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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Dual-Mating Strategy

An interesting observation on a tweet lamenting the duality of man
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MotherSignal9 5y ago

wouldn’t this really belong on r/niceguys?

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dingusfunk 5y ago

The dude on the top seems like he's literally offering her a free meal

Yeah it may be McDonalds but it's still free

This is some r/ChoosingBeggars type shit

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thewangjanzen 5y ago

Other Guys Will Just Feed You Lines, But I'll Take You To Mickey-DEEEEEEEEEES!

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HonestlyMediocre0 5y ago

Notice they’re both sent at the exact time and most likely staged for the humor

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old_gregg927 5y ago

This. Post.

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NelsonIllustrator 5y ago

She prob went for the free big mac afterwards

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goodmansaysfuckyou Big Dick Energy Misogynist 5y ago

This guy makes an excellent observation and everyone would benefit from taking notice. S(ir Fucks Alot of Hoes) has absolutely zero fucks to give. His fucks were used up long long ago in a galaxy far far away. This woman will either get all wet, hot, and horny or she won't. WHO CARES? Obviously SirFucksAlot doesn't, but this line of action probably works 20% of the time.

Phone number guy is playing it safe and is the quintessential nice guy that will get used and shit on by women everywhere.

Back in the early to mid 90's, before I was stupid and married (which came first???), I used the same line every time. It worked about 15 to 20% of the time. I again implemented it after my divorce/separation in 2017. It continues to work about 15% of the time. The simple pickup line that I use with a smile on my face is, "Hey, I'm goodmansaysfuckyou; do you want to fuck?" They may act all butthurt at first, but they continue hang around. What you say is not as important as how you say it. You have to have the biggest set of hairy brass balls in the room or they will focus on someone else with more attitude.

My opinion regarding these texts are this:

  1. I give them my first name only.
  2. There are too many words in those texts. Eggplant emoji is all you need.
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BluepillProfessor 5y ago

this line of action probably works 20% of the time.

Actually it works about 25 % of the time. It works- being the cocky, I don't care asshole who promises to fuck her silly- when the girl is ovulating.

Some PUA's keep a calendar and make sure to hit up the girl 28 days after the bang.

Girls ovulate (or are getting ready to ovulate) about 25% of the time.

Shhh! Don't tell them the secret.

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IfThenPill 5y ago

It works and is definitely worth keeping track of. I used to think women had BPD until I realized it was just ovulation making them hot or cold.

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Scalermann 5y ago

Inspiration right here.

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ettins619 5y ago

I say unto you my fellow brothers " All women are like that" Amen

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theDukesofSwagger 5y ago

Thoticus 1:13

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BluepillProfessor 5y ago

The Word of Brodin.

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incelposter 5y ago

I wonder which one the ugly beta is, and which one the alpha football jock is.

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tosernameschescksout 5y ago

This hurts the brain, she hates both of them?

What gets me is that there's really nothing at all that actually 'works' to get a woman's respect or attention. No matter what you do or say, she hates you.

Think about it. You've used every approach in the book. You've dressed in every style. You've been confident and you've been shy. You've been everything. Nothing worked. Whatever she can learn about you, she will use that to insult you and say you're inadequate and bad. Nothing that you can ever share will be safe.

Compare that to men. Whatever she shares, you love her for it, you support her for it. Whatever you learn about her, you love her more for it. Women can't make a wrong move. It pretty much doesn't exist. It's the exact opposite.

They do, however seem to love men that treat them like shit.

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 5y ago

What gets me is that there's really nothing at all that actually 'works' to get a woman's respect or attention. No matter what you do or say, she hates you.

There is. If she is absolutely convinced that she cannot have you and sees you in demand, then she would respect you and chase you.

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Prototype_Grendel 5y ago

I think her intention with the post was to say "look how much better simp is" but our eagle eyed friend saw through her bullshit.

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Dumloko 5y ago

What gets me is that there's really nothing at all that actually 'works' to get a woman's respect or attention. No matter what you do or say, she hates you.

Never trust women words, just their actions. She may say she hates you, but if she stored your contact instead of "McDonald's guy", she doesn't hate you that much. And remember, love and hate are similar, it means you're occupying a big portion of her thoughts. I prefer a girl to hate me with all her soul over she doesn't acknowledging my existance.

Women can't make a wrong move. It pretty much doesn't exist.

Yes it does exist, but it must be enforced by you. Let's say a girl I just met learns I play video games and says "ewww videgames are for immature kids". Wrong move, next. No woman should criticize your hobbies. Now let's say a girl cancels a date and doesn't propose another day to meet. I know women do this when she's not into you, but if she is just "makibg you work harder", it was a wrong move. Next. You get my point.

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Jordoom 5y ago

“It must be enforced by you.” Preeeeach brother.

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BluepillProfessor 5y ago

It's not "hate" but resentment of Betas (for failing to put them in their place and making them feeeeeeeel safe and secure; and Jealousy for the Chads (for being better than them in every respect and not bowing down to their vaginal greatness).

To be fair, women hate each other even more than they hate men.

Nothing that you can ever share will be safe.

IF you share any weakness then this is true. Feel free to share your successes.

treat them like shit.

This is true only when compared to the Blue Pill supplicating. In reality, treating "women like shit" is nothing more than refusing to be bullied by them. Stand up for yourself and don't rely on a woman to validate you. That is all.

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Celticpenguin85 5y ago

Women see being hit on by ugly guys as a blow to their self esteem which is why they treat beta guys who try talking to them so harshly. Even if she's willing to date a nice, boring guy because he gives her money and validation, she'll hate that he's the best she can do and resent him for it.

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theDukesofSwagger 5y ago

Random number dude’s mistake was caring about her order to begin with.

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theDukesofSwagger 5y ago

Umm ok.

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SomeSqueakyCleanButt 5y ago

Three types. The smartest one is the guy you don't see cause he doesn't think about her and never messaged her.

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ZlayerXZ 5y ago

Real sex is free, is she is making you work for it, she doesn’t really like you and she only wants to use you, where are all the Big Mac gone??

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ugluk1 5y ago

You pay, she goes away.

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sthlmtrdr 5y ago

Truth. If there is sexual desire things will flow easily without work..

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coldsteel86 5y ago

The first one is a nice guy aka boring and predictable

The second guy is a bad boy who gives her the tingles.

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Anthony-waltzs 5y ago

FDS WONT TOUCH THIS

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[deleted] 5y ago

/r/murderedbywords

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alexdiezg 5y ago

Exactly. There's where I originally saw the post from.

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PolesWithGoals 5y ago

Let the bitch buy her own meal of shame

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Aldabruzzo No busted Pillsbury biscuit cans 5y ago

and the moral of this story is:

Be sexually assertive, even aggressive.

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loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 5y ago

Until #metoo comes your way....

Is it worth it?

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IfThenPill 5y ago

In this twitter thread the women denied that it meant anything. They also insulted the first guy for offering McDonald's because they are too good for fast food. Apparently if he wanted twitter thots heart, he should have put in more effort.

His effort is already working wonders...

Makes perfect sense.


The Twitter Thread:

The one working hard still an unsaved contact

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PolukranosWordEater 5y ago

We know which one is making you a single mom

This guy wins the internet

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newyearzz2020 5y ago

In this twitter thread the women denied that it meant anything

They want the beta orbiters reading to still think they have a chance. They don’t wanna lose their emotional support animals and free meals.

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Bomcom 5y ago

Twitter is a cesspool of retardation.

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RRFdev 5y ago

Another lesson learned: Women ALWAYS receive courting from several men at the same time. If she's making you date her, she has marked you as a 'safe choice', a 'relationship target' while letting 10/10 stud bad boys fuck her right away.

Heck, it actually works if you are an asshole and an uncouth jerk while being hot. That way women will drop all pretenses of wanting to have a relationship with you, and will open the gates of casual sex with you instead.

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OccasionallyFucked 5y ago

Just out of curiosity how do you meet them? They always seem to be isolated in their own circles.

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Alphaenemy 5y ago

Not all women are american WASPs...this sub is an echo chamber with no nuance

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FatChopSticks 5y ago

The statement “all humans have arms and legs” is technically wrong, but since the statement applies to enough people, if you have to talk to a random person over the phone, you can safely assume you are talking to a person with arms and legs.”

If something applies to practically the whole group, for your own convenience, you might as well apply it to the whole group

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wellimout 5y ago

Not all women are

Like that!

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agenderphobe 5y ago

in reality, though, awalt

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 5y ago

creepy rando offering to fuck her brains out

It's only "creepy" if she's not attracted to him.

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coldsteel86 5y ago

True words!

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SemiCel 5y ago

Any woman making you "work for it" is not worth it. She's fucking the brash boy who treats her like a slut.

I wish I could make every man in the world understand this.

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D45_B053 5y ago

"You can force a man to the door of enlightenment, but he must step through it"

  • Asian proverb I've forgotten the proper origin of
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BluepillProfessor 5y ago

I am trying to make every married man in the world understand this.

Outlook not particularly hopeful.

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IfThenPill 5y ago

Same. Ironically it would result in men getting a lot more pussy.

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variedpageants 5y ago

I don't know. There's a finite supply. I don't think you create more by being more red pill.

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Homicidal_Reluctance 5y ago

when I was first separated I joined a local fb singles group to see what was on offer (no longer in it otherwise I'd be making multiple daily posts to this sub - it's a gold mine) and they were having a group meet up at a local bar. I went down to have a look and basically laugh at the simps getting angry "their" girl was being hit on while they made no effort to even talk to them and to see what some of these head cases were like in person.

I was talking to one particular head case for a bit and sent her off to the bar to get me another drink when one of her friends came over trying to be her wingthot, and she says "you should chase that girl" and I just looked at her like I'd stepped in shit and said "why? did she take my wallet?" and patted my pocket. "no, she didn't. I'm not chasing shit"

the look on wingthot's face was priceless, she immediately went into cockblock mode which just made the original head case start following me around like a lost puppy while I went around introducing myself to everyone.

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Jeviok 5y ago

But her offer of chasing someone for no reason or foreseeable payoff was so enticing! Anyone with a little bit of pride won't be chasing anybody. How about people just be cool and socialize.

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Homicidal_Reluctance 5y ago

funny thing, the one I "should have chased" is friends with my gf's housemate so I've seen her in all kinds of modes and my first 5 minute impression was correct. I'd have been expected to be left to play babysitter while she goes and socialises and has unrealistic expectations of me.

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Nurum 5y ago

If a woman doesn't think that Mcdonalds is good enough just move on. Every year for our anniversary I take my wife wherever she wants to go (the cost does not matter). Do you know where we go every year? Taco Bell.

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skrrtoff 5y ago

McDonalds or similar fast food places are where I tend to have the most fun on a date. No need to dress up, no long winded discussions about who makes the reservation, just both of us in our hoodies or whatever we happen to be wearing at the time, eating shitty food and relaxing. Bliss.

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salmon-rusty 5y ago

Did you marry my fiancé already lol

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HikageBurner 5y ago

Sounds like my GF. It's the one place I want us to avoid though, the food there is terrible! (Not real meat even)

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D45_B053 5y ago

You single? I love me some Taco Bell...

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Alphaenemy 5y ago

is that english?

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Spoken like a true 24 year old.

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[deleted] 5y ago

No it’s snobbish for you to tell other people they should want what you want.

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Stuka_Ju87 5y ago

I'd also rather eat in my car then inside any fast food place. I never understood why anyone would want to eat inside. Especially as a anniversary meal?

I like Taco Bell when I want something fast, cheap and filling that I can drown in hot sauce so I don't really taste it anyways.

Otherwise a local family owned buissness like you said is always so much better.

When I want a really nice treat and peaceful time I go to a pho restaurant alone. I order a hot tea first and then take my time eating a large bowl of pho.

I have no idea why you were downvoted.

Edit: you made the guy delete his comment in shame. Come on. None of you go to actual local restaurants ever?

You're missing out.

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TheREexpert44 5y ago

Cant wait to see her on this sub again in a year, with a tinder profile about how her kid is her entire world.

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hijoton 5y ago

You predict the future, my dude. Now, were I partial to gamblin, my coin would be on "mixed race kid".

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P3RF3CT_D3ATH 5y ago

The comment is deleted. What did it say?

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 5y ago

OP, please censor the names in that pic and post it again.

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j0lly_gr33n_giant 5y ago

Both guys knew not to try very hard. Says more about her than either of them.

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Calcreamer 5y ago

I don’t even save numbers anymore. If I remember your phone number, you’re important, and if I don’t then obviously you don’t matter to me. Simple life.

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moroots 5y ago

yeah this is good shyt

I never save numbers either. and as soon as I text a girl for the first time i immediately delete her # afterwards

why dudes dont have a system with consistent process when it comes to dating is something I'll never understand

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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 5y ago

I used to save numbers based on the venue or what stood out about her. Never her name. For example, Surfer girl. If you text her, use that as the nickname.

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RedLetterWord 5y ago

Sidebar material, right here. I don't think I've ever seen AFBB demonstrated so concisely.

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bankbrow 5y ago

Afbb?

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[deleted] 5y ago

Alpha fucks, beta bucks

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RoleplayPete 5y ago

Yeah I have no idea and I have been in these communities A LONG TIME.

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fiddlerunseen 5y ago

Lurk moar

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TimeTimeTimeTimeTime 5y ago

Clearly you need to spend more time reading the basic materials

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[deleted] 5y ago

It’s pretty foundational.

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RoleplayPete 5y ago

At least 15 people didn't know shrug

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[deleted] 5y ago

You didn’t know the acronym or the concept?

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RoleplayPete 5y ago

The acronym.

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Never_Simp 5y ago

I used to be the guy on the top. Now I don’t even text girls anymore cause I don’t want to get a rape charge for online sexual assault

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alexdiezg 5y ago

Lol you just described me_irl for the past 4 years.

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loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 5y ago

Beware of the rules.

There are many reasons why men engage in this type of behavior. You have the rest of the internet to shame men freely. You won't do it here.

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Never_Simp 5y ago

I don’t know why people downvoted you. Sorry about that. Anyways, I had money at the time and thought I was being a nice guy and was hoping to get some head. But, they wanted a chad or Tyrone to spit down their throats not feed them. They made their choice and I made mine.

And I’m not like a mega simp, I didn’t buy them food every day or that shit. Maybe once or twice a month. Never again.

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xxxismydaddyy 5y ago

It’s ok, thanks. It was a legit question lol.

That’s not even that bad, what’s best is you saw through the bullshit and said never again. Glad for you man

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where_muh_good_mens 5y ago

Removed for Rule #1 violations. Watch your conduct.

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