.
If you miss it, you can catch it tomorrow night.
Or any night.
NotaBene Jr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Please don't make me play in six sharps
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
You must suffer for your art
EmpireCrimson 3mo ago
That was good for a laugh. She clearly doesn't understand that she is the problem - and reveals her racism along the way. Another bitter Karen in training.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
In training???
I think she has the Advanced Karening PhD
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 3mo ago
I have a female friend with silly high standards. She doesn't see why she should settle.
I explained that there are very, very, very few tall, successful, well hung, charming, good looking single men out there and a lot of women in her position (over 30, fairly attractive).
She agreed.
She agrees there aren't enough men to go around.
She agrees that a man like that has a lot of options, and that most women in her position won't get to lock one down.
........... and at the end of the conversation she said "but I just don't see why I should settle".
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 3mo ago
These women believe-- all the way down to their bones-- that men NEVER make any compromises in their relationships. Of course that's nonsense, but she's in a place of extreme ignorance and doesn't want to step outside of it for long. She's like the celebrity chef who flies in to some famine zone for a day and wonders why the people there aren't preparing vegan eggplant-goat cheese cannelloni in their luxury kitchens and pairing it with a full-bodied Tempranillo-Grenache blend.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Matty, you can't really convince those kinds of women to see sense. It's a waste of time and effort. In reality, you should really just tell her
"You're right sis - never settle! You're special, and your prince will come. You just got to put yourself out there."
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 3mo ago
And........ "Just be yourself!"
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Don't forget to tell her "If they can't tolerate you at your worst, they dont' deserve you at your best"
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 3mo ago
Awesome plan, ideally say this while fucking her friends
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
ideally do a 3 some, with her best friend and her sister, post it on the internet, and then ride off on your motorcycle. They love it when you do that.
ChopHopper 3mo ago
Men should never encourage women to settle. When a woman settles for a man, eventually she is going to resent that man. Then she's either going to divorce him or make his life a living hell in a cheaper to keep her marriage.
At the end of the movie Casablanca, Bogart's character Rick tells Bergman's character Ilsa that she will regret staying with him, "Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, but soon and for the rest of your life." He loved her but let her go because he knew deep down she was settling for him.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 3mo ago
Cause she's a princess and deserves the world, duh.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 3mo ago
What a tell. Sure, I wouldn't think she would manage to make and keep good friends, but to have no friends at all? How insufferable must one be to - oh, she declares herself as more attractive than any other woman who has a boyfriend/husband. Never mind.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3mo ago
Your results say otherwise.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
And there’s the answer to everything. Just another woman who thinks that the kind of man that she can keep is equal to the kind of men that she can get sex from.
I can find many men who will gladly sleep with a 40 year old woman. Everything from senior citizens to college dudes, and of course, other 40 year old men. But most of those men aren’t going to stick around for her.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
correction.....NONE of those men are going to stick around for her.
I love banging milfs. It's great fun. If I were single now, I'd be banging as many milfs as I could. But I would have zero desire in taking one on as an LTR project.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Sucks to suck I guess.
I have as much empathy for post wall women as they had for average men during their sexual prime.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Apart from anything else, you can often tell its a woman writing just down to the indiscipline of the writing style. The giveaways are everywhere;
The way she flits in-between tenses. It's horrible. For example "I don't have any red flags that I could see" (mixing present plus past tense).
She does this stream of consciousness syntax where she just abandons an argument midway and interrupts it with some other nonsense.
Clarity and meaning are male interests. Women are very unclear when they speak or write, because they are not interested in clarity. They are interested in feelings and making lots of mouth noises.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 3mo ago
I love the shaming language "they aren't ready to fight for our union!" Translated that means he wasn't willing to compromise on his own needs / priorities / values in order to accommodate hers.
Good on those guys. Why should a guy "fight" for anything with her in the beginning parts of the dating phase? He's not "unable" to fight for a union, he simply sees no value in this union that's worth fighting for. Either because it's too early, or because he already sees you as a pump-n-dump. Either way, it has nothing to do with readiness or ability.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3mo ago
This is part of the reversal that wall women experience: When they first were dating, they could play the filter game and reject men for the slightest of reasons and "next!" them. He didn't smile at her first joke? He's emotionally unavailable! Next!
The men that remain of interest to her have figured out how to enjoy an abundance mindset like she did. He learns how to behave himself on the first few dates in order to get her into the sack and after that, it's all gravy for him. Marriage is a liability to him so there's no reason for him to "fight" for the relationship. SHE is expected at that point to reel in her expectations and demands and the men instead of trying to nurse her expectations down slowly and reasonable may just decide to cut bait and go for the next MILF hottie. Plenty of fish in the sea.
redblow22 3mo ago
I'd bet the rent that the Filipina neighbor is HAF, and the OP is wildly jealous.
"Is that the sound of the bobtail delivering my palletized wine and kitty litter?"
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Funny, in my mind's eye the Filipina neighbour was totally mid, like a 5. Not tall, not beautiful. But the neighbour guy has tried his luck with American sluts and just knows that they are toxic. So he is trying his luck as a passport bro.
The funny thing about the foreign girls that you see settling down with western guys is that many of them are not that hot. It drives the domestic feminist sluts crazy.... they shout things like
I'll tell you what they see in them....they see a woman that isn't a toxic cunt, a woman that doesn't actually hate men AND sleep with dozens of them, and a woman that doesn't hate her self.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
I’d take normal looking and friendly over a physically attractive cunt any day of the week. Like you’re choosing a wife? They’ll all be ugly eventually. Even if you don’t plan on marrying, I’d assume you’d want a woman that you can see yourself with indefinitely, right? So a toxic bitch has no value in that regard. She’s only going to add more headache over time.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
could not agree more. Guys that spend their lives trying to LTR / marry hotties eventually get what they deserve.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Could be. Or could be using Hoe Math’s logic of women see all other women as 10s (in public) except those who are 8+ because they conform to “patriarchal beauty standards”