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Here we go again: another fat underemployed loser that thinks she deserves Chad. She is looking for a REAL MAN not Boys! How did we as a society reach this point of these delusional women?
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Seagram7

Posted 1y ago in Leftovers - Permalink - Locked - 5.6K Views



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Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

This hits close to my real life as I work with a girl that looks very similar to the post with the exception that she has a constant resting bitch face. She always has a scowl, always looks pissed off at the world. I found out she paid $5K to a matchmaker that specialized in finding rich husbands. I look back and feel bad that we were all laughing about it in the breakroom. The only way she would get a Chad is for a one night as a pump and dump because she has nice squeezable tits. Get him to commit to her??? She is truly delusional.

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Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago

How did we as a society reach this point of these delusional women?

Pump and dump with Chad and Brad makes them think that they are relationship material for Chad and Brad level men because of sex the same way a rich but otherwise schlub-looking man can take a HB8/9 to Fiji through his wealth and then think that he deserves sex with models because she went out with him (even if they didn't have fuk)

Same coin, two different sides of the problem. Women conflating their desireability in one area (being a quik nut for Chad and Brad because they struck out of their other options that night or just wanted an easy 4th lay in their rotation) for desirability in general instead of realizing what their role with a high SMV man was

Societal factors as well, being constantly validated and told they deserve the best even though if every woman deserves "the best" that there isn't enough supply for that to be achievable. Throw in general solipsism and that women rarely have to work for anything and you have a pandemic of delusion amongst women

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Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

TL;DR version: SMV and MMV are often two different levels in the same person.

Typical slut/fuck boy = High SMV + Low MMV

Frumpy single mother = Mid SMV + Low MMV

18yo conservative virgin girl/Alpha Bucks = High SMV + High MMV

Ugly male billionaire = Zero SMV + High MMV

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Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago

Lmao this should be pinned somewhere

Have my upvote

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Justanaverageguy 1y ago

I think it’s funny how many women hate smoking and mention it as an instant turnoff. I mean I don’t smoke, but I also don’t sleep around with randoms and have 7 different std’s either. These women hate smoking but they’ll do drugs and have random sex partners like they’re the epitome of health lol not to mention they’re fat. Ok so you won’t die from lung cancer but your fat ass is still gonna die from a heart attack.

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

I think it’s funny how many women hate smoking and mention it as an instant turnoff

It's fucking bullshit anyways.

All of their "instant turnoffs" are absolutely bullshit if you're attractive enough. I mean, women literally let convicts impregnate them and you think a cigarette is the magical red flag? Please.

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Justanaverageguy 1y ago

But if you dare mention how they allowed a convict to nut in them they will claw your eyes out.

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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

I've picked up smoking a pipe once or twice a week. It makes me feel more intelligent, like Tolkien or something, and relaxes me. My pipe is a "churchwarden" which is like a long Gandalf pipe. It's a fun hobby, and basic tobacco is not addictive like cigarettes with hundreds of added chemicals.

When I light up the response is usually, "That smells gooood, like my grandpa," even from women. It's quite manly, cheap, and fun. Like many things, if used in moderation it adds spice to life. Highly recommend.

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GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

I don't smoke myself, but pipe tobacco when I've encountered it has always had a better aroma than any mass-marketed smoking product.

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BobbingForBunions Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

I suspect this type of profile is designed to "shield" women from the despair of being ignored by the dating marketplace.

If a woman states "I'm available. Let's go out," and is ignored, she'd have to confront that bleak reality.

But if she creates a laundry list of "standards," and is then ignored, she can say "It's not my fault. There are no quality men out there."

Personally, I'd rather confront reality and do whatever is necessary to reach my goals (e.g. lose weight, learn to cook, build conversational skills, etc.).

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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Best comment on this thread - I have been seeing this quite a bit now.

Women get to the point where no man is interested, so they go onto OLD - they know deep down that nobody is interested so they post comically demanding profiles (as this one is) ....then, when nobody is interested, she says to herself and her besties - "It's because I have such high standards - I won't settle"

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago

They also are testing their perceived attractiveness by seeing if men will respond even if she has outrageous demands to pump up their self-worth even higher. She'll still get guys messaging her to see if all the above is a shit test (it often is), and then she can blame "men" as the problem, not herself, because it's not her fault if men are "liars".

Although I saw this self-esteem creep back in the 1980's, I believe it was checked by public shame when a woman would go out to a disco or bar and see the hottest women get hit on first and she'd be seconds but in online dating, she doesn't know that she's sloppy seconds. Women fail to take responsibility for their high demands resulting in being lied to, or for men P&D perhaps indicating that their RMV is low.

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

But that's because you're a man and you are accustomed to dealing with reality

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Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago

But that's because you're a man and you are accustomed to dealing with reality

Getting rejected and having to work for shit tends to make one deal with reality

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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

The jobs that men do are all centred on 'dealing with reality'. The jobs that women do tend to be centred on dealing with delusions and mass psychosis. (HR, gender studies, D&I roles, ESG, sustainability communications, welfare officers etc).

We've entered into a sort of equilibrium where men create the value, and women destroy it. Trouble is, in the process, we've destroyed productivity in the west.

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

If this woman were a man, he would be a fucking loser in every metric.

Men, we need to start actively shaming women who do this shit - you don't get to be a loser and have this level of entitlement.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Don’t worry, she’s experiencing life as a loser. She just gets to avoid being actively told it.

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MelkorHimself Mod 1y ago

Body type: A little extra

That's putting it lightly (or heavily; can't decide).

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Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago

You should message me...

You want to take me out to lunch

Well, she has surely been in a lot of dates.

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Justanaverageguy 1y ago

They get mad at men lying about their height but women lie about their weight all the time.

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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

She needs to eat more salad. Oh weight, she probably doesn't know what salad is.

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Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago

Isn't that the thing she asks to be taken out of her burger?

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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago

Oh weight...

I see what you did there.

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No-Stress-Cat Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

She can't even live up to her own standards, including high-quality grammar and punctuation.

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GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

"When you only work 4 hours a week... ( complain, complain, complain )"

I never saw a human sloth before.

No wonder she's angling for the "payoff", but she has zero to offer, including her bad attitude. It is amusing though, because she'll flop around her shitty apartment whining why no one wants to 'claim' her, but has zero inclination to improve one iota.

Honestly, I'm glad she isn't reproducing.

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Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

That is something that really struck me that I wanted to but didnt include in the title post. She works a total of FOUR hours a week. That is some serious underemployment. So let me guess...she still lives with her parents. She is 31 and doesnt have a fancy degree (she would have mentioned it if she did) didnt clime the corporate ladder, didnt find a husband...what has she been doing with herself? All she has to show in life is a weight problem, no man, and a seriously crappy less than part time job. With that type of history, I am also guessing that she has mental health problems. All that and she demands a Chad.

The meteor cant come fast enough.

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GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

It also strikes me as a major difference between men and women.

Men grind it out, and achieve something. "Modern" women sit around and complain, expecting to be bailed out.

The pendulum is swinging, those most confident will suffer the sudden shock of the water surging out to sea - before the tsunami arrives to dash them on the rocks of reality.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Imagine working just 4 hours a week. Go sign up for some courier service and do gig work.

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Holy fuck I missed that. My brain probably saw it and didn't even register it as an actual sentence people would say.

4 hours? What the fuck. If someone told me that I had to work 4 hours, I'd ask "so I don't have to work the other 8 today?"

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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

She is more grammatically adept than any woman I've ever seen on here. To the point where I think she may have actually read a book or two.

Too bad that adds absolutely nothing to her SMV. In fact it lowers it, because she obviously takes inordinate pride in the ability to converse in her native tongue, while disparaging potential suitors for being unable to "use high quality grammar."

Men are more interested in your ability to STFU. How are you at that, sweetie?

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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago

She's a fatty with no sense of style and a bad attitude. She doesn't even have a real job. Four hours a week? I worked a lot more than that at my after school job when I was 16.

On top of her list of red flags she offers... what, exactly? Is she an excellent cook? Does she keep a spotless house? She certainly can't use her grueling work schedule as an excuse to not be the best homemaker on the planet.

Presumably not, or she would have been wise to mention such things.

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PoopBeast Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Wow, this is a really good one....

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

When they list demands instead of attributes, it's because they have nothing to offer.

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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Very interesting that she will not accept men with bald, because she has got fairly advanced hair loss at the forehead.

If this woman were to post an honest profile, it would read like this;

"I'm overweight and over 30, and no man every approaches me. I'm getting desperate, because I don't have any marketable skills, and the labour market has no use for me, and every month that passes, it look less likely that I will ever find a husband or have children. I'm lonely. My room share is a disgusting mess. I have a pile of debt, and I can't get any more credit. Please will somebody rescue me? Anybody, I don't care, I'll even accept a man under 6'5, that's how desperate I am"

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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

her tits hand down to her navel, and that's when she is wearing a bra.

Also, look how much effort she has to put into even a half smile. This is very tricky for her, because he resting bitch face is an intense scowl.

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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

What could be the cause of this level of delusion?

I'm going to go with the 'empowerment' movement, which started about 20 years ago. The female 'empowerment' movement was a kind of 'madness of crowds' meme, which had all women thinking that it was simply sexist to think that all women weren't a perfect 10. It led to the idea that 'fat is a feminist issue' and that women are 'beautiful at any weight'. Females managed to self hypnotise themselves into a belief system that simply held that if men didn't think all women were awesome, then they just hadn't seen the light, and were sexist pigs and dinosaurs. The books and movies that this generation read were all essentially fairy tales with the same structure - a plain girl, who is rescued by a prince, and then becomes a princess. This is the basic plot of everything that they consumer, be it film, book or pop song.

And here they all are. Post wall and fat. Still expecting, nay demanding, that men come and along and rescue them from themselves.

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IceNineWithLime 1y ago

"if you work in I.T."

Yeah, well, at least those guys have a job.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Imagine an annual income of $3,000 and thinking that a network engineer is “icky”. Delusional.

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