Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Lameador 3y ago
Sorry if I infrigne on rule 3, but come on.
Right wing, unvaxxed, does not come with crotch goblins ....
Self aware right wing lady. She might be short, have stupid height standards, or nag. Yet a resonnabe deal indeed, especially by modern standards.
I would gladly offer her some coffee. Especially if she promises not to try BS snake oil reiki on me.
Mister_McDerp 3y ago
34, huh? Most likely the last year in your life where you can afford to speak to the readers like this and still expect to at least get some dick.
Enjoy it.
lavishrabbit6009 3y ago
It's my favorite when women who hit the wall double down on their preferences. She solidified her place outside the dating market, no one in the right mind will want her.
tirednurse969 3y ago
She sounds like such a gem…
Maximum-Complaint-68 3y ago
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Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
Hey women, you may not have the cognitive sense to check your own hypocrisy but picking men on height is a form of fetishization. Fetishization, the very thing that you women complain about when you claim men pick women for certain physical features? Think about it.
[deleted] 3y ago
But you forgot about the fine print at the bottom: "Rules for thee but not for me" :D
IoSonCalaf 3y ago
She sounds aggravatingly stupid
AurelianWay Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
The lights are on but nobody's home.
BobbingForBunions Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
At she she doesn't have facial hair.
... or so she claims.
Land_of_the_Losers the-niceguy.com 3y ago
If stupidity was a superpower, she'd be unstoppable. Bullets and artillery shells would flatten like raindrops against her impenetrable hide and she could annihilate entire city blocks with her atomic stupidity-breath. And, like, F-101s would drop their napalm, radioing back to HQ "No effect sir! No effect!" And the general in the bunker will slam his fist on the table "We've got to call the president and request H-bomb authorization, Code Zebra! Pull our troops out, their weapons are useless!"
AmbitiousHornet 3y ago
DEFCON level-3 has been authorized.
intrepidone66 3y ago
I am sooo stealing this. Thank you kind sir!
Land_of_the_Losers the-niceguy.com 3y ago
My 5th grade teacher said I had an overactive imagination. She was a former nun, so I hope she's having fun boiling in her red-hot cauldron for all eternity. Eternal damnation and the Bronze Age diktat of invisible bearded sky-men being part of the overactive fantasy she organized her life around for so many years, I guess it takes one to know one.
intrepidone66 3y ago
OH...OH...do me too.
I'm old, like cats, guns and computers.
Let me have it, bracing for impact!
Land_of_the_Losers the-niceguy.com 3y ago
I dunno, man. I sort of imagined you as being like Sebastian Bludd.
intrepidone66 3y ago
Ouch, that hurt...thanks man...I..I needed that!
Flashy_Glove6208 3y ago
34 years old panic mode activated.
Now time is important to you? 35 is a geriatric pregnancy.
Way too late for a wake up call. For men she'd a recreational use at best.
Watch out for STDs after her CC rides and baby trapping / sperm theft attempts.
AzLibDem 3y ago
I'll happily not touch her for free.
BargainBard 3y ago
Why do women(especially short women, 5'0 and under) think that their future sons will get their dad's height of 6'0 an over?
It's entirely possible her first boy will end up 5'5 and then her daughter ends being 5'10. Genes don't work like those shitty romance novels they read all day.
No your kids are most likely not gonna inherit his green eyes, your thick wavy hair, his plump lips, and your flawless skin. Never mind that fact genes can and do skip a generation.
Tap-Apart 3y ago
I've always said that there will come a day when a short guy finds his mom's old online dating profile.
And it's going to validate that guy's concerns about height.
It's going to be one of those things where he tells his mom, "I think my height plays a factor in dating"
And the mom will say, "You just need to be more confident"
"Oh ok, well here is your tinder profile from 2020 showing you don't like short guys"
And the damage that is done is not about height. It's about women lying.
That kid will never trust what women say again.
Edit: I want to clear that this isn't a pity party about being short. Short dudes can be successful.
But what gets frustrating is women gaslighting inexperienced men with platitudes that are misleading and invalidates our experience.
This is where the seeds of mistrust start whether it's intentional or not, women aren't equipped to advise men on dating.
And that mistrust can spiral into contempt.
[deleted] 3y ago
Can confirm. Dad 6'2", mum 5'0", me 5'8" and getting told to fuck off by 5'0"-5'4" women on Tinder/Bumble/POF/OKC for not being at least 6'0" even though I have a six-pack in my 40s and they were pLu5 siZEd
upsidedownbackwards 3y ago
My younger brother is ripped, rich, and a total sweetheart. But he's around average height and has a daughter. He has zero luck.
I'm a runner and in good shape but far from ripped. I have a slightly above average income but nothing to get excited about. The big reason I have money is I live my life basically homeless. And I'm an ass. Most of the good parts of me have long since turned bitter through my decade and a half dance with alcoholism.
But I'm tall and have no kids so I get far more and better responses. They're not looking for a good partner, a good husband, a good father. Hell, they'll even turn down money for a shot at them tall tingles.
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
Genetic science is a tool of The Patriarchy!
Don't expect women to know that children inherit the traits of both parents. That runs counter to their fantasy worldview.
polishknightusa 3y ago
My daughter bears a striking resemblance to her grandmother.
I read a story about a woman in England who was married and had a black baby and her husband was horrified. They did a DNA test and it was his and hers so what happened? It turned out the grandmother had slept with some black guy at a bar and got pregnant and then got quickly engaged to some other guy. She hoped it was his (it wasn't) and it was her personal secret for a half century. She spilled the beans this this happened.
This makes me think all the more about the importance of men waiting before getting married and squeezing out kids. Women who know they're pregnant may try to pregnancy trap a guy with some other man's kids by love bombing him.
user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
This is why men should never marry a woman with a child - even if you think it is yours. The fact that a woman would have a child outside the bounds of marriage is an important character flaw on her part. This is in addition to it possibly being a pregnancy trap attempt.
polishknightusa 3y ago
Thanks to modern technology, this can be done (for the sake of the child.) From google:
"From week seven of pregnancy through the first trimester, you can get a noninvasive prenatal paternity test. During this test, DNA is collected from the mother by a blood draw and from the father with a cheek swab. The samples are analyzed to compare the baby's and possible father's DNA"
user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
We can now get the baby's DNA from the mother's blood?
Part of the reason for the rule is that the woman's womb and her "unattachment to other men by shared children" is part of her bargaining for marriage. Once she has a child, even if it is yours, there is no reason to marry her; at the very least it is less reason, but I stand firm on my rule. If a man still wishes to consider marrying her, he should at least verify paternity of the child.
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maruadventurer 3y ago
Strike! Set the pins up again please....
loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 3y ago
But....... I'm more speshul than the other bowling pinz....
Blackbarnabyjones 3y ago
Only the cheapest shows in Vegas use bowling pins.
Science FACT!
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LeonieNowny 3y ago
But the real diamond is her!
upsidedownbackwards 3y ago
Juggling takes talent. At 6'4 they'll come to you for a quick lay at the back of a Walmart parking lot.
AkSeminole 3y ago
Where are these easy thots that only require one to be 6’4? I’m in the middle of a dry spell, due to being as charismatic as a stump and as photogenic as a warthog, but dammit, I’m 6’4!
Scourmont 3y ago
I'm 6'4" and I heightfraud with 3" shoe extensions. I have the charisma of a stump as well but the double takes I get from women is hilarious.
logan4179 3y ago
Exactly. I think some of these guys on here assume tall guys instantly have it easy just by virtue of being tall. I've definitely not found this to be true. I'm 6'4" and I seriously doubt I'm below average in the face and find women just as difficult to obtain and demanding as the next guy
sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 3y ago
I'm looking for a relationship.
It's too bad most guys her age aren't.
polishknightusa 3y ago
Well, many are. I met my future wife when I was 36 and we were both traditional and wanted marriage. But a few caveats: she was 10 years younger than me so that gave us time to have a courtship. Just as young women don't like being rushed into bed, I didn't want to be rushed into a relationship just because they had that need. I wouldn't meet this woman's demands so I'm effectively invisible to her anyway. The guys she wants at that age therefore are usually either dating younger women, or they have the luxury to still play the field or they're married or divorced and therefore off the market or incompatible with her requirements.
PirateDocBrown 3y ago
Most single guy her age *are* looking for a relationship. But not with an age peer.
She should find a considerably older fellow.
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
Well, plenty of older, ex-actors around the Hollywood area! Very tall and handsome too. She should go and loiter there. Oh, especially Sunset Blvd later in the nights. Go there!
sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 3y ago
Perhaps.. But, with those demands and nothing to offer he's gonna have to be old and lonely.
PirateDocBrown 3y ago
Eh, I'm 57, divorced, vasectomized, and have put all my property in a trust. If she's not fat, has no kids, and can cook, she's worth a test drive.
sleepyweaselisawake Plowing his way through muck while misquoting Office Space 3y ago
Any STD free woman is worth of a test drive. I test drive women regularly. I don't see a problem with it.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
Is Reiki a step above or below healing crystals? /s
adam-l TRP Endorsed 3y ago
Unvaccinated. Of course.
NBA_MSG 3y ago
Maybe the problem will take care of itself
Joaquino7997 3y ago
Sounds like she needs someone who's financially solvent with a dependable job to...(drum roll please)...save her!!
NBA_MSG 3y ago
Strange how people post they have 3 jobs usually are unemployed
Land_of_the_Losers the-niceguy.com 3y ago
I remember that there was some teenager about 20 years back who made headlines by publishing a study in JAMA-- the youngest person to ever do so at the time-- conclusively proving that reiki was bunk. And it was a short paper, too.
Those were the days.
squeamish 3y ago
It was Therapeutic Touch, which is pretty similar. And she wasn't even a teenager yet.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
I tend to find that people who are shallow as a puddle aren’t really relationship material
Her being 34 and single suggests most guys think the same
polishknightusa 3y ago
I know a few single mothers who actually were good parents but there was a catch: They were highly educated, affluent, and had strong feelings of wanting to be a mother but this conflicted with their cultural socio-biological entitlement attitude towards men. So they adopted children and otherwise did a pretty good job. But I only knew a FEW women like this. The rest were train wrecks (to see an example of one such wreck, go on youtube and look up "by the way, woody allen is innocent".
In general, you're absolutely right and this is why marriage and birthrates are plummeting in the west but this begs the question as to how their parents got married and raised kids and the answer is "oppression". Shallow people, men and women alike, were "trapped" in marriages ("fault" divorce) and had to figure out how to make it work or simply just were miserable but couldn't leave. But then again, these people are miserable on their own anyway despite their claim that boxed wine and cats makes them happy.
The USA is this failed cultural experiment, much like the USSR, that thought a progressive ideal of "free love" and "individualism" from "government tyranny" would result in a paradise of personal empowerment.
AggressiveLegend 3y ago
I get what your saying but even countries with strong traditional roles are declining in population way worse than western countries like Japan and Korea
polishknightusa 3y ago
I don't mind slow population decline as a country industrializes and requires fewer workers to produce the same income. Sorry to throw out so many analogies, but consider how CEO's see their stock prices soar (along with their bonuses) if they lay off workers rather than hire. (Ann Coulter brilliantly observed that Reaganomics was the hope that giving tax cuts to CEOs would create jobs when CEOs are incentivized to cut jobs.) (Read the fun Asimov sci-fi novel "Under The Naked Sun")
Consider this analogy to a home. You buy a home, fill it with family, and most importantly, secure it. Nobody from the street can casually just walk into it. Usually the people who produce the income for the home and pay the mortgage are in charge. The homeowner supports his children and relatives who have also helped him out. Insiders (family members) are more trusted to defend a home than outsides (the police.)
These concepts of Nationalism, identity politics, and taking care of one's own ahead of global trade ("mercantilism"), have been derided on a bi-partisan basis even as they were quietly revived (shhhh!)
AggressiveLegend 3y ago
I understand patriotism and I think identity politics and gatekeeping really take away from things that actually hinder America like hyper individualism and lobbying but immigration is what kept America's population up not down so to say it's causing the declining birth rate here is wrong (if that's what you're saying since you did say "the west" which in includes Europe)
polishknightusa 3y ago
Please see my position above about how a declining birthrate isn't such a bad thing as a society becomes more affluent and efficient. The notion that higher birthrates were necessary come from several schools of thought, most of them, well, bad.
It's also environmentally destructive: What motivation does someone have to try to live sustainably when a third worlder has a dozen kids and expects to just consume as much as they can if they can get to a 1st world nation and cash in?
AggressiveLegend 3y ago
I never said a declining birthrate is bad, surveys have shone that most people want more kids it just isn't affordable, so you can just point to poor wages and higher cost of living there.
Also if you can't behave properly (sustainably) because other people aren't doing it too then maybe that's a personal issue you should evaluate for yourself lmao. I'm not gonna throw trash on the street cause I see other people do it.
polishknightusa 3y ago
It's interesting how two major political blocs, the elderly and women, have become somewhat secondary to identity politics overall and the elites. In the old days, those were the two biggies and you didn't mess with "the greatest generation."
I'd like to see a literal federal investigation into why our healthcare is so expensive for certain things compared to elsewhere. I just got a dental implant in Ukraine 4 months ago. Cost me $400 after insurance. Here? Would have cost $2200. Same equipment. Medical tourism is HUGE. I intend to retire overseas. I would never retire in the high cost of living region i'm in now.
Regarding the free market: The idea is supposed to be that wages should rise as demand increases and therefore, it benefits the average joe. Supply side economics. But instead, rather than raise wages and yeah, a CEO's bonus is only 1 million instead of 10, they lobby for more cheap labor immigration to drive wages down and we, as taxpayers and citizens, pay for it in the form of welfare and increased infrastructure competition and low wages. Oh, but we can't organize about it because, meh, "identity politics" is wrong but corporations? It's ok for THEM to lobby.
Do you see my point?
skipping 3. Regarding environmentalism: It's really about example and community. It feels good to contribute to making your world better. For example, in Japan, kids are taught to pick up trash in the school, not paid employees and this is a lifetime habit. But what if foreigners came in and dropped trash. It would undermine the social cohesiveness.
I just had a fight with my old lady about this. She just dumps all the stuff into the recycling bin making it useless. I told her I handle it and setting frame, she has conceded. Marriage game never ends. 18 years.
AggressiveLegend 3y ago
I don't really care if identity politics sees the elderly and women are secondary since those blocs both still have huge voting power now.
It's really just insurance companies creating an unnecessary amount of "middle men" between you and paying your doctor, it's cheaper to have universal healthcare in America but people still ask "well who's gonna pay for it?"
If your point is billionaires should pay more taxes and companies should no longer be allowed to lobby the government then yeah I see your point.
I agree that creating a good social example is important, my boyfriend's small town college makes students clean up their dorming space and help take care of the farm animals as chores which I think is amazing. But it sounds like you want an ethno state or incredibly strict immigration but that argument just doesn't work in America there's never been social cohesioness here.
I'm glad you got her to change lol recycling is very important, I have to argue with my mom about it all the time.
polishknightusa 3y ago
There's a lot you said I would quibble with, but it would take too long but that's ok. I think if one is going to recycle, at least do it right rather than cheap virtue signal about it. Contaminating the recycling stream is what killed China recycling our plastic waste. It is interesting we haven't figured out a way to just do this ourselves. There certainly is a lot of abandoned, toxic contaminated factories in, say, Detroit that would be ideal for this kind of processing.
Ok, I'm gonna quibble: I'm of the opinion that either lobbying should be for all or none at all and trying to eliminate it is like trying to enforce gun control on the whole world. Identity Politics is as human as nuclear families if you think about it. Most societies never presumed otherwise: 1) You. 2) Your family. 3) Your extended family. 4) Your tribe. 5) Your country. 6) The world. In the states it's often: 1) You. 2) Your country. Or 1) You 2) The world. With this cult of individualism it's quite empowering in one way, but in another, it's a lot to take on for human beings who have barely 25 years to figure out how to be an adult.
Billionaires do pay taxes but the issue is they don't want to pay for labor. None of us do. We constantly hear "Well, if they raise the minimum wage you'll pay an extra 2 bucks for your cheeseburger" in which case, I'm ok with that meaning that it would mean less welfare on the back end and people would be incentivized to do those jobs. The argument goes that "minimum wage jobs are for teenagers" but plenty of people do that work for their whole lives and if it doesn't pay a literal living, then nobody is going to do it without grabbing it from us on some other end. We're basically SUBSIDIZING billionaires via cheap labor immigration.
Health care just needs to be more transparent, period. Nationalizing it at this point probably wouldn't do that. The function of the insurance company would likely just be transferred to the state doing the same thing.
[deleted] 3y ago
Well, in her defense, Rosemary was probably barren after her first child.
FormerBTfan 3y ago
Jesus I dodged a bullet there was gonna drop my business and leisure time to chase this one and swear my undying devotion to the little bits of lint between her platinum toes. Forgive me brothers for my blindness, neediness and personal abandonment issues.
Loud-Bottle-7879 3y ago
Nanny bartender at 34? Figured that “oh shit I need a real relationship” panic would have happened 7 years ago or something.
InevitableOwl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
What is a nanny bartender ? How does that differ from a regular bartender ?
jzdelona 3y ago
An alcoholic single mom maybe?
variedpageants 3y ago
Presumably, a regular bartender knows how to use commas.
It's a list, and the correct order is, (1) bartender - she probably pulls the usual three shifts a week (2) nanny - she babysits her niece sometimes, and her sister is nice enough to give her a couple of bucks for it (3) reiki "practitioner" - which means she touches people, but has a ceremony that accompanies it
And by the way, there is such a thing as touch starvation and there are people who desperately crave human touch. So, if she just wanted to be a good person and help those people, that'd be admirable. But no, she's monetizing it. "I will touch you, but you have to pay me" is basically her deal.
squeamish 3y ago
Reiki is very similar to "Therapeutic Touch," which holds the distinction of being disproven by the youngest person to ever have research published in a scientific journal.
So basically you're paying for something even a fourth grader can tell is bullshit.
user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
Will someone explain the difference between this and prostitution? /s
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 3y ago
The happy ending.
variedpageants 3y ago
That's why I pointed out the "ceremony" part. She believes that what she does is different.
crippledhermit 3y ago
Jesus fucking Christ.
If she won a Nobel Prize and had a phd in biochemistry and cockhead worship, she *might* have a reason to be so arrogant and entitled about thirty percent of this monstrosity.
That's it.
I'm putting up more troll dating account profiles specifically to piss people like this shitwit off.
Nathaniel66 3y ago
What's "reiki"?
AurelianWay Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
Maybe a euphemism for a hand job?
squeamish 3y ago
Reiki is very similar to "Therapeutic Touch," which holds the distinction of being disproven by the youngest person to ever have research published in a scientific journal.
So basically you're paying for something even a fourth grader can tell is bullshit.
Vast-Ad-7583 3y ago
Reiki is bullshit but that 4th grader is probably a genius.
Goldmansachs3030 3y ago
Once again, can guys initiate on Bumble? Is that not the exclusive right of women to do that part of the effort?
And additionally since when Tinder became a dating app when you have some other guy every week.
[deleted] 3y ago
Yeah, the idea on Bumble is that women initiate. But - and I've had this discussion elsewhere - women still have trouble using bumble because they can't seem to ratchet up the courage or the words to strike up even a text conversation. All these interpersonal buffers, and women STILL can't do it.
Women can't even type "hi" to a man. Can't even type out a two letter, one syllable word because they fear rejection....
arnieschwarz 3y ago
They just write "Hi!" or a smiley. Starting a conversation is still the man's job.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
Yeah I tried bumble before, and I was shocked when a woman managed to send a real message. Sometimes they’d even simply redirect you to IG to slide into their DMs
FirstBornAthlete 3y ago
A few times to give them a taste of their own medicine I wrote Hi back. Those were quick unmatches haha
Edtheduck84 3y ago
You sure showed them
NoonTimeHoopsMVP 3y ago
He actually did. Writing back a mere "Hi" is an insult to those Bumble Bees. It implies they aren't worthy of real conversation.
FirstBornAthlete 3y ago
It was worth it
[deleted] 3y ago
I am 5'11 and I want women 5'8-5'9, whom I can look eye to eye when we bath together naked. Lol. But who cares about what you want. Here's a list what she wants. Though I'm not even into heights or body shaming(IMO body preference are essentially body shaming) but when I see likes of her I had to become dark and mock em just to establish an equality , for short men. I'm around a foot taller than her and believe me I don't care about heights ,but she's such a bitch she needs to be dumped after use by taller men. The current scene of online dating can be equalized only when taller men,in general any men,start having preferences.
NBA_MSG 3y ago
I'm 6 feet tall but any girl with a height requirement is an automatic left swipe for me.
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
What, you don't like being objectified?
Wumplin 3y ago
Well people shrink as they age... Don't want to get dumped in your 60s
Invictus_44 3y ago
Thank God she is a Sagittarius!!
Lol
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
She sounds more Cancer.
HighWaistedPantsSuck 3y ago
ahh, the classic midget wants a basketball player scenario. When the #1 request is that the man be super tall, we can determine that she's superficial, shallow and lives vicariously through whatever man she dates because she is unhappy with herself.
NBA_MSG 3y ago
Why would a tall guy want to date a shorty who from his perspective looks like tiny doll?
Also, props on the user name. I find it hysterical when women wear Urkel pants thinking they're stylish
[deleted] 3y ago
Mom jeans help hide the flabby guts on the fat ones too.
Andwen_The_Peevish 3y ago
I can't stand the high-waist trend. I miss belly buttons.
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 3y ago
That view is not for you! It's reserved for Chad!