Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Typo-MAGAshiv
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Rayzor_debiker 3y ago
Imagine what that 45 body count will do to her psyche.
I'm 33 and have a body count of 5-6 my whole life. Most of them are LTRs.
45 is big number.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
Both ICYMI and for anyone checking out this post weeks, months, or years from now:
This post ties in nicely with /u/Aldabruzzo's post on the child sub here. Be sure to read /u/loneliness-inc's sticky comment on that post as well.
Dariusjen-medd 3y ago
“You’re just insecure” and you’re just a hoe.
Profitglutton Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
Her problem is many fold.
1) Her sexual past
2) Going for the men she slept with only for a relationship now. Chads don’t commit to town bicycles.
3) Being in a social circle with anyone from her past life he knew about her CC days
maruadventurer 3y ago
It is starting to sound like the best to do is not date college grad chicks. Not that its a guarantee of success for one that is not college educated. Dating a chick that works in a bar is looking for trouble too.
vtec__ 3y ago
ive thought about this too, especially sorority girls. they're not marriage material.
jamaicanroach 3y ago
Hate to be the bearer of bad news here, but non college grad chicks aren't much better.
BeholdTheHair 3y ago
Yup. It may have started in universities with Marxist professors, but at this point it's a cultural affliction.
vegasbadboy702 3y ago
That post is why men have now assumed that whatever number she gives multiply by three (if not higher than 3). She’s 25 and already has a body count of 45. Unreal. Being generous and assuming she lost her virginity at 16 then over the last nine years she has averaged 5 men a year. Also she she says 45ish so she may not remember the exact number so it could be 50 frankly.
She doesn’t even get why men are appalled. Notice how she says “it was good stress relief and a way to connect and get human touch…”. Umm you know what else might do that. Helping less fortunate people, building houses for habitat for humanity, holding preemie babies, etc. in other words things that won’t make you a town bicycle. She’s doesn’t even regret the sleeping around rather it’s just how do I fool a man so I can avoid the uncomfortable consequences of my actions.
cryptothrow2 3y ago
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Traksimuss 3y ago
3x rule is getting into 5x rule for modern women, because "He did not call me next morning, so that sex did not count", they discount sex as did not happen for arbitrary reasons.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
I actually had a woman try to tell me she considered herself still a virgin (or at least complain and ask why she couldn’t) because she “never enjoyed it”
She tried to discount a guy because he had a small dick and she couldn’t feel it …
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
"Your Honor, yes I robbed the bank. But...but...I was high on drugs...so it did not count!"
You think the judge will buy that?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
"But your Honor, that was the past! What business is it of yours?!"
taavidude 3y ago
45 guys by the age of 25?? What is she a pornstar?
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Doing the math, after guy #15 she has a 0.000000001% chance of pair bonding with a man.
Have to manipulate the calculator (because it won't count any lower), but after guy #22 she has a 0.00000000000000001% chance of pair bonding.
Have to manipulate the calculator again, but after guy #29, she has a 0.0000000000000000000000004% chance of pair bonding.
Once again, manipulating the calculator, and after guy #36, she has a 0.000000000000000000000000000000003% chance to pair bond.
Yet again, have to manipulate the calculator, and after guy #42 she has a 0.00000000000000000000000000000000000000001% chance of pair bonding.
Almost there, and with one final manipulation of the calculator, after guy #45 she has a 0.0000000000000000000000000000000000000000000011745% chance to pair bond with a man.
jmpires 3y ago
Look on the bright side, she retains the ability to pair bond with a wallet
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
I guess that percentage would mean she could try with every male human who has ever existed on planet Earth and it still wouldn’t be enough ?
Oh damn. I bet she really thought she had a chance with Mad King George or William Shakespeare
theLOLbird 3y ago
She still thinks she'll win the lottery... Just got to lie her way there, instantly making her fail pair bonding/having a trustworthy relationship... RIDICULOUz
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 3y ago
It's interesting how the recurring issue seem to be "should I tell I slept around a lot" or "should I not tell", but never "should I even sleep around that much if it may become a problem in the future". That last one is simply not going to be considered.
Goldmansachs3030 3y ago
In my country, these idiot feminist would drown me in their saliva, while shouting only one thing, which will go over my head," HOW DARE YOU RESTRICT SEXUAL AUTONOMY OF WOMEN". Oh, please fuck off. When you will marry your sons, the thing you are supporting will be the 1st thing onto your blacklist. Hypocrites, i am telling y'all.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
When I briefly dated a woman with two kids when I was about 26 or so my mum was in literal tears about it
And many of these women would be the same. Maybe not but overtly but definitely deep down
theLOLbird 3y ago
Seriously... Women are just hurting themselves with this sexual liberation crap... Just do what you want and then try to figure a way around it... Don't actually reflect about if you should have done it or not to actually change your narrative and warn younger females... What a shame...
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Hopefully us guys can start pushing back against that narrative and make them realize we don't want anything serious with a 304... Still too many blue pill man out there brainwashed by the mainstream narrative that it's okay and all... He'll get serious with a hoe, but always feel a little uneasy about it and will try to minimize that little voice in is head telling him she's a hoe and he shouldn't be with her... What a way to live! Probably to end up getting cheated on anyways.
FreeDinnerStrategies 3y ago
Feminism sexually liberated women. Unfortunately for them, it also liberated men from commitment and marriage. Consideration of consequences are a tool of the patriarchy.
theLOLbird 3y ago
As far as men goes, it really benefited the men at the top of the pyramid. So, screw 100% of women, screw 80% of men and let Chads have a free for all over Tinder.
Imagine if politicians would dare impose the equivalent economical policies? I'm sure there would be a revolution by tomorrow and people would quickly vote them out... Benefit the 1% and screw the other 99%...
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Aw shit.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
It is probably closer to 1% of men than 20% when it comes to tinder specifically
And I’m not even sure it is 20% in the real world.
Might depend on if you look at worldwide men vs just in your country
polishknightusa 3y ago
In all fairness, the cow is out of the barn so to speak and this is the situation overall with women today: By the time they start asking these questions, they've already done the deed. It's like asking if you should have eaten that donut after you've eaten it.
That's one of the few benefits to being a man: Life is super tough, on super hard mode, but at least by the time we're in our late 20's we have some perspective and can act upon it. We still have less than women do at that age, but we're more resourceful with it. We also have more time to so something with what we've learned.
I had a relative whose lovely and 23 over recently and she said she planned to pursue more degrees through her 20's and later "marry a rich man." I wonder if she was joking and I didn't pry, but from what I gathered, she is partying through her 20's and bagging money to ramp up her hypergamy. Her mother was able to making things work back in the 80's when she snagged my relative just as his career was about to take off and he was 27.
It seems strange today that back in the 1980's, a career woman who basically made a move on a normal guy whose 27 but with potential seems odd today. Many don't think about doing this until they're perhaps hitting 30. It's just 3 years, but that's not dog years, it's more like hamster years.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
Also I came here to say the same on “it is a little too late” for her to not sleep with all those guys
road_laya 3y ago
"Degrees" really just means living on borrowed money these days, and they plan to marry someone to make it joint household debt.
In a divorce, you generally have to set aside money for all debts before you can start splitting the remaining assets. So even with an enforceable prenup, a man that marries a woman with student debt is effectively paying 100% of her student debt the second he signs the marriage contract. It's like paying 100 camels to get a wife in the land of Ur when Abraham was still around, except it's more expensive today, and you don't get to have sex, or any help around the house, and you might not get to see the kids.
polishknightusa 3y ago
It doesn't just happen with the woman. I was chuckling at a recent news story about a guy who got student loan forgiveness after 10 years of working in some category and griped that it held his life back all that time. It wasn't for a lot of money. The total loan was $60,000.00
Now think about it: That sounds like a car loan. The guy let his life go on hold because, with a degree, he couldn't pay off a debt that many plumbers would pay off in under 5 years.
It's even more amusing at how he suffered. He was married and he was on a payment plan of $600/month which paid down $40K of the principal by year 10. Then he got the forgiveness on the remaining $20K. $600 a month? My utilities are about 1/2 of that. If he had just kicked it up $200 a month or so, like a mobile phone plan, he could have probably paid it off in half that time.
He suffered for 10 years because he couldn't up his payment plan by a few hundred bucks.
Loud-Bottle-7879 3y ago
Man mine was twice that but I paid it off in 5 years. First year I did the same type of payment plan but realized I would rather just eat shit for a few years than be a true debt slave for 10+. Also whatever they write off you have to pay taxes on…so it’s not a write off. The same people claiming they can’t afford to put an extra 1 or 200 a month on it seem to always have a 900 dollar car payment and a new iPhone every 12 months. Priorities I guess.
Also to note no woman wanted to touch me with a 10 foot pole when I was paying off that debt aggressively (no money for vacation, etc). Yet now I am selfish for not wanting to take on some woman’s school debt? It’s amazing.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
Debt slaves enslave themselves.
Source: former debt slave here! If I could do it all over again, I'd have never gotten a single credit card, and learned to tell my wife "no! too expensive!" much sooner.
polishknightusa 3y ago
Some people need that painful reminder by actually handling cash to remind them of the value of things. It didn't make a huge difference to me. But my wife is a bit like Rainman in that she doesn't seem to understand how little things add up. I find it amazing myself that I get a credit card bill per month of at least a grand and it's full of small purchases: Going to the grocery store, gas, a few toys for the child, coffee. They all add up. It means that I exercise discipline in that saving a few dollars on all the transactions adds up to major savings later.
I never get into debt on credit cards and always pay them off each month and even find them useful to help track expenses (I can search by type of spending and so on.)
Loud-Bottle-7879 3y ago
With my last ex the common phrase she always said was “you have to treat yourself sometimes”. Drove me insane. She couldn’t wrap her head around the fact that I did not see the value in buying a 2500 dollar peloton or something like that. This woman had ever nick back possible…while still living at home, not paying rent or a car payment and still had student loan debt after 8 years. I would always say I am going to reward myself with the lake cabin in 10 years, some just can’t think further than 2 foot in front of their face.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
Is your relative hot enough for her plan to even have the slightest chance of success ? I mean in 7 years time things could have changed a lot
Look at the dating world now. Tinder was relatively new 7 years ago and far more closely used for it’s intended purpose. I don’t think anyone dreamed of writing bios about looking for relationships or people to help pay for their kids on it back then
So who knows what it would be like in 7 years. Red pill is also kind of spreading. Not really widespread but spreading. Even just cases like Rogan having on the Canadian guy who was reamed on child support and now can’t go home. He doesn’t have those kinds of guests often anymore though
But I imagine those states of men aged 18-25 who haven’t had sex in a year or more (which I think was a 30%) will extend to 50% or higher in that 7 years. Might even stretch to aged 18-30.
As to whether that is good or bad for your relative (desperation vs men learning to live without) - who knows
polishknightusa 3y ago
It did occur to me that her mother, who basically followed the traditional hypergamy career woman route of marrying a man who earned at least as much as she did, worked for her because she did this at the peak: Her Baby Boomer husband was one of a lot of men with good paying jobs and there were still relatively few career women back then compared to now.
My relative implied, I don't know if she was joking or not, that she wanted alpha bucks. She is hot, and successful, but will this be enough when alpha bucks by then will be even rarer? When she's 29 or so, most alpha bucks may have gotten married or even divorced and won't be in the mood for nonsense even with hot looking 29 year olds "ready" to settle down. The red pill may have even reached alpha bucks by then and they won't be ready to hand over all their wealth to a pretty career woman.
I think the true turning point will be when alpha/beta bucks do what this relative's mother did to her husband: When she earned (just a little) more than him, she got essentially a pre-nup: She kept her funds in separate accounts, kept her maiden name, and sent a signal "You don't own me because you don't earn as much as me" until her husband got a promotion and then she wanted the name and merged bank accounts.
She may find herself treated effectively as a mistress with HE insisting on keeping everything separate, no legal marriage (but a church wedding ok), and separate residences to avoid common law marriage.
Another funny observation: She apparently broke up with her past 5 boyfriends because they were chads and started "bossing her around" and she's "independent" and I have no idea what that means. If she was just shacked up with them, what does "bossing around" mean? I presume she went clubbing or didn't clean up after herself or something like that and she got irked that they had standards.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
That has to be Dave Foley. They were on "News Radio" together back in the 1990s. Great show. That show was the peak of Dave Foley's career, and Joe Rogan's big break. When Phil Hartman's wife murdered him, the show just wasn't the same (though Jon Lovitz really tried to fill his shoes and was good), and ended up going off the air.
Dave Foley has never gone on to make "News Radio" level money again, but the Canadian family courts don't give a shit. His child support payments are still based on that level of income.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
That’s the one. And that interview is likely the most “mainstream” or most listened to thing that has any relation to red pill type stuff
Joe is currently distracted with having guests that talk about the current situation than other things. Although I don’t follow closely so perhaps there is still a mix
Maybe once things have moved on there we will see more like Dave foley on. But given the last year or so it now mean people will do to Joe what they did to Jordan Peterson - write him off and dismiss him
I’ll admit I was similar for fair while before I started listening to a range of views. I believed the summaries and labels of JBP. To the point I saw someone on the train with his book and kind of mentally rolled my eyes and thought “this guy is a loon”. I’m not proud of it and have grown since then
My point is that a larger proportion are likely to talk/think about Joe Rogan in that kind of way going forward.
For example: “Oh he’s the crazy anti vax guy who caught covid, panicked and threw a load of unapproved treatments treatments at it and then spent the next few months bringing on guests to validate his decision”
Note : that isn’t my view but I can easily see that being said to write him (and therefore any red pill messages and guests) off
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
I'm only a casual Joe Rogan fan. I loved "News Radio" and hated "Fear Factor" (which should have been called "Disgust Factor" most of the time). I really enjoyed his commentary on UFC. I don't think I've ever listened to a full episode of his podcast, but I'll listen to short chunks with guests I'm interested in. All of this to really say, I don't know that much about him, though I've casually enjoyed much of his work off and on for 25 years or so.
Is he a real anti-vaxxer, in that he opposes all vaccines like Jenny McCarthy, who blames her kids' autism on vaccines? Or does he, like me, stay up-to-date on all his shots, but not trust the rushed, unproven, too-heavily-pushed-by-entities-I-don't-trust covid vaccines?
As for Jordan Peterson, most of his stuff seems pretty
magic*BASIC (stupid phone lol) and common sense, but he's helping generations of lost young men who grew up without fathers, so that's good. It's a shame he's so blue pilled, and that his daughter proves the Red Pill so well.InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
Joe is the latter of the two. But as you well know certain people get to change the meaning of words all the time now
I don't know enough about Peterson's daughter to know how she proves the Red Pill.
I know that Peterson heavily advocates for traditional marriage thus making him very Blue Pill. I'm baffled why he was able to be labelled an alt-right figure.
He was made to look a bit silly on Question Time in the UK recently (from the clips I saw at least) but I think it was because he wasn't fully briefed on the format. It very much seemed like he was playing devil's advocate on some controversial positions rather than claiming to believe them. Thinking of it close to an "Oxford debate" style and that it would provoke discussion. Instead people thought those were his views and started attacking and screeching. And he isn't the type to ever just say "I was playing devil's advocate". I think because he finds the way people lose their minds and stop actually debating the points when someone says something the don't like fascinating. But perhaps I am giving him too much credit
I'll always be impressed by how he didn't absolutely lose it with Kathy Newman in the Channel 4 interview where she misrepresented everything he said and kept putting words in his mouth. And he still tied her in knots and landed a "gotcha" on her (sadly he has to say "gotcha" but I think that helped her because she really was floundering)
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
Regarding Peterson's daughter: check out Rollo Tomassi's YouTube video with a title along the lines of "Killing to Party".
Tag: /u/BeholdTheHair
BeholdTheHair 3y ago
That is a long video. And I already have way too much in my watch later queue.
sighs, unzips | Here we go again...
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
I rarely listen to his longer ones. I think I listened to that one over the course of a few commutes over a few days.
BeholdTheHair 3y ago
Solid rule of thumb regarding Peterson: any time he's on any sort of legacy media program, no matter which network or who's interviewing him, assume it's a hatchet job until proven otherwise.
As for his daughter, the short version is after he got famous she left her husband and their son to shack up with some lowlife thug because tingles. I don't know, but I suspect the fact her dad had achieved a degree of celebrity led her to think she was now a celebrity, which obviously meant she "deserves better."
kidruhil 3y ago
I have a good buddy I was arguing with the other day about why I won't date older chicks. He even said "bro young chicks are sluts" to which I countered with, "you think that stops when they get older? Hell no. But lets do some math. If a girl fucks 3 guys a month (she'll take one weekend off a month cuz she has principles lol) starting at age 18, that's 36 guys by age 19! By age 25 thats 252 fucking dicks she's been through. Why in the hell would I rather date chick with a 250+ lay count rather than a lower number? That number doesn't magically return to zero at age 30"
He had no response.
Never ever trust or invest in a woman with a scandalous past. It's absolutely only in the past cuz she's too old, but if chad gets drunk she'll absolutely jump right back into bed with him or shit even his whole crew. Once a hoe, always a hoe.
Don't expect to only date teenage virgins but don't settle for used up old bicycles either. Be as discriminatory as possible during the vetting process.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
“Principles”. Never heard it called that before
manfrom-nantucket 3y ago
If young chicks are sluts then the older chicks used to be sluts.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
Too many, and too well.
Bullshit. Out of all the women I've been with, only 2 had single-digit notch counts, and one was an older divorcee. I married that one, and spent a good portion of our 16 years together so far absolutely miserable because of her bullshit (we're mostly back on track now).
...during which they consistently look for an upgrade.
When it's this goddamn many, that's not a subculture.
They only say they do. Their actions betray them.
Anyway, comment removed and commenter banned for rule 2.
kidruhil 3y ago
And not all chicks are sluts. But it's easier to tell who they are now than it is to try and tell if she was a slut 6 years ago. Hence why it's just easier and less hassle to date younger.
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kidruhil 3y ago
Funny thing but actually, retirement homes have outrageous STD rates. The sex may not be good but it's happening alot with those old pervs
Buchwild 3y ago
Not a fan of GILFs huh?
Yggdrasill4 3y ago
Women have this sort of developed sense that comes to evaluating a guys social standing or hierarchy, it is usually what they use to distinguish the alphas between the betas easily (hate those terminologies). The thing women don't realize is that men also have a sort of sense that can easily pick up on all the nuances that a girl is very promiscuous. Guys do sense it, but through their desperation, try and deny what their subconscious is telling them only to later be cheated on or find out about her promiscuous past. Even if a women convinces a gullible guy with her wall of lies, even if the guy is denying his suspicion on her, cracks will eventually appear and reveal the truth.
kidruhil 3y ago
I believe this 100%. It seems to me that half of feminism's objectives are brainwashing men into ignoring our male instincts like that one (among many others) so they can take advantage of us
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
That is exactly the case. Hence such manipulative terms as "insecurity" when a man's instincts are screaming at him that something is wrong.
knucklz74 3y ago
On a another note if you CAN SERIOUSLY DATE foreign. Best decision i ever made in my life. I wouldnt look at another American woman if my depended on it. Complete WASTE
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
AWALT.
kidruhil 3y ago
My moms Colombian and she got my dad to sponsor a ton of her family to immigrate here. I'm not a fan. My primas are just as vapid and slutty as Americans if not more so.
Foreign women mighta been a better deal in the past but these days phones are cheap even in shitholes so there's nowhere immune to the corruption. If anything, Americans have a stronger counter culture against it (just due to having had this shit here longer) so the few good women here are a safer bet. With foreign women, even if she wasn't bad at first once she gets here and assimilates God only knows if she stays loyal and traditional or becomes a modern woman.
sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 3y ago
I spent 3 years in Miami, Latin American women are slutty AF and are also vapid, shallow, and entitled. Most of the ones that I met and slept with were looking for Alpha Bux. IMO, they aren't worth the risk.
kidruhil 3y ago
Exactly how I'd describe all my cousins. I pity the guys they trick into wifing them up
knucklz74 3y ago
Theres some truth in what your saying . Yet as a older man , i truly knew what was looking for in a woman ,and im sorry to tell you that hitting the powerball you'd have a better chance a then finding a decent God-fearing loving woman in the United States. You have to understand in the United States women have the family courts backing them everything is dictated for them. They know this. You enter any commitment with an American woman you lose hands down automatically. I've done what they've asked me to do and what all men should do write them off and leave them to themselves
kidruhil 3y ago
Im mormon and I see a lot of decent women at church but statistically they're a small portion of the overall population. Hell, even among girls raised mormon only maybe 1 in 3 stays chaste and traditional but that's still not as bad as some of the doom and gloom that the defeatists here like to imply.
Not hating with that I'm just telling you guys to keep hustling cuz there are women out there worth competing for.
knucklz74 3y ago
Very true and i wish you all luck. Yet your money would be better spent and odds on playing Powerball. Just saying
kidruhil 3y ago
Hypergamy is a thing but I disagree with the assertion that all women never stop shopping. If you're good enough and you have a good woman, you're pretty secure.
I'm a full time officer in the national guard and have a 2nd remote HR job. I'm making bank now. In the best shape of my life. Have a masters and working on my second, all paid for by the army.
Not tooting my horn with all that shit, just stating that objectively I check a lotta boxes- For the women that want a trad lifestyle. Ya if you're fat and work a dead-end, low status job- ya no shit your woman will probably get bored and be looking for an upgrade. Make yourself a fucking God and she'll probably be loyal.
Overlordofwhatever 3y ago
idk why people don't understand this. Foreign women are only good (since I am indian I get it) if they are in the culture that stops them from doing this kind of thing( honestly I even refuse to believe this as I have seen plenty bullshit here in India where women want to be modern and want to be taken care of as well). If they come in the west and even if they are middle class they will have plenty of girlfriends who will tell them what they can't and can do and they will realise they can literally get away with murder
BeholdTheHair 3y ago
To borrow one of u/Typo-MAGAshiv's taglines, fucker beat me to it!
If you're looking abroad for a good woman you'd better be prepared to settle down and assimilate into the family and culture that made her that way. If you bring her back to the West, especially if you bring her back to a big city,^1 you're effectively setting yourself up for failure.
^1 ^(I don't just mean NY and LA here. Denver, Phoenix, Nashville, St. Louis, even fucking Salt Lake - they're all "big" cities for their respective regions and the folks running every one of them aspire to turn their towns into festering shitholes just like the ones on the coasts.)
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
Their instincts and emotions govern them far more than any logic, reason, or principles.
Their emotions are mercurial, and so therefore most of them take the shape of the container they're in.
BeholdTheHair 3y ago
Hey! Now you're stealing my line!
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
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Land_of_the_Losers the-niceguy.com 3y ago
Don't label her "town bicycle" you disrespectful poltroon! How crude. How about "Public self-propelled glory-hole" instead?
mustangfrank 3y ago
And it comes/cums pre-greased.
PirateDocBrown 3y ago
Don't disrespect gloryholes like that. What did they ever do to you?
TheUprightMan2022 3y ago
Village Unicycle - everyone gets a ride but they fall off pretty quick
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
"Glory-hole" is far more crude, you uncouth ruffian!
Land_of_the_Losers the-niceguy.com 3y ago
Oopsie! You're right
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 3y ago
My life, my choice.
One-Move 3y ago
My wallet my choice
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
And you two should choose the Right Choice™ - the choice to Man Up™!
One-Move 3y ago
No need for that I am 52 I have 2 kids, I manned up already
WeRAllOnThisBlessedD 3y ago
45 guys at 25 years old. Jesus fucking Christ.
Ladies, you don’t have to lie about your past if don’t give yourself a past in the first place. Most guys aren’t expecting a virgin, but we damn sure don’t want a chick that sleeps around a lot.
Of course we all know they won’t heed this advice because they’re boss bitches and yaaassss kweeeens. College is time for fun and then once they graduate and get their apartment in the city they can really live it up. They’ll still be just as hot at 35 as they are now at 25, right?
Vaako81 3y ago
Y’all need to stop using the term “ladies” mate!
FreeDinnerStrategies 3y ago
45 is undercounting. Women play schizophrenic levels of mental gymnastics to not include a guy in their count. Condom sex? Didn’t count. Shot white rope across an old set of lashes? Didn’t count. In the bathroom of a night club where the bartender was only 5’6”? Wouldn’t fuck him so by extension I didn’t fuck this guy. Tonight’s a full moon? Would you look at that, body count reset.
Background-Worth-161 3y ago
Exactly, 45 fucking blokes from her college aswell I’m guessing, hence the reputation and her dates already knowing.
silly_birb_Banned 3y ago
Such women cannot understand mutually exclusive choices...
Traksimuss 3y ago
Consequences of decisions are a tool of patriarchy!
jmpires 3y ago
Maybe if it starts running in TikTok like the Mutually Exclusive Choice Challenge?
Flashy_Glove6208 3y ago
She will eventually lie about her college past
Her 45+ body count will become 4-5.
Conclusion? She's after college forget about LTR, she's been run through many Ds.
She's a hookup material at best. Watch out for STDs.
MastermindX 3y ago
The rule of thumb is always multiply by 3, so her "45ish" is most likely about 135.
I-am-the-lul 3y ago
Concepts like old maids, leftovers and spinsters existed for a reason, any woman not already in a LTR, engaged or married by a certain age is assumed to be someone who has engaged in the sorts of behaviours that will disqualify her as viable marriage material.
Loud-Bottle-7879 3y ago
Key here is the 45+, you know it’s more than 45. That’s the “respectable” number she is willing to admit.
Goldmansachs3030 3y ago
Women already suffer consequences, one was telling and justifying her herpes in a tiktok, man the doctor ripped her apart by telling the consequences and how to identify different stages of it, it's deadly af. I hope guys in her college stayed away from her, your life's more important than just having sex at college with party girls, which will get you what? STD.
Also, the chances that wife will bring STD are greater since women know that sleeping around reduces their value, but they will still do it and then hide it.The man would then either be slammed into a red-pill or he needs to turn over the coffins of her history to ensure his safety from crazy.
John_Savage69 3y ago
Feminists literally claim that not dating someone because of herpes is "slut shaming". So tired of the :1 and 3 people have herpes, its no big deal" narrative.
Skydiddy77 3y ago
On top of that: having herpes doesn’t disqualify you from doing porn shoots. Everybody in porn has it. Everybody.
BeholdTheHair 3y ago
I have to wonder how much conflation is going on there. I technically have herpes, in that I occasionally get cold sores on my upper lip. But you and I and they know damn well that's not what people mean when they say someone has herpes.
Goldmansachs3030 3y ago
Yep, i have seen cold sores on the lips. But i am talking about HSV-2. Will you stick your dick in such a pussy? Nope, no one will. Sensible people will use precaution and solve it if it happens, not make tiktoks and spread it.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
Herpes is only really fatal if you have it during pregnancy. Which granted someone in an LTR likely wants at some point
I have now seem more than one profile (thankfully too many and one was actually someone telling me in the chat) where a woman describes having herpes and that they “got it from a narcissistic man”. As in I think I have seen that one two profile and been told it once.
That seems weird to me as narcissism has no relation to herpes. Makes me wonder if that is something from pop culture somewhere that women are repeating? The excuse I mean. Just seems strange for three different women to say the same
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
They want to absolve themselves of any responsibility and blame, and invoke your protective instinct to rescue the poor, innocent, damsel-victim. They can't just come out and admit "he pushed all the right buttons (hawt!) and knew just what to say, and so I threw caution to the wind and opened my legs!"
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
I get all the that. But the same excuse with the same wording three times starts to remind me of the “50 pound of petrol in my tank once a month or get out of my life” - which was a quote from a trashy land whale reality tv star in the U.K.
That one has appeared on more than one profile that has appeared on this very sub and I have seen it a few times myself being from the U.K.
Just wondered if “got it from a narcissistic man” was a quote from some tv Thot or from a hip hop lyric or something
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
The comment to which you're replying was more for lurkers/readers than for you, as I know you get that already.
As far as why so many use that particular phrase, who knows? This sub has had many wonder the same about many phrases that were incredibly ubiquitous. "My kids are my world" was the most common when I first started commenting here.
Fancuku 3y ago
If she admits 45, then you have to multiply that number by a minimum of 2. Most common is 3.
maseboogie Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
Hell, she'd be better off saying she dabbled in the adult entertainment industry. Maybe 0.0000000000000001% better, but that's really the only way one can justify having a body count THAT HIGH, THAT YOUNG!
cryptothrow2 3y ago
I've met someone that crossed 100 before 25
cautionTomorrow555 3y ago
I wonder what percent of strippers have a body count that high I would guess less than half?
Machomuk89 3y ago
No consequences!
Only choices.
FreeDinnerStrategies 3y ago
https://i.imgur.com/aHiGOaJ.jpg
paristeta 3y ago
This needs to be a meme. Need a good picture idea.
SCCock 3y ago
"45ish"
What's the real number? 60? 70?
cryptothrow2 3y ago
150
RuskinBondFan 3y ago
Yes, 6070.
Obnoxiousjimmyjames 3y ago
Best way to secure a happy marriage is to lie about your past to your spouse.
nitro-666 3y ago
I saw the original thread yesterday and was impressed by how many women responded on the lines of "men are hypocritical, I'd marry a guy with those numbers". They really think women and men value the same things in a relationship. Not a surprise so many marrages end badly. It's a crazy world.
Overkillengine 3y ago
It never seems to occur to them that if men valued the same things that women do...they'd just marry other men and be done with it.
Too fucking self absorbed to realize men are going to have different wants and that it is actually beneficial to women that they do otherwise none of them would be getting rings.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
A man with those numbers is generally speaking an impressive man or has bottom of the barrel standards. I do know an example of the latter but he has a lot of charm and charisma so is impressive in that way at least
So of course a woman would marry a man with those numbers
They’ve missed that men and women are different. Or rather, been taught to deliberately ignore it
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
Underrated comment.
BeholdTheHair 3y ago
For all the jokes about men not understanding women, I'm more convinced every day that women understand men even less. Worse, most of them don't even make the attempt.
For all your average blue pill guy's social/sexual ineptitude, the dude's usually at least trying to figure out what he's doing wrong and what women want so he can aim for that.
Most women never even think to consider what men want; they just list their demands and wait for a worthy applicant to show up and fill the position - then get pissed at men when that doesn't happen.
nitro-666 3y ago
Women often say men are simple, and I think we are, but we are simple in a different way from what they think. Ironic, if you ask me.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
Most women don’t even ask anything about the man in a discussion. Let alone be interested in what they want
justaguyinbrooklyn 3y ago
hoes ain't housewives you trashy whore
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
If you're in Brooklyn, shouldn't you call her a "hoo-ahh"?
justaguyinbrooklyn 3y ago
ha, I thought of writing that, but I ain't Eye-talian.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3y ago
Neither was Peter Steele of Type O Negative, and he distinctly
saysyells "YOU FUCKING HOO-AH!" in "Unsuccessfully Coping With the Natural Beauty of Infidelity".justaguyinbrooklyn 3y ago
touché
theLOLbird 3y ago
Poor Guy 2... Finding out that your mates have slept with your current GF... Lol, I mean it's definitely better now than later, but you just got to feel dirty.
CarpAndTunnel 3y ago
I had a fun phase in college too. It involved a lot of studying
ronoda12 3y ago
I mean my view my choice
0haha60066e 3y ago
E M O T I O N A L D A M A G E
[deleted] 3y ago
Should you lie? Good plan that way you save the heartache down the road.
Invictus_44 3y ago
I was thinking this might be a better way to communicate this idea to women...
If I move into a neighborhood with my new wife to start a family, and every man in the neighborhood has slept with my wife already, most women should concede that's a problem. It's going to make my "exclusive" access to my wife... worthless.
Well that is one end of a continuum. Virginity is at the other end. The higher the body count, you slide towards the "bad" end of the continuum.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
I don’t think that would work. The example is too close to what we are actually talking about - sexual freedom. And women will bristle at any suggestion that a man should wish to limit that. You’d even get some who would try , with a straight face, to claim it wouldn’t matter
Any analogy or attempt to get this point across will need to be with a metaphor . Even then they’d reject it but it would take a moment and they would initially agree to the premise before saying it didn’t apply given the circumstances